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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Initial pictures. I'll actually swipe based off of those. If we match then I'll read the bio. I'm fairly open minded and not looking for a partner so obviously my attention to detail isn't as necessary |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Initial pictures. I'll actually swipe based off of those. If we match then I'll read the bio. I'm fairly open minded and not looking for a partner so obviously my attention to detail isn't as necessary"
Fair enough! Just curious as how people approach it aha |
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I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink... 
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mate put me on tinder as a joke. I only lasted a few weeks. But seen so many fab men on there. They should at least change their pics, not putting the same ones on all websites  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it! "
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X |
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Clearly I’m drawn by looks initially but do always see if they’ve a written bio, tells me whether someone’s serious or not....or fake 
I know I’ve a shit bio on here (Work in progress) but I’ve had more sexual offers on Tinder/Pof than I’ve ever had on here!!?? Go figure |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Clearly I’m drawn by looks initially but do always see if they’ve a written bio, tells me whether someone’s serious or not....or fake
I know I’ve a shit bio on here (Work in progress) but I’ve had more sexual offers on Tinder/Pof than I’ve ever had on here!!?? Go figure "
I like to think my tinder bio is pretty decent.. way better than my one on here aha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X"
How very different the experience is for women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?"
I’d swipe right for you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?
I’d swipe right for you "
I'd superlike you bbyg |
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"Clearly I’m drawn by looks initially but do always see if they’ve a written bio, tells me whether someone’s serious or not....or fake
I know I’ve a shit bio on here (Work in progress) but I’ve had more sexual offers on Tinder/Pof than I’ve ever had on here!!?? Go figure
I like to think my tinder bio is pretty decent.. way better than my one on here aha!"
Really? Surprising as Tinder only limits you to about 300 letters Pof on the other hand I’ve got a brill profile, not my words here it’s crap, definitely need to get my ass into gear regards filling in the blanks lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?
I’d swipe right for you
I'd superlike you both "
Girlllllllllllll 
Question; if you saw someone from fab on tinder or any other dating sites would you bring it up? I used tinder for a wee bit and a few found me on there. Obviously learned my name and where I lived so I deleted my account |
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women "
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Clearly I’m drawn by looks initially but do always see if they’ve a written bio, tells me whether someone’s serious or not....or fake
I know I’ve a shit bio on here (Work in progress) but I’ve had more sexual offers on Tinder/Pof than I’ve ever had on here!!?? Go figure
I like to think my tinder bio is pretty decent.. way better than my one on here aha!
Really? Surprising as Tinder only limits you to about 300 letters Pof on the other hand I’ve got a brill profile, not my words here it’s crap, definitely need to get my ass into gear regards filling in the blanks lol! "
It's not long! It's pretty short but tells enough about me aha.. trying to write a out myself on here is way harder |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder! "
What’s Bumble like ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder!
What’s Bumble like ?? "
Shit.. I heard |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder!
What’s Bumble like ?? "
I used it for a bit and was good! But if you're bad at checking matches like I am you only get 24hrs before they're gone ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder! "
Can you elaborate on why it was worse?? |
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder!
What’s Bumble like ?? "
Well I had a date a couple of weeks ago but he ended up been ‘taken’ . But on the whole I prefer it... much sexier guys on there... not many from Hull but I don’t mind travelling a bit... I guess it is what it is... I’m not seriously looking though at the moment... just keep having a peek!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder!
What’s Bumble like ??
Well I had a date a couple of weeks ago but he ended up been ‘taken’ . But on the whole I prefer it... much sexier guys on there... not many from Hull but I don’t mind travelling a bit... I guess it is what it is... I’m not seriously looking though at the moment... just keep having a peek! "
I’ll take a look ...  |
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder!
Can you elaborate on why it was worse??"
For me personally just either the men have just wanted a shag only...or send 1 or 2 messages and then disappear (that could be me?? ) or they have been married/taken which makes it tricky for dating! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder!
What’s Bumble like ??
Well I had a date a couple of weeks ago but he ended up been ‘taken’ . But on the whole I prefer it... much sexier guys on there... not many from Hull but I don’t mind travelling a bit... I guess it is what it is... I’m not seriously looking though at the moment... just keep having a peek! "
I agree, Bumble is my favourite one. Much better standard of guys and they take it a bit more seriously than tinder. Tinder and Pof are my least favourite. Bumble and Feeld are my preferred ones. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder!
