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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s probably because women are more self conscious of their bodies than men. You usually see certain areas are covered even if there is a full body photo. I like it when a women just shows you what she’s got and doesn’t care, that confidence is sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope )"
From the nose up is hidden on mine... gotta protect folk from the wart-fest |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s probably because women are more self conscious of their bodies than men. You usually see certain areas are covered even if there is a full body photo. I like it when a women just shows you what she’s got and doesn’t care, that confidence is sexy."
I think so too.
We're all shy about our bodies but we shouldn't be.
Especially as this site is full of people all different shapes and sizes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's several full body shots (with undies) of both of us on our profile so anyone we meet is under no illusions as what to they're getting if they meet us. We show face pictures privately. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I don’t that that people should upload naked photos just because they’re on a sex site though. You should upload what you like and are comfortable with. If I had to post naked photos I wouldn’t be on the site.
In some cases it will be because people are self conscious but in other cases there will be others reasons. Each to their own and all that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ladies don’t be body conscious. The only thing that’s going to put these guys off is if you haven’t got a pulse.  "
Exactly 
I also think that if you're a bit chubby you can tell from the body parts pictures.
As a chubby woman myself I can spot chubbyness ( is that a word?  ) a mile away! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Hiding their insecurities? Their desire to show all? Their crappy ability to take a full length photo?
I think that for some women yes they might be hiding a physical feature they are less than keen on but I don't know. It's probably less out of a not good intent (deception etc) and more from a place of slight doubt. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t that that people should upload naked photos just because they’re on a sex site though. You should upload what you like and are comfortable with. If I had to post naked photos I wouldn’t be on the site.
In some cases it will be because people are self conscious but in other cases there will be others reasons. Each to their own and all that "
Of course people can do what they want.
I was just curious x |
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I wouldn't say people without one are hiding something, people just do what they are comfortable with. I've a full standing naked frontal pic so anyone I'm seriously chatting too can see how I look without all the lingerie and angles.
Plus I'd rather they turn up knowing what to expect  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t that that people should upload naked photos just because they’re on a sex site though. You should upload what you like and are comfortable with. If I had to post naked photos I wouldn’t be on the site.
In some cases it will be because people are self conscious but in other cases there will be others reasons. Each to their own and all that "
. I won’t put naked ones on here. There’s full length pics in friends. Not getting my bits out in public thanks! |
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I think I've got 2 or 3 of what I'd describe as full body pics on mine. Maybe my feet are missing in a couple of them but they tend not to be the focus of other people's attention!
I'm very much of the attitude 'why hide anything?' because if I was going to put anyone off I'd rather do it sooner than later. I do understand though how full body pics make some people feel very exposed - mine only go up when I'm feeling particularly confident - and therefore I don't necessarily jump to the conclusion that the lack of them means a deliberate attempt to mislead because it's a big thing for many to get totally naked. So long as there's a reasonable cross section of other pics (and not just an eye, or a foot or something equally uninformative) you can normally form a pretty good impression of body size and shape I find. |
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope )"
We do, if profiles have just fem body pics or no body shots at all yes we'd presume hiding away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have full body shots but always with lingerie on there’s only one person that ever sees me fully naked , if we have a meet I always wear lingerie and it mostly all stays on .. I do see pics where they are too close in most shots but I always think they must be trying to hide something ? |
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By *lsieWoman
over a year ago
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I have no pics on my profile . And nor will I have .
Before you all scream fake at me .
I have my reasons . Not that I would like pics on my profile . I would.
But when you get stalked by a man from here and let work mates know that you are on a swingers site .
Make your life unbearable .
That's why .
I'm my profile it does say if you want pics please scroll on by .
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope )"
No full body shots on mine.
I do have a couple in private.
Think my profile makes it clear I'm not a twig, and from my meets and repeats I guess people like what I've got.
Horses for courses as always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually think men are worse for it than women. Obviously there are the cock shot supremos who have no body parts but there are loads who only mix it up with face and bum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it hard taking a full body shot that's meant to be sexy on my own - short arms! But I do have a non-sexy full length pic in my jammies, so that I can't be accused of false advertising |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's only recently that I've been brave enough to put up a unclothed body shot. I've always been really self conscious about my body and the way I look in general. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I have a few full body pics with and without clothes.
