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How many people in the forums go to clubs
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat" I go to squash, tennis and occasionally art clubs |
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"
Never been to a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go clubs frequently. |
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We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"
I'd love to just don't have the confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat
Never been to a club." why not? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It has been known yes |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"
I don't go to clubs, but I'm not just here for chat either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never been. Would like to one day |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
Regularly as once or twice a month |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. " lots do only chat on here and never meet or have fun or go to clubs but I'm not bothered about what other people do I just wondered how many go to clubs in the forums
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope still waiting popping my cherry not rushing it tho
Will only consider it if im meeting someone there and wont go local so call me an awkward cunt but hey ho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chameleons for us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat
I'd love to just don't have the confidence " maybe one day you will have the confidence to go and it doesn't help all the rude people on here knocking people's confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. Not my thing at all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat
I'd love to just don't have the confidence " maybe one day you will have the confidence to go and it doesn't help all the rude people on here knocking people's confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never ever been. There’s only two in Scotland, they’re ages away from me, I wouldn’t want to go alone but have no one to go too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "
That’s all I use Fab for and I’m very happy |
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I prefer visiting clubs to private meets. These days I tend to use fab as a means of keeping in touch with people I've met at clubs rather than giving my phone number out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "
Each to their own..
Try not being so judgemental of why others use fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat
I'd love to just don't have the confidence
maybe one day you will have the confidence to go and it doesn't help all the rude people on here knocking people's confidence "
That's true |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
I prefer private meets to going to clubs. Unless I have arranged to meet someone at a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to clubs. Great for socialising aswell as other things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "
We must have such a sad life then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to the nearest club to me but I would love to travel to visit others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "
Lol!!! Maybe the ones who just like to chat think yours is the sad life. Just saying. Each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep VA mostly, don’t always play but it’s still always a great evening!
Highly recommend clubs for getting to know people in a like minded environment.
MrsK |
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I go ... mainly Townhouse but also like Cupid’s x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go as often as possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to go to clubs but not anymore. I think it's too risky. |
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"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for.
Each to their own..
Try not being so judgemental of why others use fab "
Agreed. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
Ive been to clubs. I don’t like the one that’s nearest to me though so I need a bit of planning to go out of town if I want to go to one. Usually well worth the effort though. I’ve been introduced to some lovely people in clubs and had a right laugh and a lot of fun. |
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Used to. As a single man from near your area OP we are well positioned for clubs and meets lots to do. |
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We go to clubs and have been a fair few over the years |
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I'm a bit shy of going to clubs as I work in the public sector and have this fear of bumping into someone that I've had dealings with in the course of my work. It might make things awkward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to go to clubs with my ex fwb. Haven't been for ages, new fwb isn't keen. |
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We go to clubs and have bumped into people we know irl over the years but hopefully no one you met would be judging you and vice versa, fab isn't something we use much for actually meeting new people anymore, we couldn't imagine fab being our only toe on this world we would have left long ago if that was the case. |
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I do clubs and am occasionally in the forum. I've always liked clubs for the no pressure social aspects and opportunities to play when things are right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve enjoyed going to clubs but I only like going as part of a couple. So until I find my plus one, I won’t go. |
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I go to a club several times a month. I love the fact that you don't know what the night will hold. This year I've been trying a few new ones. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
I'd love to go to more clubs but none local to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We regularly go to clubf and have been once to the attic. I read the forums a lot too (female) |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Clubs are great fun, meeting likeminded people in a sexually charged atmosphere, what’s not to like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not been to a club in about 10 years just getting back to the swing of it |
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No local clubs in my area whatsoever |
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"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "
You live your life and let others live theirs. Why come across so judgemental?
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We never used to until recently, but since visiting Le Boudoir in London last month, we're now hooked! Cant wait to head back there! |
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I used to eat Clubs as a child.
"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."
Who remembers that?
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"I used to eat Clubs as a child.
"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."
Who remembers that?
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Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to eat Clubs as a child.
"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."
Who remembers that?
Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on"
Orange ones . And uniteds and trios! |
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"I used to eat Clubs as a child.
"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."
Who remembers that?
Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on"
And why did the Milk ones have a playing card as a logo on the wrapper? It made no sense, lol |
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"And uniteds and trios!"
Both! Uniteds were brill. Scoffed them in huge quantities asa teenager and miss them dearly. Trios are back, yay!
What about Montegos, remember them? Not the failed project by British Leyland |
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I go to clubs and when I can be bothered I will meet others outside of clubs.
