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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I always believed there is a rule that if someone declines to reply to a message you should respectfully leave them alone and take it as a no thank you. Am I right? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always believed there is a rule that if someone declines to reply to a message you should respectfully leave them alone and take it as a no thank you. Am I right? X"
People don't reply to messages?  |
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By *ancgent74Man
over a year ago
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I'd much prefer a quick "no thank you" if not interested. Its never a problem to know, after all not everyone is for everyone And at least everyone knows (why can't fab have a quick "sorry not interested" button on messages?)
Thankfully most do reply but I also know the massive amount of messages ladies get here (wifey has a single account too as well as our couples account). So a no reply could potentially mean overwhelmed and can't reply to everyone I may like. |
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Not always. Usually if I message somebody and they don't reply I don't bother again. There have been cases where another try was successful but I generally won't try again for a while if I do.
Sometimes women don't mean to not reply. Sometimes you just catch them at a bad time and/or they don't see your message or whatever.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely, no reply is the less offensive way of saying no. No one likes rejection and rejecting isn't very pleasant either. The simple way around this is to politely stay silent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Alas some of the ones you respond to with a 'no thanks' demand to know why  "
If they 'demand' to know why that's just wrong, I agree.
I see no harm in them asking why. The reason may be fixable. Too far away- he might be happy to travel. No face pic- he could send one. Can't accommodate - he could further explain why not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always believed there is a rule that if someone declines to reply to a message you should respectfully leave them alone and take it as a no thank you. Am I right? X"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not always. Usually if I message somebody and they don't reply I don't bother again. There have been cases where another try was successful but I generally won't try again for a while if I do.
Sometimes women don't mean to not reply. Sometimes you just catch them at a bad time and/or they don't see your message or whatever.
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