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What are you waiting for before you leave? Or are you here to stay?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.
Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.
Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on? "
Ohhh have you met someone? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If (God forbid) I was in the UK more often than not I'd probably leave, but for as long as that's not the case I'll likely stay. It's a more-interesting, rounded way to stay connected to the culture than the alternatives. |
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Ive been on and off a good few times (when ive been in a relationship).
Ideally id like to meet the one and leave for good, fabs a great community but id like to think theres someone out there that will tick every box for me amd me theirs.
Until that day, im here to stay ( that rhymes lol) |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
I keep thinking of leaving. I just keep checking in though. I don’t make much of an effort looking for new friends. I just keep up with the ones I have. And if someone else just happens to come along then even better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't imagine I'll be forever here but I'm not really actively looking for anything so I'll probably just get bored and log in less and less until one day I just don't anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep thinking of leaving. I just keep checking in though. I don’t make much of an effort looking for new friends. I just keep up with the ones I have. And if someone else just happens to come along then even better. "
Pretty much this  . Probably won’t leave again though too much faffing I’ll just hide profile this time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey OP I like your forum work and hope that you stay. Hopefully the food times meet-wise will roll. "
But to answer your question - I’m not sure what I’m waiting for. I’ll leave when it’s not working for me any more. As per when I last UNLOSed. It’s enjoyable for me right now, so I’m here for the foreseeable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey OP I like your forum work and hope that you stay. Hopefully the food times meet-wise will roll. "
I love food time meets. Eating is up there with orgasms in terms of joy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I can see myself leaving and have come close a few times. I seem to go through phases of enjoying the Forum and having a giggle to being totally bored shitless with the same old drivel.
As for the sex thingy....well that's a bit up and down too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey OP I like your forum work and hope that you stay. Hopefully the food times meet-wise will roll.
I love food time meets. Eating is up there with orgasms in terms of joy. "
These are my favourite kinda meats! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.
Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on? "
Eh, a couple of months?
What's the deal, is it lawyers and everything when you want to go?
I was thinking it was just a case of hitting a leave tab, about 2 seconds?
Nobody warned me of this when I signed up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.
Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on? "
Will be sorry to see you go. Good luck fella. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Find myself getting more and more frustrated with the arrogance, entitlement and endless knob pics. Which isn't great or why I came and stayed here.
Only really worth it for the forums  "
Women are also like this. Besides the dick pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just waiting for the moment I think "Time to go and I won't immediately think hmm was I too hasty". That times close and it actually feels liberating at a major turning point in my life. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Not sure yet I haven't really thought about it. Not ready to go just yet though, I like the attention too much.
I'm surprised by the amount of people who say they'll leave if they meet someone outside of here. I'd rather have my cake and eat it 
I'll miss you if you go OP. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I currently see no reason to leave anytime soon as i'm currently enjoying myself too much 
I might eventually reach a saturation point where I might take a short break but wouldn't see myself giving it up entirely under my current circumstances.
I often think i've crossed a threshold I can't come back from and for the moment can't see myself in a traditional, vanilla relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.
Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on? "
Buuuuut I wanted to ride your cock  |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I can't see myself leaving, I enjoy the meets and just chatting to people without having to worry what I say or type.
The only thing that annoys me is how much time I spend on here. I'm worse than a kid with a new phone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've already sort of left. I won't be getting a silver account anymore or anything. Probably I'll delete the account all together.
One can do better in real life
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Probably stay for winter coz i'm bored then fuck off next year when i move. Not really feeling like meeting anyone off here anyway, it was more fun when me and my sister cammed on here but that's about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will probably leave at some point, i will probably also return..
I always do..i miss the forums and all the characters on here and its also a good way to stay connected for the socials..
I also don't see myself meeting anyone new for the foreseeable future anyway .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These days I'm basically just here for the forums, the boob pics and very occasional socials or club visits. If I met someone away from Fab (unlikely at this point) I'd disappear quietly, but unless and until that happens this place has it's amusements.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging is in me, it's my lifestyle so I don't see myself leaving any time soon. I also enjoy chatting on here with quite a few friends and the forums can be great fun.
I also have too many fantasies left to fulfill, many experiences that I want to repeat again, and there are so many people that I want to meet.
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I find that the effort I put into Fab has dwindled considerably in the past year. I was already on the verge of leaving last December but decided to give it another chance after chatting with some lovely daft buggers over dinner after the Lounge Social in Manchester. I've had 1 Fab meet in the past 18 months.
