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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi
My name is _eeside and i live in Margate.
I'm a fun loving guy, always honest with a good sense of humour and I'm looking to find someone to date.
I’m dyslexic and have asparagus and believe it or not I have never had a girlfriend despite my best attempts. Yes that dose mean what it sounds like. I'm still a virgin. I know this may put a lot of but I like to be honest.
No this is not a joke.
I like to do things like
Walking along the cost
Play in the arcades
Play 10 pin bowling
Going out to eat
And have days out to places. Normally to a heritage steam railway.
ECT....
I don't and never have smoked done drugs or anything illegal.
Ideally I’d like to find someone to date and start a long term relationship with and to start a family as all I’ve ever wanted is to be a dad. So if you already have kids you must be happy to have at least 1 more. Again I know this may put some of you off but I like to be honest.
If you don't have any kids at all then ideally I’d like to have more than one but that's not set in stone.
I work 2 jobs and because both are 0 hour contract my hours are never quite the same from 1 week to the next but i always get some free time.
Im also only on public transport so I can’t travel very long distances.
If your interested please do message me and hopefully we can meet up for a social to have a chat and hopefully things will go further. 
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have to say - it’s ‘aspergers’ not ‘asparagus’ but saying that just made me laugh so much. 
You’re a fine man 
I chuckled too. Xx"
It came up on my alto spell and it looked rite. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry _eeside. But asparagus lol. Anyway have you tried the no meets social i believe is happening
O that is happening its as its me running it maybe you will find someone at it"
Maybe |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi
My name is _eeside and i live in Margate.
I'm a fun loving guy, always honest with a good sense of humour and I'm looking to find someone to date.
I’m dyslexic and have aspergers and believe it or not I have never had a girlfriend despite my best attempts. Yes that dose mean what it sounds like. I'm still a virgin. I know this may put a lot of but I like to be honest.
No this is not a joke.
I like to do things like
Walking along the cost
Play in the arcades
Play 10 pin bowling
Going out to eat
And have days out to places. Normally to a heritage steam railway.
ECT....
I don't and never have smoked done drugs or anything illegal.
Ideally I’d like to find someone to date and start a long term relationship with and to start a family as all I’ve ever wanted is to be a dad. So if you already have kids you must be happy to have at least 1 more. Again I know this may put some of you off but I like to be honest.
If you don't have any kids at all then ideally I’d like to have more than one but that's not set in stone.
I work 2 jobs and because both are 0 hour contract my hours are never quite the same from 1 week to the next but i always get some free time.
Im also only on public transport so I can’t travel very long distances.
If your interested please do message me and hopefully we can meet up for a social to have a chat and hopefully things will go further.
Try that agen
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Seeside are you on any of the dating sites?"
I have Tryed a fue but thay eather all have a charge before you can read and send messages. Or the 100% free 1s no one wants a date just a 1 night stand.  |
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over a year ago
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Hi mate....
It might be worth trying the 'Plenty of Fish' dating site. I was on there a while back and there seemed to be plenty of nice women around the Thanet area. In fact, I had a few dates with some lovely ladies from your part of town. So, maybe worth a shot.
Good luck and all the best... |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hi mate....
It might be worth trying the 'Plenty of Fish' dating site. I was on there a while back and there seemed to be plenty of nice women around the Thanet area. In fact, I had a few dates with some lovely ladies from your part of town. So, maybe worth a shot.
Good luck and all the best... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seeside, I hope you find what you're looking for.
Dating sites may be the answer, but have no idea which ones.
Try going out socially more, which I know for some people with Asperger's is not easy.
Don't rush into things if you do meet someone, they may not necessary be the one for you.
Also nothing wrong with still being a virgin.
Good luck |
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"Seeside are you on any of the dating sites?
I have Tryed a fue but thay eather all have a charge before you can read and send messages. Or the 100% free 1s no one wants a date just a 1 night stand. "
Yes that's the thing, most are free to join,then you have to pay to read messages.
