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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

We all like to punch above our weight regardless of our gender but is it good to meet or have relationships with people who are better looking than you or is it good to meet or have relationship with somebody like you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Baby

There’s no one better looking than me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I never punch above my weight (Mr).. I'm 17 stone and 6 foot 5 inches tall

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends if you're insecure and constantly comparing yourself? If you are then possibly not as you'll piss the other person off eventually!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !"

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


" Depends if you're insecure and constantly comparing yourself? If you are then possibly not as you'll piss the other person off eventually!"

We all have eyes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Depends if you're insecure and constantly comparing yourself? If you are then possibly not as you'll piss the other person off eventually!

We all have eyes "

true, and I know there's fitter and better looking folk, but we stop comparing after awhile and just roll with it and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Look you’re not going to find a beauty queen at 4 am...

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys "

.

Where are all these 8/10 guys?

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I don't necessarily agree with this term. If someone has agreed to meet us it's because in their eyes we appeal to them somehow. That's not punching above or below our weight, its called attraction...and attraction is often an irrational thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys? "

Oh....ok

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys "

Do you have specific examples Or are you just saying that to stir it up?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching? "

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples"

Like Donald Trump and Melania Trump type couples? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I don't necessarily agree with this term. If someone has agreed to meet us it's because in their eyes we appeal to them somehow. That's not punching above or below our weight, its called attraction...and attraction is often an irrational thing."

Or maybe they are just horny

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys?

Oh....ok "

Well I know where you are! And what if you’re a 9/10?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What I mean by this is I'm messaged by men on here who would happily fuck me but all things being equal wouldn't date me.

Also I'm at least a 5/10 !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys?

Oh....ok

Well I know where you are! And what if you’re a 9/10? "

You suck ass

Carry on please

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Humm.. do i detect bitterness in here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples

Like Donald Trump and Melania Trump type couples? Lol "

I would say the attraction there was money, not looks

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull


"What I mean by this is I'm messaged by men on here who would happily fuck me but all things being equal wouldn't date me.

Also I'm at least a 5/10 ! "

That’s how I feel about myself too. I don’t take much of this stuff seriously though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching? "

Thank fuck for that. My punching days are behind me. I much prefer wrestling

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples

Like Donald Trump and Melania Trump type couples? Lol

I would say the attraction there was money, not looks"

Prince harry is punching above his weight with Megan Markle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !"

Do not believe that you are stunning

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples

Like Donald Trump and Melania Trump type couples? Lol

I would say the attraction there was money, not looks

Prince harry is punching above his weight with Megan Markle "

He's hot as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples

Like Donald Trump and Melania Trump type couples? Lol

I would say the attraction there was money, not looks

Prince harry is punching above his weight with Megan Markle

He's hot as fuck. "

Haha gingers have a very specific market

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

I find it strange people equate looks to punching above their weight.

Looks are subjective. For a quick fuck...my definition of good looking to fulfil a fantasy. For a relationship we have to be equally yoked. A good looking, thick pauper would not be partnership material for me.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I don't necessarily agree with this term. If someone has agreed to meet us it's because in their eyes we appeal to them somehow. That's not punching above or below our weight, its called attraction...and attraction is often an irrational thing."

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By *ornyandwellhungMan  over a year ago

belfast


"Baby

There’s no one better looking than me "

Well then, do you ever punch below your weight?

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By *eesideMan  over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"We all like to punch above our weight regardless of our gender but is it good to meet or have relationships with people who are better looking than you or is it good to meet or have relationship with somebody like you?

"

I don't get this...

Shortly you wood like sumone for Hoo thay are not wot thay look like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We all like to punch above our weight regardless of our gender but is it good to meet or have relationships with people who are better looking than you or is it good to meet or have relationship with somebody like you?

I don't get this...

Shortly you wood like sumone for Hoo thay are not wot thay look like."

Seeside, I love you for who you are but not sexually

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples"

No one would put me and my other half together. I'm more Monique than Halle whilst himself is a cross between Bruce Willis and Jason Statham...go figure!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys? "

I’m a strong 4/10 ! Any good

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We all like to punch above our weight regardless of our gender but is it good to meet or have relationships with people who are better looking than you or is it good to meet or have relationship with somebody like you?

"

What a silly question when looks are subjective, and how we perceive our own looks can depend on the state of self-esteem.