I'm not complaining (I've got something pretty great going with someone away from Fab and thanks to Fab as it's how we originally met), but the transient nature of Fab makes it very difficult for someone like me (who needs to connect with someone on multiple levels in order to have great sex) to develop and establish that kind of connection. I could just meet people purely for sex obviously, but without that mental component it would be mediocre at best and it wouldn't satisfy me. My year is almost up... I haven't uploaded a new pic in months... I've stopped organising events... I haven't renewed my subscription... I think it's probably only a matter of time before I simply stop logging in.
If you're still enjoying all that Fab has to offer OP, stick with it, but if you feel that the timing is right for a break, I wish you well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.
Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on? "
Can see us getting bored of the forum, doubt we'll do the big leave thing, just more stop posting and reading. But in terms of fabs and swinging, highly unlikely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was only supposed to be here short term until I found a relationship. As it now appears I'm undatable (autocorrect changed that to unstable, it might have a point....) so I'm here for the long haul. |
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So since May we haven’t been meeting . Yes , almost six months without swinging , so why stay I hear you ask . Just as I would have done in years gone by . No point being here if you’re not going to meet is there ?
Well I don’t know if we will ever meet again , the desire just isn’t there . But I do like the forums and they help pass the time when there’s not much else to do . And perhaps we will decide to meet again sometime .
Will we just leave and not return ? I don’t know .
But what I will say is I’ve never felt more ambivalent to it all as I do right now . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the lovely messages and comments. I didn't intend this as an unlos type thread. When I go I'll just pop off quietly But I'll be around for a little bit before that happens.
A lot of the posts on here have resonated with me. Like some others, I ceased seeking meets a while back and have enjoyed chatting to people on and off the forums instead. This wasn't because I wasn't meeting. It was because I had the savvy to realise that the only way I could compete with the vwe gym bods was to find a way to project my personality.
Like PlayD8, I really need a connection to want to get sexy and I find dating is much more suitable for that approach.
Like DeepBlue, I'm at a major turning point in my life. And it feels right to abandon unproductive avenues and refocus on what's important to me.
I've made some lovely friends on here over the months that I've been really quite exceptionally active haha But I can't help but bemoan the fact that you're all virtual friends... and how much more rewarding it would've been for me to have put that effort into my local community and build a set of hands on friendships here.
To anyone who wanted to meet me don't worry I'll still be meeting. So stay in touch. Or get in touch if you haven't and we can exchange details. I'm as intent on having erotic adventures as I was when I joined. I'm just building up to pursuing that off Fab.
Pushing delete is the nuclear button for a guy. It's just so difficult to get going on Fab, let alone the many months and meets that are required to get traction. So by doing that I'm making a commitment to myself not to return. The urge will be strong to stay in and log back onto Fab on a Friday night. But I'll just have to go out and socialise
p.s for God's sake don't quote this post or we'll all be scrolling all day haha |
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"Thanks for all the lovely messages and comments. I didn't intend this as an unlos type thread. When I go I'll just pop off quietly But I'll be around for a little bit before that happens.
A lot of the posts on here have resonated with me. Like some others, I ceased seeking meets a while back and have enjoyed chatting to people on and off the forums instead. This wasn't because I wasn't meeting. It was because I had the savvy to realise that the only way I could compete with the vwe gym bods was to find a way to project my personality.
Like PlayD8, I really need a connection to want to get sexy and I find dating is much more suitable for that approach.
Like DeepBlue, I'm at a major turning point in my life. And it feels right to abandon unproductive avenues and refocus on what's important to me.
I've made some lovely friends on here over the months that I've been really quite exceptionally active haha But I can't help but bemoan the fact that you're all virtual friends... and how much more rewarding it would've been for me to have put that effort into my local community and build a set of hands on friendships here.
To anyone who wanted to meet me don't worry I'll still be meeting. So stay in touch. Or get in touch if you haven't and we can exchange details. I'm as intent on having erotic adventures as I was when I joined. I'm just building up to pursuing that off Fab.
Pushing delete is the nuclear button for a guy. It's just so difficult to get going on Fab, let alone the many months and meets that are required to get traction. So by doing that I'm making a commitment to myself not to return. The urge will be strong to stay in and log back onto Fab on a Friday night. But I'll just have to go out and socialise
p.s for God's sake don't quote this post or we'll all be scrolling all day haha "
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"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.
Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on? "
Be like a kitkat.....
I’ve been here nearly 6 years. I have a horrible feeling that if I hadn’t, I might not have been here. I’m staying because it’s good fun both in reality and interacting with the pixel people x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max "
Ironically I haven’t posted one today. To be honest, I’m not sure I can take much more of your poor mans, Mills and Boon, wet lettuce romantic spoutings that’s more suited to E Harmony dating, than a swinging site.
