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Quick morality check/karmic effect
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hypothetical situation here plus I'm asking for a friend. She had a boyfriend as a teenager who has since grown into a very handsome 37 year old man. He has a partner and a child (must be honest) Said man wants to fuck my friends brains out for old times sake, they've already fucked a few times over the years as adults but during periods where they were both single. Would my friend get bad karma if she fucked him again, doesn't want him in her life or to be his wife and steal him from his family, just a familiar fuck.
If it's a majority no, it's horrible, she'd get bad karma, I'll tell her not to and she will listen to me.
Thoughts... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it's that age old question... which is cheating? The wanting and arranging to fuck another woman in secret? Or the actual doing it? And if it's the latter how much worse is the doing it than the orchestrating to do it? Dunno  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why ask a forum and vote on the issue, Shouldn’t that be left to your friend to decide?
Because it's a hypothetical situation for a friend  "
I know exactly what it is.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe in Karma. It may bite her on the arse, further down the line. I'm sure she can find others to fuck. It may not be a familiar one, but she can get her itch scratched, without resorting to fucking him. The potential for repercussions are not worth a few hours of shagging, in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe in Karma. It may bite her on the arse, further down the line. I'm sure she can find others to fuck. It may not be a familiar one, but she can get her itch scratched, without resorting to fucking him. The potential for repercussions are not worth a few hours of shagging, in my opinion. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I believe in Karma. It may bite her on the arse, further down the line. I'm sure she can find others to fuck. It may not be a familiar one, but she can get her itch scratched, without resorting to fucking him. The potential for repercussions are not worth a few hours of shagging, in my opinion. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Technically no she shouldn't go there.
However. They do seem to be two souls trying to connect over years. The question she has to ask it us just sex he is wanting or more.
Sex = no he is being a cheating pig!
More = then perhaps the souls are meant to be together.
Does make it easy? Hell no. There are others involved.
But it might be that they are meant to be with each other and if so they could work it out.
What does she want - a relationship? Does she want a relationship with him? Does he with her?. They are the important questions.
Sex is off the table either way.
Mistress Amelia
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Why would she even go there? Too much potential for drama. "
Drama is her middle name, she puts two fingers up in the face of drama. We need oxygen, she needs drama. Her Favorite Erasure single is ‘Drama’.
Ah, you get the idea with that. |
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" Why would she even go there? Too much potential for drama.
Drama is her middle name, she puts two fingers up in the face of drama. We need oxygen, she needs drama. Her Favorite Erasure single is ‘Drama’.
Ah, you get the idea with that. "
Yep, getting the drift.
A big fat nope to being selfish and I hope karma does bite her in the arse if she runs with it. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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" Why would she even go there? Too much potential for drama.
Drama is her middle name, she puts two fingers up in the face of drama. We need oxygen, she needs drama. Her Favorite Erasure single is ‘Drama’.
Ah, you get the idea with that. "
There are many ways of getting drama, they don't need to involve hurting somebody else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t believe adults make choices based on whether it’s going to be good / bad karma.
It’s really nothing to do with karma or anyone else what she chooses to do. You can give her an informed opinion and let her decide, she probably already knows in her mind regardless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im confused you said he wants to fuck ur brains out then your friend im lost sorry
Read it again.
Trust me, he still won’t understand. "
I just had a phone call to fix my brain  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She already knows it's the wrong thing to do.
If they get found out he has ruined his relationship, just for a fuck.
Is she ok with that and would he fuck someone else if she doesn't fuck him.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im confused you said he wants to fuck ur brains out then your friend im lost sorry
Read it again.
Trust me, he still won’t understand.
I just had a phone call to fix my brain "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It sounds like there are feelings investors loved between them, not just sex. If they are both wanting to then the likelihood is that they probably will, but they need to be aware of the repurcussions if they get caught.