But I'll read responses anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys? "

You have to be a 3/10 lady to be able to find them apparently. The 3/10 ladies are very clique-y and don't reveal their secrets in finding these chaps. Should one of their number not wash for a while and drop into the 2/10 bracket or go for a full makeover and rise to a 4/10 they are instantly brainwashed by the others to forget all they knew, a bit like in "Men in Black."

Seeing as you're clearly not a 3/10 lady and probably never were I believe your search won't bear any fruit...

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By *969BewitchedWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham

I am attracted to much younger men and a lot of younger men like the mature woman experience.

There has to be an attraction on both sides so I wouldn't say either is punching above their weight although away from fab a relationship wouldn't be possible simply because of the age gaps.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We all like to punch above our weight regardless of our gender but is it good to meet or have relationships with people who are better looking than you or is it good to meet or have relationship with somebody like you?

I don't get this...

Shortly you wood like sumone for Hoo thay are not wot thay look like."

If I wanted a relationship then yes. If I just want to fuck you then physical attraction is just as important.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys? "

FFS where are the 5 and above out of 10?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We all like to punch above our weight regardless of our gender but is it good to meet or have relationships with people who are better looking than you or is it good to meet or have relationship with somebody like you?

What a silly question when looks are subjective, and how we perceive our own looks can depend on the state of self-esteem.

But I'll read responses anyhow

"

It is interesting, isn’t it?

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys?

You have to be a 3/10 lady to be able to find them apparently. The 3/10 ladies are very clique-y and don't reveal their secrets in finding these chaps. Should one of their number not wash for a while and drop into the 2/10 bracket or go for a full makeover and rise to a 4/10 they are instantly brainwashed by the others to forget all they knew, a bit like in "Men in Black."

Seeing as you're clearly not a 3/10 lady and probably never were I believe your search won't bear any fruit... "

Ah but on my own personal scale (don’t know who decides the OP’s scale) most of the men I’ve met, certainly the ones I’ve met more than once, have been at least 8/10 and above.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We all like to punch above our weight regardless of our gender but is it good to meet or have relationships with people who are better looking than you or is it good to meet or have relationship with somebody like you?

"

Any holes a goal a banana man.

Good looking men , tend to be useless in relationships. They are full of insecurities as they have had women handed to them on a plate. They can be good as a buddy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We all like to punch above our weight regardless of our gender but is it good to meet or have relationships with people who are better looking than you or is it good to meet or have relationship with somebody like you?

What a silly question when looks are subjective, and how we perceive our own looks can depend on the state of self-esteem.

But I'll read responses anyhow

It is interesting, isn’t it? "

You're a very bad man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

FYI it was actually mentioned by a woman that women on fab hold the power so just checking if it’s true

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We all like to punch above our weight regardless of our gender but is it good to meet or have relationships with people who are better looking than you or is it good to meet or have relationship with somebody like you?

Any holes a goal a banana man.

Good looking men , tend to be useless in relationships. They are full of insecurities as they have had women handed to them on a plate. They can be good as a buddy "

You are correct actually, I recently ate sushi off a woman’s body

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By *uckandbunnyCouple  over a year ago

In your bed

No such thing.

Who is the arbiter of this weird measure of attractiveness.

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By *VineMan  over a year ago

The right place

The worst meet I have ever had on here was with the most physically attractive woman I have met on here. We were chalk and cheese in terms of personality.

Attraction is more than physical.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, and it's bloody marvellous.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We all like to punch above our weight regardless of our gender but is it good to meet or have relationships with people who are better looking than you or is it good to meet or have relationship with somebody like you?

Any holes a goal a banana man.

Good looking men , tend to be useless in relationships. They are full of insecurities as they have had women handed to them on a plate. They can be good as a buddy "

Can the same be said of good-looking women?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"FYI it was actually mentioned by a woman that women on fab hold the power so just checking if it’s true "

No one holds the power as it depends on what you seek.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"FYI it was actually mentioned by a woman that women on fab hold the power so just checking if it’s true

No one holds the power as it depends on what you seek."

Oh and how you go about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys?

You have to be a 3/10 lady to be able to find them apparently. The 3/10 ladies are very clique-y and don't reveal their secrets in finding these chaps. Should one of their number not wash for a while and drop into the 2/10 bracket or go for a full makeover and rise to a 4/10 they are instantly brainwashed by the others to forget all they knew, a bit like in "Men in Black."

Seeing as you're clearly not a 3/10 lady and probably never were I believe your search won't bear any fruit...

