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over a year ago
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"Not being able to have children. "
Oh God. You and me both.
Mine came from the fact that it took my parents nearly twelve years to conceive me. It nearly broke their marriage too because my dad's mum was pressurising him to divorce my mum and find someone more fertile.
I dread a future whereby I find out I'm infertile and unable to have children, especially if it comes after years of trying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not being able to have children.
Oh God. You and me both.
Mine came from the fact that it took my parents nearly twelve years to conceive me. It nearly broke their marriage too because my dad's mum was pressurising him to divorce my mum and find someone more fertile.
I dread a future whereby I find out I'm infertile and unable to have children, especially if it comes after years of trying. "
Oh that’s awful 
I’ve had four miscarriages, and been trying to get pregnant ever since my last one over a year ago and it’s just not happening. I know it doesn’t happy over night, but still |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have been close to death a few times and that doesnt put the fear in me so i take stupid risks.
but there is one thing. and its the only thing i dread, fear and its a constant worry.
my mum. she has put up with so much shit from me over the years but has always been there. even when she shopped me to the police she still made it clear it was for the best to straighten me out.
now she is old, fragile and you can see its not going to be long before she is gone.
we die its a fact. but i love my mum and without her id be a waste of a life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not being able to have children. "
I was told I was infertile and desperately wanted kids. Six weeks in to a relationship and bang!!!! 6 years on and she's my world (got to shove her over as she's in my bed spread out - wouldn't change owt xxxxx) |
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"My kids dying before me. "
My daughter has a life limiting condition and this is a very real possibility for me. But the thought of dying before her and leaving her in someone else’s care scares me just as much. Lose/ lose situation |
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"Not being able to have children.
Oh God. You and me both.
Mine came from the fact that it took my parents nearly twelve years to conceive me. It nearly broke their marriage too because my dad's mum was pressurising him to divorce my mum and find someone more fertile.
I dread a future whereby I find out I'm infertile and unable to have children, especially if it comes after years of trying.
Oh that’s awful
I’ve had four miscarriages, and been trying to get pregnant ever since my last one over a year ago and it’s just not happening. I know it doesn’t happy over night, but still "
Sorry to hear that. I had a similar experience and I would bet my life nearly all mums on here have done too. It's heartbreaking. Things eventually worked out. I hope they do for you too |
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"My kids dying before me.
My daughter has a life limiting condition and this is a very real possibility for me. But the thought of dying before her and leaving her in someone else’s care scares me just as much. Lose/ lose situation "
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"My kids dying before me.
My daughter has a life limiting condition and this is a very real possibility for me. But the thought of dying before her and leaving her in someone else’s care scares me just as much. Lose/ lose situation "
I’m sorry to hear that. I knew by posting someone would be affected it’s good to share though so thank you. |
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"My kids dying before me.
My daughter has a life limiting condition and this is a very real possibility for me. But the thought of dying before her and leaving her in someone else’s care scares me just as much. Lose/ lose situation
I’m sorry to hear that. I knew by posting someone would be affected it’s good to share though so thank you. "
It’s just sh1t isn’t it. You never think it’ll happen to you but here we are. It’s taken a long time to even be able to talk about it. I can’t say ‘come to terms with it’ because I don’t think I ever will. But shes healthy and happy and that’s all that matters.  xxx |
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"Not being able to have children.
Oh God. You and me both.
Mine came from the fact that it took my parents nearly twelve years to conceive me. It nearly broke their marriage too because my dad's mum was pressurising him to divorce my mum and find someone more fertile.
I dread a future whereby I find out I'm infertile and unable to have children, especially if it comes after years of trying.
Oh that’s awful
I’ve had four miscarriages, and been trying to get pregnant ever since my last one over a year ago and it’s just not happening. I know it doesn’t happy over night, but still "
I feel your pain and struggle, I lost seven before they tested for antiphospholipid syndrome which was the cause. Hugs to you xxx |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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I have only 1 working eye, the other being unusable since birth.
I'd cataract surgery 3 years ago which really positively changed my "visual" life from wearing glasses since 5 yrs old.
But, other sight illnesses can occur in old age; it's that fear of losing what sight I do have that scares me!
