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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads
Without benefits i meant
I’m sure you could upgrade to the ‘with benefits’ package.
There are some special offers going "
Haha ok I’ll bear that in mind. You’re one of my lovely friends  |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
The right place |
"Loads
Without benefits i meant
I’m sure you could upgrade to the ‘with benefits’ package.
There are some special offers going
Haha ok I’ll bear that in mind. You’re one of my lovely friends "
As are you, beautiful!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually, I do have a few friends who I class as genuinely awesome good friends. Two of which have already posted on this thread, the other is one that I found on the forums in the first week that I joined fab in like May 2015. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah, not really. There’s a few I speak to more than others, but I wouldn’t say I have a ‘bestie’ off a fuck site. Just people I like chatting to and hope to see nekkid at some point in the near future! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, not really. There’s a few I speak to more than others, but I wouldn’t say I have a ‘bestie’ off a fuck site. Just people I like chatting to and hope to see nekkid at some point in the near future! "
That’s you crossed off my bestie list then  |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"I don't have a fab friend of any kind. Probably because I'm a cunt."
Your persistent negativity is like a force field around you.
If you change your perspective you'll change your luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, not really. There’s a few I speak to more than others, but I wouldn’t say I have a ‘bestie’ off a fuck site. Just people I like chatting to and hope to see nekkid at some point in the near future! "
Bet you have a few fwiends though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have a fab friend of any kind. Probably because I'm a cunt.
Your persistent negativity is like a force field around you.
If you change your perspective you'll change your luck."
Yet again, a forum smartarse confuses cause and effect.
The negativity is a result of the luck, not its cause. I wasn't miserable and bitter when I started out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of my best friends are people I've met through fab or through the clubs.
Met plenty of not so nice people along the way too but the gems make it all worthwhile |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"I don't have a fab friend of any kind. Probably because I'm a cunt.
Your persistent negativity is like a force field around you.
If you change your perspective you'll change your luck.
Yet again, a forum smartarse confuses cause and effect.
The negativity is a result of the luck, not its cause. I wasn't miserable and bitter when I started out. "
Not at all.
There's a negativity around virtually every post you make. People see it, especially on the forums which can be like a goldfish bowl.
You've had a bad run? Most blokes here do.
The successful guys ignore it and crack on.
You've got a potential invite to a social on another thread. Maybe take a chance, what's the worst that could happen?
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"I don't have a fab friend of any kind. Probably because I'm a cunt.
Your persistent negativity is like a force field around you.
If you change your perspective you'll change your luck.
Yet again, a forum smartarse confuses cause and effect.
The negativity is a result of the luck, not its cause. I wasn't miserable and bitter when I started out.
Not at all.
There's a negativity around virtually every post you make. People see it, especially on the forums which can be like a goldfish bowl.
You've had a bad run? Most blokes here do.
The successful guys ignore it and crack on.
You've got a potential invite to a social on another thread. Maybe take a chance, what's the worst that could happen?
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Wise words my little Fab friend.
Without benefits goddam it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have a fab friend of any kind. Probably because I'm a cunt.
Your persistent negativity is like a force field around you.
If you change your perspective you'll change your luck.
Yet again, a forum smartarse confuses cause and effect.
The negativity is a result of the luck, not its cause. I wasn't miserable and bitter when I started out.
Not at all.
There's a negativity around virtually every post you make. People see it, especially on the forums which can be like a goldfish bowl.
You've had a bad run? Most blokes here do.
The successful guys ignore it and crack on.
You've got a potential invite to a social on another thread. Maybe take a chance, what's the worst that could happen?
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A few corrections:
1) My volume of negative forum posts is nowhere near that high, they're just the only ones anyone notices. The level has gone ul recently because a) I'm under a particularl level of stress, b) I'm ill and c) I'm dealing with idiots.
2) This "bad run" as you call it has lasted 5 years in spite of my persistently jumping through every hoop and following every rule going.