I joined one on a trial period and straight away they took another months money out of my bank. So be careful of that. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"The future Mrs Seeside is out there. She’ll appear when you least expect it no doubt.
Hang on in there Mr S. "
I'm trying to hang on but I've been hanging for quite a fue years now lol |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Seeside, I hope you find what you're looking for.
Dating sites may be the answer, but have no idea which ones.
Try going out socially more, which I know for some people with Asperger's is not easy.
Don't rush into things if you do meet someone, they may not necessary be the one for you.
Also nothing wrong with still being a virgin.
Good luck"
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Seeside are you on any of the dating sites?
I have Tryed a fue but thay eather all have a charge before you can read and send messages. Or the 100% free 1s no one wants a date just a 1 night stand.
Yes that's the thing, most are free to join,then you have to pay to read messages.
I joined one on a trial period and straight away they took another months money out of my bank. So be careful of that."
That's just 1 resoun i never use my card and allways use cash |
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Seeside, you could always be famous and get yourself on the TV show "Undatables"
Listened to a lady today that has been on it, after she had suffered from a stroke, never found out if she had any luck though. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?"
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Seeside, you could always be famous and get yourself on the TV show "Undatables"
Listened to a lady today that has been on it, after she had suffered from a stroke, never found out if she had any luck though."
I'm not redey for TV yet...... |
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley."
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off. |
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"Seeside, you could always be famous and get yourself on the TV show "Undatables"
Listened to a lady today that has been on it, after she had suffered from a stroke, never found out if she had any luck though.
I'm not redey for TV yet......"
Anyway you don't need TV to make you famous and a legend.
You're one one here |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off."
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Seeside, you could always be famous and get yourself on the TV show "Undatables"
Listened to a lady today that has been on it, after she had suffered from a stroke, never found out if she had any luck though.
I'm not redey for TV yet......
Anyway you don't need TV to make you famous and a legend.
You're one one here "
I woodount say I'm a legend. |
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over a year ago
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"I have to say - it’s ‘aspergers’ not ‘asparagus’ but saying that just made me laugh so much.
You’re a fine man "
You never know, that might be the clincher, a nice lady partial to asparagus might just come along.
Good luck mate, I think you’d make a fine dad and husband and I’m sure you will one day. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have to say - it’s ‘aspergers’ not ‘asparagus’ but saying that just made me laugh so much.
You’re a fine man
You never know, that might be the clincher, a nice lady partial to asparagus might just come along.
Good luck mate, I think you’d make a fine dad and husband and I’m sure you will one day. "
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"Seeside, you could always be famous and get yourself on the TV show "Undatables"
Listened to a lady today that has been on it, after she had suffered from a stroke, never found out if she had any luck though.
I'm not redey for TV yet......"
You know what mate, I was thinking the same about the undateables but didntknow how to say it without sounding insulting. There are some great characters on that show and I reckon you’d be up there with the best of them. |
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"Seeside, you could always be famous and get yourself on the TV show "Undatables"
Listened to a lady today that has been on it, after she had suffered from a stroke, never found out if she had any luck though.
I'm not redey for TV yet......
Anyway you don't need TV to make you famous and a legend.
You're one one here "
but its not getting him a date. Its a date he wants |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Seeside, you could always be famous and get yourself on the TV show "Undatables"
Listened to a lady today that has been on it, after she had suffered from a stroke, never found out if she had any luck though.
I'm not redey for TV yet......
You know what mate, I was thinking the same about the undateables but didntknow how to say it without sounding insulting. There are some great characters on that show and I reckon you’d be up there with the best of them. "
The thing is i worked with sumone Hoo new sumone that did go on the show.
On the show he had a nurvers fit the day before the date and thay eddtied it so it looked like he had the fit on the day with the date.
That's just 1 resoun y I'm not redey for tv yet. |
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"Hi
My name is _eeside and i live in Margate.