Ah but on my own personal scale (don’t know who decides the OP’s scale) most of the men I’ve met, certainly the ones I’ve met more than once, have been at least 8/10 and above. "

In which case they were the 8.5's, 9's and over. You can't touch the 8/10's as the 3/10 women have a monopoly on them..

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By *ob198XaMan  over a year ago

teleford


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys? "

I'm here Hun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples"

Absolutely agree this does appear to have attracted a lot of faux self-deprecation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples

Absolutely agree this does appear to have attracted a lot of faux self-deprecation."

Yes that's very British though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

looks are subective. I find women dressed all in black with pale face and black lipstick very hot whilst others might not

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys?

You have to be a 3/10 lady to be able to find them apparently. The 3/10 ladies are very clique-y and don't reveal their secrets in finding these chaps. Should one of their number not wash for a while and drop into the 2/10 bracket or go for a full makeover and rise to a 4/10 they are instantly brainwashed by the others to forget all they knew, a bit like in "Men in Black."

Seeing as you're clearly not a 3/10 lady and probably never were I believe your search won't bear any fruit...

Ah but on my own personal scale (don’t know who decides the OP’s scale) most of the men I’ve met, certainly the ones I’ve met more than once, have been at least 8/10 and above.

In which case they were the 8.5's, 9's and over. You can't touch the 8/10's as the 3/10 women have a monopoly on them.. "

On who’s scale though? My 9 might be someone else’s 4 and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"looks are subective. I find women dressed all in black with pale face and black lipstick very hot whilst others might not"

I prefer red lipstick

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys?

You have to be a 3/10 lady to be able to find them apparently. The 3/10 ladies are very clique-y and don't reveal their secrets in finding these chaps. Should one of their number not wash for a while and drop into the 2/10 bracket or go for a full makeover and rise to a 4/10 they are instantly brainwashed by the others to forget all they knew, a bit like in "Men in Black."

Seeing as you're clearly not a 3/10 lady and probably never were I believe your search won't bear any fruit...

Ah but on my own personal scale (don’t know who decides the OP’s scale) most of the men I’ve met, certainly the ones I’ve met more than once, have been at least 8/10 and above.

In which case they were the 8.5's, 9's and over. You can't touch the 8/10's as the 3/10 women have a monopoly on them..

On who’s scale though? My 9 might be someone else’s 4 and vice versa. "

Who cares ? Pants down and get on with it ! It’s the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldnr say im the worst looking human here but i tend to end up talking to, and meeting lads i know wouldnt look at me twice in real life as theyre typically good looking lads..

so i guess that is punching above my weight.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"looks are subective. I find women dressed all in black with pale face and black lipstick very hot whilst others might not

I prefer red lipstick "

red is good too

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"looks are subective. I find women dressed all in black with pale face and black lipstick very hot whilst others might not

I prefer red lipstick

red is good too"

And skin colour

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple  over a year ago

HereAndThere

When I first had a meet with Mrs I knew I was punching and I got invited back !

And now as a couple we do ok

We see it as the steak and garnish syndrome!

Nobody only want the garnish(mr) only the steak(Mrs) but we now come as a pair so win win here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

This happens a lot on here tbh because women hold the power on fab that’s why you see a lot of 3/10 women meeting 8/10 guys .

Where are all these 8/10 guys?

You have to be a 3/10 lady to be able to find them apparently. The 3/10 ladies are very clique-y and don't reveal their secrets in finding these chaps. Should one of their number not wash for a while and drop into the 2/10 bracket or go for a full makeover and rise to a 4/10 they are instantly brainwashed by the others to forget all they knew, a bit like in "Men in Black."

Seeing as you're clearly not a 3/10 lady and probably never were I believe your search won't bear any fruit...

Ah but on my own personal scale (don’t know who decides the OP’s scale) most of the men I’ve met, certainly the ones I’ve met more than once, have been at least 8/10 and above.

In which case they were the 8.5's, 9's and over. You can't touch the 8/10's as the 3/10 women have a monopoly on them..

On who’s scale though? My 9 might be someone else’s 4 and vice versa. "

On the 3/10 women's agreed scale of course. They meet once a month in a secret bunker just outside of Goole to discuss these very matters. I snuck in there last time wearing a wig and the stories I could tell about what goes on in there...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't necessarily agree with this term. If someone has agreed to meet us it's because in their eyes we appeal to them somehow. That's not punching above or below our weight, its called attraction...and attraction is often an irrational thing."