What’s Bumble like ??
Well I had a date a couple of weeks ago but he ended up been ‘taken’ . But on the whole I prefer it... much sexier guys on there... not many from Hull but I don’t mind travelling a bit... I guess it is what it is... I’m not seriously looking though at the moment... just keep having a peek!
I agree, Bumble is my favourite one. Much better standard of guys and they take it a bit more seriously than tinder. Tinder and Pof are my least favourite. Bumble and Feeld are my preferred ones. "
The blokes on bumble are pretty gorgeous actually aren't they.. |
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder!
What’s Bumble like ??
Well I had a date a couple of weeks ago but he ended up been ‘taken’ . But on the whole I prefer it... much sexier guys on there... not many from Hull but I don’t mind travelling a bit... I guess it is what it is... I’m not seriously looking though at the moment... just keep having a peek!
I agree, Bumble is my favourite one. Much better standard of guys and they take it a bit more seriously than tinder. Tinder and Pof are my least favourite. Bumble and Feeld are my preferred ones. "
I’ve never even heard of Bumble?? Bored to the back teeth of Pof/Tinder! Is it worth a look if the ideal is something a little more serious than FAB? |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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I am on POF I have seen three ladies I recognise from FABS one I messaged no response from her , one message me and third we once said a quick hello and goodbye and a social organised by someone on FABS not sure if I should message her or not. |
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder!
What’s Bumble like ??
Well I had a date a couple of weeks ago but he ended up been ‘taken’ . But on the whole I prefer it... much sexier guys on there... not many from Hull but I don’t mind travelling a bit... I guess it is what it is... I’m not seriously looking though at the moment... just keep having a peek!
I agree, Bumble is my favourite one. Much better standard of guys and they take it a bit more seriously than tinder. Tinder and Pof are my least favourite. Bumble and Feeld are my preferred ones.
I’ve never even heard of Bumble?? Bored to the back teeth of Pof/Tinder! Is it worth a look if the ideal is something a little more serious than FAB? "
Yes to me tinder and Pof are just shag sites... even though I haven’t had any successful dates yet on Bumble I think I have more chance on there then here... although obviously I’m not looking at the women!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder!
What’s Bumble like ??
Well I had a date a couple of weeks ago but he ended up been ‘taken’ . But on the whole I prefer it... much sexier guys on there... not many from Hull but I don’t mind travelling a bit... I guess it is what it is... I’m not seriously looking though at the moment... just keep having a peek!
I agree, Bumble is my favourite one. Much better standard of guys and they take it a bit more seriously than tinder. Tinder and Pof are my least favourite. Bumble and Feeld are my preferred ones.
I’ve never even heard of Bumble?? Bored to the back teeth of Pof/Tinder! Is it worth a look if the ideal is something a little more serious than FAB? "
I use bumble the same way I use fab tbh, it’s just harder to get that I like swinging with a partner into the conversation but I do chat for ages and get to know people so we end up knowing everything about each other before we meet. |
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"Well I’m on Bumble , not sure how it works yet but I’m sure it’ll become clear "
It’s still a swipe app.. but you have to send the first message if you ‘match’ and you only have 24 hours to send or for them to reply!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I’m on Bumble , not sure how it works yet but I’m sure it’ll become clear
It’s still a swipe app.. but you have to send the first message if you ‘match’ and you only have 24 hours to send or for them to reply!! "
Can’t see this going well somehow !!!
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"Well I’m on Bumble , not sure how it works yet but I’m sure it’ll become clear
It’s still a swipe app.. but you have to send the first message if you ‘match’ and you only have 24 hours to send or for them to reply!!
Can’t see this going well somehow !!!
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Haha you’d be surprised.. I’ve just had a reply.. I’ll keep you posted |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?"
This may sound harsh but I often give myself 3 seconds per profile picture on the swipe left, swipe right type of dating sites.
Im looking for that initial attraction, shape of her face, smile, believe it or not eyebrows too are a deal breaker.