I'm a fun loving guy, always honest with a good sense of humour and I'm looking to find someone to date.
I’m dyslexic and have asparagus and believe it or not I have never had a girlfriend despite my best attempts. Yes that dose mean what it sounds like. I'm still a virgin. I know this may put a lot of but I like to be honest.
No this is not a joke.
I like to do things like
Walking along the cost
Play in the arcades
Play 10 pin bowling
Going out to eat
And have days out to places. Normally to a heritage steam railway.
ECT....
I don't and never have smoked done drugs or anything illegal.
Ideally I’d like to find someone to date and start a long term relationship with and to start a family as all I’ve ever wanted is to be a dad. So if you already have kids you must be happy to have at least 1 more. Again I know this may put some of you off but I like to be honest.
If you don't have any kids at all then ideally I’d like to have more than one but that's not set in stone.
I work 2 jobs and because both are 0 hour contract my hours are never quite the same from 1 week to the next but i always get some free time.
Im also only on public transport so I can’t travel very long distances.
If your interested please do message me and hopefully we can meet up for a social to have a chat and hopefully things will go further.
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"How about going to Eurekas in Kent? "
Stripping of for all to see is not really my thing.
On a 1-1 with a nice ladey doing the same yes but to a load of strangers no chance.
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Have you looked in to any kind of social events or meetings for Aspergers sufferers like yourself that might be organised by your local authority or even charities in your area . Events such as singles holidays that cater for your needs ? Dating events etc etc . I’m sure if you contact your local authority they will point you in the right direction for the cost of a phone call . Good luck you sound a good bloke |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Seeside. If you met another virgin would you be happy to stay a virgin until after the wedding. I know their are sites for people keeping there virginity but i think they are mostly christian ones"
Ya id happily do that if sumone like that came along
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box "
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose. |
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"How about going to Eurekas in Kent? "
Would Eureka's be the place to find a date/partner though.
I've never been, so am clueless to what events they hold there. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hi
My name is _eeside and i live in Margate.
I'm a fun loving guy, always honest with a good sense of humour and I'm looking to find someone to date.
I’m dyslexic and have asparagus and believe it or not I have never had a girlfriend despite my best attempts. Yes that dose mean what it sounds like. I'm still a virgin. I know this may put a lot of but I like to be honest.
No this is not a joke.
I like to do things like
Walking along the cost
Play in the arcades
Play 10 pin bowling
Going out to eat
And have days out to places. Normally to a heritage steam railway.
ECT....
I don't and never have smoked done drugs or anything illegal.
Ideally I’d like to find someone to date and start a long term relationship with and to start a family as all I’ve ever wanted is to be a dad. So if you already have kids you must be happy to have at least 1 more. Again I know this may put some of you off but I like to be honest.
If you don't have any kids at all then ideally I’d like to have more than one but that's not set in stone.
I work 2 jobs and because both are 0 hour contract my hours are never quite the same from 1 week to the next but i always get some free time.
Im also only on public transport so I can’t travel very long distances.
If your interested please do message me and hopefully we can meet up for a social to have a chat and hopefully things will go further.
Well done for posting this "
Thanks.
It took a wile to do all the spelling. And even then i got a,word rong |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Have you looked in to any kind of social events or meetings for Aspergers sufferers like yourself that might be organised by your local authority or even charities in your area . Events such as singles holidays that cater for your needs ? Dating events etc etc . I’m sure if you contact your local authority they will point you in the right direction for the cost of a phone call . Good luck you sound a good bloke "
I am part of a Aspergers groop in Thanet that meets up 1ce a month for sum sort of social but thar issount anything for dateing. |
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose. "
Have to watch some of these kind of site too, one I joined up to was all bots.
If there was anyone real, I never got messages from them.
When I put that to the admin,they said that the ladies are issued with an auto answer software for when they can't answer.
