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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has their own insecurities
Mine is my back (bad acne scars)
Lou’s is her mum tum
Do people judge you on these? Probably some do, but only the shallow ones that aren’t worth meeting anyways 
That’s the way I see it anyway
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I'm exactly the same as you, in my experience so far men see the positive bits and if they do notice then the certainly don't say anything or get turned off by it. I just think sod it and get it out anyway, I think confidence is sexier than a perfect body - not that I'd mind one of those . |
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Looked at your pics darling - gorgeous.
I have found that they look at the full picture.
Being female I find a woman that is comfortable within herself is the most sexy thing ever.
Psyche x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm exactly the same as you, in my experience so far men see the positive bits and if they do notice then the certainly don't say anything or get turned off by it. I just think sod it and get it out anyway, I think confidence is sexier than a perfect body - not that I'd mind one of those ."
It’s strange as I’m very confident sexually yet lately it’s totally getting me down and made my mojo go south.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
The first thing I look at on a woman is the teeth no idea why then I look at the overall shape and hips I think it’s hard wired in our brains to do that I never look at some ones tum it’s not important and if any man turns you down for it they are just shallow and need to look in the mirror |
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
You're over thinking things, unless you wanted to tell everyone you're a size 10 
Women are meant to be curvy, including a bit of tummy. If it helps I was the same, but it turned out my tummy was bloat. I was eventually diagnosed with coeliac disease 20 years later  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?
You're over thinking things, unless you wanted to tell everyone you're a size 10
Women are meant to be curvy, including a bit of tummy. If it helps I was the same, but it turned out my tummy was bloat. I was eventually diagnosed with coeliac disease 20 years later "
I’m not a size ten as my profile says, I was saying even when I was a size ten I still had an over hang. I do love my curves just my stomach makes me feel less sexy sometimes |
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When I started meeting on here I was convinced guys were going to look at my thighs and laugh me out of the bedroom, and/ or be disgusted. I actually started wearing swing dresses to hide my thighs (which are one of my bigger features whatever size I am, have been since I was a little girl). I used to hide the flinch, cringe, or even tears of shame when someone touched them.
I've worked out that they're actually pretty normal and that people like them. With support and work on my self-confidence, I'm OK with them now, and enjoy having them touched. They're not my favourite feature, but I've found my fears were overblown. I bet you will too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?
The first thing I look at on a woman is the teeth no idea why then I look at the overall shape and hips I think it’s hard wired in our brains to do that I never look at some ones tum it’s not important and if any man turns you down for it they are just shallow and need to look in the mirror "
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"I’m not a size ten as my profile says, I was saying even when I was a size ten I still had an over hang. I do love my curves just my stomach makes me feel less sexy sometimes "
I was being silly
Ignore it, the men do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When I started meeting on here I was convinced guys were going to look at my thighs and laugh me out of the bedroom, and/ or be disgusted. I actually started wearing swing dresses to hide my thighs (which are one of my bigger features whatever size I am, have been since I was a little girl). I used to hide the flinch, cringe, or even tears of shame when someone touched them.
I've worked out that they're actually pretty normal and that people like them. With support and work on my self-confidence, I'm OK with them now, and enjoy having them touched. They're not my favourite feature, but I've found my fears were overblown. I bet you will too. "
I would swap my legs any day to have a flat stomach, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a bloke I have the same insecurities, would love to be slimmer as I am definitely over weight by 2stone. Need to get off my arse and stop eating chocolate.
Dad bods rock??"
Myself I always look at facial attraction and then it’s personality and lifestyle for mental compatibility if you get me. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a very jelly belly, but that's because I've had 4 kids.
I'm learning to accept,
it is what it is now.
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I’m learning to accept it, very slowly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think that most people have some form of a ‘tum’ from one reason or another, I mean I have a little bit of one even though I’m toned, athletic and training for a marathon!
It’s just how your body is and where you body puts its stuff.
Don’t let it get you down, you look stunning in your pictures |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think that most people have some form of a ‘tum’ from one reason or another, I mean I have a little bit of one even though I’m toned, athletic and training for a marathon!
It’s just how your body is and where you body puts its stuff.
Don’t let it get you down, you look stunning in your pictures "
Good luck with the marathon, I’ve done a half. X |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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I find it quite sad that so many beautiful women feel insecure about their bodies. I'm not sure how society can change to avoid these worries, the first step needs to come from the individual I guess. Learn to love yourself, not so much that you become self obsessed, just enough to be able to say " Hey, this is me, I'm ok".