My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max
Ironically I haven’t posted one today. To be honest, I’m not sure I can take much more of your poor mans, Mills and Boon, wet lettuce romantic spoutings that’s more suited to E Harmony dating, than a swinging site.
My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do. "
Awwww I love his posts. Do they have forums on E Harmony? I’ve never been on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max "
I’ll miss you, even though you’re miles away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll probably re-evaluate after the Glasgow Xmas social. I don’t really know if I’m here for the right reasons and it’s of my own doing that I’ve got there |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.
Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on? "
We will definitely leave, it is just the timing that needs to be decided. Think the hardest thing will be leaving friends behind that we have made although hopefully we would stay in touch with those that mean the most to us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max
Ironically I haven’t posted one today. To be honest, I’m not sure I can take much more of your poor mans, Mills and Boon, wet lettuce romantic spoutings that’s more suited to E Harmony dating, than a swinging site.
My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do. "
Awww come on you know you get wet when you read my posts don't you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that. "
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey OP I like your forum work and hope that you stay. Hopefully the food times meet-wise will roll.
I love food time meets. Eating is up there with orgasms in terms of joy. "
 I’m having autocarrot errors all over the place today! More haste, less speed in terms of typing out stuff on Fab today it seems! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max
Ironically I haven’t posted one today. To be honest, I’m not sure I can take much more of your poor mans, Mills and Boon, wet lettuce romantic spoutings that’s more suited to E Harmony dating, than a swinging site.
My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do.
Awww come on you know you get wet when you read my posts don't you "
I’m not a fan, they make me queasy, but they’re not aimed at me, I’m sure they have the desired effect with a certain sections of the sandy vaginas, no doubt they lap them up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying "
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max
Ironically I haven’t posted one today. To be honest, I’m not sure I can take much more of your poor mans, Mills and Boon, wet lettuce romantic spoutings that’s more suited to E Harmony dating, than a swinging site.
My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do.
Awww come on you know you get wet when you read my posts don't you
I’m not a fan, they make me queasy, but they’re not aimed at me, I’m sure they have the desired effect with a certain sections of the sandy vaginas, no doubt they lap them up. "
Ahh well in that case may your heart swell with a sense of belonging one day within the soft bosom of a feminine soul 
Either that or may you keep rogering with your boner until it goes floppy Whichever makes you happier |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max
Ironically I haven’t posted one today. To be honest, I’m not sure I can take much more of your poor mans, Mills and Boon, wet lettuce romantic spoutings that’s more suited to E Harmony dating, than a swinging site.
My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do.
Awww come on you know you get wet when you read my posts don't you
I’m not a fan, they make me queasy, but they’re not aimed at me, I’m sure they have the desired effect with a certain sections of the sandy vaginas, no doubt they lap them up.
Ahh well in that case may your heart swell with a sense of belonging one day within the soft bosom of a feminine soul
Either that or may you keep rogering with your boner until it goes floppy Whichever makes you happier"
*sheds a tear*
That’s beautiful, that really is a talent you have there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hard to say. I go quiet occasionally but this place holds a morbid fascination...
Weird isnt it  "
I think it's like people watching motorsport for the crashes... |
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"Hard to say. I go quiet occasionally but this place holds a morbid fascination...
Weird isnt it
I think it's like people watching motorsport for the crashes..."
Do you watch men wanking on cam? You can play a ‘countdown’ game....  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys. "
Why's that if you don't mine me asking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hard to say. I go quiet occasionally but this place holds a morbid fascination...
Weird isnt it
I think it's like people watching motorsport for the crashes...
Do you watch men wanking on cam? You can play a ‘countdown’ game.... "
Negative Ghost Rider.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.
Why's that if you don't mine me asking "
Warning! The following reply may contain derogatory language and extreme levels of disenchantment |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.
Why's that if you don't mine me asking
Warning! The following reply may contain derogatory language and extreme levels of disenchantment "
But it's probably true. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I only just got here and everyone's leaving ! Those will be some right boring games of fuck, marry, avoid I'll be having on my own!"
Don't worry this place is like the Hotel California. You can check out any time you like, But you can never leave! I'm sure most people on this thread will either stay or return. It's a very addictive site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't leave until I've been the filling in a hot man sandwich, or a bun in a hot man burger."
Not being pedantic, but the filling in a hot man sandwich would be hot men |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I only just got here and everyone's leaving ! Those will be some right boring games of fuck, marry, avoid I'll be having on my own!