On a different line, what scares me is that twat Trump, over the Pond who could destine us to nuclear hell! |
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"My kids dying before me.
My daughter has a life limiting condition and this is a very real possibility for me. But the thought of dying before her and leaving her in someone else’s care scares me just as much. Lose/ lose situation
I’m sorry to hear that. I knew by posting someone would be affected it’s good to share though so thank you.
It’s just sh1t isn’t it. You never think it’ll happen to you but here we are. It’s taken a long time to even be able to talk about it. I can’t say ‘come to terms with it’ because I don’t think I ever will. But shes healthy and happy and that’s all that matters. xxx"
Ahh, that’s so sad. I hope you both have many more years together. So many people don’t appreciate how lucky they are to have children, they really are a blessing and my biggest fear is anything happening to mine.
Lou x |
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"Jehovah's Witnesses
Amen  excuse the pun
Did you know they preach that there is only 144,000 places in heaven ?
I'm going to hell anyway"
I didn’t know that. But anyone who feels the need to knock on my door and shove their beliefs in my face deserves to have it slammed right back. Why would they care who believes what they believe? If they’re happy, good for them. Why ‘recruit’ others if it isn’t for financial gain? I love a good argument with a Jehovah’s Witness. They’re almost as bad as vegans. But that’s another thread .... lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jehovah's Witnesses
Amen excuse the pun
Did you know they preach that there is only 144,000 places in heaven ?
I'm going to hell anyway
I didn’t know that. But anyone who feels the need to knock on my door and shove their beliefs in my face deserves to have it slammed right back. Why would they care who believes what they believe? If they’re happy, good for them. Why ‘recruit’ others if it isn’t for financial gain? I love a good argument with a Jehovah’s Witness. They’re almost as bad as vegans. But that’s another thread .... lol"
And they preach that Jesus on a cross is a pagan symbol, he died on a pole apparently and not a cross?
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Oh yeah.
Prime Ministers that will stick their cock into the head of a dead pig and fuck it. In front of their friends. And actally get an erection. Fear that kind of person. He would run you over with his BMW, shovel ditch mud over your corpse and smile for a press photo with his wife afterwards (while his prick still smelled of pork). His soul is dead already and might well have been born dead. Bullingdon Club Boys. That is what we live under. Fear that vision of your future and those kinda powers being tasked with looking after your interests in your old age. |
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"Have a few but ones come to mind
stalkers you know who you are !!! Freaky
Escalators
Strong winds in a storm
Dogs off leads
Confrontation
Arguments
Getting on to motorway
Getting lost in my car
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So basically going outside? |
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"The thought of Jeremy Corbyn or Diane Abbott in government
Why what do you think will happen to you?
If history is anything to go by then I'll be off to the gulag. "
Or the lunatic pledges military support to his Hamas friends and we end up squaring up to the very capable Israeli army... |
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"Have a few but ones come to mind
stalkers you know who you are !!! Freaky
Escalators
Strong winds in a storm
Dogs off leads
Confrontation
Arguments
Getting on to motorway
Getting lost in my car
So basically going outside? "
Oh my god, your comment made me laugh haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Marriage.... 
Is it all off then?
