Well here goes ... eek it’s taking me guts to post this but truth is well appreciated ... I have bad psoriasis n it makes me anxious embarrassed n self consious about it .. so been chatting to some one I thought was nice n the minute I told him bout my skin condition blocked me n before the block told me I was ugly disgusting n shouldn’t be on fab ... it takes me a lot to say bout my illness n bad skin n that’s made me more anxious n embarrassed about my condition ... so how many more people wud it put off??! |
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over a year ago
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I think it’s incredibly shallow and rude just cause you have skin imperfections not everyone is perfect he wasn’t worth it don’t let it get you down he was a jerk |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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It’s not you, it’s an insensitive €#*¥ that is the problem. The last thing you need is anything that shatters your confidence. That goes for everyone with insecurities of whatever form.
It’s easy to say ignore it and move on but that is what you need to do. |
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People like that are just straight up scumbags. Wouldnt lose a ounce of sleep worrying about what they think, just keeping on being you hun! Beauty is a mile wide but a inch deep thats what i always say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have every right to enjoy the site in the same way others do.
You're intelligent enough that it's something that will be raised between you and partners so in my opinion for what it's worth raise it relatively early? People should be allowed to make choices but his response was uncalled for and terribly unkind. |
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"Well here goes ... eek it’s taking me guts to post this but truth is well appreciated ... I have bad psoriasis n it makes me anxious embarrassed n self consious about it .. so been chatting to some one I thought was nice n the minute I told him bout my skin condition blocked me n before the block told me I was ugly disgusting n shouldn’t be on fab ... it takes me a lot to say bout my illness n bad skin n that’s made me more anxious n embarrassed about my condition ... so how many more people wud it put off??!"
I’m in the same boat OP....
Have had it for 12 years and I know exactly how it makes you feel.
I’ve put it on my profile stating it because if I was to ever meet with someone from here. It would somehow prepare them.
If you’re a leper then so am I... and if we should have to leave... then let’s make our own site. Start a business. And show strength, sexiness through success.
P.s. thank out for creating this post. I’m so encouraged that you have raised this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve got it .... I have it mostly on my legs
If someone said they didn’t want to meet me because of it , I’d be inclined to say
Fuck you and think to myself I’ve had a lucky escape
Psoriasis doesn’t define me , it’s my scars from a traumatic period of my life that I recovered from. I’m proud of my scars |
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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago
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"Should I leave fab n letvpeople meet perfect people? I literally feel like a leper after that message  "
Definitely not! That idiot is clearly the product of a wank stain. (Sorry makes me really angry).
I too have really bad psoriasis although currently only on one arm and both legs, but it can flare up from my face to ankles and even my lady area so I fully understand how hard it can be on here.
Keep your head held high and trust me there are guys on here that don't care about that stuff xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont leave because of shallow bullies. I wouldnt blame you if you named and shamed him so other fabbers can be aware of this horrid person.
Anyways ive checked you out and i the last thing i would be focusing on is your psoriasis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck it OP! Would you really want to meet someone so rude and shallow?
Stay on here, most people won't react in such a dickheadish way. I know it's hard but try to not let one arsehole effect your opinion of yourself and people on this site.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What an idiot he was. You have every right to be on here and psoriasis isn’t a disease. We all have imperfections, some more visible than others. Ignore him and carry on having fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I leave fab n letvpeople meet perfect people? I literally feel like a leper after that message "
.....................................there are no perfect people! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one is perfect and everyone has little imperfections, that just makes people unique in there own way, people are and can be shall and inconsiderate. I certainly wouldn’t say no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't let it get to you.
I ended up in hospital on and off for a couple years down to skin allergies causing eczema a few years back.
Really let it get to me. Became a shut in.
You need to realise that some people are just narrow minded and ignorant . It's nothing to be embarrassed about at all.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Frankly is says more about him than it does about you. There are some truly rancid septic individuals on here showing bravado behind a keyboard! Be yourself and stand tall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well here goes ... eek it’s taking me guts to post this but truth is well appreciated ... I have bad psoriasis n it makes me anxious embarrassed n self consious about it .. so been chatting to some one I thought was nice n the minute I told him bout my skin condition blocked me n before the block told me I was ugly disgusting n shouldn’t be on fab ... it takes me a lot to say bout my illness n bad skin n that’s made me more anxious n embarrassed about my condition ... so how many more people wud it put off??!"