Don't worry this place is like the Hotel California. You can check out any time you like, But you can never leave! I'm sure most people on this thread will either stay or return. It's a very addictive site "
Its more like f@@king Russian Roulette....xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only just got here and everyone's leaving ! Those will be some right boring games of fuck, marry, avoid I'll be having on my own!
Don't worry this place is like the Hotel California. You can check out any time you like, But you can never leave! I'm sure most people on this thread will either stay or return. It's a very addictive site
Its more like f@@king Russian Roulette....xx "
So. Do you feel lucky? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I’m bored of meeting...or I find a person I want to enjoy away from the site.
It’s keeping me intrigued and I’m meeting some lovely people that I wouldn’t have met otherwise currently.
So fortunately or unfortunately (depending who you are) I’ll be sticking around for a while yet.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.
Why's that if you don't mine me asking
Warning! The following reply may contain derogatory language and extreme levels of disenchantment
But it's probably true. "
I wonder if it's to do with bad experiences with guys on here or more to do with status... the sense that a high quality male wouldn't join a site like this in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.
Why's that if you don't mine me asking "
Because I fancy someone from the real world and all my focus is on that, just have no desire to meet anyone else.
BUT if nothing comes of that by the 2nd week of December I'm gonna be looking for someone to have sex with from here! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.
Why's that if you don't mine me asking
Because I fancy someone from the real world and all my focus is on that, just have no desire to meet anyone else.
BUT if nothing comes of that by the 2nd week of December I'm gonna be looking for someone to have sex with from here!"
See. This is why I can't leave just yet I've got to know what happens with the gym guy haha. Will it be an exciting climax? A final pay off? Or cataclysmic finale? Or will it be that most infuriating of endings "to be continued"  God I hate those... just endlessly stringing people along from one series to the next without the balls to ever bring it to a head. That's why I can't do tv serials. I need my endings to be big and final
btw thanks Ms Wood I make an active effort not to be too perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty sure that I'll probably leave the site one day. Right now I feel I've done what I have wanted to on here and I've met some very nice people but I've also had a few unfortunate experiences too which has now made me feel disillusioned with it overall. On the other hand I have a lovely guy I see regularly and keep in touch with a few people, which is why I'm still on here. They make it worth while staying x |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.
Why's that if you don't mine me asking
Because I fancy someone from the real world and all my focus is on that, just have no desire to meet anyone else.
BUT if nothing comes of that by the 2nd week of December I'm gonna be looking for someone to have sex with from here!"
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.
Why's that if you don't mine me asking
Warning! The following reply may contain derogatory language and extreme levels of disenchantment
But it's probably true.
I wonder if it's to do with bad experiences with guys on here or more to do with status... the sense that a high quality male wouldn't join a site like this in the first place "
Most high quality males on here do really well , and that’s not surprising at all . It’s a positive experience for them , just as it is for couples like us .
Problems arise for single women when they meet the quality men . They want exclusivity with the said man . Duh.... why do you think they are here ? So that they can enjoy the variety on offer of course . They would do well wherever they chose to meet , so being here means they don’t want women getting all possessive . |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.
Why's that if you don't mine me asking
Warning! The following reply may contain derogatory language and extreme levels of disenchantment
But it's probably true.
I wonder if it's to do with bad experiences with guys on here or more to do with status... the sense that a high quality male wouldn't join a site like this in the first place
Most high quality males on here do really well , and that’s not surprising at all . It’s a positive experience for them , just as it is for couples like us .
Problems arise for single women when they meet the quality men . They want exclusivity with the said man . Duh.... why do you think they are here ? So that they can enjoy the variety on offer of course . They would do well wherever they chose to meet , so being here means they don’t want women getting all possessive . "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.
Why's that if you don't mine me asking
Warning! The following reply may contain derogatory language and extreme levels of disenchantment
But it's probably true.
I wonder if it's to do with bad experiences with guys on here or more to do with status... the sense that a high quality male wouldn't join a site like this in the first place
Most high quality males on here do really well , and that’s not surprising at all . It’s a positive experience for them , just as it is for couples like us .
Problems arise for single women when they meet the quality men . They want exclusivity with the said man . Duh.... why do you think they are here ? So that they can enjoy the variety on offer of course . They would do well wherever they chose to meet , so being here means they don’t want women getting all possessive .
Nail on the head "
I think this is more to do with leagues. Women on here are easily able to meet guys who are out of their league because, unlike vanilla women, they're willing to offer sex up front to entice guys in. They then catch a super hot guy and slip into the fantasy that it's something more than just a fuck... or that they can turn it into something more. But the blunt fact is that the guy is only there because it isn't anything more than that. The moment the woman tries to change that it's adios.
