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Is soft and gentle the new kinky?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone "
Thought that was 'making love'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone "
I love doing this in role play x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone
Thought that was 'making love' "
Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone "
Everything in moderation.
You're very attractive. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone
Thought that was 'making love'
Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird..."
Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.
I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.
And I want it now!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If ya likes it ya likes it. And I do like a bit of slow and sensual sexiness. But then my mood can just as easily be fast and feisty fuckery too. I'm awkward like that. And I like a bit of alliteration too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm naturally an affectionate and attentive love maker. But recently a sexy friend has been helping me get my head into more of a dom space and I'm finally getting why a woman would find that sexy with a guy she trusts and lusts after. So I'm exploring expanding my palette  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.
I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.
And I want it now!!! "
That sounds perfect. Feeling is good. |
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone
Thought that was 'making love'
Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird...
Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for...."
Neither of us watched porn back then (husband doesn’t wank, and we don’t watch it together. And yes, I’m being serious and no, he doesn’t ‘secretly’ do it. I’ve only just started watching porn in the past year or so). It was just weird. Nothing like our normal way of fucking. We both came from it...but it was odd |
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone "
Part of the reason we stopped swinging was exactly this . Rough , hard , smash your back doors in doesn’t do anything for us . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone
Thought that was 'making love'
Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird... Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for...."
I was more into porn type fucking when I was late teens/20s. With experience comes more varied sex I guess. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone
Thought that was 'making love'
Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird...
Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for....
Neither of us watched porn back then (husband doesn’t wank, and we don’t watch it together. And yes, I’m being serious and no, he doesn’t ‘secretly’ do it. I’ve only just started watching porn in the past year or so). It was just weird. Nothing like our normal way of fucking. We both came from it...but it was odd"
Interesting just more animalistic I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone
Thought that was 'making love'
Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird...
Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for....
Neither of us watched porn back then (husband doesn’t wank, and we don’t watch it together. And yes, I’m being serious and no, he doesn’t ‘secretly’ do it. I’ve only just started watching porn in the past year or so). It was just weird. Nothing like our normal way of fucking. We both came from it...but it was odd
Interesting just more animalistic I guess."
It wasn’t bad, just odd |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depending on my mood.... romantic and tender....
Or open the true Banshee and let the kinky and tasty intermix.
(Open up the box of wonders and get my extension cable.... its toy time!!!)
Hee hee
Xxx
Nessa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.
I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.
And I want it now!!! "
 this is me, sorry don’t get anything from going straight like a jackhammer, love the build and the tease and the explosion when you can’t take anymore! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone
Thought that was 'making love'
Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird...
Might be a generational thing, porn has a lot to answer for....
Neither of us watched porn back then (husband doesn’t wank, and we don’t watch it together. And yes, I’m being serious and no, he doesn’t ‘secretly’ do it. I’ve only just started watching porn in the past year or so). It was just weird. Nothing like our normal way of fucking. We both came from it...but it was odd
Interesting just more animalistic I guess.
It wasn’t bad, just odd"
Keep at it, it will stop becoming odd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.
I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.
And I want it now!!! "
This . Although occasionally a rip your clothes off quickie can be fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.
I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.
And I want it now!!!
This . Although occasionally a rip your clothes off quickie can be fun. "
But quite expensive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do. I'm craving it. I want snuggled up, hands wandering, slowly kissing with bodies pressed together. I want gentle teasing, aching for more but not wanting it to stop.
I want to really feel. I want to take our time and just enjoy each other.
And I want it now!!!
This . Although occasionally a rip your clothes off quickie can be fun.
But quite expensive. "
Meh. Worry about that later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There will always be a time and place. Sensual is for close connection big spoon snuggling. Then there is lip biting deep kissing slamming up against the wall sex. Mood swings.....sex swings. |
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone "
I do, love it  .... But beware, I do turn feral when provoked  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"So just to be clear... is soft and slow good or bad? Because Its all sounding positive haha..."
Depends on who you are meeting, 'making love' to a lady from a couple, I don't think would be a good idea.
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By *apmanMan
over a year ago
Holmfirth |
Depends on the mood. Nothing wrong with getting straight to it, but love to take my time when I can.
Lots of kissing and caressing, slow massage, teasing and building up her sexual tension. Exploring every contour of her body, kissing every curve until she begs to be fucked. And then doing the same, varying the pace and intensity, prolonging the agony and the ecstasy.
And when you're both in the zone it's likely to get pretty fast and furious too, so best of both worlds.
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to. 
Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror. "
Ooh I will have to try that one next time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.
Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.
Ooh I will have to try that one next time "
*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first*  |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.
Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.