Well....I’ll make an exception for you provided we can serve ham and pineapple pizza at our reception....  "
Ok it’s off then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Moths . I hate moths and they hate me
Why don’t you have my spiders, they could eat your moths? "
i dont mind spiders . They don't nut your light bulbs |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Moths . I hate moths and they hate me
Why don’t you have my spiders, they could eat your moths? i dont mind spiders . They don't nut your light bulbs "
I like moths. Spiders are awful things. I can’t even think about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Moths . I hate moths and they hate me
Why don’t you have my spiders, they could eat your moths? i dont mind spiders . They don't nut your light bulbs
I like moths. Spiders are awful things. I can’t even think about it "
How can you like moths ? They have big fat fluffy bodies and swoop down at you |
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By *abs..Woman
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"Moths . I hate moths and they hate me
Why don’t you have my spiders, they could eat your moths? i dont mind spiders . They don't nut your light bulbs
I like moths. Spiders are awful things. I can’t even think about it How can you like moths ? They have big fat fluffy bodies and swoop down at you "
I like fluffy bodies. They’re just flying. They’re quite lovely really but if you don’t like them you don’t like them. You can still have my spiders. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Moths . I hate moths and they hate me
Why don’t you have my spiders, they could eat your moths? i dont mind spiders . They don't nut your light bulbs
I like moths. Spiders are awful things. I can’t even think about it How can you like moths ? They have big fat fluffy bodies and swoop down at you
I like fluffy bodies. They’re just flying. They’re quite lovely really but if you don’t like them you don’t like them. You can still have my spiders. "
i will . Moths are the undatables of the butterfly world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Moths . I hate moths and they hate me
Why don’t you have my spiders, they could eat your moths? i dont mind spiders . They don't nut your light bulbs
I like moths. Spiders are awful things. I can’t even think about it How can you like moths ? They have big fat fluffy bodies and swoop down at you
I like fluffy bodies. They’re just flying. They’re quite lovely really but if you don’t like them you don’t like them. You can still have my spiders. "
i have a fluffy body  |
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By *abs..Woman
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"Moths . I hate moths and they hate me
Why don’t you have my spiders, they could eat your moths? i dont mind spiders . They don't nut your light bulbs
I like moths. Spiders are awful things. I can’t even think about it How can you like moths ? They have big fat fluffy bodies and swoop down at you
I like fluffy bodies. They’re just flying. They’re quite lovely really but if you don’t like them you don’t like them. You can still have my spiders. i have a fluffy body "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am terrified of getting dementia. I just cannot imagine my children seeing me like that.
Day to day though I am frightened of cross dressers. Totally irrational I know. I had a few sessions with a counsellor once who likened it to the fear of the unknown face, like the fear of clowns.
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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Spiders - their long thing legs, it could just be jealousy of course
Horses - one bit me
Moths - they’re all fluttery and hairy
Clowns - no explanation needed they’re just get in your face plain scary shit
My kids not achieving their dreams and being happy - not really a fear I guess more an unimaginable thought
My biggest fear is losing my freedom to be me. It’s a really difficult one to explain but those closest to me know and understand as it’s something I express often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alot of the stuff I read on Fab frightens the fucking shit outta me
Some fab photos omfg. Scary or what. What’s with the family and wedding photos in the background when a single guy joins???"
Yeah
'Specially when the lazy arsed wives havent dusted 'em.
Shocking |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
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"Alot of the stuff I read on Fab frightens the fucking shit outta me
Some fab photos omfg. Scary or what. What’s with the family and wedding photos in the background when a single guy joins???
Yeah
'Specially when the lazy arsed wives havent dusted 'em.
Shocking"
Ha ha. Give the wife’s a rest they been busy drying cleaning the curtains and wondering why all their knickers are stained but still neatly folded in the drawer |
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"The thought of Jeremy Corbyn or Diane Abbott in government
Why what do you think will happen to you?
If history is anything to go by then I'll be off to the gulag. "
Where pain will be close to pleasure...
Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"drowning
burning to death
my children or grandchildren dieing before me.
spiders and anything else i imagine crawling in my ears. "
the top half of my body has been on fire.
it wasnt that painful till i got up of the track and looked at my arms and couldnt see my skin.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"drowning
burning to death
my children or grandchildren dieing before me.
spiders and anything else i imagine crawling in my ears.
the top half of my body has been on fire.
it wasnt that painful till i got up of the track and looked at my arms and couldnt see my skin.
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oh my!!!! i cant even imagine what that must have felt like. i honestly think i would have died from fear. how did you manage that on a mental level? xx
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Being stuck with children getting in the way of my life- luckily a nice doctor has hopefully prevented that from happening now.
Otherwise, if i get diagnosed with what either of my uncles has, i'll pretty quickly be booking a one way trip to Switzland- no way to i want to live like that given a choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The cancer stats. It means either me or my child will likely get it.
Obviously I would have it be me, but I don't want to leave her without a mother. Especially as I lost my mum to cancer at 6, I hope history won't repeat itself.
Nothing else, really scares me. |
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Oh another one and a bit strange but I fear getting old and not being able to easily shit or else dying whilst taking a shit and being found Elvis style on the bog with my pants around my ankles.
Actually, shitting myself in public is another fear of mine to.
.....all in all, a bit shit really therefore  |
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