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Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
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Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
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I have no problem with anyone being on here, however if their disability causes them to respond in certain ways that could be misconstrued, or to have a lack of empathy with others which may lead to not very nice responses, then it may be better to state in the first place.
Text / typing is such an impersonal and unforgiving way to communicate.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone who has dyspraxia (characterised as a motor learning disability, who knew?) and mild mental health problems (which is actually classed as a disability now) I'd say that people with disabilities should absolutely be on fab... however, as long as they have the mental capacity to consent and they're not, as a vulnerable adult, being pushed into being on here. |
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I really don’t think it’s necessary for you to state that on your profile. As you have already put on there it doesn’t make you any less lovely and beautiful so why even mention it?
Whoever made you feel like you need to put some sort of disclaimer on your profile must have been pretty horrid.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And no, I don't particularly think that people need to know about mine. The only time my dyspraxia might effect my sex life is if I misjudge the distance and fall off the bed onto my arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone and everyone has a right to be here....as long as you are over 18.
What you choose to write on your profile is entirely your business and nothing to do with anyone else x"
Exactly its ur profile to do as u wish |
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over a year ago
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
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 This definetly shouldn't be any body else's business as has been said, as long as you able to make a free cognative choice and are over 18 then you are welcome as far as we are concerned. Good on you stand proud. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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Nobody elses business. Sure, if affects your ability to meet, communicate or perform, it might be nice to mention it in passing but anyone taking offence at your being here is saying more about themselves. Do you want to meet people like that? No, no great loss. |
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Mine is a physical disability so I'm upfront about it as what you see is what you get. If people read my profile then they know about it and make their own minds up. Hasn't stopped me having fun and I've been on the site over 8 years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
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Shouldn’t make any difference xxx Your a sexy lady
 enjoy yourself xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Considering everyone in the Western hemisphere has some level of mild anxiety or disorder or depression or whatnot, I don't see a problem with you mentioning it.
Also, yes; people with disabilities should be allowed on FAB. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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I saw your status a few days ago mentioning the insults..
Your profile your choice to have the text you wish...personally I'd not mention it,.
as long as you both wish to be on fab are both consenting both having the fun you seek.. carry on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't believe you actually felt the need to ask the question OP.
This is your life your choices. How you live it who you share it with, and those parts of it you wish to share is up to you.
Btw Hello. If anyone suggests you have no right to be here it's they who have the problem...Not you. x
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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
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Firstly no you shouldn't have to declare your disability to anyone.
My only concern about any one choosing to display their disability on their profile and this a general thought not aimed at any one person at all, in particular learning disabilities, or even being on FAB is that they are already to a certain extent a vulnerable member of society. Without a doubt there will be people on this site that are looking to exploit these vulnerable people and this really concerns me.
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
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It just takes one if you let it. Why is the one influencing your experience more than the many?
I'm sorry that you've had this experience, apparently many women and couples receive abuse, usually aimed at a personal characteristic. I hope you reported the message.
For what it's worth I think fab is for everyone over 18 as long as they aren't very vulnerable.
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over a year ago
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
Firstly no you shouldn't have to declare your disability to anyone.
My only concern about any one choosing to display their disability on their profile and this a general thought not aimed at any one person at all, in particular learning disabilities, or even being on FAB is that they are already to a certain extent a vulnerable member of society. Without a doubt there will be people on this site that are looking to exploit these vulnerable people and this really concerns me.
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
Firstly no you shouldn't have to declare your disability to anyone.
My only concern about any one choosing to display their disability on their profile and this a general thought not aimed at any one person at all, in particular learning disabilities, or even being on FAB is that they are already to a certain extent a vulnerable member of society. Without a doubt there will be people on this site that are looking to exploit these vulnerable people and this really concerns me.
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I have my partner to protect me. He's a six foot four very protective teddy bear who's also a lunatic. We discuss who meets us and who doesn't together and he's never far away when a meet takes place.