3) As for a potential invite to a social, if it's like 95% of the socials I've been to I'll spend 3-4 hours being blanked by anyone I say hello to and physically shut out of any conversation I try to join, and then people who snubbed me will come on the forums to berate me for not saying hello to them. This is assuming it's not like the Valentine's Day social.I went to this year, where the berating and abuse started minutes after I arrived at the social itself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, not really. There’s a few I speak to more than others, but I wouldn’t say I have a ‘bestie’ off a fuck site. Just people I like chatting to and hope to see nekkid at some point in the near future!
That’s you crossed off my bestie list then "
Well *obviously* you’re my joint bestie, that goes without saying.. 
Can I see you nekkid at some point in the future? |
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"Nah, not really. There’s a few I speak to more than others, but I wouldn’t say I have a ‘bestie’ off a fuck site. Just people I like chatting to and hope to see nekkid at some point in the near future!
That’s you crossed off my bestie list then "
And mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, not really. There’s a few I speak to more than others, but I wouldn’t say I have a ‘bestie’ off a fuck site. Just people I like chatting to and hope to see nekkid at some point in the near future!
That’s you crossed off my bestie list then
And mine "
Well *obviously* you’re ANOTHER joint bestie, that also goes without saying .... 
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"Nah, not really. There’s a few I speak to more than others, but I wouldn’t say I have a ‘bestie’ off a fuck site. Just people I like chatting to and hope to see nekkid at some point in the near future!
That’s you crossed off my bestie list then
And mine
Well *obviously* you’re ANOTHER joint bestie, that also goes without saying ....
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Good save, good save! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few online Fab friends, people I like who seem to like me too. Only one of my friends list have I had any sexual contact with and that was over 4.5 years ago. I would not really consider any of them besties, but there are a couple that I feel closer to and know me better than others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have literally, one person on my friends list (you know who you are  ).....and we never talk. So no, I guess I don’t.
Ahhhhh tears building up after reading that.....
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I know, I had Sound of Silence playing as I typed it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have some acquaintances as I don't really do friends.
I have a friend with benefits I met on here about 18 months ago I meet quite regularly.
He's a darling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, not really. There’s a few I speak to more than others, but I wouldn’t say I have a ‘bestie’ off a fuck site. Just people I like chatting to and hope to see nekkid at some point in the near future!
Bet you have a few fwiends though "
Aww fwiends! Fab Fwiends! (I loved the Inbetweeners! Taken from us too soon!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few lovely friends that I'm not shagging but natter to.
I'd love a local friend to talk all things Fab but most Forumites are miles away and all other locals just want to have sex with me. |
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"I have literally, one person on my friends list (you know who you are ).....and we never talk. So no, I guess I don’t.
Ahhhhh tears building up after reading that.....
I know, I had Sound of Silence playing as I typed it. "
Don’t...I’m not wearing waterproof mascara and my violin is not with me today |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have literally, one person on my friends list (you know who you are ).....and we never talk. So no, I guess I don’t.
Ahhhhh tears building up after reading that.....
I know, I had Sound of Silence playing as I typed it.
Don’t...I’m not wearing waterproof mascara and my violin is not with me today "
...and my curtains were closed....with no lights on. |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
The right place |
"I have a few lovely friends that I'm not shagging but natter to.
I'd love a local friend to talk all things Fab but most Forumites are miles away and all other locals just want to have sex with me. "
To be fair, I can see why! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes mystique is my best mate we talk almost everyday without wanting to bang eachother
Completely. We just whinge about the ones we are banging "
Only joking, to those who have banged one of us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a very close friend that I speak to everyday without fail ... I can actually tell him anything.
It’s good to share this with someone who understands and never judges |
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"I don't have a fab friend of any kind. Probably because I'm a cunt.
Your persistent negativity is like a force field around you.
If you change your perspective you'll change your luck.
Yet again, a forum smartarse confuses cause and effect.
The negativity is a result of the luck, not its cause. I wasn't miserable and bitter when I started out.
Not at all.
There's a negativity around virtually every post you make. People see it, especially on the forums which can be like a goldfish bowl.
You've had a bad run? Most blokes here do.
The successful guys ignore it and crack on.