For me a face pic is most important, shared privately or only for friends.
I think many people are self conscious of their bodies and choose to hide them. While I understand that, I also think it’s a pity. I find confidence in your own skin a sexy quality no matter what size you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies don’t be body conscious. The only thing that’s going to put these guys off is if you haven’t got a pulse.
Exactly
I also think that if you're a bit chubby you can tell from the body parts pictures.
As a chubby woman myself I can spot chubbyness ( is that a word? ) a mile away! "
A lot of guys love curvy. I certainly do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually think men are worse for it than women. Obviously there are the cock shot supremos who have no body parts but there are loads who only mix it up with face and bum. "
It’s probanly 50/50. A lot of women have mainly close up boob pictures (boob supremos) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually think men are worse for it than women. Obviously there are the cock shot supremos who have no body parts but there are loads who only mix it up with face and bum. "
Once again, I think the vastly greater number of fellas on here skews that view. Probably averages out to be equal proportions across the genders really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope )"
Me! No warts....just stretch marks, curves, the mum tum despite not being a proper mum... |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope )"
I have a few where you can see my full body. I think on some I look a bit bigger than on others but they are pretty much what I look like. No warts but a large scar and a lorra lorra moles I’ve noticed. I look like I’m chocolate chipped in some places |
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I don’t mind putting it on show - laying down is more flattering. A stood up naked shot wouldn’t make it to my profile
I prefer a full body shot. I don’t care if you hide your bits or not but I find the naked form attractive in many cases  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope )
I have a few where you can see my full body. I think on some I look a bit bigger than on others but they are pretty much what I look like. No warts but a large scar and a lorra lorra moles I’ve noticed. I look like I’m chocolate chipped in some places "
Somebody mention choc' chips?... |
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I have a few I think... But similarly to Babs, I'm wearing lingerie or have a towel draped etc... I'm simply not comfortable having fully naked or explicit pics on the Internet... More to do with a horrible fear of my Mum or another family member ever being somehow exposed to them than anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well now lady you make an interesting observation.
I don't have my cock on profile as I believe not many wish to see that straight away.but I do show my bum.
Do I worry about my body? Yes a little but I'm sure we all have bits we wish to change etc.
As for women in general I like looking at how she is dressed and colours also are important for me black n red makes you stand out in my eyes.
As for a woman's body I think a lot worry about larger thighs and possibly a little tummy so maybe hide this in pics.
One woman I met wanted to keep her little outfit on because she worried about her tummy but later that evening she was naked with me because it soon became apparent I wasn't worried the connection was made.
But I think all of us delete more pics than we post as we are so concerned about our image.
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"I don’t that that people should upload naked photos just because they’re on a sex site though. You should upload what you like and are comfortable with. If I had to post naked photos I wouldn’t be on the site.
In some cases it will be because people are self conscious but in other cases there will be others reasons. Each to their own and all that "
Yup, I was here about 4 years before I even let half a nipple slip out lol! I post full length pics from time to time, I'm the same weight as my current avatar, but I hate podgy tummies so no way I'm taking pics of mine! And putting nude pics or even topless pics on a public website just isn't me - it's not something I consider appropriate or necessary.
Luckily for me a lot of the guys I meet appreciate the fact too, I often get messages saying my profile makes a refreshing change.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t that that people should upload naked photos just because they’re on a sex site though. You should upload what you like and are comfortable with. If I had to post naked photos I wouldn’t be on the site.
In some cases it will be because people are self conscious but in other cases there will be others reasons. Each to their own and all that
Yup, I was here about 4 years before I even let half a nipple slip out lol! I post full length pics from time to time, I'm the same weight as my current avatar, but I hate podgy tummies so no way I'm taking pics of mine! And putting nude pics or even topless pics on a public website just isn't me - it's not something I consider appropriate or necessary.