I totally agree with this, I do however get messages sometimes and think phwoaaar I’m totally not your type in the “real world” and on that basis I delete. If I don’t think you’d date me I certainly won’t fuck you.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman  over a year ago

Hull

I would hate to think anyone thought that about me... attraction and chemistry can happen in the most unlikely of circumstances... of course this site is predominantly about looks initially and pictures... but it’s also about getting to know that person more to see if the spark is there... Boom if it is....

That’s part of the excitement waiting for the next fireworks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't think I'd fancy a woman who weighs more than me, unless she's about a foot taller...

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Tbh I think it's often used in a very bitch way ,as long as the people meeting fond each other attractive,who cares.

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By *eesideMan  over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"We all like to punch above our weight regardless of our gender but is it good to meet or have relationships with people who are better looking than you or is it good to meet or have relationship with somebody like you?

I don't get this...

Shortly you wood like sumone for Hoo thay are not wot thay look like.

Seeside, I love you for who you are but not sexually "

I'm very happy with that

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

F'knell .... you only use a scale of 10 ?

Some stinkingly low aspirations going on .... innit?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I don't think I'd fancy a woman who weighs more than me, unless she's about a foot taller..."

Do you fuck them or measure them ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would hate to think anyone thought that about me... attraction and chemistry can happen in the most unlikely of circumstances... of course this site is predominantly about looks initially and pictures... but it’s also about getting to know that person more to see if the spark is there... Boom if it is....

That’s part of the excitement waiting for the next fireworks "

Agree with this sentiment. I also find that the fireworks are also so much more mindblowing when they just sneak up on you and go off unexpectedly... A little mystery can be exquisite..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples

Absolutely agree this does appear to have attracted a lot of faux self-deprecation.

Yes that's very British though. "

Faux self-deprecation isn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I don't think I'd fancy a woman who weighs more than me, unless she's about a foot taller..."

#controversial

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Drago from far away

Arrived with his scales

Drago said , ' Granny, Jump up on these scales.

Granny said , Drago, Fuck off with the pressure.'

So Drago asked Granny to lean against his tape measure.

"Granny!" he shouted, "You're shorter n wider.

N me cocks just too small to get up inside yer!

Well it isn't too small , it's long and it's fat but

It just won't reach around from your ass to your twat

Granny grinned widely and gave Drago a shunt...

Now his voice is heard faintly from inside her .........

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Drago from far away

Arrived with his scales

Drago said , ' Granny, Jump up on these scales.

Granny said , Drago, Fuck off with the pressure.'

So Drago asked Granny to lean against his tape measure.

"Granny!" he shouted, "You're shorter n wider.

N me cocks just too small to get up inside yer!

Well it isn't too small , it's long and it's fat but

It just won't reach around from your ass to your twat

Granny grinned widely and gave Drago a shunt...

Now his voice is heard faintly from inside her ......... "

Haha morning sexy x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't think I'd fancy a woman who weighs more than me, unless she's about a foot taller..."

I might fit that criteria finally, my height might prove useful!!!!!

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By *iamondCougarWoman  over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I don't necessarily agree with this term. If someone has agreed to meet us it's because in their eyes we appeal to them somehow. That's not punching above or below our weight, its called attraction...and attraction is often an irrational thing."

I agree! We are all what we are. We all have our specific filters around who or what we like/enjoy. If anyone personally feels they are punching above their weight then perhaps there are insecurity issues.

Always ‘punch’ if you think it will hit the right spot! So to speak

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Drago from far away

Arrived with his scales

Drago said , ' Granny, Jump up on these scales.

Granny said , Drago, Fuck off with the pressure.'

So Drago asked Granny to lean against his tape measure.

"Granny!" he shouted, "You're shorter n wider.

N me cocks just too small to get up inside yer!

Well it isn't too small , it's long and it's fat but

It just won't reach around from your ass to your twat

Granny grinned widely and gave Drago a shunt...

Now his voice is heard faintly from inside her .........

Haha morning sexy x"

Morning beautiful inside and outside.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Drago from far away

Arrived with his scales

Drago said , ' Granny, Jump up on these scales.

Granny said , Drago, Fuck off with the pressure.'

So Drago asked Granny to lean against his tape measure.

"Granny!" he shouted, "You're shorter n wider.

N me cocks just too small to get up inside yer!

Well it isn't too small , it's long and it's fat but

It just won't reach around from your ass to your twat

Granny grinned widely and gave Drago a shunt...

