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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are you one of them?
I am 
I'm rubbish at relationships and shudder at the thought of spending time with other people's families or doing someone else's laundry or spending my weekends with someone else's kids 
Say you're in if you just want to have a good time with someone - a little more than NSA - nights out, holidays etc .. fun times without the horror of routine.
Let's make some matches 
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"Are you one of them?
I am
I'm rubbish at relationships and shudder at the thought of spending time with other people's families or doing someone else's laundry or spending my weekends with someone else's kids
Say you're in if you just want to have a good time with someone - a little more than NSA - nights out, holidays etc .. fun times without the horror of routine.
Let's make some matches
PM the person you're interested in meeting x"
Just did....  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
Oh I am in! I am not undateable I just don't want a full on relationship.
I want part time and just get together for the fun times, who wouldn't want that? I don't understand why that would be such a hard thing to find |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh I am in! I am not undateable I just don't want a full on relationship.
I want part time and just get together for the fun times, who wouldn't want that? I don't understand why that would be such a hard thing to find "
I know!
Surely it's the way forward.
Separate houses, separate finances and no drab routine or obligation.
I've been single for a long time now - and don't want to have a traditional relationship again.
But I don't want to have random hookups either- a lady wank is more satisfying and less effort 
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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago
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Guys who want T-Girls don't want guys. Guys who want guys don't want T-Girls. I'm a part time girl but can't be one or the other forever so kinda stuck with as much sex as I want but sod all chance of love..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you one of them?
I am
I'm rubbish at relationships and shudder at the thought of spending time with other people's families or doing someone else's laundry or spending my weekends with someone else's kids
Say you're in if you just want to have a good time with someone - a little more than NSA - nights out, holidays etc .. fun times without the horror of routine.
Let's make some matches
PM the person you're interested in meeting x"
Must be seriously undatable, never had a date! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Oh I am in! I am not undateable I just don't want a full on relationship.
I want part time and just get together for the fun times, who wouldn't want that? I don't understand why that would be such a hard thing to find
I know!
Surely it's the way forward.
Separate houses, separate finances and no drab routine or obligation.
I've been single for a long time now - and don't want to have a traditional relationship again.
But I don't want to have random hookups either- a lady wank is more satisfying and less effort
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Exactly! I have tried dating sites and most men want to just take control over everything, and that is not for me. In my area a strong woman is seen as a threat for some reason 
Give me a guy I actually want to shag once a week, and I'll be happy!
That should be the way forward, I can't even be arsed to do a lady wank lol
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Oh I am in! I am not undateable I just don't want a full on relationship.
I want part time and just get together for the fun times, who wouldn't want that? I don't understand why that would be such a hard thing to find "
In fact what I find, most want me to give them more than I am willing to, so whilst they want more than I do, I have to go without due to the consequence |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
Yep this is me the undateable elusive spider.
I'm looking for an athelic tall man who can swing from chandeliers a bit like Spiderman.
No lies, no bullshit, no mine games...someone fun, exciting, erotic, sensual, sexy...who wants me for me...let's start this journey with a date  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep this is me the undateable elusive spider.
I'm looking for an athelic tall man who can swing from chandeliers a bit like Spiderman.
No lies, no bullshit, no mine games...someone fun, exciting, erotic, sensual, sexy...who wants me for me...let's start this journey with a date "
3000 messages later  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd just like a boxset and gig buddy who I fancy like f**k. Not much to ask you'd think!"
It is too much to ask apparantly
Well for me it is.
The ones that want to date me - I don't want to date!
And the one I want to date has so much baggage and only wants me for NSA |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd just like a boxset and gig buddy who I fancy like f**k. Not much to ask you'd think!
It is too much to ask apparantly
Well for me it is.
The ones that want to date me - I don't want to date!
And the one I want to date has so much baggage and only wants me for NSA "
you want what you can't have, anyone for cake? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm actually the opposite  . I've had long term relationships with people that I planned to be casual only. "
Yes my last relationship was like this.
It confirmed to me that I never want to live with anyone again |
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I am white happy being single but do miss certain things that arent much fun on your own, like holidays and Sunday lunch in a pub!
Love a friend with no expectations, staying casual, no set routine to drag us down! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I am in! I am not undateable I just don't want a full on relationship.
I want part time and just get together for the fun times, who wouldn't want that? I don't understand why that would be such a hard thing to find
I know!