Luckily for me a lot of the guys I meet appreciate the fact too, I often get messages saying my profile makes a refreshing change. "
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope )"
Yes it is the same on like Tinder or something as well. It can be deceptive, people will only represent themselves in the best possible way online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope )"
Yes. They are hiding what they really look like and showing their best side so to speak. Think we all do it to a certain extent,but some are so blatant that you just know. I do as Mr said don't be miss leading to others. Easy for him to say when he looks like he's just stepped out of bloody gym. Men at ha. Lexi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't do full body naked or lingerie, I'm not here to titilate or attract wankers or men who are only turned on by my body in lingerie (fat chance of that anyway).
I'm not hiding; I'm filtering out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't do full body naked or lingerie, I'm not here to titilate or attract wankers or men who are only turned on by my body in lingerie (fat chance of that anyway).
I'm not hiding; I'm filtering out."
I love your newest pic - gave it a cheeky wee fab yesterday. Lovely |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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Sometimes I show one, sometimes I don’t. Not for any reason, just to mix things up. But you know they are still shots and they don’t portray the bits that wobble when I bounce up and down. That’s a fact I’m always conscious of
Lex |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I have several full length body pics both clothed and unclothed, though the latter won't reveal all
I'm not self conscious of my physique. It may not be what it was in my 20's but I don't think its bad overall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope ) Yes it is the same on like Tinder or something as well. It can be deceptive, people will only represent themselves in the best possible way online. "
That's fine but least have pictures that show them as you are and not what you think will get you a meet. Because when we meet and they don't look as they do in their pictures then it can be very awkward  . Lexi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have full body pics. I'm a bigger girl so not going to be everyone's choice but I'm not here to please everyone so why be shy "
Well said sweet. Lexi |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope ) Yes it is the same on like Tinder or something as well. It can be deceptive, people will only represent themselves in the best possible way online.
That's fine but least have pictures that show them as you are and not what you think will get you a meet. Because when we meet and they don't look as they do in their pictures then it can be very awkward . Lexi"
Yeah I agree nobody wants to be catfished. People should just be more aware to stop it happening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't do full body naked or lingerie, I'm not here to titilate or attract wankers or men who are only turned on by my body in lingerie (fat chance of that anyway).
I'm not hiding; I'm filtering out.
I love your newest pic - gave it a cheeky wee fab yesterday. Lovely "
Aw thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope )"
I think you are fairly accurate with this a lot do have snapshots I presume its a lack of confidence or body image issues. I do wonder the reaction people them display but then its an individuals choice what to put up or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve not got one on mine, not because I’m hiding anything but just because I’m rubbish at composing good pictures of my self so never end up posting them.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
I've found it's usually womens profiles that do this.
Who's got a full body shot on theirs- warts and all?
( Not actual warts I hope )"
CSI needs you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a belly flap regarless of how fat, or not, that I am. When I am naked and in front of the mirror I am not bothered by it. What I see, I think, looks pretty good, so I am quite confident when I am naked, in person. When I take a picture is when I hate my body as it looks bugger all how I see it... Being dressed is often a problem too as most things make me look weird or, at the moment, like a potato. I'm not that bothered if others don't like it, it is all due to how I feel about it.
I do have a friend that told me that alot of the women he has met from here and dating sites have been bigger than expected, to some degree. I think we all hide something we dislike... Now I just need to figure out how to hide the dark circles around my eyes n I'll be happy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fully body shot with all my lumps and bumps on show. I don’t really do naked but there are a few on my profile to proof I’m indeed a WOMAN "
You’re all woman and hot as fuck. |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"That people without a full body shot on their profile are hiding something?
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They are hiding something though it can be for many reasons. Maybe they send to prospective meet maybe not I don't know with women but guys are less body shy and send it all often.
I have read a few times on guys doing a runner as in going to the toilets in a pub and not coming back and think Ahhhhh they never saw a full accurate photo.
Its choice though but people shouldn't cry if meets do a runner feeling they have been deceived. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a full body pic on here not because I'm self conscious but just because I prefer to keep some things private. Never had a guy run away screaming yet when my clothes have come off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have I guess, of sorts
I'm all there. I'm just clothed & semi-reclined
I would not put a naked body pic up as I am unhappy with my body
I don't look good without clothes
Through my eyes, very few people of my age do
I admire (if not envy) those that show pics with every lump, bump and bit of sagging skin on display
I just couldn't
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