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By *nsatiable_nymph OP Woman over a year ago

Somewhere down south

Do you meet fellow swingers who live in your home town? Or do you have a minimum distance set in your head?

Has it caused you any issues? Or is it something you avoid at all costs?

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By *imale38Man over a year ago

Barnsley

I’d prefer to meet closer to home. Easier to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d prefer to meet closer to home. Easier to meet. "

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco. "

I do, I want bent over the bakery section and fucked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our preference is for at least 10 miles away. It’s not a cast iron rule though if we found somebody we both liked and they felt the same about us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you meet fellow swingers who live in your home town? Or do you have a minimum distance set in your head?

Has it caused you any issues? Or is it something you avoid at all costs?"
as I only meet at clubs it makes no difference to me where someone is

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By *eeBee67Man over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Closer to home for a regular thing, but not on my street

Away for work a fair bit so wouldn't mind an away play day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I enjoy close, but have LC 5 mins away, really fun having a FAB member on mobile half a mile away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't meet locally. Too small a town where every swinger has fucked each other. No thanks!

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco.

I do, I want bent over the bakery section and fucked "

Haha excellent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco.

I do, I want bent over the bakery section and fucked "

Careful... that’s how you get a bun in the oven !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you meet fellow swingers who live in your home town? Or do you have a minimum distance set in your head?

Has it caused you any issues? Or is it something you avoid at all costs?"

It's never been an issue for me, and I can't deny it makes a lovely change not having to travel

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

My fwb is about 250 miles away, meets are never local anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There’s also no one near me for at least seven miles so it’s all good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco.

I do, I want bent over the bakery section and fucked "

And most Tesco are 24/7 opening these days...bonus

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco.

I do, I want bent over the bakery section and fucked

And most Tesco are 24/7 opening these days...bonus

Meet me at Tesco at 3.07am for a good bang

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I did meet a couple socially that lives round the corner

I tend to meet people in Manchester. I can’t rememebr when I met someone locally or even in London

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By *eeBee67Man over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco.

I do, I want bent over the bakery section and fucked

And most Tesco are 24/7 opening these days...bonus

Meet me at Tesco at 3.07am for a good bang"

Seen that written in the gents

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco.

I do, I want bent over the bakery section and fucked

And most Tesco are 24/7 opening these days...bonus

Meet me at Tesco at 3.07am for a good bang

Seen that written in the gents

It was me, was smuggled in there for a good bang

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By *arehamMan over a year ago

handforth

Met a lady on the same street it nice too only walk two minutes from my flat.

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By *eeBee67Man over a year ago

Masked and Distant

[Removed by poster at 26/08/18 15:22:21]

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco.

I do, I want bent over the bakery section and fucked

And most Tesco are 24/7 opening these days...bonus

Meet me at Tesco at 3.07am for a good bang"

Thing is I know 270 miles drive would be worth it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would prefer it if they live in the same town as it would be easier to get there and to get home

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By *eeBee67Man over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco.

I do, I want bent over the bakery section and fucked

And most Tesco are 24/7 opening these days...bonus

Meet me at Tesco at 3.07am for a good bang

Seen that written in the gents

It was me, was smuggled in there for a good bang"

Damn, I knew I should have written down the mobile number

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

A bit of distance is good. Meeting someone locally is convenient but it troubles me that I might bump into them when I’m out and about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive met someone who lives one street away slightly awkward but gonna meet again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We would like to meet a local couple, only had issue with one single man but otherwise it’s not a problem. But usually everyone I want to meet is miles away x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco. "

This for me too

Swap Tesco for Sainsburys though...

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco.

This for me too

Swap Tesco for Sainsburys though...

M and S for me - I am posh

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple over a year ago

Manchester

We dont mind meeting locals, ok there is a chance you may bump into them again whilst out shopping but were all adults so dont really see an issue

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By *an_LexaCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

I never meet guys from my home town, it’s one of the few things I have in capital letters on my profile and one of the things that guarantees someone’s not read the profile.

Will never happen.

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I don't mind eitherway and in truth can see the house of one guy I fucked from my living room window!! Lol

As long as they don't know friends of mine and am confident they aren't about to tell the world.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's the ones I haven't met or don't want to meet who recognise me that cause the problems.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There was one i used to meet locally. But we built up a friendship as well as an fwb relationship. I'd happily chat, if i saw him out and about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes i dont meet anyone where my kids live

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's the ones I haven't met or don't want to meet who recognise me that cause the problems. "

Yep! Same for me

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"I wouldn’t want to meet anyone within 15 miles.

I don’t want to be bumping into them in Tesco.

I do, I want bent over the bakery section and fucked "
careful, you might get a bun in the oven...

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Years ago,before i met jack ,I used to meet someone ten mins away.

Never had any issues .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Went 80 miles to a club, ended up playing with a couple who live in the next street to us. But it was all good, nobody had to move

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t mind meeting someone who is close to me! Aslong as they understand the importance of discretion.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It's the ones I haven't met or don't want to meet who recognise me that cause the problems.

Yep! Same for me

The ones I have met have turned out to be good friends outside of fab too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to meet fairly local as I'm quite spontaneous. If I fancy a bit of Kinky fuckery one day and I'm looking, there is little point having a friends list full of people who are miles away, unless they have a tardis.

I struggle to plan, so local works for me better.

There is a guy in my gym who has sussed out I'm on here, as is he. He's a mile away

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I prefer a good 10 or 15 mile distance, I live in a small town so I'd rather avoid anyone too local.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like to meet fairly local as I'm quite spontaneous. If I fancy a bit of Kinky fuckery one day and I'm looking, there is little point having a friends list full of people who are miles away, unless they have a tardis.

I struggle to plan, so local works for me better.

There is a guy in my gym who has sussed out I'm on here, as is he. He's a mile away

"
local druid or 2 eh

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By *ymaleMan over a year ago

nr Bradford

Difficult one when you don't live in a city, as discretion matters for various reasons. I'd certainly have reservations.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thete is a sweet spot, but there doesn't appear to be many in mine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well...last night I went out of town to a sex club and walked in in my lingerie only to see my next door neighbour sat staring at me in a towel...OH FUCK! I laughed and he ran off.......awkward pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would prefer it if they live in the same town as it would be easier to get there and to get home

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I try to leave some distance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well...last night I went out of town to a sex club and walked in in my lingerie only to see my next door neighbour sat staring at me in a towel...OH FUCK! I laughed and he ran off.......awkward pmsl "

Just a bit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you meet fellow swingers who live in your home town? Or do you have a minimum distance set in your head?

Has it caused you any issues? Or is it something you avoid at all costs?"

Could be our neighbors as long as we don't know them from anywhere else. Might just as well since island is so small anyway

If we were to meet them elsewhere after we'd just nod polite hello or have a non-swinging related small talk so not to give anything away to potential eavesdroppers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

30mins drive from me, I'd go further if they really have what I want though

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