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over a year ago
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I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear you,everyone I want to meet is always miles away , mind you I am passing herts tomorrow haha "
That’s great. You so look like my type of guy from your profile pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hear you,everyone I want to meet is always miles away , mind you I am passing herts tomorrow haha
That’s great. You so look like my type of guy from your profile pics "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that. "
Tell me about it...  x
That it they don't fancy me...lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Invite them round to yours then if you don't want to travel if not then there are not many other options "
I don’t do that. So yep not many options. Pointless post really. Oh well |
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If you consider local to be within, say, 20 miles that's only a tiny percentage of the entire country. It's only logical, therefore, that most will be out of range. |
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that. "
try living in Herefordshire |
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that. "
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together |
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"If you consider local to be within, say, 20 miles that's only a tiny percentage of the entire country. It's only logical, therefore, that most will be out of range. "
Yes but I if I lived in the north/north west. I’d be like a pig in shit I think! I need to move. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together "
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you consider local to be within, say, 20 miles that's only a tiny percentage of the entire country. It's only logical, therefore, that most will be out of range.
Yes but I if I lived in the north/north west. I’d be like a pig in shit I think! I need to move. "
You could always move to Somerset. It's quite nice here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you consider local to be within, say, 20 miles that's only a tiny percentage of the entire country. It's only logical, therefore, that most will be out of range.
Yes but I if I lived in the north/north west. I’d be like a pig in shit I think! I need to move. "
Hey, I’m in the South West  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen "
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you consider local to be within, say, 20 miles that's only a tiny percentage of the entire country. It's only logical, therefore, that most will be out of range.
Yes but I if I lived in the north/north west. I’d be like a pig in shit I think! I need to move.
Hey, I’m in the South West "
Sorry? do you have a point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment!"
I could be your Cliff Barnes ..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that. "
Yep! Majority aren’t even in the same country as me  |
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment!"
‘Jock’s Dead!’  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you consider local to be within, say, 20 miles that's only a tiny percentage of the entire country. It's only logical, therefore, that most will be out of range.
Yes but I if I lived in the north/north west. I’d be like a pig in shit I think! I need to move.
Hey, I’m in the South West
Sorry? do you have a point?"
Try living on the wrong side of the Irish Sea!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment!
I could be your Cliff Barnes ..lol "
Wasn’t he my brother?  |
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that. "
We used to be faced with this issue until we just stopped looking at people miles away.. Worked a treat.
I have to admit though i sometimes wonder if we perhaps adopt a little self sabotage it's often easier to lust over the unattainable than it is to pluck up the courage to try with the local talent.. Just a thought i could be miles away.. Quite literally |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
We used to be faced with this issue until we just stopped looking at people miles away.. Worked a treat.
I have to admit though i sometimes wonder if we perhaps adopt a little self sabotage it's often easier to lust over the unattainable than it is to pluck up the courage to try with the local talent.. Just a thought i could be miles away.. Quite literally "
This is true. Maybe I just want what I can’t have  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you consider local to be within, say, 20 miles that's only a tiny percentage of the entire country. It's only logical, therefore, that most will be out of range.
Yes but I if I lived in the north/north west. I’d be like a pig in shit I think! I need to move.
Hey, I’m in the South West
Sorry? do you have a point?"
No, it’s more of a curve. |
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
We used to be faced with this issue until we just stopped looking at people miles away.. Worked a treat.
I have to admit though i sometimes wonder if we perhaps adopt a little self sabotage it's often easier to lust over the unattainable than it is to pluck up the courage to try with the local talent.. Just a thought i could be miles away.. Quite literally
This is true. Maybe I just want what I can’t have "
Human nature sadly
As a couple we are lucky enough to have one another to give us a proverbial thick ear when we let our nerves influence our decisions. Don't know why she feels the need to do both ears though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment!
I could be your Cliff Barnes ..lol
Wasn’t he my brother? "
Nope... she had an affair with him to make JR jealous... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment!
I could be your Cliff Barnes ..lol
Wasn’t he my brother?
Nope... she had an affair with him to make JR jealous..."
Ah yes! He was pams brother. Just googled! |
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That’s the only problem with the forums, you end up interacting with and being attracted to people who wouldn’t show up on your local search. Bloody forumites trying to tease us into travelling the country |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you consider local to be within, say, 20 miles that's only a tiny percentage of the entire country. It's only logical, therefore, that most will be out of range.
Yes but I if I lived in the north/north west. I’d be like a pig in shit I think! I need to move.
Hey, I’m in the South West
Sorry? do you have a point?
No, it’s more of a curve. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment!
I could be your Cliff Barnes ..lol
Wasn’t he my brother?
Nope... she had an affair with him to make JR jealous...
Ah yes! He was pams brother. Just googled! "
Pam Ewing...every 13 year old boy's reason for watching Dallas... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment!
I could be your Cliff Barnes ..lol
Wasn’t he my brother?
Nope... she had an affair with him to make JR jealous...
Ah yes! He was pams brother. Just googled!
Pam Ewing...every 13 year old boy's reason for watching Dallas... "
Not Lucy ? |
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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago
the land of saints & sinners |
"If you consider local to be within, say, 20 miles that's only a tiny percentage of the entire country. It's only logical, therefore, that most will be out of range.
Yes but I if I lived in the north/north west. I’d be like a pig in shit I think! I need to move.