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
You look amazing! xx |
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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself
down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
You have just described me to an absolute T. I drive my husband mad about it and am constantly putting myself down about it x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Never once been put off by a ladys stomach its the attitude lack of personality puts me off but i cant talk for everyone tho"
That’s the thing I was wandering as I can look at a guy and think he’s visually very attractive yet then if he’s a dick he becomes automatically unattractive to me. Do you men look at the bigger picture ? I’m talking dating wise here not just for sex, as that’s different parameters I’d guess |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself
down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?
You have just described me to an absolute T. I drive my husband mad about it and am constantly putting myself down about it x "
You have a flat stomach believe me, pics are beautiful x |
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We all have our hang ups about oir bodies, it's not just women, men have them too.
I have an awful mummy tummy and stretch marks. I don't take any photos of me full frontal for that reason. I worried when we first joined fabs that guys wouldn't want to meet me.... How wrong was I?? It does still bother me, if guys don't like it I wear lingerie that covers my stomach. My boobs more than make up for it and men seem to be so mesmerised by them they don't notice my tummy!
I'm nearly 50 and I work hard in the gym 4-5 times a week so I think I'm entitled to say 'fuck it! It ain't going to get any better than this'.
You lool gorgeous in your pics is all I'm going to say..... |
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"...Do you men look at the bigger picture ? I’m talking dating wise here not just for sex, as that’s different parameters I’d guess
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Of course we do. Let's be frank, there's not one of us on here that's perfect.
We all have things we don't like about ourselves.
However, what I have learned over the years, is that these "flaws" stand out only in our own heads. Most people you meet probably don't even notice.
Personally I love a that womanly bulge of tummy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A nice smile and a bubbly personality do it for me. No one is the perfect physical animal so don't put yourself under pressure to be. You look mighty fine to me in your pics. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being female I find a woman that is comfortable within herself is the most sexy thing ever
This 100%, couldnt agree more"
I know I’m my mind that being confident is sexy regardless, yet lately it’s a big mind block for me |
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"I'm exactly the same as you, in my experience so far men see the positive bits and if they do notice then the certainly don't say anything or get turned off by it. I just think sod it and get it out anyway, I think confidence is sexier than a perfect body - not that I'd mind one of those .
It’s strange as I’m very confident sexually yet lately it’s totally getting me down and made my mojo go south. "
Totally with you!!! It make you feel like shit....I’m confident day to day but find myself looking at the pics of women who have verified a guy that wants to meet us, and if she’s slim and has a flat tummy I delete them as feel I can’t match up and why would they want to come near me/is when they’ve had someone so stunning!!
It’s not nice, but it’s nice to hear that others feel the same!!
Your gorgeous, but you’ve got to feel that from the inside!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never once been put off by a ladys stomach its the attitude lack of personality puts me off but i cant talk for everyone tho
That’s the thing I was wandering as I can look at a guy and think he’s visually very attractive yet then if he’s a dick he becomes automatically unattractive to me. Do you men look at the bigger picture ? I’m talking dating wise here not just for sex, as that’s different parameters I’d guess "
I always look at the bigger picture around attraction, find that personality and intelligence are as sexy as looks, I think you look absolutely fantastic by the way |
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
Obviously not a man (at least I think it's obvious  ) but I think you are over thinking a bit.
We all have bits of our bodies we are insecure about but truthfully not many others take a blind bit of notice. |
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"When I started meeting on here I was convinced guys were going to look at my thighs and laugh me out of the bedroom, and/ or be disgusted. I actually started wearing swing dresses to hide my thighs (which are one of my bigger features whatever size I am, have been since I was a little girl). I used to hide the flinch, cringe, or even tears of shame when someone touched them.
I've worked out that they're actually pretty normal and that people like them. With support and work on my self-confidence, I'm OK with them now, and enjoy having them touched. They're not my favourite feature, but I've found my fears were overblown. I bet you will too.
I would swap my legs any day to have a flat stomach, "
I don't have a flat stomach either. I do OK. People will appreciate you for you, I promise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I understand completely how you feel as I’m the same, but every meet I’ve had no one has ever looked at my stomach and I’ve never had any negative comments about it. I think it’s just one of those things we see if ourselves that we don’t like but everyone else looks at us as a whole and not just our stomach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're overthinking things. We all have bits we don't like and nobody is perfect. "
I wish all I had to worry about was not having a flat stomach... that's way down on my list of things I dislike about my body. Meh. I'm not letting it get to me. No one else gives a damn |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm exactly the same as you, in my experience so far men see the positive bits and if they do notice then the certainly don't say anything or get turned off by it. I just think sod it and get it out anyway, I think confidence is sexier than a perfect body - not that I'd mind one of those .