Hahaha |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose. "
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day. |
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Some times maybe looking at paying for asite looking to date might be worth it.
I know in undateables there is a dating agency mentioned that might help you or google came with a few. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Some times maybe looking at paying for asite looking to date might be worth it.
I know in undateables there is a dating agency mentioned that might help you or google came with a few. "
Maybe... |
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"How about going to Eurekas in Kent?
Would Eureka's be the place to find a date/partner though.
I've never been, so am clueless to what events they hold there."
A date/partner can be found anywhere. At least folk there are of a similar mindset when it comes to naturism/nudity/sex I would hope. |
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day."
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day.
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway."
Only if you can prove it wos theft. |
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day.
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway.
Only if you can prove it wos theft."
No it's happened twice to me and it wasn't even me that noticed to be honest. It was the bank that rang me.
Anyway good luck in finding what you want. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day.
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway.
Only if you can prove it wos theft.
No it's happened twice to me and it wasn't even me that noticed to be honest. It was the bank that rang me.
Anyway good luck in finding what you want."
O ok.  I'll give it a think then.
And thanks. |
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day.
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway.
Only if you can prove it wos theft."
why dont you keep your money in one bank account and just a small amount in the other and use your card with that one |
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over a year ago
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day.
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway.
Only if you can prove it wos theft.why dont you keep your money in one bank account and just a small amount in the other and use your card with that one"
Have a 2nd bank account just for cards.
That's brilliant y did i never think of that.
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day.
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway.
Only if you can prove it wos theft.why dont you keep your money in one bank account and just a small amount in the other and use your card with that one
Have a 2nd bank account just for cards.
That's brilliant y did i never think of that.
Thanks for that "
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over a year ago
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day.
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway.
Only if you can prove it wos theft.why dont you keep your money in one bank account and just a small amount in the other and use your card with that one
Have a 2nd bank account just for cards.
That's brilliant y did i never think of that.
Thanks for that happy to help "
And i cood open it in a nother bank to so that way the 2 accounts won't even be related.
I like that idear |
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day.
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway.
Only if you can prove it wos theft.why dont you keep your money in one bank account and just a small amount in the other and use your card with that one
Have a 2nd bank account just for cards.
That's brilliant y did i never think of that.
Thanks for that happy to help
And i cood open it in a nother bank to so that way the 2 accounts won't even be related.
I like that idear "
yes. Thats what i do. I never keep much money in my card account |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day.
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway.
Only if you can prove it wos theft.why dont you keep your money in one bank account and just a small amount in the other and use your card with that one
Have a 2nd bank account just for cards.
That's brilliant y did i never think of that.
Thanks for that happy to help
And i cood open it in a nother bank to so that way the 2 accounts won't even be related.
I like that idear yes. Thats what i do. I never keep much money in my card account"
Y did i never think of that.
Thanks for that. This will solve Mor than 1 problem to |
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"I have to say - it’s ‘aspergers’ not ‘asparagus’ but saying that just made me laugh so much.
You’re a fine man "
I was fucking crying when I read that !
Bless you Seeside |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have to say - it’s ‘aspergers’ not ‘asparagus’ but saying that just made me laugh so much.
You’re a fine man
I was fucking crying when I read that !
Bless you Seeside "
Thank my alto spell. |
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"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day.
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway.
Only if you can prove it wos theft.why dont you keep your money in one bank account and just a small amount in the other and use your card with that one
Have a 2nd bank account just for cards.
That's brilliant y did i never think of that.
Thanks for that happy to help
And i cood open it in a nother bank to so that way the 2 accounts won't even be related.
I like that idear yes. Thats what i do. I never keep much money in my card account
Y did i never think of that.
Thanks for that. This will solve Mor than 1 problem to "
so now that problem is solved the worlds your oyster |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"What other sites are you on Seeside, POF, Harmony etc ?"
We'll pof won't work on my fone for sum resoun and harmony. Match. Ect all charge. Thay clame to be free but that's just to join. To message and read messages you haf to pay a large sum. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Are there any dating site's especially for people with aspergers?