At the moment though I'm feeling the need for something more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs, great socially and always willing to take newbies in our little group |
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"I used to eat Clubs as a child.
"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."
Who remembers that?
Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on"
I like the orange ones and the raisin ones.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m going to try a club soon. Been told it’s worth a visit. |
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"I used to eat Clubs as a child.
"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."
Who remembers that?
Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on
Orange ones . And uniteds and trios!"
My grandad taught me how to make paper aeroplanes out of Trio wrappers.
"Trio, Triiiio, I want a Trio and I want one now" |
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I have been known to go to a club, didn't play with anyone other than my fwb though.
I also meet privately.
I'm also here to chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And uniteds and trios!
Both! Uniteds were brill. Scoffed them in huge quantities asa teenager and miss them dearly. Trios are back, yay!
What about Montegos, remember them? Not the failed project by British Leyland "
They are back but don’t taste the same . Bit like mars bars. Don’t remember them no. I must be too young |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to eat Clubs as a child.
"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."
Who remembers that?
Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on
I like the orange ones and the raisin ones.... "
Nooooo raisins are the devils food! |
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"
We are regular club goers, and aim to visit as many of them as possible.
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I've never been to one. Much prefer the intimacy of a one-to-one meet. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "
Each to their own. Maybe they have a regular group of friends. I do, and I use fab to keep in touch with them. Nobody else's business about how others run their profiles. Not for anyone else to judge is it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No don’t go to clubs but I also do more than chat. |
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"I used to eat Clubs as a child.
"If you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit join our club."
Who remembers that?
Easily... the Milk ones were the best in my opinion but they disappeared early on
I like the orange ones and the raisin ones....
Nooooo raisins are the devils food!"
I love oatmeal raisin cookies too, much prefer them to the chocolate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to, gave it up a while ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for. "
Chatrooms can be the only option for some. I've chatted to a housebound disabled lady and a lady with terminal cancer before.
I didn't know until much later but the private chatroom enabled them to be themselves and express their secuality without judgement.
The lady with cancer did die. Her partner messaged me to thank me for bringing her so much fun in her final weeks. I didn't know until then.
So let's not judge why people are here or how it can help them. Some people can't participate or lack confidence. For some it's a journey which might lead to meeting much later on. This must be good surely? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to go to clubs but not anymore. I think it's too risky. " what do you mean by too risky it's actually safer for ladies to meet at the club
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"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for.
Chatrooms can be the only option for some. I've chatted to a housebound disabled lady and a lady with terminal cancer before.
I didn't know until much later but the private chatroom enabled them to be themselves and express their secuality without judgement.
The lady with cancer did die. Her partner messaged me to thank me for bringing her so much fun in her final weeks. I didn't know until then.
So let's not judge why people are here or how it can help them. Some people can't participate or lack confidence. For some it's a journey which might lead to meeting much later on. This must be good surely? "
That's incredibly sad. |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
swingers clubs |
Regularly.
And different ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We use quest a bit, problem is we have to arrange a babysitter to go out, hence why we don’t do drop of the hat meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i went once ,,,,
so now i can safely say its not my thing... i prefer to pick my victims on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't been able to get to a club for ages .hoping to get to the new one nearish me when it opens but nit hikding my breath lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for.
Chatrooms can be the only option for some. I've chatted to a housebound disabled lady and a lady with terminal cancer before.
I didn't know until much later but the private chatroom enabled them to be themselves and express their secuality without judgement.
The lady with cancer did die. Her partner messaged me to thank me for bringing her so much fun in her final weeks. I didn't know until then.
So let's not judge why people are here or how it can help them. Some people can't participate or lack confidence. For some it's a journey which might lead to meeting much later on. This must be good surely?
That's incredibly sad."
Yes, but it also opened my eyes to the power and release that online chat for provide to those who can't physically participate for whatever reason. I felt quite privileged when I found out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet up, go to clubs and fuck other people, why be on fab just to chat??? That would be a really sad life if that's all you used fab for.
Chatrooms can be the only option for some. I've chatted to a housebound disabled lady and a lady with terminal cancer before.
I didn't know until much later but the private chatroom enabled them to be themselves and express their secuality without judgement.
The lady with cancer did die. Her partner messaged me to thank me for bringing her so much fun in her final weeks. I didn't know until then.