It’s strange as I’m very confident sexually yet lately it’s totally getting me down and made my mojo go south.
Totally with you!!! It make you feel like shit....I’m confident day to day but find myself looking at the pics of women who have verified a guy that wants to meet us, and if she’s slim and has a flat tummy I delete them as feel I can’t match up and why would they want to come near me/is when they’ve had someone so stunning!!
It’s not nice, but it’s nice to hear that others feel the same!!
Your gorgeous, but you’ve got to feel that from the inside!! X"
I’m guilty of the looking at Veris thing to and if they are all very slim and petite I don’t reply. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You're overthinking things. We all have bits we don't like and nobody is perfect.
I wish all I had to worry about was not having a flat stomach... that's way down on my list of things I dislike about my body. Meh. I'm not letting it get to me. No one else gives a damn"
Oh believe me I have many bigger things to worry about also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Totally with you on this OP (though I’d happily swap bodies if you want to). Tummy paranoia can literally ruin a good bonk for me if I let the thoughts creep in. It wobbles like a mad jelly when I’m on my back, it pools like a puddle of ooze when I’m on my side, it hangs like an old cat’s tummy when I’m on my knees and with me on top I literally have to put my brain somewhere else as I know it just looks gross.
I mainly try to distract with my boobs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally with you on this OP (though I’d happily swap bodies if you want to). Tummy paranoia can literally ruin a good bonk for me if I let the thoughts creep in. It wobbles like a mad jelly when I’m on my back, it pools like a puddle of ooze when I’m on my side, it hangs like an old cat’s tummy when I’m on my knees and with me on top I literally have to put my brain somewhere else as I know it just looks gross.
I mainly try to distract with my boobs "
It’s working ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Totally with you on this OP (though I’d happily swap bodies if you want to). Tummy paranoia can literally ruin a good bonk for me if I let the thoughts creep in. It wobbles like a mad jelly when I’m on my back, it pools like a puddle of ooze when I’m on my side, it hangs like an old cat’s tummy when I’m on my knees and with me on top I literally have to put my brain somewhere else as I know it just looks gross.
I mainly try to distract with my boobs "
Don’t even go there with me being on top I’d have to blindfold him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally with you on this OP (though I’d happily swap bodies if you want to). Tummy paranoia can literally ruin a good bonk for me if I let the thoughts creep in. It wobbles like a mad jelly when I’m on my back, it pools like a puddle of ooze when I’m on my side, it hangs like an old cat’s tummy when I’m on my knees and with me on top I literally have to put my brain somewhere else as I know it just looks gross.
I mainly try to distract with my boobs "
I wish I could distract with my bloody boobs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have a mum tum and stretch marks and I've never been bloody pregnant 
Own it OP. "
You look beautiful, as a woman I look past certain parts and look at the whole picture and wobbly bits don’t bother me. I look at other woman and think even “OMG she’s got a bit of a tum BUT she’s taller and dresses more elegantly or she has bigger boobs to carry it off” if that makes sense |
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"Never once been put off by a ladys stomach its the attitude lack of personality puts me off but i cant talk for everyone tho
That’s the thing I was wandering as I can look at a guy and think he’s visually very attractive yet then if he’s a dick he becomes automatically unattractive to me. Do you men look at the bigger picture ? I’m talking dating wise here not just for sex, as that’s different parameters I’d guess "
I mean i take people as i find them everyone has a flaw bit that flaw doesnt make the package
If im happy how i get allong with them and theres chemestry in how we interact and flirt the phisical features become secondary to me anyway but im not everyone |
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"Never once been put off by a ladys stomach its the attitude lack of personality puts me off but i cant talk for everyone tho
That’s the thing I was wandering as I can look at a guy and think he’s visually very attractive yet then if he’s a dick he becomes automatically unattractive to me. Do you men look at the bigger picture ? I’m talking dating wise here not just for sex, as that’s different parameters I’d guess
I mean i take people as i find them everyone has a flaw bit that flaw doesnt make the package
If im happy how i get allong with them and theres chemestry in how we interact and flirt the phisical features become secondary to me anyway but im not everyone"
That’s how I think.  |
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Ive never compared myself to someone else. No man has ever met me expecting me to have a flat stomach. Yes there are those looking for perfection in someone in my experience these people are not as common as you think |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I am exactly the same! I wear a size six, but for the last year the dreaded middle aged spread has happened and a pot belly as appeared which I bloody hate!