I've looked up sum but it has the same problem.
Free to join.
Then £100 or wotever to read and send messages..... Card Onley.
£100 bloody hell that's a rip off.
That's for a year i think but still not sumthing i wood pay just to have a empty message box
But how do you know you'll have an empty message box,if you're not having any luck by other means then I would give it a go for a few months. Get you're a bank card and join for a bit,what do you have to lose.
I never use my bank carn for anything on line. It's to risky. I don't want to find a emtey bank account 1 day.
You wouldn't,the bank reimburses any money that gets taken out by theft anyway.
Only if you can prove it wos theft.why dont you keep your money in one bank account and just a small amount in the other and use your card with that one
Have a 2nd bank account just for cards.
That's brilliant y did i never think of that.
Thanks for that happy to help
And i cood open it in a nother bank to so that way the 2 accounts won't even be related.
I like that idear yes. Thats what i do. I never keep much money in my card account
Y did i never think of that.
Thanks for that. This will solve Mor than 1 problem to so now that problem is solved the worlds your oyster "
Not yet i need to open a new bank account 1st. |
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"What other sites are you on Seeside, POF, Harmony etc ?
We'll pof won't work on my fone for sum resoun and harmony. Match. Ect all charge. Thay clame to be free but that's just to join. To message and read messages you haf to pay a large sum."
My mate meet the love of his life on Muddy matches, might be worth a try. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"What other sites are you on Seeside, POF, Harmony etc ?
We'll pof won't work on my fone for sum resoun and harmony. Match. Ect all charge. Thay clame to be free but that's just to join. To message and read messages you haf to pay a large sum.
My mate meet the love of his life on Muddy matches, might be worth a try."
Wot is muddy matches ?  |
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"What other sites are you on Seeside, POF, Harmony etc ?
We'll pof won't work on my fone for sum resoun and harmony. Match. Ect all charge. Thay clame to be free but that's just to join. To message and read messages you haf to pay a large sum.
My mate meet the love of his life on Muddy matches, might be worth a try.
Wot is muddy matches ? "
Google it, it worked for him. But I would say it’s worth investing and paying for one of these sites, just pick one, do a bit of research see which ones most suitable for you. |
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"What other sites are you on Seeside, POF, Harmony etc ?
We'll pof won't work on my fone for sum resoun and harmony. Match. Ect all charge. Thay clame to be free but that's just to join. To message and read messages you haf to pay a large sum."
I used a paid one called ‘dating direct’ back in 2005, now owned by match. I met my ex husband of 10 years there. The paid ones take things a little more seriously in my opinion and not just a hook up place. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"What other sites are you on Seeside, POF, Harmony etc ?
We'll pof won't work on my fone for sum resoun and harmony. Match. Ect all charge. Thay clame to be free but that's just to join. To message and read messages you haf to pay a large sum.
My mate meet the love of his life on Muddy matches, might be worth a try.
Wot is muddy matches ?
Google it, it worked for him. But I would say it’s worth investing and paying for one of these sites, just pick one, do a bit of research see which ones most suitable for you. "
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"What other sites are you on Seeside, POF, Harmony etc ?
We'll pof won't work on my fone for sum resoun and harmony. Match. Ect all charge. Thay clame to be free but that's just to join. To message and read messages you haf to pay a large sum.
I used a paid one called ‘dating direct’ back in 2005, now owned by match. I met my ex husband of 10 years there. The paid ones take things a little more seriously in my opinion and not just a hook up place."
Thanks for that.
Food for thought |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella. |
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You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Have another go at POF and make sure you get the right one, there is a fake site.
There are plenty of genuine people on there, especially women looking for relationships."
????
And how can you tell the difference between the 2 ? -) |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella. "
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"Seeside, you could always be famous and get yourself on the TV show "Undatables"
Listened to a lady today that has been on it, after she had suffered from a stroke, never found out if she had any luck though."
