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A plea for non-binary questions
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Life isn’t binary. People’s experiences aren’t one thing or the other. Here on fab all shades of sexuality can be explored in their complicated, contradictory, confusing glory. It would be great to see more threads reflecting this, rather than reducing topics to binary options. Just a better worded OP would often lead to more interesting discussion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I started a thread on my last account simply asking if gay men and straight men can ever be friends because the straight friend always assumes the gay friend is trying to shag him.
Five minutes later everyone was losing there mind. Arguing with each other and accusing me of sparking homophobia. Then I was hit with a permanent forum ban.
So you have to be careful what a simple thread can turn into. |
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I'm all for discussion but less than 1% of the population show gender variance to any degree. I'm one who did. The remaining 99+% seem fascinated by it, especially so on Fab. These threads never end well for the people that are part of the 1% and discussion is rarely what actually surfaces. It has pretty relentlessly descended into ignorance or outright trolling and usually they get closed down. Looking forward to seeing how this one turns out. With an open mind |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"I started a thread on my last account simply asking if gay men and straight men can ever be friends because the straight friend always assumes the gay friend is trying to shag him.
Five minutes later everyone was losing there mind. Arguing with each other and accusing me of sparking homophobia. Then I was hit with a permanent forum ban.
So you have to be careful what a simple thread can turn into. "
Only semi-permanent, it appears. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm all for discussion but less than 1% of the population show gender variance to any degree. I'm one who did. The remaining 99+% seem fascinated by it, especially so on Fab. These threads never end well for the people that are part of the 1% and discussion is rarely what actually surfaces. It has pretty relentlessly descended into ignorance or outright trolling and usually they get closed down. Looking forward to seeing how this one turns out. With an open mind"
I think there’s been a slight misunderstanding. I wasn’t referring to posts about non-binary gender, but the endless stream of posts asking questions such as ‘Shaved or trimmed’, ‘BBW or skinny’, ‘Spit or swallow ‘ etc. I’m really sorry to read that you have been singled out because of your gender identity. Such a debate wasn’t the object of the OP, just a plea for more interestingly phrased questions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I started a thread on my last account simply asking if gay men and straight men can ever be friends because the straight friend always assumes the gay friend is trying to shag him.
Five minutes later everyone was losing there mind. Arguing with each other and accusing me of sparking homophobia. Then I was hit with a permanent forum ban.
So you have to be careful what a simple thread can turn into.
Only semi-permanent, it appears."
Certainly wasn't on my last account  |
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"I'm all for discussion but less than 1% of the population show gender variance to any degree. I'm one who did. The remaining 99+% seem fascinated by it, especially so on Fab. These threads never end well for the people that are part of the 1% and discussion is rarely what actually surfaces. It has pretty relentlessly descended into ignorance or outright trolling and usually they get closed down. Looking forward to seeing how this one turns out. With an open mind
I think there’s been a slight misunderstanding. I wasn’t referring to posts about non-binary gender, but the endless stream of posts asking questions such as ‘Shaved or trimmed’, ‘BBW or skinny’, ‘Spit or swallow ‘ etc. I’m really sorry to read that you have been singled out because of your gender identity. Such a debate wasn’t the object of the OP, just a plea for more interestingly phrased questions."
I wasn't offended in any way but the term non binary usually pretty much refers to gender. I'm an LGBT Officer for a large organisation so tends to make me take notice of those posts. But more interesting threads? Amen to that! And thanks for clarifying. Appreciated x |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"I wasn’t referring to posts about non-binary gender, but the endless stream of posts asking questions such as ‘Shaved or trimmed’, ‘BBW or skinny’, ‘Spit or swallow ‘ etc."
So, more "kiss, Fuck, Avoid" threads then? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wasn’t referring to posts about non-binary gender, but the endless stream of posts asking questions such as ‘Shaved or trimmed’, ‘BBW or skinny’, ‘Spit or swallow ‘ etc.
So, more "kiss, Fuck, Avoid" threads then?"
Damn! Was hoping noone would mention those..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wasn’t referring to posts about non-binary gender, but the endless stream of posts asking questions such as ‘Shaved or trimmed’, ‘BBW or skinny’, ‘Spit or swallow ‘ etc.
So, more "kiss, Fuck, Avoid" threads then?"
Oh God, not those ternary questions  |
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"What about ‘Rate my bum hole?’
Such threads invariably elicit highly thoughtful responses.....
Like "nice tight pucker, I'll give it 8/10"?"
That’s the sort; ‘Left cheek is slightly, unevenly shaven but the anus appears to be fairly clean.’   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about ‘Rate my bum hole?’
Such threads invariably elicit highly thoughtful responses.....
Like "nice tight pucker, I'll give it 8/10"?
That’s the sort; ‘Left cheek is slightly, unevenly shaven but the anus appears to be fairly clean.’ "
We need this thread on here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about ‘Rate my bum hole?’
Such threads invariably elicit highly thoughtful responses.....
Like "nice tight pucker, I'll give it 8/10"?
That’s the sort; ‘Left cheek is slightly, unevenly shaven but the anus appears to be fairly clean.’
We need this thread on here "
I’m surrounded by Barbarians..
[Throws hands up, stomps off to bed] |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about ‘Rate my bum hole?’
Such threads invariably elicit highly thoughtful responses.....
Like "nice tight pucker, I'll give it 8/10"?
That’s the sort; ‘Left cheek is slightly, unevenly shaven but the anus appears to be fairly clean.’
We need this thread on here
I’m surrounded by Barbarians..
[Throws hands up, stomps off to bed]"
Do you want your bum hole rated before you go? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve got straight mates who I’d pounce on them given half a chance. I think they thought I was joking though and it was all bants.
I’ve also got straight mates I wouldn’t touch with yours...
I’ve also got a lot of gay mates I wouldn’t touch with a stick because I know exactly where they have been and with who. |
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"I started a thread on my last account simply asking if gay men and straight men can ever be friends because the straight friend always assumes the gay friend is trying to shag him.
Five minutes later everyone was losing there mind. Arguing with each other and accusing me of sparking homophobia. Then I was hit with a permanent forum ban.
So you have to be careful what a simple thread can turn into. "
This permanent forum ban you speak of........
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"I started a thread on my last account simply asking if gay men and straight men can ever be friends because the straight friend always assumes the gay friend is trying to shag him.
Five minutes later everyone was losing there mind. Arguing with each other and accusing me of sparking homophobia. Then I was hit with a permanent forum ban.
So you have to be careful what a simple thread can turn into. "
Having just seen your comments on the other thread I'm not surprised you were given a ban.
God only knows how you're still here right now. |
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