I think high quality males are pretty slim on the ground in here and many are doing much worse on here than they would on a dating site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fuck that leaving quietly bollox,I'm going out in a blaze of glory,going to start 2 or 3 leaving threads"
Haha I'm already starting out a prolonged Shakespearian death scene where I stagger around for a couple of months gasping for breath until everyone gets arsey and says "ffs aren't you gone already?"  |
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I will just retire when the fun stops ...though the forums are highly amusing at times and I’d probably miss that but when I do go I would like to go out in a blaze of glory with a hopefully hilarious thread x |
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"Fuck that leaving quietly bollox,I'm going out in a blaze of glory,going to start 2 or 3 leaving threads
Haha I'm already starting out a prolonged Shakespearian death scene where I stagger around for a couple of months gasping for breath until everyone gets arsey and says "ffs aren't you gone already?" "
No doubt you’ll be back for an encore and milk it if for all it’s worth. Then be back in a week with a new account, because you missed the attention. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Fuck that leaving quietly bollox,I'm going out in a blaze of glory,going to start 2 or 3 leaving threads
Haha I'm already starting out a prolonged Shakespearian death scene where I stagger around for a couple of months gasping for breath until everyone gets arsey and says "ffs aren't you gone already?"
No doubt you’ll be back for an encore and milk it if for all it’s worth. Then be back in a week with a new account, because you missed the attention. "
Clearly you'll miss him the most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here for now there is no time limit before I must go or time limits I must stay till. You know when its time for a break or to go forever. After all for me its a hobby no more its not a lifestyle thing for me like some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sad to hear that OP I enjoy your posts x
Fab isn't a major part of my life - so I don't think about leaving or staying.
I use it when I'm bored or horny or both 
The forums are fun and I like to use it when I'm home alone and need some like minded people to blahhhhh with.
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I guess one day I will stop visiting.
I imagine I may have pegged it at that point. No one really knows me in real life so it will just be Bye Bye Cinn!
My profile will just roll on and I will be the oldest non swinger in town.
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"I guess one day I will stop visiting.
I imagine I may have pegged it at that point. No one really knows me in real life so it will just be Bye Bye Cinn!
My profile will just roll on and I will be the oldest non swinger in town.
lol"
If you leave, send me some saucy pics afore ye go |
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"I guess one day I will stop visiting.
I imagine I may have pegged it at that point. No one really knows me in real life so it will just be Bye Bye Cinn!
My profile will just roll on and I will be the oldest non swinger in town.
lol
If you leave, send me some saucy pics afore ye go "
lol you funny! if i die i'll send you my password . some never seen photos in there |
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.
Why's that if you don't mine me asking
Because I fancy someone from the real world and all my focus is on that, just have no desire to meet anyone else.
BUT if nothing comes of that by the 2nd week of December I'm gonna be looking for someone to have sex with from here!
See. This is why I can't leave just yet I've got to know what happens with the gym guy haha. Will it be an exciting climax? A final pay off? Or cataclysmic finale? Or will it be that most infuriating of endings "to be continued" God I hate those... just endlessly stringing people along from one series to the next without the balls to ever bring it to a head. That's why I can't do tv serials. I need my endings to be big and final
btw thanks Ms Wood I make an active effort not to be too perfect "
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"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.
As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.
You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying
Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.
Why's that if you don't mine me asking
Warning! The following reply may contain derogatory language and extreme levels of disenchantment
But it's probably true.
I wonder if it's to do with bad experiences with guys on here or more to do with status... the sense that a high quality male wouldn't join a site like this in the first place
Most high quality males on here do really well , and that’s not surprising at all . It’s a positive experience for them , just as it is for couples like us .
Problems arise for single women when they meet the quality men . They want exclusivity with the said man . Duh.... why do you think they are here ? So that they can enjoy the variety on offer of course . They would do well wherever they chose to meet , so being here means they don’t want women getting all possessive .
Nail on the head
I think this is more to do with leagues. Women on here are easily able to meet guys who are out of their league because, unlike vanilla women, they're willing to offer sex up front to entice guys in. They then catch a super hot guy and slip into the fantasy that it's something more than just a fuck... or that they can turn it into something more. But the blunt fact is that the guy is only there because it isn't anything more than that. The moment the woman tries to change that it's adios.
I think high quality males are pretty slim on the ground in here and many are doing much worse on here than they would on a dating site "
Yep , and that’s the truth of it .
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