No idea how to sort it, but I haven't been naked with someone else for about 18 months, mainly due to stress and other stuff, so no idea how I would feel if I do meet someone and want to have sex with them  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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It depends on your build - mine sticks out a bit even when my abs are visible. There's nothing you can do about your genetics in that regard.
You can, of course flatten your stomach as much as your genetics will let you with diet and excercise. It's just whether you want to or not. I personally don't mind the effort, but some will day you should accept yourself as you are etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a mum tum and stretch marks and I've never been bloody pregnant
Own it OP.
You look beautiful, as a woman I look past certain parts and look at the whole picture and wobbly bits don’t bother me. I look at other woman and think even “OMG she’s got a bit of a tum BUT she’s taller and dresses more elegantly or she has bigger boobs to carry it off” if that makes sense "
Thank you
I get that. My limbs are slim, but I have curvy hips, a butt, a tummy but my boobs are b cups and they're not gonna get bigger on their own. The first man who ever saw me naked told me that I looked really out of proportion, which did suck quite a bit!
But if I did have bigger boobs it would even my chubbiness out a bit so I know what you mean. |
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By *tatMan
over a year ago
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I believe women see much more flaws in themselves than a man would care to see. A lot of self doubt is due to a stereotype imposed by media more than an actual "real man" comment or preference.
Me I prefer by far curvier women! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am exactly the same! I wear a size six, but for the last year the dreaded middle aged spread has happened and a pot belly as appeared which I bloody hate!
No idea how to sort it, but I haven't been naked with someone else for about 18 months, mainly due to stress and other stuff, so no idea how I would feel if I do meet someone and want to have sex with them "
The last time I was fully naked with someone we woke up and all I could think about was how the fook was I getting out the bed without him seeing me all he was thinking about was probably something completely different, yet it plays on my mind that guys will see my stomach and run for the hills |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally with you on this OP (though I’d happily swap bodies if you want to). Tummy paranoia can literally ruin a good bonk for me if I let the thoughts creep in. It wobbles like a mad jelly when I’m on my back, it pools like a puddle of ooze when I’m on my side, it hangs like an old cat’s tummy when I’m on my knees and with me on top I literally have to put my brain somewhere else as I know it just looks gross.
I mainly try to distract with my boobs
I wish I could distract with my bloody boobs "
Same here, if I feel self concious I just lean down and crush the whole lot into their own wobbly stomach and carry on. |
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"It depends on your build - mine sticks out a bit even when my abs are visible. There's nothing you can do about your genetics in that regard.
You can, of course flatten your stomach as much as your genetics will let you with diet and excercise. It's just whether you want to or not. I personally don't mind the effort, but some will day you should accept yourself as you are etc. "
I can resonate with this as I’ve always ran and trained and ate well so I’m not used to having the extra weight on me. I know it’s a personal battle that I can only change x |
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it's not just looks that makes a woman sexy.
that is just a part of it, there are lots of things that come into play, from the way they present themselves, personality traits, even down to the perfume they wear.
it's a whole package and only a shallow person would pick out a very minor flaw (and we all have them) and be put off by it. |
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"Never once been put off by a ladys stomach its the attitude lack of personality puts me off but i cant talk for everyone tho
That’s the thing I was wandering as I can look at a guy and think he’s visually very attractive yet then if he’s a dick he becomes automatically unattractive to me. Do you men look at the bigger picture ? I’m talking dating wise here not just for sex, as that’s different parameters I’d guess
I mean i take people as i find them everyone has a flaw bit that flaw doesnt make the package
If im happy how i get allong with them and theres chemestry in how we interact and flirt the phisical features become secondary to me anyway but im not everyone
That’s how I think. "
Really damn i thought i was special grrrr |
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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago
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"Totally with you on this OP (though I’d happily swap bodies if you want to). Tummy paranoia can literally ruin a good bonk for me if I let the thoughts creep in. It wobbles like a mad jelly when I’m on my back, it pools like a puddle of ooze when I’m on my side, it hangs like an old cat’s tummy when I’m on my knees and with me on top I literally have to put my brain somewhere else as I know it just looks gross.