So let's not judge why people are here or how it can help them. Some people can't participate or lack confidence. For some it's a journey which might lead to meeting much later on. This must be good surely? "
That’s so sad but also so lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to go to clubs but not anymore. I think it's too risky. what do you mean by too risky it's actually safer for ladies to meet at the club "
Meeting someone I know. STI's. Safety reasons - both inside and outside the club. People with cameras posting pics from clubs online. Aggressive people. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
"Regularly as once or twice a month "
Tbh if there was a club in London whose opening times were better I would go more regularly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haven't been able to get to a club for ages .hoping to get to the new one nearish me when it opens but not holding my breath lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Il only go if i know iv got someone to do im not standing in a corter rubbing my pecker thats for sure |
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I’ve been to several, and as my forum ‘green arrow’ will show, it’s been an interesting journey for me. Private meets from Fab (including via the forum) have been far more successful for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun"
I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other. I know more people that go to Le Boudoir and always have a good time. I have yet to use my membership. Rios was a little seedy for me. I didn’t stay longer than 1 hour both times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Il only go if i know iv got someone to do im not standing in a corter rubbing my pecker thats for sure"
Hahaha you proper crack me up |
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We do clubs, private parties and organise parties our selves. |
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I’m a regular at Libs when I’m not working away and try to go to others. I go as a single woman. |
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"
No other way to meet for us. Too many wasters. Mrs used to go alone as a single fem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve enjoyed going to clubs but I only like going as part of a couple. So until I find my plus one, I won’t go."
I much preferred going with a partner. |
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Joined one, went in had the tour and one drink. Decided it wasn't for us,I suppose different clubs will have varying atmosphere but not sure we will try another just yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve enjoyed going to clubs but I only like going as part of a couple. So until I find my plus one, I won’t go.
I much preferred going with a partner. "
It’s more fun. I find sex one on one with strangers quite empty but with a partner in tow it makes it more exciting. I like watching him with others and him watching me. It’s nice to have fun with your partner and being watched. That’s the ultimate turn on for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s one about 20 mins away from me. Heard it’s supposed to be good. A friend has been. Not my thing though so I don’t know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we go to our local club a lot. Last time we went a member of staff said you might as well fetch your beds lol. We don't always play it's the atmosphere and the facilities that make a place as well as the people. Nothing better than having a Jacuzzi or steam naked is there |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun
I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other."
OP4F is certainly friendly but would agree on the other comments - both times I've been that was pretty much the case too - that said I think it suffers from its late opening hours - it's been virtually empty till around midnight both times I went. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun
I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other.
OP4F is certainly friendly but would agree on the other comments - both times I've been that was pretty much the case too - that said I think it suffers from its late opening hours - it's been virtually empty till around midnight both times I went."
Yeah, it was pretty empty both times I went until much later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only meet at clubs now...or go to organised socials... When we first started we would go to socials around the country and met loads of likeminded people.. then we had house parties... We found trying to arrange meets with males/couples from fabs we were often let down or people were not matching the profiles... At least going to clubs and socials people are real...
We look at it just like a vanilla night out... if you stress or look to much into it its not an enjoyable experience... just go with the flow … We have been on the scene for over 10 years now so we definately have learnt over time.... |
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Visit the New Paradise club in Zouch from time to time. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"I go clubs frequently. "
I find it's the best way to ACTUALLY meet people rather then dry humping my phone on the off chance you may bond over a txt messages. |
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"We only meet at clubs now...or go to organised socials... When we first started we would go to socials around the country and met loads of likeminded people.. then we had house parties... We found trying to arrange meets with males/couples from fabs we were often let down or people were not matching the profiles... At least going to clubs and socials people are real...
We look at it just like a vanilla night out... if you stress or look to much into it its not an enjoyable experience... just go with the flow … We have been on the scene for over 10 years now so we definately have learnt over time...."
This is pretty much the same for us... been going to clubs for over 10 years now and prefer a club night over anything else... must have been to over 25 different clubs in the Uk alone... |
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over a year ago
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I go to clubs as often as time allows. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I go as often as possible " how come you can comment on
My topic you have blocked me I thought if you block someone you can't message or comment In forum |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun
I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other.
OP4F is certainly friendly but would agree on the other comments - both times I've been that was pretty much the case too - that said I think it suffers from its late opening hours - it's been virtually empty till around midnight both times I went.