If i go into her profile and all her pics are of a lavish lifestyle, skiing on the slopes, riding horses and partying in fields, she's not for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I’m on Bumble , not sure how it works yet but I’m sure it’ll become clear
It’s still a swipe app.. but you have to send the first message if you ‘match’ and you only have 24 hours to send or for them to reply!!
Can’t see this going well somehow !!!
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Im on Bumble, Tinder and Pof. Its been well over 3 years since i last had a match or message. Due to the lack of activity, i often check my settings to make sure i havent muted my account  |
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?
This may sound harsh but I often give myself 3 seconds per profile picture on the swipe left, swipe right type of dating sites.
Im looking for that initial attraction, shape of her face, smile, believe it or not eyebrows too are a deal breaker.
If i go into her profile and all her pics are of a lavish lifestyle, skiing on the slopes, riding horses and partying in fields, she's not for me.
Pxx"
So many women now have eyebrows that wash off in the shower! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always swipe left if every picture has a filter. Didn’t stick to this at first and had many disappointments! If the pictures grab me then I read the profile before swiping. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I the only one that hates bumble? It’s proper nerve wracking sending the first message  "
I hate Bumble for the sheer fact that i never get any replies.
I have friends who have found it very successful.
Having said that ive also had friends who say that Tinder was very good to them too. Seems like im the only guy not to have had a Tinder date lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is people's age range by the way?
I'm 22 and mines from 21-30  "
Perfect age! And yes If I had seen you on tinder I would be swiping right all night long  |
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?
This may sound harsh but I often give myself 3 seconds per profile picture on the swipe left, swipe right type of dating sites.
Im looking for that initial attraction, shape of her face, smile, believe it or not eyebrows too are a deal breaker.
If i go into her profile and all her pics are of a lavish lifestyle, skiing on the slopes, riding horses and partying in fields, she's not for me.
Pxx"
I’m the same if the guy is rock climbing skiing or similar in every pic then I know we wouldn’t be compatible |
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"Am I the only one that hates bumble? It’s proper nerve wracking sending the first message "
Awww don’t be nervous... just send a simple hello message... if they don’t reply then it doesn’t matter!! Just move on to the next one... or have a couple on the go at the same time!! your gorgeous you will get replies!!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?
This may sound harsh but I often give myself 3 seconds per profile picture on the swipe left, swipe right type of dating sites.
Im looking for that initial attraction, shape of her face, smile, believe it or not eyebrows too are a deal breaker.
If i go into her profile and all her pics are of a lavish lifestyle, skiing on the slopes, riding horses and partying in fields, she's not for me.
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I’m the same if the guy is rock climbing skiing or similar in every pic then I know we wouldn’t be compatible "
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"Am I the only one that hates bumble? It’s proper nerve wracking sending the first message "
I love it but if they haven’t got much written in their bio then it’s hard to think up something original. |
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?
This may sound harsh but I often give myself 3 seconds per profile picture on the swipe left, swipe right type of dating sites.
Im looking for that initial attraction, shape of her face, smile, believe it or not eyebrows too are a deal breaker.
If i go into her profile and all her pics are of a lavish lifestyle, skiing on the slopes, riding horses and partying in fields, she's not for me.
Pxx
I’m the same if the guy is rock climbing skiing or similar in every pic then I know we wouldn’t be compatible "
I love an adventurous guy.
Also, I could have pics from around the world on mine but that’s because of my job. |
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?
This may sound harsh but I often give myself 3 seconds per profile picture on the swipe left, swipe right type of dating sites.
Im looking for that initial attraction, shape of her face, smile, believe it or not eyebrows too are a deal breaker.
If i go into her profile and all her pics are of a lavish lifestyle, skiing on the slopes, riding horses and partying in fields, she's not for me.
Pxx
So many women now have eyebrows that wash off in the shower!"
There’s nothing wrong with that!
It’s when there’s no hair underneath after the eyebrows wash off that it becomes a problem! |
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I’ve been on dating apps. They all have their pros & cons.
Tinder & POF were probably the best for me.
Wasn’t keen on Bumble and making the first move it felt nerve wracking!
I’m single & want it to stay that way so I’m on none of them at the moment. But when I was on Tinder it was initial attraction to photos, then I’d check their bio out, if all was well I’d swipe right. On POF pretty much the same thing.