I mainly try to distract with my boobs "
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"It depends on your build - mine sticks out a bit even when my abs are visible. There's nothing you can do about your genetics in that regard.
You can, of course flatten your stomach as much as your genetics will let you with diet and excercise. It's just whether you want to or not. I personally don't mind the effort, but some will day you should accept yourself as you are etc.
I can resonate with this as I’ve always ran and trained and ate well so I’m not used to having the extra weight on me. I know it’s a personal battle that I can only change x"
It's not as hard as you'd think. I was 18 stone once - I think there's a big mental barrier because other people (including the fitness industry) want you to think it's hard. |
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"Totally with you on this OP (though I’d happily swap bodies if you want to). Tummy paranoia can literally ruin a good bonk for me if I let the thoughts creep in. It wobbles like a mad jelly when I’m on my back, it pools like a puddle of ooze when I’m on my side, it hangs like an old cat’s tummy when I’m on my knees and with me on top I literally have to put my brain somewhere else as I know it just looks gross.
I mainly try to distract with my boobs
This made me laugh out loud. Nice to know us ladies all have the same hang ups x "
It does indeed x |
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I was unhappy about my tummy after 4 stone weight loss and 3 pregnancies.
I had a tummy tuck last year...
Now I don’t like the scar
It’s what we do, because of lots of reasons but mainly because of society, media etc. This everyone needs to be perfect tag
You’re gorgeous OP. You really are.
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As previous comments state, everyone, not just women,has parts of themselves that they don't particularly like? For me it's my knees, so you'll never tend to see them in any of my pics at all?
And most often, others will hardly even notice what offends you so much ha!
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"I was unhappy about my tummy after 4 stone weight loss and 3 pregnancies.
I had a tummy tuck last year...
Now I don’t like the scar
It’s what we do, because of lots of reasons but mainly because of society, media etc. This everyone needs to be perfect tag
You’re gorgeous OP. You really are.
G x"
Thank you, I understand completely that it’s subjective and no matter what I’ll find something negative to compare myself with if you get me. |
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"I was unhappy about my tummy after 4 stone weight loss and 3 pregnancies.
I had a tummy tuck last year...
Now I don’t like the scar
It’s what we do, because of lots of reasons but mainly because of society, media etc. This everyone needs to be perfect tag
You’re gorgeous OP. You really are.
G x
Thank you, I understand completely that it’s subjective and no matter what I’ll find something negative to compare myself with if you get me. "
Yeah I totally get what you’re saying.
Being on here doesn’t help, as such. Think you touched on the subject further up. Comparing with veris etc. I do the same...I’ve been here as a single fem before too. It’s a tough world girlie! We just gotta do our thing
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If there's a common themed thread it's the tummy questions... I think I can speak for most guys on here by saying that we really don't worry about ladies' tummies...it's really not an issue ...we are mesmerized by all those other more interesting curves that you have |
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Being a curvy girl, I’m pleasantly surprised how many men like curves and imperfections...
really don’t sweat it, you have a long way to go before you have to worry what your body looks like, your pics are lovely, pretty sure I’d swop my belly for yours!!! Xx |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Being a curvy girl, I’m pleasantly surprised how many men like curves and imperfections...
really don’t sweat it, you have a long way to go before you have to worry what your body looks like, your pics are lovely, pretty sure I’d swop my belly for yours!!! Xx "
I definitely fancy women of a variety of shapes and sizes (and I'm massively drawn to intellect), but the point is how happy the OP is with herself. I know I'm not happy with myself when I'm not lean. |
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
I can only comment for me here, but it's a whole package thing. If the lady makes me smile and likes to smile, is smart, with lovely eyes - that grabs my attention.
Then it's hair, legs, bum, chest... which sounds an odd order.. lol.
I have a belly so wouldn't look at someone with a flat stomach because I would feel that they wouldn't find me attractive. |
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"Never once been put off by a ladys stomach its the attitude lack of personality puts me off but i cant talk for everyone tho
That’s the thing I was wandering as I can look at a guy and think he’s visually very attractive yet then if he’s a dick he becomes automatically unattractive to me. Do you men look at the bigger picture ? I’m talking dating wise here not just for sex, as that’s different parameters I’d guess "
Dating parameters can be a little tricky.... Men tend to be more critical when picking someone to date...
For casual sex men will over look certain things , if the woman is eager.....
