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New Adventures..Tantric-myth or legend?
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Two months into my “swingers” journey, and I’m coming across lots of new experiences and adventures. I guess I’m like a sponge, soaking it all up and wishing I’d done it years ago.
Now this “Tantric Sex” topic has come to my attention, and I would like to ask all my experienced/knowledgeable fabbing friends for your thoughts, and your own experiences of this.... all greatly welcomed and appreciated
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"Very interesting question but not a subject I know a great deal about.
Looking forward to hearing about people’s views and experiences.
Me too  but where is everyone ?? Puzzling ?? "
Not sure! Maybe you and I should do some private research |
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My take on it... relatively recent Western invention with mock Eastern ancience... basically just the art of good prolonged foreplay. I like the idea that you can bring flirtatious sexual energy into your everyday life.
Where it falls short for me, as with most "spiritual" takes on sex, is that it just isn't kinky enough. Take for example a weekend couples retreat on how to stimulate your sexual desire. Give the reigns to me to lead a group of 10 sexy couples in stimulating sexual desire and the whole thing would be unforgettably kinky, involving undressing other's partners, countless acts of delicious sexual transgression with others, and finally descending into a mass mayhem of desirous fucking.
But I suspect no such thing goes on at any of these tantric workshops. I suspect they're utterly vanilla... which is a shame as, there's no doubt about it in my mind... there is something spiritual in being wild and free and kinky  |
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"My take on it... relatively recent Western invention with mock Eastern ancience... basically just the art of good prolonged foreplay. I like the idea that you can bring flirtatious sexual energy into your everyday life.
Where it falls short for me, as with most "spiritual" takes on sex, is that it just isn't kinky enough. Take for example a weekend couples retreat on how to stimulate your sexual desire. Give the reigns to me to lead a group of 10 sexy couples in stimulating sexual desire and the whole thing would be unforgettably kinky, involving undressing other's partners, countless acts of delicious sexual transgression with others, and finally descending into a mass mayhem of desirous fucking.
But I suspect no such thing goes on at any of these tantric workshops. I suspect they're utterly vanilla... which is a shame as, there's no doubt about it in my mind... there is something spiritual in being wild and free and kinky "
I get what your saying, but Im not so sure its Not..... wild, free, kinky, unvanilla. How do we know for sure? If we have not participated ?
I thought it had a bad press because it was all of the above..... otherwise what's all the fuss about ?? |
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"Which equates to more sex as your les tired, due to Not actually ejaculating  wow "
I'd hazard a guess that most guys could control when they ejaculate (I know I can) if they could be bothered about satisfying the woman. It's pretty easy to tell when you're getting close to the edge and to know how to back off and do something else like some kissing or exploring for a while. I've definitely been caught out because a woman has said or done something super sexy and I've suddenly gone from really turned on to way too turned on and been unable to hold back. But most women recognise this can be a problem with guys, so are quite happy to back off for a bit or hold back on being too sexy until they're in a position close to cumming themselves. So it's very easy to work together to enjoy prolonged sex if that's something you want to do. The problem is that most men are too selfish to bother imo |
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"My take on it... relatively recent Western invention with mock Eastern ancience... basically just the art of good prolonged foreplay. I like the idea that you can bring flirtatious sexual energy into your everyday life.
Where it falls short for me, as with most "spiritual" takes on sex, is that it just isn't kinky enough. Take for example a weekend couples retreat on how to stimulate your sexual desire. Give the reigns to me to lead a group of 10 sexy couples in stimulating sexual desire and the whole thing would be unforgettably kinky, involving undressing other's partners, countless acts of delicious sexual transgression with others, and finally descending into a mass mayhem of desirous fucking.
But I suspect no such thing goes on at any of these tantric workshops. I suspect they're utterly vanilla... which is a shame as, there's no doubt about it in my mind... there is something spiritual in being wild and free and kinky
I get what your saying, but Im not so sure its Not..... wild, free, kinky, unvanilla. How do we know for sure? If we have not participated ?
I thought it had a bad press because it was all of the above..... otherwise what's all the fuss about ?? "
I agree. I'd like to give it a go. There's a tantric sex festival that occurs in Sweden that I've been eyeing up for a while. I haven't yet plucked up the courage to go. I suspect they allow a certain degree of kinkiness and exploration if it's mutually desired. But I doubt they actively explore it. But I could be wrong. They have a very low opinion of swingers though. Perhaps rightly so |
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"My take on it... relatively recent Western invention with mock Eastern ancience... basically just the art of good prolonged foreplay. I like the idea that you can bring flirtatious sexual energy into your everyday life.
Where it falls short for me, as with most "spiritual" takes on sex, is that it just isn't kinky enough. Take for example a weekend couples retreat on how to stimulate your sexual desire. Give the reigns to me to lead a group of 10 sexy couples in stimulating sexual desire and the whole thing would be unforgettably kinky, involving undressing other's partners, countless acts of delicious sexual transgression with others, and finally descending into a mass mayhem of desirous fucking.
But I suspect no such thing goes on at any of these tantric workshops. I suspect they're utterly vanilla... which is a shame as, there's no doubt about it in my mind... there is something spiritual in being wild and free and kinky
I get what your saying, but Im not so sure its Not..... wild, free, kinky, unvanilla. How do we know for sure? If we have not participated ?
I thought it had a bad press because it was all of the above..... otherwise what's all the fuss about ??
I agree. I'd like to give it a go. There's a tantric sex festival that occurs in Sweden that I've been eyeing up for a while. I haven't yet plucked up the courage to go. I suspect they allow a certain degree of kinkiness and exploration if it's mutually desired. But I doubt they actively explore it. But I could be wrong. They have a very low opinion of swingers though. Perhaps rightly so "
Oh that’s not good.... I’ve only been here for 9 weeks and I’ve met some really nice people....
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