A few guys who swiped me, or sent me a message and I didn’t reply to on dating sites have messaged me on here “You used to be on Tinder/POF, wanna meet?” Yes I did! No I don’t!
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"Am I the only one that hates bumble? It’s proper nerve wracking sending the first message "
That's assuming the woman writes more than hi!! . I want something a bit more substantial thank you very much |
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"Am I the only one that hates bumble? It’s proper nerve wracking sending the first message "
Seriously? You could say virtually anything for a first message to a guy and he would reply. What's to be nervous about? Us guys almost always have to send the first message to a girl which has a very high chance of being ignored, rejection is guaranteed for men on dating sites but you just shrug it off and say NEXT... |
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in this day in age i think it still should be 50/50
if someone likes someone say hello and see what happens. "none of this got to wait to message"
could you image this in a pub club or coffee shop, nah me neither! |
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I just swipe right on the majority. Not because I'm not fussy but just to see who I match with (which isn't many.) Then most of the time if I do get a match I don't talk to them so waste of time really lol. |
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"Am I the only one that hates bumble? It’s proper nerve wracking sending the first message
Seriously? You could say virtually anything for a first message to a guy and he would reply. What's to be nervous about? Us guys almost always have to send the first message to a girl which has a very high chance of being ignored, rejection is guaranteed for men on dating sites but you just shrug it off and say NEXT... "
on here i will chat if i am attracted to someone, if the profile and message entices me and yes i message 1st too |
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"I just swipe right on the majority. Not because I'm not fussy but just to see who I match with (which isn't many.) Then most of the time if I do get a match I don't talk to them so waste of time really lol. "
if i was on tinder id swipe right |
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"What is people's age range by the way?
I'm 22 and mines from 21-30
Perfect age! And yes If I had seen you on tinder I would be swiping right all night long "
Shame you're not in my distance range then |
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"I just swipe right on the majority. Not because I'm not fussy but just to see who I match with (which isn't many.) Then most of the time if I do get a match I don't talk to them so waste of time really lol. "
If you set your distance to the lowest one, anyone that pops up on your screen that’s further than that has liked you. I only found out the other day on here. |
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?
This may sound harsh but I often give myself 3 seconds per profile picture on the swipe left, swipe right type of dating sites.
Im looking for that initial attraction, shape of her face, smile, believe it or not eyebrows too are a deal breaker.
If i go into her profile and all her pics are of a lavish lifestyle, skiing on the slopes, riding horses and partying in fields, she's not for me.
Pxx
So many women now have eyebrows that wash off in the shower!
There’s nothing wrong with that!
It’s when there’s no hair underneath after the eyebrows wash off that it becomes a problem! "
I have very limited hair as overplucked in the 80/90s, I’ve had to get them tattooed now. I wish I had never touched them. |
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?
This may sound harsh but I often give myself 3 seconds per profile picture on the swipe left, swipe right type of dating sites.
Im looking for that initial attraction, shape of her face, smile, believe it or not eyebrows too are a deal breaker.
If i go into her profile and all her pics are of a lavish lifestyle, skiing on the slopes, riding horses and partying in fields, she's not for me.
Pxx
So many women now have eyebrows that wash off in the shower!
There’s nothing wrong with that!
It’s when there’s no hair underneath after the eyebrows wash off that it becomes a problem!
I have very limited hair as overplucked in the 80/90s, I’ve had to get them tattooed now. I wish I had never touched them. "
My sister is the same!
She overplucked in her teens but I introducing her to Jamaican black castor oil and they are flourishing now!
I use it to grow my natural lashes too. X |
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"What is people's age range by the way?
I'm 22 and mines from 21-30
Perfect age! And yes If I had seen you on tinder I would be swiping right all night long
Shame you're not in my distance range then"
What is your distance range |
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?
This may sound harsh but I often give myself 3 seconds per profile picture on the swipe left, swipe right type of dating sites.
Im looking for that initial attraction, shape of her face, smile, believe it or not eyebrows too are a deal breaker.
If i go into her profile and all her pics are of a lavish lifestyle, skiing on the slopes, riding horses and partying in fields, she's not for me.
Pxx
So many women now have eyebrows that wash off in the shower!
There’s nothing wrong with that!