Yes you're right though. There are some who think having a disability also makes you stupid... |
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I've known people with disabilities who have led way more active and fulfilling lives than most regular people. Sometimes us regular people are disabled by our thoughts, worries, fears and insecurities so who's disabled really? |
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Anyone of legal age should be allowed on fab. Just because of a disability doesn't make them any less human. If a profile states a physical disability then you know from reading it and make your own mind up. If it's not for you pass them by. I know a couple of people with disabilities. And to be fair they're some of the nicest people you could meet. One female friend has a physical disability and she's kind, caring, and still a very good looking woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
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If it were mental you'd have to discount most |
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found out today if your over 65 you can get a brown badge for your car
next one down from a blue one
apply on line on your councils website......
first ive heard of a brown badge |
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
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Short and simple answer, yes they should.
Personally I think it should be disclosed at some point, either in the profile or early in the message exchange.
Other than that, I see no reason why people with disabilities should be excluded from Fab.
Good luck to you OP. Ignore the naysayers.
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
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How come you had to bring this out in the first place? Did you offer the info to someone?
It's cobblers anyway, everyone is entitled to be on here so long as they abide by site rules etc |
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I don’t think many people would have an issue to be honest. I’m deaf and although it’s only partially it does affect new meets as I get used to the level or tone of their voice. They have to get used to me not hearing or sometimes automatically responding even though I haven’t actually got a clue what they said.
The only time this nearly went wrong is when I agreed to an MMF midway through sex. It was only when he shouted his flatmates name that I clicked and shut it down 
There’s a space for us all here. If your disability is potentially going to cause issues then it’s only polite to give your meet a heads up. If not then it doesn’t really matter.
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If a disability could affect a meet then its only right it should be disclosed. If its not going to affect it then no need to be disclosed. If it was something physical then yes i would want to be pre warned |
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
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Might help if you told us why you felt the need to post this, otherwise it's just a rant!! |
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People with disabilities should absolutely be allowed on here and if they don't wanna disclose it, they shouldn't have to. At least not in your profile. Maybe in messages. If someone goes quiet after you've told them then they're not the kind of person you'd particularly want to meet. |
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As long as the disability doesn't affect the ability to give informed consent then there's no reason at all why anyone should be excluded. Everybody has the right to have fun and a healthy sex life. |
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
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I hope you’re ok? No one has the right to make you feel like that. Most people are on the spectrum wether they know it or not. I don’t think you have to disclose any disability on profile.
This is an online site the same as any other, so you will get your trolls. I think displaying this information could lead to more manipulation.  |
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"Be allowed on FAB?
This is a genuine question. Whether it be a physical, emotional or mental disability should it exclude you from having a healthy sex life and, if you choose, being a member of this site?
Hello everyone! Actress here. Firstly I am NOT airing my dirty washing in public, more gathering people's opinions regarding the subject matter.
I have slight autism and mild learning difficulties. There, I've said it. But should i have to? Does it make me dishonest if i don't? Well evidently it does. Does it mean I should be open to abuse and insults? Evidently it does. Does it mean I shouldn't be on here? Evidently it does.
We have now changed our profile text to highlight the fact I have the above mentioned disabilities. But should we have had to? They are invisible disabilities. I did not ask for them, I do not feel I should have to shout them out from the rooftops or explain them to people for fear of being called dishonest if i don't.
If when we receive a message from someone should my first reply be "Hi, thanks for your message. I have autism and learning difficulties" otherwise I'm a liar? Apparently it should be.
Or...
Should I be able to live my life the way I want without having to explain myself to everyone? That includes people on here. Yes I have disabilities, but if people can't handle the fact then it says more about them than it does me. I love being on FAB. We both do and we've met some really lovely people. But it just takes one doesn't it...
Thank you everyone for reading. Enjoy the beautiful summer's evening!
I hope you’re ok? No one has the right to make you feel like that. Most people are on the spectrum wether they know it or not. I don’t think you have to disclose any disability on profile.
This is an online site the same as any other, so you will get your trolls. I think displaying this information could lead to more manipulation. "
Please give some examples of manipulating people with disabilities?
I’m not doubting you , but can’t see it happening.... |
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You are who you are, and you should be it with confidence. If people don’t like it, then f**k em!! I have a birth mark on the top of my leg, should I declare that? Hell no. If that puts someone off then it says more about them. |
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Yes, they should be here if they wish. It's abhorrent to think that they would not be as welcome as anyone else.
People should also only disclose what they are comfortable with to others, though it can make a lot of sense in some instances, before meeting. |
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