Yeah, it was pretty empty both times I went until much later." . I have been on a Tuesday , Thursday and Friday and I prefer a Friday night that said from a personal point of view if it opened at 8.00 pm or 9.00 pm would be better for me but I understand and respect you can’t please everyone but overall it’s a nice club not far from where I live. |
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"I go as often as possible how come you can comment on
My topic you have blocked me I thought if you block someone you can't message or comment In forum "
Forums is different blocked people can still see your posts |
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over a year ago
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I go to clubs as often as time and finances permit. A much more reliable way of meeting people in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun
I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other.
OP4F is certainly friendly but would agree on the other comments - both times I've been that was pretty much the case too - that said I think it suffers from its late opening hours - it's been virtually empty till around midnight both times I went.
Yeah, it was pretty empty both times I went until much later.. I have been on a Tuesday , Thursday and Friday and I prefer a Friday night that said from a personal point of view if it opened at 8.00 pm or 9.00 pm would be better for me but I understand and respect you can’t please everyone but overall it’s a nice club not far from where I live."
I’ve only been on Saturday nights. It was a good starting place for me but think Le Boudoir would be more my thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I go as often as possible how come you can comment on
My topic you have blocked me I thought if you block someone you can't message or comment In forum
Forums is different blocked people can still see your posts " thankyoi I wondered why |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve enjoyed going to clubs but I only like going as part of a couple. So until I find my plus one, I won’t go.
I much preferred going with a partner.
It’s more fun. I find sex one on one with strangers quite empty but with a partner in tow it makes it more exciting. I like watching him with others and him watching me. It’s nice to have fun with your partner and being watched. That’s the ultimate turn on for me."
I think that what you describe is the 'soul' of swinging. It's the ultimate trust and sharing experience. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"I go to OP4F and I will be applying for membership at Le Boudoir as the reviews are fabulous.Not a club but Rios spa can be fun
I’ve been to OP4F and the people were friendly but I didn’t see many I would play with, lucky me and my partner at the time had fun with each other.
OP4F is certainly friendly but would agree on the other comments - both times I've been that was pretty much the case too - that said I think it suffers from its late opening hours - it's been virtually empty till around midnight both times I went.
Yeah, it was pretty empty both times I went until much later.. I have been on a Tuesday , Thursday and Friday and I prefer a Friday night that said from a personal point of view if it opened at 8.00 pm or 9.00 pm would be better for me but I understand and respect you can’t please everyone but overall it’s a nice club not far from where I live.
I’ve only been on Saturday nights. It was a good starting place for me but think Le Boudoir would be more my thing. " . Well I like I said the reviews of Le Boudoir are fabulous and I will be applying for membership we are rather limited in London for clubs |
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"We only meet at clubs now...or go to organised socials... When we first started we would go to socials around the country and met loads of likeminded people.. then we had house parties... We found trying to arrange meets with males/couples from fabs we were often let down or people were not matching the profiles... At least going to clubs and socials people are real...
We look at it just like a vanilla night out... if you stress or look to much into it its not an enjoyable experience... just go with the flow … We have been on the scene for over 10 years now so we definately have learnt over time....
This is pretty much the same for us... been going to clubs for over 10 years now and prefer a club night over anything else... must have been to over 25 different clubs in the Uk alone..."
Lol we need to visit more!!! glad we are not the only ones x |
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over a year ago
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I was fortunate enough to have my first club visit earlier this year. It was a brilliant experience, in no small part to having an awesome fab friend to hold my hand for my first time there. And I'm very much looking forward to the next occasion |
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over a year ago
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Yes I've been to VA, Jaydees , Eurekas , Arousals , Op4 |
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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago
London |
I have never been to a club but am
Thinking about paying a visit to Ourplace4fun as its not far from me in London but only if membership application is successful. Has got very good reviews and should go at least once to see if like it. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Yes we go to Clubs, we were at one on Friday night. We also meet people for socials and fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I'm not interested in the club scene |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always.
Wouldn’t waste my time arranging meets of Fab. Just go to the club and meet lots of people instead. Social side is pretty good too. |
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Went on NYE, it wasn't really for me but plenty of others had fun.
I'm too vanilla |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another club attendee here. |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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I go with my fwb. Wouldn't have the confidence to go on my own but have had some great fun in clubs. Think you have to find one that works for you as they can all be very different |
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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago
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I have been a couple of times but I'm a wallflower being a little shy |
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over a year ago
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"Il only go if i know iv got someone to do im not standing in a corter rubbing my pecker thats for sure
Hahaha you proper crack me up "
Thats because your too far away for me to put you back together again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve enjoyed going to clubs but I only like going as part of a couple. So until I find my plus one, I won’t go."
Can definitely understand that.