It’s when there’s no hair underneath after the eyebrows wash off that it becomes a problem!
I have very limited hair as overplucked in the 80/90s, I’ve had to get them tattooed now. I wish I had never touched them.
My sister is the same!
She overplucked in her teens but I introducing her to Jamaican black castor oil and they are flourishing now!
I use it to grow my natural lashes too. X"
May have to give it a try. |
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"Faces that please my eyes
No bio, no certain type of gal?"
Definitely the face and body grabs my attention first, but only enough to make me read their bio, if that makes them come across as boring, shallow, or just too different for us to get along then I'd pass them by. I would have got with girls purely based on looks despite having absolutely nothing in common when I was 20 but certainly not now |
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"What is people's age range by the way?
I'm 22 and mines from 21-30
Perfect age! And yes If I had seen you on tinder I would be swiping right all night long
Shame you're not in my distance range then
What is your distance range "
How far away are you again..? |
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"What is people's age range by the way?
I'm 22 and mines from 21-30
Perfect age! And yes If I had seen you on tinder I would be swiping right all night long
Shame you're not in my distance range then
What is your distance range
How far away are you again..? "
Get him girl!!!!!!! We can swap later x |
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"What is people's age range by the way?
I'm 22 and mines from 21-30
Perfect age! And yes If I had seen you on tinder I would be swiping right all night long
Shame you're not in my distance range then
What is your distance range
How far away are you again..?
Get him girl!!!!!!! We can swap later x"
Sounds like a deal to me! |
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"What is people's age range by the way?
I'm 22 and mines from 21-30
Perfect age! And yes If I had seen you on tinder I would be swiping right all night long
Shame you're not in my distance range then
What is your distance range
How far away are you again..?
Get him girl!!!!!!! We can swap later x
Sounds like a deal to me!"
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Face and eyes. Then read bio. If she's on fab then it's a No....amazing the phrases one uses that give it away....
See if they have taken any thought in their bio, an indication of what they really want and probably
Shows they can converse. That's paramount to dating. |
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I treat them like a dating site. I read the profile, look at the pics, if they seem cool I'll swipe right.
The whole online dating thing is quite disheartening anyway. I just can't be arsed with all the shit that comes with it. One line / empty profiles, aggressive statuses, it makes it quite hard to filter out those who aren't just looking for a quick ego boost. It honestly feels like a game. |
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over a year ago
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?"
im not on any dating apps, but from what i can see from your pictures id definitely swipe yes too you! |
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"Face and eyes. Then read bio. If she's on fab then it's a No....amazing the phrases one uses that give it away....
See if they have taken any thought in their bio, an indication of what they really want and probably
Shows they can converse. That's paramount to dating. "
Hmm doubt youd ever guess I was on fab from my tinder profile.. |
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I probably get swiped left on or looked at but don't receive a message because of my photos. I don't take photos well, I'm not a big photo kind of guy. Even if I was my phone is shit, so it looks like they've been taken on a photo.
Lately I've started to think I'm a decent looking lad when I sort my hair out, I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror the other day and wondered why the fuck I'm worried about my appearance for. |
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"As a singleton I have been known to frequent a dating app or two.. and looking at current profile I'm curious;
What do you, lads and lasses, look for? What makes you swipe right on someone?
And, if you saw someone from fab on there would you bring it up?"
I look for good sense of humour great smile sexy figure but really you never know anyone until you meet them |
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"Face and eyes. Then read bio. If she's on fab then it's a No....amazing the phrases one uses that give it away....
See if they have taken any thought in their bio, an indication of what they really want and probably
Shows they can converse. That's paramount to dating.
Hmm doubt youd ever guess I was on fab from my tinder profile.."
Same. If I was still on there.
The range of people that used to “super like” me on there was always interesting! |
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"Face and eyes. Then read bio. If she's on fab then it's a No....amazing the phrases one uses that give it away....
See if they have taken any thought in their bio, an indication of what they really want and probably
Shows they can converse. That's paramount to dating.
Hmm doubt youd ever guess I was on fab from my tinder profile..
Same. If I was still on there.
The range of people that used to “super like” me on there was always interesting! "
My profile on there is 100% different to my one on here! Funnily enough I have more personality that just a sex drive ahah |
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"Face and eyes. Then read bio. If she's on fab then it's a No....amazing the phrases one uses that give it away....