Surely it's the way forward.
Separate houses, separate finances and no drab routine or obligation.
I've been single for a long time now - and don't want to have a traditional relationship again.
But I don't want to have random hookups either- a lady wank is more satisfying and less effort
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Its the way forward for sure, problem is that not many mortals have evolved to the level that some of us have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly! I have tried dating sites and most men want to just take control over everything, and that is not for me. In my area a strong woman is seen as a threat for some reason
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There's a lot of dating advice out there telling men to do this as it's seen as taking charge and being assertive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now wouldn't that be nice to have someone pretty localish."
It would be lovely, but all thw dating threads are distinctly short on ladies who are local for me. I'm starting to think I need to move. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you one of them?
I am
I'm rubbish at relationships and shudder at the thought of spending time with other people's families or doing someone else's laundry or spending my weekends with someone else's kids
Say you're in if you just want to have a good time with someone - a little more than NSA - nights out, holidays etc .. fun times without the horror of routine.
Let's make some matches
PM the person you're interested in meeting x"
This is me! I'm so used to my own space I'm not sure i can share it!
I'm in! |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
Yep im deffo this...i must be either really fugly or the worlds worst girlfriend!
Even when i have had relationships they never quite make it past the 12 month mark without me being dumped or cheated on.
Its not me, its them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its the way forward for sure, problem is that not many mortals have evolved to the level that some of us have. "
Maybe you're right.
A lot of people in my life have exactly the kind of relationships I don't want!
To be honest I don't know anyone with the kind of relationship I want
Maybe it doesn't exist.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you one of them?
I am
I'm rubbish at relationships and shudder at the thought of spending time with other people's families or doing someone else's laundry or spending my weekends with someone else's kids
Say you're in if you just want to have a good time with someone - a little more than NSA - nights out, holidays etc .. fun times without the horror of routine.
Let's make some matches
PM the person you're interested in meeting x
This is me! I'm so used to my own space I'm not sure i can share it!
I'm in! "
Same been single that long I don't want to share my own space, bed or tv remote lol. |
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By *ojoTV/TS
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Don't have the necessary critria required for a "relationship", in the past it always irked me, that I was expected to finance the lifestyle of another bloke's offspring. ("We come as a package" ...groan).
These days when Women view (if they ever actually do) my profile/pics....they instantly think "not aimed at me" or "nope...severe lack of tattoos and beard").
Blokes....well a kinda "occupational hazard", and tbh...most should admit they're gay..or at least bi, rather than using people like me as their own personal smokescreen.
So it's looking a wee bit grim for the upcoming festive hoildays. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am only undateable because i choose to be..
I'm undateable because women choose me to be "
Same for me .. men and women
It's Halloween soon maybe I'll fit in a bit better for one day of the year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is/was a tribe that had a hut for the men, a hut for the women and huts in the middle.
Oh for the simplicity."
Sounds ghastly. Living in what's nasically a barracks with dozens of other men? No thanks. There's a reason I didn't join the army. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"There is/was a tribe that had a hut for the men, a hut for the women and huts in the middle.
Oh for the simplicity.
Sounds ghastly. Living in what's nasically a barracks with dozens of other men? No thanks. There's a reason I didn't join the army."
Why, did you join the Navy?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am only undateable because i choose to be..
I'm undateable because women choose me to be
Same for me .. men and women
It's Halloween soon maybe I'll fit in a bit better for one day of the year "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha!
(Not literally  )
You’re gorgeous
So are you x"
Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha!
(Not literally )
You’re gorgeous
So are you x
Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though "
Well I'm undateable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha!
(Not literally )
You’re gorgeous
So are you x
Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though
Well I'm undateable "
You’ve got lots interested in you !!!!
Fucks sake - pull your head outta your arse |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha!
(Not literally )
You’re gorgeous
So are you x
Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though
Well I'm undateable
You’ve got lots interested in you !!!!
Fucks sake - pull your head outta your arse "
Pffft |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is/was a tribe that had a hut for the men, a hut for the women and huts in the middle.
Oh for the simplicity.
Sounds ghastly. Living in what's nasically a barracks with dozens of other men? No thanks. There's a reason I didn't join the army.
Why, did you join the Navy? "
Oddly enough, that was the plan when I was at school, but I wanted to join the submarine service and my eyesight deteriorated.