We go at least weekly. |
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We’ve been but not recently due to illness
B x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not yet but maybe something for the future x |
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Love going to clubs, I feel like I can let loose and let out my kinker and naughtier side there!! I don't play with women just men and to see them line up, oh I'd be in my element!! Jez kinda horny now after thinking about it
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We’ve been once, loved it and looking forward to having the time to go again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been a few times, I enjoyed the social side as much as anything. I went with my last partner,enjoyed going with a group of girlfriends too. It’s cheap and to me, felt safer than a normal nightclub. |
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over a year ago
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We love clubs |
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I love going to clubs it's where I meet my private meets |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I do and the best one I went to was fun times in london few years ago. I give jenny the owner 10/10 |
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We try to when we can, but because we prefer to travel south of the border it’s not as often as we would like |
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"Always.
Wouldn’t waste my time arranging meets of Fab. Just go to the club and meet lots of people instead. Social side is pretty good too. "
Hahaha! You and I are polar opposites! I’m still waiting to get wet btw |
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We get to a club whenever we can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im gonna try next monday i think
If i can book it off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet at clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"
We do clubs, Rios etc as the mood takes us.. |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve been a few times, I enjoyed the social side as much as anything. I went with my last partner,enjoyed going with a group of girlfriends too. It’s cheap and to me, felt safer than a normal nightclub. " Well you're more relaxed because you basically already know everyone wants to get in your knickers that you're probably not wearing
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat"
Forums for the chat, club most weekends, either Friday or Saturday, depending on what I'm doing Saturday or Sunday.
I CBA to message anyone about a meet these days, bit of a waste of time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat
Forums for the chat, club most weekends, either Friday or Saturday, depending on what I'm doing Saturday or Sunday.
I CBA to message anyone about a meet these days, bit of a waste of time." What club do you go to if that's an acceptable question? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy clubs on the right night with the right people. Not often, maybe once every couple of months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy clubs on the right night with the right people. Not often, maybe once every couple of months. " do you wear flats?
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat
Forums for the chat, club most weekends, either Friday or Saturday, depending on what I'm doing Saturday or Sunday.
I CBA to message anyone about a meet these days, bit of a waste of time.
What club do you go to if that's an acceptable question? "
Just PMd you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does many people go to clubs who use forums or is it mainly chat
Forums for the chat, club most weekends, either Friday or Saturday, depending on what I'm doing Saturday or Sunday.
I CBA to message anyone about a meet these days, bit of a waste of time.
What club do you go to if that's an acceptable question?
Just PMd you. " got it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would love to go to clubs but I am only around in the daytime
Does anyone know of any regular daytime events in the Essex area |
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We do, but generally our meets are from here, rather someone in a club. We have very little success in clubs, but are happy enough just being there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do, but generally our meets are from here, rather someone in a club. We have very little success in clubs, but are happy enough just being there. " why little success?
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I also go to the rugby club most weekends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to go to clubs frequently, at kwasr once a month. Still do occasionally but now it's every few months at most |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also go to the rugby club most weekends " do you scrum
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum"
I’m not that forward! |
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"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum
I’m not that forward!"
Do you “prop” up the bar |
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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago
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Broke our club cherry the other week - both absolutely loved it, now planning a tour of the countries clubs! |
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over a year ago
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"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum
I’m not that forward!" It's an up and under |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum
I’m not that forward!
Do you “prop” up the bar "
That’s more my style, although I’m often seen with hookers. |
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We go to Clubs as many weekends as we can, love it xx |
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"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum
I’m not that forward!
Do you “prop” up the bar
That’s more my style, although I’m often seen with hookers. "
At least your balls are the right shape |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We go to Clubs as many weekends as we can, love it xx" why?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum
I’m not that forward!
Do you “prop” up the bar
That’s more my style, although I’m often seen with hookers.
At least your balls are the right shape " have you seen em? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum
I’m not that forward!
Do you “prop” up the bar
That’s more my style, although I’m often seen with hookers.
At least your balls are the right shape " have you seen em?they could be oval |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to clubs. I don't meet often but I love clubs, I mainly go do socialise if I'm honest. I'm a soft play only person in clubs if I do play and I'm mainly there to meet the ladies - which is much easier to do in clubs than on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I also go to the rugby club most weekends do you scrum
I’m not that forward!
Do you “prop” up the bar
That’s more my style, although I’m often seen with hookers.
At least your balls are the right shape " I to like to meet ladies in clubs oh my |
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