Or First Dates too . |
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"Hi mate....
It might be worth trying the 'Plenty of Fish' dating site. I was on there a while back and there seemed to be plenty of nice women around the Thanet area. In fact, I had a few dates with some lovely ladies from your part of town. So, maybe worth a shot.
Good luck and all the best...
Thanks "
Speed dating in your local area might be a good idea |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work"
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ? |
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over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Hi mate....
It might be worth trying the 'Plenty of Fish' dating site. I was on there a while back and there seemed to be plenty of nice women around the Thanet area. In fact, I had a few dates with some lovely ladies from your part of town. So, maybe worth a shot.
Good luck and all the best...
Thanks
Speed dating in your local area might be a good idea "
I've looked for them.
I coodount find any my age range.
The oldest i found wos 20 |
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"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ? "
Why not, You're being honest in what you want and I recon other people will see that in what you have written, Ask someone to edit you opening post a little and help you with the meet post pointing them to you profile,
There will be other people looking for what you're looking for, Like I said it's something different and you can always change it back if it doesn't work |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ?
Why not, You're being honest in what you want and I recon other people will see that in what you have written, Ask someone to edit you opening post a little and help you with the meet post pointing them to you profile,
There will be other people looking for what you're looking for, Like I said it's something different and you can always change it back if it doesn't work"
Very true |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ?
Why not, You're being honest in what you want and I recon other people will see that in what you have written, Ask someone to edit you opening post a little and help you with the meet post pointing them to you profile,
There will be other people looking for what you're looking for, Like I said it's something different and you can always change it back if it doesn't work
Very true "
New profile dun.
How's it look ? |
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over a year ago
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"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella. "
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK |
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over a year ago
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"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella.
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK"
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof |
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"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ?
Why not, You're being honest in what you want and I recon other people will see that in what you have written, Ask someone to edit you opening post a little and help you with the meet post pointing them to you profile,
There will be other people looking for what you're looking for, Like I said it's something different and you can always change it back if it doesn't work
Very true
New profile dun.
How's it look ? "
its ok but if your just going to wait around and not send any messages you might be in for a long wait. How many women have contaxted you first with a view to a meet since youve been here |
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"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella.
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof "
Me neither. |
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"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella.
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof
Me neither."
Last time I used it you had to pay to read messages, unless it's changed since |
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over a year ago
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"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella.
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof
Me neither.
Last time I used it you had to pay to read messages, unless it's changed since"
I’ve had a profile a few years and never had to pay to read or send messages. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ?
Why not, You're being honest in what you want and I recon other people will see that in what you have written, Ask someone to edit you opening post a little and help you with the meet post pointing them to you profile,
There will be other people looking for what you're looking for, Like I said it's something different and you can always change it back if it doesn't work
Very true
New profile dun.
How's it look ? its ok but if your just going to wait around and not send any messages you might be in for a long wait. How many women have contaxted you first with a view to a meet since youve been here"
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over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella.
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof
Me neither.
Last time I used it you had to pay to read messages, unless it's changed since
I’ve had a profile a few years and never had to pay to read or send messages. "
It's just like most dateing sites.
The ladies get it for free.
The guys haf to pay. Cos the guys out number the ladies so thay make mor money from it. |
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over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ?
Why not, You're being honest in what you want and I recon other people will see that in what you have written, Ask someone to edit you opening post a little and help you with the meet post pointing them to you profile,
There will be other people looking for what you're looking for, Like I said it's something different and you can always change it back if it doesn't work
Very true
New profile dun.
How's it look ? its ok but if your just going to wait around and not send any messages you might be in for a long wait. How many women have contaxted you first with a view to a meet since youve been here
Haha....arr 0"
The thing is it takes a lot for me to send a 1st message to someone and wen you've spent like a hour riteing it making sure its rite and bilding up the nurvers to send it in the 1st place. Just to have it deleted un reed really nokes you back. |
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"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella.