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
NO |
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"Never once been put off by a ladys stomach its the attitude lack of personality puts me off but i cant talk for everyone tho
That’s the thing I was wandering as I can look at a guy and think he’s visually very attractive yet then if he’s a dick he becomes automatically unattractive to me. Do you men look at the bigger picture ? I’m talking dating wise here not just for sex, as that’s different parameters I’d guess
Dating parameters can be a little tricky.... Men tend to be more critical when picking someone to date...
For casual sex men will over look certain things , if the woman is eager.....
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This is also true. For women of course the exact opposite is often true? |
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
You think too much! |
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"Being a curvy girl, I’m pleasantly surprised how many men like curves and imperfections...
really don’t sweat it, you have a long way to go before you have to worry what your body looks like, your pics are lovely, pretty sure I’d swop my belly for yours!!! Xx "
Ahh yes men like curves on here, but I think in real life dating terms it’s different. It’s kinda gave me a skewed outlook and hence why I haven’t met for months on here. It’s kind of making me think men will say one thing but for sex but dating wise, another story |
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"Never once been put off by a ladys stomach its the attitude lack of personality puts me off but i cant talk for everyone tho
That’s the thing I was wandering as I can look at a guy and think he’s visually very attractive yet then if he’s a dick he becomes automatically unattractive to me. Do you men look at the bigger picture ? I’m talking dating wise here not just for sex, as that’s different parameters I’d guess
Dating parameters can be a little tricky.... Men tend to be more critical when picking someone to date...
For casual sex men will over look certain things , if the woman is eager.....
This is also true. For women of course the exact opposite is often true?"
Yep! |
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I may not be a man but as someone attracted to women I thought I'd put my tuppence in. Personally women woth abs and very flat stomachs are not attractive to me. Thats not meant to offend, it's merely a personal preference for attraction. I genuinely find women with hips and a soft, rounded stomach very attractive, especially when teamed with hips and full breasts. |
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"I may not be a man but as someone attracted to women I thought I'd put my tuppence in. Personally women woth abs and very flat stomachs are not attractive to me. Thats not meant to offend, it's merely a personal preference for attraction. I genuinely find women with hips and a soft, rounded stomach very attractive, especially when teamed with hips and full breasts. "
That’s your preference that’s fine. I never meant to start this thread as a white knights thread atall and all woman with flat tums I rock you completely. It was a me being insecure and wandered if men looked at other attributes aside from the stomach x |
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"I may not be a man but as someone attracted to women I thought I'd put my tuppence in. Personally women woth abs and very flat stomachs are not attractive to me. Thats not meant to offend, it's merely a personal preference for attraction. I genuinely find women with hips and a soft, rounded stomach very attractive, especially when teamed with hips and full breasts.
That’s your preference that’s fine. I never meant to start this thread as a white knights thread atall and all woman with flat tums I rock you completely. It was a me being insecure and wandered if men looked at other attributes aside from the stomach x"
I don't think anyones thinking you started it as a white knight thread lovely, think the stomach is a hated area for a lot of women. As a much bigger woman I know all about insecurities, they come at whatever size and shape you are, not many can say they don't have any.
From other threads and chats ive had with lovers and male friends men often don't see the bits we hate, they don't tend to care if you have a wobble or a wibble somewhere.
When ot comes to dating they are likely to be enamoured with yoir personality before getting naked and that will drive their attraction.
It's hard to tell someone not to feel insecure about a part of their body, if only it was that easy. We are all beautiful in our own ways xxxx |
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"I may not be a man but as someone attracted to women I thought I'd put my tuppence in. Personally women woth abs and very flat stomachs are not attractive to me. Thats not meant to offend, it's merely a personal preference for attraction. I genuinely find women with hips and a soft, rounded stomach very attractive, especially when teamed with hips and full breasts.
That’s your preference that’s fine. I never meant to start this thread as a white knights thread atall and all woman with flat tums I rock you completely. It was a me being insecure and wandered if men looked at other attributes aside from the stomach x
I don't think anyones thinking you started it as a white knight thread lovely, think the stomach is a hated area for a lot of women. As a much bigger woman I know all about insecurities, they come at whatever size and shape you are, not many can say they don't have any.
From other threads and chats ive had with lovers and male friends men often don't see the bits we hate, they don't tend to care if you have a wobble or a wibble somewhere.
When ot comes to dating they are likely to be enamoured with yoir personality before getting naked and that will drive their attraction.
