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Older women interested in younger?
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I'm probably not old enough for you, and you're not old enough for me so it's moot. But in general terms, you need to look at how you present yourself. Why would a woman be interested in you? What might she see in you? What do you have to offer? Answer those questions in your profile and messages (and in messages, why does this specific woman interest you?). |
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"Tbf though I know this has hindered me a bit not being able to accommodate to quite a lot of women looks shifty
I house share with friends that don’t know I’m on here so it’s not practical "
I understand that I’m the same but most people don’t think about that straight away. |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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Pretty laid back and non judgemental - is that really all you have to say about yourself?
Women pretty much are over run by guys on here, you really need to try a little harder.
And 20 may be a bit young for some women, depends how much older your looking for. The belt on my jeans is way older than you are. |
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"Younger is good, though there has to be a decent level of maturity.
A lot of young guys are man boys who think an older woman is something to 'do' rather than a person  "
Yeah, the reason my age limit is as high as it is, is some younger guys are incredibly immature. (older guys aren't immune, but younger guys are often worse)
And as someone who gets it on multiple fronts, please don't fetishise her age or anything else. I'm not attractive because I'm 32. If I'm attractive (to anyone) it's for other reasons, even if my age might play into it. |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
"Younger is good, though there has to be a decent level of maturity.
A lot of young guys are man boys who think an older woman is something to 'do' rather than a person "
I totally agree, age is a number and itself not usually the barrier.
I personally have 3 very lovely young men who I’m in “negotiations” with 
Their age, or mine is not the important factor though. |
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"When I was your age I thought if a woman was 25 I was like "ooooh, older woman." Lol. "
Sad but true. Before I raised my age limit I got a good few messages from guys looking for a cougar. Err... come back in fifteen years or so?  |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Younger is good, though there has to be a decent level of maturity.
A lot of young guys are man boys who think an older woman is something to 'do' rather than a person "
Totally agree with you there judging by a lot of the messages I get  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Younger is good, though there has to be a decent level of maturity.
A lot of young guys are man boys who think an older woman is something to 'do' rather than a person
Yeah, the reason my age limit is as high as it is, is some younger guys are incredibly immature. (older guys aren't immune, but younger guys are often worse)
And as someone who gets it on multiple fronts, please don't fetishise her age or anything else. I'm not attractive because I'm 32. If I'm attractive (to anyone) it's for other reasons, even if my age might play into it. "
I meet young guys only. So i am attracted to their age as i love the whole naughty taboo to it. Thats what does it for me. So they are just doing the same back to me.. so its fine to be attracted to age, same as some are to other factors such as bbw |
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"Younger is good, though there has to be a decent level of maturity.
A lot of young guys are man boys who think an older woman is something to 'do' rather than a person
Yeah, the reason my age limit is as high as it is, is some younger guys are incredibly immature. (older guys aren't immune, but younger guys are often worse)
And as someone who gets it on multiple fronts, please don't fetishise her age or anything else. I'm not attractive because I'm 32. If I'm attractive (to anyone) it's for other reasons, even if my age might play into it.
I meet young guys only. So i am attracted to their age as i love the whole naughty taboo to it. Thats what does it for me. So they are just doing the same back to me.. so its fine to be attracted to age, same as some are to other factors such as bbw"
Fair enough. Different strokes. I find being told I'm attractive because of my age, or kinky because I'm bi, etc, irritating. I feel like I'm being reduced to relatively unimportant attributes. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I can only speak for myself,but prefer round my age give or take a few years either way .
Many will have children around your age ,so this will be an issue.
Some women like younger ,I think there are club nights for this . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is it about the older lady that appeals? The only reason I ask is that, to echo an earlier poster, there’s a plethora of young bucks who fetishise a woman’s age without any real sense behind it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbf though I know this has hindered me a bit not being able to accommodate to quite a lot of women looks shifty
I house share with friends that don’t know I’m on here so it’s not practical
I understand that I’m the same but most people don’t think about that straight away. "
More likely to be worried about parents in residence than a wife  |
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"I meet younger guys - but not guys under 25 op! Guys 25-30 have to be very mature for their age - and I expect all guys I meet to be very sexually experienced! "
Fair but in my experience I have found some men under 25 to be more mature than men over the age of 25. |
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By *arie79Woman
over a year ago
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"Personally, at 34, being messaged and called an ‘older woman’ just hurts! Can I not be attractive for being me or is it just my age that is the reason for interest?"
I know what you mean, hearing that they have a thing for older women or that I look good 'for my age' does grate after a bit. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Personally, at 34, being messaged and called an ‘older woman’ just hurts! Can I not be attractive for being me or is it just my age that is the reason for interest?"
I posted a threadt a few days ago following a message I had saying I had a good body for my age ... if only the folk would stop before they add ..the age bit into the sentence..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was also reffered to as an "older woman" in a message a few weeks ago, it kind of hit me like a smack in the teeth.
But I'm 38 so. I am what I am
Jo.X"
Were still kids |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was also reffered to as an "older woman" in a message a few weeks ago, it kind of hit me like a smack in the teeth.
But I'm 38 so. I am what I am
Jo.X
Were still kids "
Yes we are  |
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There are definitely older women out there who look for or like younger guys, after all there are many sites dedicated to toyboy/age gap meets, and some of them do work, as well as on swinging sites like fab - definitely what appeals to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've slept with a couple of women 10+ years older then me and I think it helped that they were women I worked with/got to know progressively, I think you it takes time to show maturity
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"Younger guy with a mature attitude...perfect!"
to be fair that is quite hard to find as many that say they do don't as for example on here they can seem mature but in person can be the complete opposite. |
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