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof
Me neither.
Last time I used it you had to pay to read messages, unless it's changed since
I’ve had a profile a few years and never had to pay to read or send messages.
It's just like most dateing sites.
The ladies get it for free.
The guys haf to pay. Cos the guys out number the ladies so thay make mor money from it."
I don’t think my male friends pay either. You pay to use the extra things on there like seeing if someone read your message etc. |
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"Have another go at POF and make sure you get the right one, there is a fake site.
There are plenty of genuine people on there, especially women looking for relationships.
????
And how can you tell the difference between the 2 ? -)"
You talk to them and get to know them - just be wary of anything that looks too good to be true and any complicated sob stories! |
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"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella.
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof
Me neither.
Last time I used it you had to pay to read messages, unless it's changed since
I’ve had a profile a few years and never had to pay to read or send messages.
It's just like most dateing sites.
The ladies get it for free.
The guys haf to pay. Cos the guys out number the ladies so thay make mor money from it."
No that's a fake site - POF is free for both sexes to message, it just has extra features you can buy |
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"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella.
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof
Me neither.
Last time I used it you had to pay to read messages, unless it's changed since
I’ve had a profile a few years and never had to pay to read or send messages.
It's just like most dateing sites.
The ladies get it for free.
The guys haf to pay. Cos the guys out number the ladies so thay make mor money from it.
No that's a fake site - POF is free for both sexes to message, it just has extra features you can buy "
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Have another go at POF and make sure you get the right one, there is a fake site.
There are plenty of genuine people on there, especially women looking for relationships.
????
And how can you tell the difference between the 2 ? -)
You talk to them and get to know them - just be wary of anything that looks too good to be true and any complicated sob stories!"
I ment how to tell the real site to the fake 1 ? |
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"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ?
Why not, You're being honest in what you want and I recon other people will see that in what you have written, Ask someone to edit you opening post a little and help you with the meet post pointing them to you profile,
There will be other people looking for what you're looking for, Like I said it's something different and you can always change it back if it doesn't work
Very true
New profile dun.
How's it look ? its ok but if your just going to wait around and not send any messages you might be in for a long wait. How many women have contaxted you first with a view to a meet since youve been here
Haha....arr 0
The thing is it takes a lot for me to send a 1st message to someone and wen you've spent like a hour riteing it making sure its rite and bilding up the nurvers to send it in the 1st place. Just to have it deleted un reed really nokes you back."
well what you going to do on these dating sites then. Cause if you sit back and wait nothing will happen. Practice writing messages. The more you write the easier it will become. Why dont you invest in one of those machines you talk your message into |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella.
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof
Me neither.
Last time I used it you had to pay to read messages, unless it's changed since
I’ve had a profile a few years and never had to pay to read or send messages.
It's just like most dateing sites.
The ladies get it for free.
The guys haf to pay. Cos the guys out number the ladies so thay make mor money from it.
No that's a fake site - POF is free for both sexes to message, it just has extra features you can buy
Ok just signed up to POF and it's not the same as I was on before, so apologies, I must have been on the fake one before."
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over a year ago
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"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ?
Why not, You're being honest in what you want and I recon other people will see that in what you have written, Ask someone to edit you opening post a little and help you with the meet post pointing them to you profile,
There will be other people looking for what you're looking for, Like I said it's something different and you can always change it back if it doesn't work
Very true
New profile dun.
How's it look ? its ok but if your just going to wait around and not send any messages you might be in for a long wait. How many women have contaxted you first with a view to a meet since youve been here
Haha....arr 0
The thing is it takes a lot for me to send a 1st message to someone and wen you've spent like a hour riteing it making sure its rite and bilding up the nurvers to send it in the 1st place. Just to have it deleted un reed really nokes you back.well what you going to do on these dating sites then. Cause if you sit back and wait nothing will happen. Practice writing messages. The more you write the easier it will become. Why dont you invest in one of those machines you talk your message into"
I do have that soft wear on my fone but it only works in a quiet place.