Now his voice is heard faintly from inside her .........

Haha morning sexy x

Morning beautiful inside and outside."

When did you get inside me? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don’t think you can quantify attraction, it’s about much more than physical looks alone. I’ve met men after chatting on here that I’ve thought I wouldn’t normally attract in real life but because we’ve had the chance to talk first our personality has given us a more open mind to find the physical attraction between us x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is it punching above your weight really a lot of it’s attraction and chemistry oh and a lot of lust

I’m happy if I get someone who views my profile nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would hate to think anyone thought that about me... attraction and chemistry can happen in the most unlikely of circumstances... of course this site is predominantly about looks initially and pictures... but it’s also about getting to know that person more to see if the spark is there... Boom if it is....

That’s part of the excitement waiting for the next fireworks

Agree with this sentiment. I also find that the fireworks are also so much more mindblowing when they just sneak up on you and go off unexpectedly... A little mystery can be exquisite.. "

Sounds like a fart

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples

Like Donald Trump and Melania Trump type couples? Lol

I would say the attraction there was money, not looks

Prince harry is punching above his weight with Megan Markle "

Like fuck is he - she is the one way out of her league!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman  over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I think its ok to meet people who are better looking, looks are important but so is personality, you wouldnt want to meet someone who is good looking if they had a personality disorder or was a narcisist. I wouldnt marry someone who was better looking than me though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Women on the forums often say they wouldn't meet really hot men or really hot women in couples because they'd feel inferior. Or that the person was just meeting them out of pity.

So although many people seem to be annoyed about the idea of 'leagues', they do exist. Otherwise they wouldn't feel inferior.

So it's actually a fair question.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women on the forums often say they wouldn't meet really hot men or really hot women in couples because they'd feel inferior. Or that the person was just meeting them out of pity.

So although many people seem to be annoyed about the idea of 'leagues', they do exist. Otherwise they wouldn't feel inferior.

So it's actually a fair question. "

Exactly. People who say they would meet just based on personality are delusional

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All the guys I fuck off here are me punching above me weight. In reality I wouldn't have a hope in hell with them otherwise !

Do not believe that you are stunning"

^^^^ He's punching

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Women on the forums often say they wouldn't meet really hot men or really hot women in couples because they'd feel inferior. Or that the person was just meeting them out of pity.

So although many people seem to be annoyed about the idea of 'leagues', they do exist. Otherwise they wouldn't feel inferior.

So it's actually a fair question.

Exactly. People who say they would meet just based on personality are delusional"

I’ll meet for pussy if that counts and face too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women on the forums often say they wouldn't meet really hot men or really hot women in couples because they'd feel inferior. Or that the person was just meeting them out of pity.

So although many people seem to be annoyed about the idea of 'leagues', they do exist. Otherwise they wouldn't feel inferior.

So it's actually a fair question. "

I am attracted to, and have attracted, very good looking partners (in my view - I or they might not appeal to others). In the end, that's all that matters isn't it? I don't buy into this notion of leagues at all, and feel neither superior nor inferior to those I meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Women on the forums often say they wouldn't meet really hot men or really hot women in couples because they'd feel inferior. Or that the person was just meeting them out of pity.

So although many people seem to be annoyed about the idea of 'leagues', they do exist. Otherwise they wouldn't feel inferior.

So it's actually a fair question.

I am attracted to, and have attracted, very good looking partners (in my view - I or they might not appeal to others). In the end, that's all that matters isn't it? I don't buy into this notion of leagues at all, and feel neither superior nor inferior to those I meet"

Then why do I get friend-zoned every single time! Hmmm

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

These threads always amuse me...

If a guy is perceived to be "punching above his weight" he gets pats on the back and "Well done mate"

If a woman on Fab has the cheek to be perceived to be "punching above their weight" then they have scorn poured on them in threads like these.

All the guys who take umbrage about us terrible women "punching above our weight" as you see it, I suggest you get back out into the real world where presumably you all do so well....

Silly billies.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women on the forums often say they wouldn't meet really hot men or really hot women in couples because they'd feel inferior. Or that the person was just meeting them out of pity.

So although many people seem to be annoyed about the idea of 'leagues', they do exist. Otherwise they wouldn't feel inferior.

So it's actually a fair question.