Hey, I’m in the South West "
I’m even further down the A30 .... and it’s a bit spartan here but beaches are great.... |
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment!
I could be your Cliff Barnes ..lol
Wasn’t he my brother?
Nope... she had an affair with him to make JR jealous...
Ah yes! He was pams brother. Just googled!
Pam Ewing...every 13 year old boy's reason for watching Dallas... "
I used to majorly fancy Lucy Ewing 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment!
I could be your Cliff Barnes ..lol
Wasn’t he my brother?
Nope... she had an affair with him to make JR jealous...
Ah yes! He was pams brother. Just googled!
Pam Ewing...every 13 year old boy's reason for watching Dallas...
Not Lucy ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment!
I could be your Cliff Barnes ..lol
Wasn’t he my brother?
Nope... she had an affair with him to make JR jealous...
Ah yes! He was pams brother. Just googled!
Pam Ewing...every 13 year old boy's reason for watching Dallas...
Not Lucy ?"
She was naughty but I prefer a little more class... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Actually it might be different for you ladies but down here in the Royal County there’s actually a few hotties in close proximity so I’m actually quite happy with my location Fab wise! 
There’s also a few scorchers MILES away as well though of course! So I could do with borrowing that teleport for a day or two please if you do manage to get hold of one! Thank you! |
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that. "
Sorry about that |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
I travel a fair bit for work, so most of my meets are in hotels miles from where I live. That works well for me. And I often get back to the same places fairly regularly.
For the right person I would also travel quite a way anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes people are soo painfully close and it’s still a problem!!
Especially when you can’t move! Lol.
I’d move next door to you "
Tell me about it!! |
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that. "
Just think about how we feel here in Australia. Everyone really is miles away! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I find that a lot OP ~ Frustrating init?!!
Yep! You’re not far from me. We should go on a road trip! "
Thanks for the reply but you're too far away for me. (Standard response these days except swap reply for message)
Do you meet in hotels OP? Just wondering? X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find that a lot OP ~ Frustrating init?!!
Yep! You’re not far from me. We should go on a road trip!
Thanks for the reply but you're too far away for me. (Standard response these days except swap reply for message)
Do you meet in hotels OP? Just wondering? X"
I have done. To be honest I haven’t met many people. Met a few ladies and been to their house and vice versa as have become good friends with them too. |
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
Shall we build a Fab city?
We've all got skills and traits which we could use and we could all live together
OMG yes! Like a big Southfork! I’ll be Sue Ellen
Just lost all the under 40s with that comment!
I could be your Cliff Barnes ..lol
Wasn’t he my brother?
Nope... she had an affair with him to make JR jealous...
Ah yes! He was pams brother. Just googled!
Pam Ewing...every 13 year old boy's reason for watching Dallas...
Not Lucy ?
She was naughty but I prefer a little more class..."
Some people can do classy and naughty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that. "
I have similar circumstances to you OP..
All i can do is plan ahead, hope for overnight childcare and travel to meet at hotels...
Consequently I rarely meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
I have similar circumstances to you OP..
All i can do is plan ahead, hope for overnight childcare and travel to meet at hotels...
Consequently I rarely meet "
Pesky kids. Spoil all our fun eh! |
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that. "
I'd say that was a blessing, I've got a guy who keeps repeatedly messaging me asking where I am every couple of days because the location thingy keeps telling him I'm half a mile away |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tell me about it OP. I totally agree with you 100%.
It's not easy when you're juggling work, children and other commitments. What we need is a tardis that can fly us to different locations within seconds. Think of the amount of fun we could have then |
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"That’s the only problem with the forums, you end up interacting with and being attracted to people who wouldn’t show up on your local search. Bloody forumites trying to tease us into travelling the country "
We need the Wild Fab Tour bus to become a reality |
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"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that.
We used to be faced with this issue until we just stopped looking at people miles away.. Worked a treat.
I have to admit though i sometimes wonder if we perhaps adopt a little self sabotage it's often easier to lust over the unattainable than it is to pluck up the courage to try with the local talent.. Just a thought i could be miles away.. Quite literally
This is true. Maybe I just want what I can’t have "
It's the human condition...
When I lived on St James Street (the gayest street) in Kemptown (the gayest part of) Brighton (the gayest town in Britain) there was a gay cafe right underneath where I lived, which kept me highly amused for months with the calendar on sale in the window:
"Straight boys '99"
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I know I’m a fussy cow but almost EVERYONE I like is miles away! I’d say 99% of them are anyway. Is it just me or do other people find that?
And no I can’t travel hours. I have children and commitments before anyone says that. "
Call it the fab geography curse. My antidote for that is my willingness to travel for the right people as often as I can. Doing that this weekend and the next as a matter of fact xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That’s the only problem with the forums, you end up interacting with and being attracted to people who wouldn’t show up on your local search. Bloody forumites trying to tease us into travelling the country
We need the Wild Fab Tour bus to become a reality "
We do! |
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"Tell me about it OP. I totally agree with you 100%.
It's not easy when you're juggling work, children and other commitments. What we need is a tardis that can fly us to different locations within seconds. Think of the amount of fun we could have then "
Star Trek transporter would be easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Absolutely yes. It makes meeting pretty tricky, but I see it as even if I can only see them every few months, it is better than never at all if I really like them. |
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Ok that’s not strictly true but everyone I like who does show any interest in me is usually miles away. 