By the way, I'm 6'4 and mildly claustrophobic, so it's probably worked out for the best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha!
(Not literally )
You’re gorgeous
So are you x
Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though
Well I'm undateable
You’ve got lots interested in you !!!!
Fucks sake - pull your head outta your arse
Pffft "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
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 this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
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Nothing wrong with this. |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
most fundamental aspects |
I’ve read through this thread and there’s a reoccurring theme. Those who don’t want to give up their independence, yet still be in a relationship. Distance is also being mentioned.
If you look at conventional (and societally imposed) relationships, then that makes it difficult. We are conditioned into thinking monogamy is the only answer.
With being poly, it is possible to have that independence, whilst also having relationships. They need not even be plural, if that’s what you want. They also need not be only 30 minutes away.
I’ve had some of the most loving relationships with those who retain their ,and celebrate my, independence. Distance can be frustrating. However, if all other things align, then distance is the least of my worries.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
Nothing wrong with this. "
I know ... just need to find the one or two  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
Nothing wrong with this.
I know ... just need to find the one or two "
Two!
Don't be greedy - lend me one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
Nothing wrong with this.
I know ... just need to find the one or two
Two!
Don't be greedy - lend me one "
Haha I want one of each |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
Nothing wrong with this.
I know ... just need to find the one or two
Two!
Don't be greedy - lend me one "
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
Nothing wrong with this.
I know ... just need to find the one or two
Two!
Don't be greedy - lend me one
Haha I want one of each "
You would |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha!
(Not literally )
You’re gorgeous
So are you x
Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though
Well I'm undateable
You’ve got lots interested in you !!!!
Fucks sake - pull your head outta your arse
Pffft "
Its not often one gets an opportunity like this...but you did have a really good woman who cared about you deeply but she got relagated to the bin...i agree with Floro, get your head out of your arse |
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha!
(Not literally )
You’re gorgeous
So are you x
Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though
Well I'm undateable
You’ve got lots interested in you !!!!
Fucks sake - pull your head outta your arse
Pffft
Its not often one gets an opportunity like this...but you did have a really good woman who cared about you deeply but she got relagated to the bin...i agree with Floro, get your head out of your arse"
Awch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
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You need a fwb..
Thats what im looking for but its proving to be elusive  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
You need a fwb..
Thats what im looking for but its proving to be elusive "
Like pulling teeth |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Yep this is me the undateable elusive spider.
I'm looking for an athelic tall man who can swing from chandeliers a bit like Spiderman.
No lies, no bullshit, no mine games...someone fun, exciting, erotic, sensual, sexy...who wants me for me...let's start this journey with a date "
Oh I forgot if your into rd cycling and you fancy a few miles you know where I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
You need a fwb..
Thats what im looking for but its proving to be elusive
Like pulling teeth"
I don't care what he does for work |
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"I’ll put it out there
I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty
Oh and amazing sex
I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’
You need a fwb..
Thats what im looking for but its proving to be elusive
Like pulling teeth"
Don't mention teeth. Touchy subject |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Undateable- Yep that’s me, I’m in sadly
We need a confidence boosting thread now
Way ahead of you. I'm on phone to Samaritans "
Ha ha I may be undatable, but Fab has helped my find fantastic people and experiences. I’ll settle for that for now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe not undateable, but I haven't been able to find a woman on the same wavelength,with spark,fun and imagination,and not too serious.
I can't live with someone who isn't right just to avoid being on my own.
Maybe I'm a one off and won't find a match  |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
most fundamental aspects |
"Lots of cute undateables but all too far away "
Define “too far”
As I said in my earlier post, I wouldn’t class myself as undateable. I just don’t date in the conventional sense. Zero jealously; instead a little FOMO, which can easily be managed. |
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"Lots of cute undateables but all too far away
Define “too far”
As I said in my earlier post, I wouldn’t class myself as undateable. I just don’t date in the conventional sense. Zero jealously; instead a little FOMO, which can easily be managed. "
...as in loads in England and I'm in scotland |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m definitely undatable, After putting my foot in it a few times I don’t know what I really want from being on here and even relationships I manage to fuck up because I push away anyone who wants to be close to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of cute undateables but all too far away
Define “too far”
As I said in my earlier post, I wouldn’t class myself as undateable. I just don’t date in the conventional sense. Zero jealously; instead a little FOMO, which can easily be managed. ...as in loads in England and I'm in scotland "
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