Ooh I will have to try that one next time
*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first* "
I was imagining that - knowing my luck I’d rive it off the wall! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.
Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.
Ooh I will have to try that one next time
*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first*
I was imagining that - knowing my luck I’d rive it off the wall! "
I'll bring my tool kit just in cases |
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By *edMan
over a year ago
cambridgeshire |
As I built up the passion with lots of kissing, touching, caressing and whispe_ed naughty sweet nothings, she smiled and pulling closer whispe_ed in my ear...
"Are you sure you're a guy? Next thing you'll be telling me you don't roll off and fall asleep straight after.."
I can't do sex without intimacy... Just not me. |
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By *apmanMan
over a year ago
Holmfirth |
"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.
Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.
Ooh I will have to try that one next time
*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first*
I was imagining that - knowing my luck I’d rive it off the wall! "
Always good to have a thick screw and drill well to fill the hole properly
Lovely pics BTW |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone "
i like it all ways mix it up a bit dependin on mood situation |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.
Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.
Ooh I will have to try that one next time
*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first*
I was imagining that - knowing my luck I’d rive it off the wall!
Always good to have a thick screw and drill well to fill the hole properly
Lovely pics BTW "
Can’t beat a thick screw and a well drilled hole  . Your user name impies you’re a plumber |
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By *apmanMan
over a year ago
Holmfirth |
"I do like slow and sensual sometimes but also need the occasional knickers down, bent over on all fours or holding on to the window sill, bang it home quick hard seeing to.
Bathroom basin quite good for this, with the added pleasure of seeing her face in the mirror.
Ooh I will have to try that one next time
*Makes note to ensure basin is secure first*
I was imagining that - knowing my luck I’d rive it off the wall!
Always good to have a thick screw and drill well to fill the hole properly
Lovely pics BTW
Can’t beat a thick screw and a well drilled hole . Your user name impies you’re a plumber "
You put trust in user names?
Would you like me to come round and look at your plumbing? I'll have my drill in case anything needs a good screwing. |
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Start off nice, slow and gentle. Like him on top of me lying flat on my stomach while he gently kisses and nibbles my neck. Hands slowly wandering down my body as he gets lower and caresses my breasts while tweaking my.... I better stop. But after 5 mins it's hard, noisy, sloppy, grippy, pully, rough mmmmmm |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
The best is when you really really fancy someone and you want them so much it doesn't really matter. That connection you just don't find very often. It's intense, intimate, exotic and absolutely mine blowing.. God I miss that level of sexuality . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The best is when you really really fancy someone and you want them so much it doesn't really matter. That connection you just don't find very often. It's intense, intimate, exotic and absolutely mine blowing.. God I miss that level of sexuality . "
Absolutely. The wanting someone as much as they want you thing. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I'm starting to think that now calls for rough, hard, smash your back doors in, kinky fuckery, fifty shades of yawn sex has become so commonplace on here that actually a gentle smoochy, spoony laid back "vanilla" session has become almost taboo.
Who still likes it slow and easy? Don't worry, we won't tell anyone
Thought that was 'making love'
Me and my husband ‘made love’ once. We both agreed it was weird..."
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"The best is when you really really fancy someone and you want them so much it doesn't really matter. That connection you just don't find very often. It's intense, intimate, exotic and absolutely mine blowing.. God I miss that level of sexuality .
Absolutely. The wanting someone as much as they want you thing. "
It's when your chemistrys just work together. They could just touch your hand and it's electrifying. That smile across the room when you just know. When you look at them and think phwoar.
You actually like them as a person. Slow, fast upside down from the chandelier it doesn't matter.
Thsts what I miss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The best is when you really really fancy someone and you want them so much it doesn't really matter. That connection you just don't find very often. It's intense, intimate, exotic and absolutely mine blowing.. God I miss that level of sexuality .
Absolutely. The wanting someone as much as they want you thing.
It's when your chemistrys just work together. They could just touch your hand and it's electrifying. That smile across the room when you just know. When you look at them and think phwoar.
You actually like them as a person. Slow, fast upside down from the chandelier it doesn't matter.
Thsts what I miss "
Yep know exactly what you mean. Must be out there somewhere eh?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The best is when you really really fancy someone and you want them so much it doesn't really matter. That connection you just don't find very often. It's intense, intimate, exotic and absolutely mine blowing.. God I miss that level of sexuality .
Absolutely. The wanting someone as much as they want you thing.
It's when your chemistrys just work together. They could just touch your hand and it's electrifying. That smile across the room when you just know. When you look at them and think phwoar.
You actually like them as a person. Slow, fast upside down from the chandelier it doesn't matter.
Thsts what I miss "
I hear that |
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