It's hard to tell someone not to feel insecure about a part of their body, if only it was that easy. We are all beautiful in our own ways xxxx"
I get you, it’s an insecurity im working on. Everyone is different. My ex wouldn’t go out in public with me if I didn’t have makeup on, he wouldn’t let me eat in public unless he was eating, I’m realising now it was conditioning x |
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"Never once been put off by a ladys stomach its the attitude lack of personality puts me off but i cant talk for everyone tho
That’s the thing I was wandering as I can look at a guy and think he’s visually very attractive yet then if he’s a dick he becomes automatically unattractive to me. Do you men look at the bigger picture ? I’m talking dating wise here not just for sex, as that’s different parameters I’d guess
Dating parameters can be a little tricky.... Men tend to be more critical when picking someone to date...
For casual sex men will over look certain things , if the woman is eager.....
This is also true. For women of course the exact opposite is often true?
Yep!"
It's only natural really. Many more men want sex than women, so women pick and choose only the very best specimens to them whilst a lot of men will make compromises. Whereas many more women want a relationship than men so women are usually the ones to compromise a hell of a lot and settle for a relationship partner they wouldn't be attracted to in the slightest on here sexually? Whereas physically a lot of men will only settle for the creme de la creme physically when it comes to a long term relationship?
So I can understand some women having body hang ups if looking primarily for a relationship as not to have a body that is seen as highly desirable can be seen as a major hole in SOME women's chances of getting a relationship with those you truly desire, though it must also be said that it doesn't hinder a lot as mental connections can still be made and forged stronger than any lustful ones alone as an initial factor?
If I were a woman I certainly wouldn't be worried about appearing imperfect on here though ha, chaps are plentiful and you can to a large extent have sexual encounters with most of who you like?
The same as not having a physically ideal body will limit SOME men's chances on here?
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
I think I want to meet you and shag you senseless |
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
Hey i dont pay attention anymore it's all about personality for me now, if you're attractive oh my that's a bonus |
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
Yeah, I’ve looked...
In my opinion you’ve got nothing to worry about!!!
You’ve got it all going for you, you just need to practice some body confidence. Xx |
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look at the perfect woman godess VENUS OF WILLENDORF and look at 18th century art , the fuller figure is womanly , today everyone is conditioned by advertizing and tv images |
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A flat stomach is what the media says is attractive. We generally find a sofer shape more attractive. If you have that spark though, looks are to a large extent irrelevant. |
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"look at the perfect woman godess VENUS OF WILLENDORF and look at 18th century art , the fuller figure is womanly , today everyone is conditioned by advertizing and tv images"
That's as maybe. I feel much happier since my stomach was flatter. I feel healthier and I can paint my toenails without my gut getting in the way. If that's conditioning and down to media it's a good thing. |
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I have a mum tum and I’ve never been more self conscious of it until recently. I’m guilty of taking 50 pics to use just 1 and I avoid showing my stomach in them.
I did have a comment of ‘you’re bigger than I thought you looked in your pics’ maybe a flippant comment but it stayed with me.
I guess preference works both ways, there will be those that like the model look and those that prefer the everyday woman. I love looking at others ladies that are similar to me.
Wife xx
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I could list 100s of reasons why I hate every part of my body. My stomach especially. I still find myself scared the minute anyone goes near it. Ultimately though I think the person we see in the mirror isn't the person others see. |
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Also I read this earlier and thought it might be fitting here....
"It doesn’t make sense to call ourselves ugly, because we don’t really see ourselves. We don’t watch ourselves sleeping in bed, curled up silent with our chests rising & falling with our own rhythm. We don’t see ourselves reading a book, eyes fluttering and glowing. You don’t see yourself looking at someone with love and care in your heart. There’s no mirror in your way when your laughing and smiling and pure happiness is leaking out of you. You would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moments where you are truly your authentic self.” – Unknown |
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OP. Firstly it’s unfounded - you look stunning. But we all have our little bits we don’t fully like. And It’s not just girls who feel like this. Us men do too. I have lots of hang ups about my body. Especially since being single and when you see some of the guys bodies on here. I see beauty in all shapes and sizes and it’s the whole package that makes someone sexy. Smiles, eyes and tummies just add to the beauty in my opinion. |
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"Also I read this earlier and thought it might be fitting here....