You've got a potential invite to a social on another thread. Maybe take a chance, what's the worst that could happen?
A few corrections:
1) My volume of negative forum posts is nowhere near that high, they're just the only ones anyone notices. The level has gone ul recently because a) I'm under a particularl level of stress, b) I'm ill and c) I'm dealing with idiots.
2) This "bad run" as you call it has lasted 5 years in spite of my persistently jumping through every hoop and following every rule going.
3) As for a potential invite to a social, if it's like 95% of the socials I've been to I'll spend 3-4 hours being blanked by anyone I say hello to and physically shut out of any conversation I try to join, and then people who snubbed me will come on the forums to berate me for not saying hello to them. This is assuming it's not like the Valentine's Day social.I went to this year, where the berating and abuse started minutes after I arrived at the social itself."
1) I can relate, stress can be a killer. Take care of yourself. Easier said than done admittedly. Your health will improve. Unless your dieing in which case it won't matter. Graveyard humour. Idiots. Again I can relate. They're often the bringer of stress.
2) Stop jumping through hoops. You're not a performing seal. The minute people want me to catch a fish in my mouth is the minute I can't be arsed. Compromise is OK, a meet has to be two way traffic.
3) If I do organise a social I'll let you know. Bring a smile and you'll get a warm welcome. How's that? |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
The right place |
"I have a very close friend that I speak to everyday without fail ... I can actually tell him anything.
It’s good to share this with someone who understands and never judges "
I have one like that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a very close friend that I speak to everyday without fail ... I can actually tell him anything.
It’s good to share this with someone who understands and never judges
I have one like that too "
I'm guessing you are speaking about each other? |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
The right place |
"I have a very close friend that I speak to everyday without fail ... I can actually tell him anything.
It’s good to share this with someone who understands and never judges
I have one like that too
I'm guessing you are speaking about each other? "
You are astute! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a very close friend that I speak to everyday without fail ... I can actually tell him anything.
It’s good to share this with someone who understands and never judges
I have one like that too
I'm guessing you are speaking about each other?
You are astute! "
I'm an observer |
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"I have a very close friend that I speak to everyday without fail ... I can actually tell him anything.
It’s good to share this with someone who understands and never judges
I have one like that too
I'm guessing you are speaking about each other?
You are astute! "
You two get a room.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes mystique is my best mate we talk almost everyday without wanting to bang eachother
Completely. We just whinge about the ones we are banging
Only joking, to those who have banged one of us
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Think I covered my arse well there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a very close friend that I speak to everyday without fail ... I can actually tell him anything.
It’s good to share this with someone who understands and never judges
I have one like that too
I'm guessing you are speaking about each other?
You are astute!
You two get a room..... "
We did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes mystique is my best mate we talk almost everyday without wanting to bang eachother
Completely. We just whinge about the ones we are banging
Only joking, to those who have banged one of us
Think I covered my arse well there "
never mind yours phew |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will also mention Licketysplits.
Perhaps not a 'bestie' we have a slightly odd relationship but she is awesome and has been absolutely wonderful."
She really is awesome.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have friends that I do have sex with from here and some that I don't.
Male and female, there are some lovely lovely people on here.
And Dan- it's not just a fuck site!!  |
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"Nah, not really. There’s a few I speak to more than others, but I wouldn’t say I have a ‘bestie’ off a fuck site. Just people I like chatting to and hope to see nekkid at some point in the near future! "
Not a hope in hell Danny boy |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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"I will also mention Licketysplits.
Perhaps not a 'bestie' we have a slightly odd relationship but she is awesome and has been absolutely wonderful.
She really is awesome. "
I third that!!! Also great at motor boating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have literally, one person on my friends list (you know who you are ).....and we never talk. So no, I guess I don’t.
I bet there's like 100 people all going "awww he's talking about meeeee!!" "
Yep. Making them all feel special, obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I'm fortunate that I have friends with benefits, and friends who are really good friends but without benefits.
Some I've been friends with for years. |
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Yes, I do. With and without the fucking.
I love them in an odd way.