See if they have taken any thought in their bio, an indication of what they really want and probably
Shows they can converse. That's paramount to dating.
Hmm doubt youd ever guess I was on fab from my tinder profile..
Same. If I was still on there.
The range of people that used to “super like” me on there was always interesting!
My profile on there is 100% different to my one on here! Funnily enough I have more personality that just a sex drive ahah "
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"Face and eyes. Then read bio. If she's on fab then it's a No....amazing the phrases one uses that give it away....
See if they have taken any thought in their bio, an indication of what they really want and probably
Shows they can converse. That's paramount to dating.
Hmm doubt youd ever guess I was on fab from my tinder profile.."
Same , but I guess your not half naked on your dating apps x |
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"I don’t think I have a set thing... just either something draws me to the pics or not! It’s all subjective anyway... it’s not until you chat that you find out if there’s any chemistry anyway...
I have only seen 1 person from Fab so far on the dating apps and at some point we are meant to be going for a drink...
Good look and just be wary there’s just as many fake profiles /married/ taken men as on here! So just try and have some fun with it!
I've actuallt found fab better for.people wanting to meet up ahah!
I don't take it too seriously and am way too lazy with messages but thank you! X
How very different the experience is for women
It is... I would say my experience on the dating apps is far worse then on here!! I only use Bumble now I can’t stand tinder!
What’s Bumble like ??
Well I had a date a couple of weeks ago but he ended up been ‘taken’ . But on the whole I prefer it... much sexier guys on there... not many from Hull but I don’t mind travelling a bit... I guess it is what it is... I’m not seriously looking though at the moment... just keep having a peek!
I agree, Bumble is my favourite one. Much better standard of guys and they take it a bit more seriously than tinder. Tinder and Pof are my least favourite. Bumble and Feeld are my preferred ones.
I’ve never even heard of Bumble?? Bored to the back teeth of Pof/Tinder! Is it worth a look if the ideal is something a little more serious than FAB?
I use bumble the same way I use fab tbh, it’s just harder to get that I like swinging with a partner into the conversation but I do chat for ages and get to know people so we end up knowing everything about each other before we meet. "
I might have to give it a try as Tinder is useless, no opportunity to sell yourself in 300 letters! And POF is frequented by virtually every participant of the Jeremy Kyle show however when I do find someone who I mutually get on with it has given me the opportunity to get to know them, they’re likes etc before meeting up....like you though, still haven’t managed to get my timing right to suggest swinging together hence why I’m here I guess, similar mindset. |
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"Face and eyes. Then read bio. If she's on fab then it's a No....amazing the phrases one uses that give it away....
See if they have taken any thought in their bio, an indication of what they really want and probably
Shows they can converse. That's paramount to dating.
Hmm doubt youd ever guess I was on fab from my tinder profile..
Same , but I guess your not half naked on your dating apps x"
Jesus people not from fab are lucky to see me in a low cut top let alone my under wear..
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"Face and eyes. Then read bio. If she's on fab then it's a No....amazing the phrases one uses that give it away....
See if they have taken any thought in their bio, an indication of what they really want and probably
Shows they can converse. That's paramount to dating.
Hmm doubt youd ever guess I was on fab from my tinder profile..
Same , but I guess your not half naked on your dating apps x
Jesus people not from fab are lucky to see me in a low cut top let alone my under wear..
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Im sure your on fab for everyone to see wearing your underwear ,, sorry I couldn’t resist.. wasn’t having a dig atall just thought it was a contradiction in terms |
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"Face and eyes. Then read bio. If she's on fab then it's a No....amazing the phrases one uses that give it away....
See if they have taken any thought in their bio, an indication of what they really want and probably
Shows they can converse. That's paramount to dating.
Hmm doubt youd ever guess I was on fab from my tinder profile..
Same , but I guess your not half naked on your dating apps x
Jesus people not from fab are lucky to see me in a low cut top let alone my under wear..
Im sure your on fab for everyone to see wearing your underwear ,, sorry I couldn’t resist.. wasn’t having a dig atall just thought it was a contradiction in terms "
And I read it wrong , my bad. X |
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