"It doesn’t make sense to call ourselves ugly, because we don’t really see ourselves. We don’t watch ourselves sleeping in bed, curled up silent with our chests rising & falling with our own rhythm. We don’t see ourselves reading a book, eyes fluttering and glowing. You don’t see yourself looking at someone with love and care in your heart. There’s no mirror in your way when your laughing and smiling and pure happiness is leaking out of you. You would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moments where you are truly your authentic self.” – Unknown"
Beautiful - says it all |
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"Also I read this earlier and thought it might be fitting here....
"It doesn’t make sense to call ourselves ugly, because we don’t really see ourselves. We don’t watch ourselves sleeping in bed, curled up silent with our chests rising & falling with our own rhythm. We don’t see ourselves reading a book, eyes fluttering and glowing. You don’t see yourself looking at someone with love and care in your heart. There’s no mirror in your way when your laughing and smiling and pure happiness is leaking out of you. You would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moments where you are truly your authentic self.” – Unknown"
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This swinging world is crazy........ everyone says personality is the most important thing...
Then you read thier profile and they want to see a pic.....
Please enlighten this dumb American....
If you guys don’t care about looks , and personalities Are the most important thing....
Why not chat too and meet people with great personalities and no pictures? |
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"This swinging world is crazy........ everyone says personality is the most important thing...
Then you read thier profile and they want to see a pic.....
Please enlighten this dumb American....
If you guys don’t care about looks , and personalities Are the most important thing....
Why not chat too and meet people with great personalities and no pictures?"
you have to have a mixture of both, I once chatted to a woman for over a year kept trying to get a meet, saw face and body pics and we got on, finally got to meet her she had no teeth and what teeth were there were sharp and black bought her a coffee chatted for and bit and left on good terms |
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I’ve been worried for years that my ass was too big, stomach too prominent, boobs too small etc, but I think now I’ve just got to the point where I think if they like me they’ll like all of me and the ones that don’t aren’t worth worrying about. OP you look fabulous in your pics and really don’t have anything to worry about |
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I love women all shapes and sizes (sounds like a cliche right?), but what attracts me most is confidence and a smile 
None of us are ‘perfect’, but fortunately the majority of us aren’t that shallow |
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"This swinging world is crazy........ everyone says personality is the most important thing...
Then you read thier profile and they want to see a pic.....
Please enlighten this dumb American....
If you guys don’t care about looks , and personalities Are the most important thing....
Why not chat too and meet people with great personalities and no pictures?"
This is actually a great point my friend! Only yesterday I blocked a lady I have been chatting very nicely with, getting on quite well in fact, feeling a connection etc. My public pics drew her attention initially, and after several messages she asked for a face pic. Her next message to me was ‘sorry, there’s no chemistry for me’. In summary then; my personality seemed great, my pics from floor to neck appeared acceptable, but then some two-dimension images of neck and above presumably stomach-churning?
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No such thing as perfect as everyone likes something different so you shouldn’t have any hung ups. It’s just finding someone that thinks you are perfect to them.
Luckily I don’t have any hang ups I am what I am is my view. |
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
Your deffo over thinking it Hun your hot  |
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You look great. Any fella that is interested in a socially accepted view of the perfect woman is just a child. I love all aspects of a woman tummy included. Who wants to have sex with someone with a six pack anyway doesn’t seem natural |
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I’ve learned on here that men just love confidence. There’s nothing worse than if a girl won’t let herself go, that makes for pretty rubbish sex in my opinion
Get naked, tease and be confident...they’ll lap it up whatever hang ups you may have x |
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"Question for you kinky guys and girls. I’ve always struggled with having a tum even when I was a size 10, and it’s something that I’m very embarrassed and insecure about. Which led me to thinking that when I look at other woman I always compare and put myself down.
Then I think I’ve a cracking pair of legs and tits and a not so bad face, yet I always think a man will overlook these features and just see me as fat, as I have a tum.
Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
Us fellas have the same body hangups (I have what I call an "awning over the toy shop") - I put it in my profile and wear it like a medal.
"If everybody looked the same, we'd get tired of looking at each other"
Celebrate the little differences that make you you, just because we feel a certain way about parts of our bodies it doesn't mean everyone else has the same view. You're beautiful - all of you. x |
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By *W ChapMan
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Do men look at woman with flat stomachs and think they are the god as such ? Or do you also look at the whole picture (so to say) and think but she’s got a beautiful face and or great legs boobs ? Or am I just overthinking things ?"
Personally I think yes you are. Most blokes look at the whole picture and I reckon most don't give a stuff about curves, infact personally I prefer curves, so in my opinion you have nowt to worry about. |
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