Not us! He has this skin condition too. And its pretty bad. Even inside his ears.
So no judgemnet from us. Xxx |
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Psoriasis is far more common than a lot of people realise. Sometimes my hairline looks like a snow capped mountain. I have patches on my torso which I can be conscious about, but I tell it " ohhh psoriasis you little prick, me stressing will make you stronger, and you ain't winning so go fuck yourself.... I don't care about you"
The person in question was a bigger prick than the psoriasis in your case, and pricks like that don't deserve your attention. Most people with common sense and half a brain cell will feel the opposite to that moron. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all so much for the kind messages / in put/ I still feel so anxious self conscious n embarrassed about it x"
everyone gets there confidence knocked now and again for whatever reason,but your public pictures are gorgeous,and for every one guy like that,you'll find a thousand who who aren't! |
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"Well here goes ... eek it’s taking me guts to post this but truth is well appreciated ... I have bad psoriasis n it makes me anxious embarrassed n self consious about it .. so been chatting to some one I thought was nice n the minute I told him bout my skin condition blocked me n before the block told me I was ugly disgusting n shouldn’t be on fab ... it takes me a lot to say bout my illness n bad skin n that’s made me more anxious n embarrassed about my condition ... so how many more people wud it put off??!"
I suffer from eczema and it can flare up quite badly...if it puts anyone off then they're not rude enough to say. ...don't let on ignorant p*ick make you feel bad...
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I'm really sorry you've encountered such unnecessary nastiness. I bet he doesn't understand what it is but even if he no longer wanted to meet (which is his prerogative) it wouldn't have killed him to reject you more sensitively. I'm guessing he lashed out spitefully through frustration but that just shows how immature he is. I *know* all the oft quoted and sensible reasons for not naming and shaming but this is one of those occasions where I wish you could!
As for putting people off ... invariably, *some* people will be 'put off' by *some* aspects of others' appearance. But there are also many more for whom slight 'imperfections' (which many of us have in one form or another) don't matter if an attraction exists in the first place. If I was getting on with someone I hoped to meet and they'd told me about a skin condition then sure, I might ask a few questions but that'd be more from the prospect of any limitations - I'd be concerned for example whether anything we might do could hurt them, make them more sore etc. And, as with any other prospective meet, would then make a decision based on how compatible I thought we were, but of course would be polite and kind of it wasn't going to go any further.
You absolutely shouldn't be thinking of leaving because of this! |
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OP don't let one idiot put you off fab.
There are lots of people with health conditions on fab and they try not to let them get in the way.
I have a skin condition called hidradenitis suppurativa - I wouldn't recommend googling it, the pictures are horrid. It causes very painful boil type lesions in intimate areas such as the groin and under the boobs.
After dealing with the condition for over 30 years I've got some pretty bad scarring and I can be a bit self conscious because of where they are. I choose not to meet and play when I have a flare up because it's just too painful but when I'm well I just get out there and enjoy life.
My condition has had a big impact on my quality of life for many years but I refuse to allow it to take over. |
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Sorry that some narrow minded cock juggling thunder cunt spoke to you that way.
I’m sure he’s pretty perfect himself!!
The positive is that you had a lucky escape!
You’re beautiful, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
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That’s awful please try not to take any notice of that twat at least you found out what he is like before you may have met him it’s his lose.It takes a lot to say that about yourself if the guys decent he would not let that bother him.I would not waste another minute thinking about him just a narrow mineded loser who hide behind his key board to try and act the big man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Says more about him than it does about you. You dodged a bullet.
Having a medical condition doesn’t make you feel any less like wanting sex as anybody else. We all have needs, wants, desires, regardless of how ‘healthy’ we see ourselves. We’ve all got little issues that we think is more than it actually is.