I am attracted to, and have attracted, very good looking partners (in my view - I or they might not appeal to others). In the end, that's all that matters isn't it? I don't buy into this notion of leagues at all, and feel neither superior nor inferior to those I meet

Then why do I get friend-zoned every single time! Hmmm "

I leave that to you to determine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The goal, young padawan, is to reach the point where there is no above, nor below, there is no punch, nor fist... there is no league. Then you will be free. Namaste

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couples"

Exactly, mutual attraction is a wonderful thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everyone I've met is punching above their weight.

I need to stop lowering my standards to the bottom feeders

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Everyone I've met is punching above their weight.

I need to stop lowering my standards to the bottom feeders"

I'm not feeding on your bottom no matter what!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone I've met is punching above their weight.

I need to stop lowering my standards to the bottom feeders

I'm not feeding on your bottom no matter what! "

Not yet you are not.....but You will

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Everyone I've met is punching above their weight.

I need to stop lowering my standards to the bottom feeders

I'm not feeding on your bottom no matter what!

Not yet you are not.....but You will "

Never!!! I have the power don't forget, and I's cleverer too!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone I've met is punching above their weight.

I need to stop lowering my standards to the bottom feeders

I'm not feeding on your bottom no matter what!

Not yet you are not.....but You will

Never!!! I have the power don't forget, and I's cleverer too!! "

Being clever won't stop you from meeting a superior looking specimen

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't necessarily agree with this term. If someone has agreed to meet us it's because in their eyes we appeal to them somehow. That's not punching above or below our weight, its called attraction...and attraction is often an irrational thing.

I totally agree with this, I do however get messages sometimes and think phwoaaar I’m totally not your type in the “real world” and on that basis I delete. If I don’t think you’d date me I certainly won’t fuck you. "

That's a crazy way of going about things. Would it not be better to engage in conversation and see if that is actually the case first. I've had a few phwoaaar moments on here and some have turned out to be a mutual phwoaaar, even if i really didn't expect it to. Surely you aim for phwoaaar instead of settling for Meh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone I've met is punching above their weight.

I need to stop lowering my standards to the bottom feeders"

But if rimming is one of your pleasures....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Thank fuck for that. My punching days are behind me. I much prefer wrestling "

Jelly or Mud?

Saying within your weight is even more important is wrestling or 1 person could get squished. Which is never good, unless that's your fetish of course.

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Everyone I've met is punching above their weight.

I need to stop lowering my standards to the bottom feeders

I'm not feeding on your bottom no matter what!

Not yet you are not.....but You will

Never!!! I have the power don't forget, and I's cleverer too!!

Being clever won't stop you from meeting a superior looking specimen "

Oh I'll shag 'em, but they can go elsewhere for their bottom feeding!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone I've met is punching above their weight.

I need to stop lowering my standards to the bottom feeders

I'm not feeding on your bottom no matter what!

Not yet you are not.....but You will

Never!!! I have the power don't forget, and I's cleverer too!!

Being clever won't stop you from meeting a superior looking specimen

Oh I'll shag 'em, but they can go elsewhere for their bottom feeding!! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Completely agree. The concept only exists in your head if you allow it to do so. There is no rhyme or reason to mutual attraction, it can exist between the most unexpected and unlikely couple.

Like Donald Trump and Melania Trump type couples? Lol

I would say the attraction there was money, not looks

Prince harry is punching above his weight with Megan Markle "

Power is a huge aphrodisiac

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan  over a year ago

oulton broad

I guess we all dare to dream when we look on people’s profiles and think they have the wow factor.if the attraction is there for both parties it’s not really punching above your weight is it ? .though always have a brown paper bag handy or a gimp mask just in case x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Drago from far away

Arrived with his scales

Drago said , ' Granny, Jump up on these scales.

Granny said , Drago, Fuck off with the pressure.'

So Drago asked Granny to lean against his tape measure.

"Granny!" he shouted, "You're shorter n wider.

N me cocks just too small to get up inside yer!

Well it isn't too small , it's long and it's fat but

It just won't reach around from your ass to your twat

Granny grinned widely and gave Drago a shunt...

Now his voice is heard faintly from inside her ......... "

I could tie a plank across my arse?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't think I'd fancy a woman who weighs more than me, unless she's about a foot taller...

Do you fuck them or measure them ?"

I measure them. Both physically and mentally. Doesn't everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely if the attraction is mutual no one is punching?

Thank fuck for that. My punching days are behind me. I much prefer wrestling

Jelly or Mud?

Saying within your weight is even more important is wrestling or 1 person could get squished. Which is never good, unless that's your fetish of course. "

This

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