I don't however believe in karma. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It sounds like there are feelings investors loved between them, not just sex. If they are both wanting to then the likelihood is that they probably will, but they need to be aware of the repurcussions if they get caught.
I don't however believe in karma."
*feelings involved between them |
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Karma only exists in the sense that essentially good people are negatively affected when they intentionally cause harm to other people. If she's essentially good she will feel bad, if she isn't, she won't |
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"Hypothetical situation here plus I'm asking for a friend. She had a boyfriend as a teenager who has since grown into a very handsome 37 year old man. He has a partner and a child (must be honest) Said man wants to fuck my friends brains out for old times sake, they've already fucked a few times over the years as adults but during periods where they were both single. Would my friend get bad karma if she fucked him again, doesn't want him in her life or to be his wife and steal him from his family, just a familiar fuck.
If it's a majority no, it's horrible, she'd get bad karma, I'll tell her not to and she will listen to me.
Thoughts..."
Karma does not exist
Morality however does as does a child
If the man in question no longer loves his gf or child then leave them both and fuck away
However if he is worth any salt as a father and the relationship has potential and the gf would not be consenting then it's a very bad idea and statistically very likey to end with a sad child  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't believe in karma, but there may be consequences to her actions.
Surely her own conscience can guide her decision making process.
Why would our views have any impact on her decision? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one else can tell you where your morals should stand, that's a personal sliding scale for every individual to judge for themselves.
If your friend can sleep soundly at night knowing she shagged a married guy then she should...if it will wrack her with guilt and make her judge her actions then she shouldn't. |
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My friend has just mentioned it’s starting to get a little chilly but he is too mean to put the heating on.
He’s just asked if he should take his old two bar electric fire into the bathroom with him...
What does the forum think? I’ll let him know the answer..
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"My friend has just mentioned it’s starting to get a little chilly but he is too mean to put the heating on.
He’s just asked if he should take his old two bar electric fire into the bathroom with him...
What does the forum think? I’ll let him know the answer..
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He'll be fine as long as he doesn't plug it in... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My friend has just mentioned it’s starting to get a little chilly but he is too mean to put the heating on.
He’s just asked if he should take his old two bar electric fire into the bathroom with him...
What does the forum think? I’ll let him know the answer..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My friend has just mentioned it’s starting to get a little chilly but he is too mean to put the heating on.
He’s just asked if he should take his old two bar electric fire into the bathroom with him...
What does the forum think? I’ll let him know the answer..
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I think that sounds like a fabulous idea whilst he’s at it he can have a wet shave with an electric razor whilst having a bath.... |
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"My friend has just mentioned it’s starting to get a little chilly but he is too mean to put the heating on.
He’s just asked if he should take his old two bar electric fire into the bathroom with him...
What does the forum think? I’ll let him know the answer..
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Electric fire....bathroom....does he intend to drop it into the bath and end it all?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both women are not to be blame, he is willingly choosing to have sex with her "your friend".
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How can you say the woman who participates in the extra marital sex isn’t partly to blame? she knows the score... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"His poor family.
She should stay well away from him. She sounds like a cunt and she needs to give her head a serious wobble for even contemporary this.
FIFY"
I agree. Two cunts. Hope his wife and kid all the best because they do not deserve to be stuck with a slimy prick like him. |
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I think it's bad that she puts her selfish needs before that on an inosent other woman and their relationship. Now if the guy wanted to fuck to that is his problem and that of their relationship. She can't protect that woman from hurt if he cheats with another but at least she's not made her self part on the problem. |
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I think your friend should cut all contact with him. Old times are in the past and his future lies with his wife and child.
I know things aren't always as straight forward as that, but unless your friend is wanting the two of them to build a future of their own and potentially be known as a homewrecker then I would advise her to think about the wife and child rather than herself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It sounds like there are feelings investors loved between them, not just sex. If they are both wanting to then the likelihood is that they probably will, but they need to be aware of the repurcussions if they get caught.
I don't however believe in karma."
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