See it as a good thing he’s shown his true colours before you met him and don’t let him drag you down.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" You have every right to enjoy the site in the same way others do.
You're intelligent enough that it's something that will be raised between you and partners so in my opinion for what it's worth raise it relatively early? People should be allowed to make choices but his response was uncalled for and terribly unkind."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I leave fab n letvpeople meet perfect people? I literally feel like a leper after that message "
He clearly is a total twat.
I have psoriasis and the only thing that has ever happened to me on a social or meet is that one lovely guy asked me what makes it flare up ... And he was genuinely concerned/interested.
Any normal, half decent bloke would be the same
Counter block the twat, report his message and enjoy fab ... Oh and incidentally, there are no perfect people on here, albeit some may think they are ... That guy included xxx |
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That is genuinely crap OP. Please do not leave fab. Don't let it get to you. The guy is an arse and probably has a small cock! Haha!
Talking about "skin imperfections"; I started to get Adult Acne last August on my face. All through my teens and 20s (when I was in a relationship) I had perfect skin and had alot of nice comments and now this happens when I am 37 and single. I'm gutted! Make up does cover it or tones it down; but I do get a bit anxious going on a social.
Blokes have been nice about it and they have said "I'm with you as a person and it doesn't matter". My personality shines through. One guy actually said "Don't feel you need to wear make-up around me". So that has all helped. I'm trying loads of treatments and watching my diet but it ain't going.
Don't let what the guy said pull you back. It's the way you are that counts! |
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By *att71Man
over a year ago
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He is the problem here.....not you...or FAB. We are beautiful in different ways and that's what makes us all special...i myself was blessed with a face for radio...please do not take the word of one person, as hurtful as it feels, as the view of us all...stay...smile and forget the idiots that can;t see tyou for what you are...a beautiful lady x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a mate who have really bad psoriasis all over his body and has no confidence, he's on here but wont put any public photos because he's afraid of what people might say but people like that are horrible we're all here for one thing and it shouldn't get in the way |
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"Well here goes ... eek it’s taking me guts to post this but truth is well appreciated ... I have bad psoriasis n it makes me anxious embarrassed n self consious about it .. so been chatting to some one I thought was nice n the minute I told him bout my skin condition blocked me n before the block told me I was ugly disgusting n shouldn’t be on fab ... it takes me a lot to say bout my illness n bad skin n that’s made me more anxious n embarrassed about my condition ... so how many more people wud it put off??!"
First of all, bless your heart. That's an absolutely disgusting response and you are better off not meeting him.
It would not put me off (with a man or a couple). I have an ex who had psoriasis so understand it's just excess skin!
Keep meeting, keep being honest. Anyone who has an issue with it are not for you anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a mate who have really bad psoriasis all over his body and has no confidence, he's on here but wont put any public photos because he's afraid of what people might say but people like that are horrible we're all here for one thing and it shouldn't get in the way "
Tell him to read this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have, he hasn't been verified or anything so he can't reply to it
You could verify him if he’s your mate "
I have tried several times but it just doesn't go through |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have, he hasn't been verified or anything so he can't reply to it
You could verify him if he’s your mate
I have tried several times but it just doesn't go through "
Oh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have, he hasn't been verified or anything so he can't reply to it
I think he can post to the forum if he's photo verified?"
Alright I'll let him know thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure your profile will normally attract a torrent of compliments but I guess the occasional world class bell end is an occupational hazard.
Regroup, dust off, dive back in. You're fab. |
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"Well here goes ... eek it’s taking me guts to post this but truth is well appreciated ... I have bad psoriasis n it makes me anxious embarrassed n self consious about it .. so been chatting to some one I thought was nice n the minute I told him bout my skin condition blocked me n before the block told me I was ugly disgusting n shouldn’t be on fab ... it takes me a lot to say bout my illness n bad skin n that’s made me more anxious n embarrassed about my condition ... so how many more people wud it put off??!"
He is a vile and pathetic worm. That says everything about him and nothing about you. And there is not one perfect person on Fab or anywhere else for that matter! |
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