As for sending messages its hard to explain but i fill im under a lot of presher wen i do send them. |
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"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ?
Why not, You're being honest in what you want and I recon other people will see that in what you have written, Ask someone to edit you opening post a little and help you with the meet post pointing them to you profile,
There will be other people looking for what you're looking for, Like I said it's something different and you can always change it back if it doesn't work
Very true
New profile dun.
How's it look ? its ok but if your just going to wait around and not send any messages you might be in for a long wait. How many women have contaxted you first with a view to a meet since youve been here
Haha....arr 0
The thing is it takes a lot for me to send a 1st message to someone and wen you've spent like a hour riteing it making sure its rite and bilding up the nurvers to send it in the 1st place. Just to have it deleted un reed really nokes you back.well what you going to do on these dating sites then. Cause if you sit back and wait nothing will happen. Practice writing messages. The more you write the easier it will become. Why dont you invest in one of those machines you talk your message into
I do have that soft wear on my fone but it only works in a quiet place.
As for sending messages its hard to explain but i fill im under a lot of presher wen i do send them."
well send your messages from a quiet area. I understand you feel under alot of pressure but there is no point people trying to help you if your not prepared to do your share |
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"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella.
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof
Me neither.
Last time I used it you had to pay to read messages, unless it's changed since
I’ve had a profile a few years and never had to pay to read or send messages.
It's just like most dateing sites.
The ladies get it for free.
The guys haf to pay. Cos the guys out number the ladies so thay make mor money from it.
No that's a fake site - POF is free for both sexes to message, it just has extra features you can buy
Ok just signed up to POF and it's not the same as I was on before, so apologies, I must have been on the fake one before."
Update on what I said, it's just said people want to meet me and I have to pay to see who. This is on the app download from g store |
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"Have another go at POF and make sure you get the right one, there is a fake site.
There are plenty of genuine people on there, especially women looking for relationships.
????
And how can you tell the difference between the 2 ? -)
You talk to them and get to know them - just be wary of anything that looks too good to be true and any complicated sob stories!
I ment how to tell the real site to the fake 1 ?"
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What I hate about POF is the men aren't allowed to write anything remotely adult on there. Even the words "naughty" and "dirty" and other non-explicit words aren't allowed so if you write any of the words it doesn't like then your message won't send and you have to start your message again! Obviously there's ways round it such as spacing the words or writing b00bs instead of boobs for example. Really stupid considering the site is for over 18s but I guess they don't want people having "adult" conversations.
The other thing I don't like is how the site dictates the age range you can talk to. So if you're a 50 year old cougar forget trying to talk with a guy in his 20s! It isn't too bad for a free site though. |
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"I make no secret I'd like a lady to make 2good that bit better.
I'm on pof free to use , tinder free to use and bumble also free to use.. I'm sure there are others that are free to use as well.
From what I've read a lot of ladies on match and the pay for sitesh are on the free sites as well..
The more you're out there hopefully the more hits you'll get.
Hope you find who you're looking for fella.
But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof
Me neither.
Last time I used it you had to pay to read messages, unless it's changed since
I’ve had a profile a few years and never had to pay to read or send messages.
It's just like most dateing sites.
The ladies get it for free.
The guys haf to pay. Cos the guys out number the ladies so thay make mor money from it.
No that's a fake site - POF is free for both sexes to message, it just has extra features you can buy
Ok just signed up to POF and it's not the same as I was on before, so apologies, I must have been on the fake one before.
Update on what I said, it's just said people want to meet me and I have to pay to see who. This is on the app download from g store"
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"What I hate about POF is the men aren't allowed to write anything remotely adult on there. Even the words "naughty" and "dirty" and other non-explicit words aren't allowed so if you write any of the words it doesn't like then your message won't send and you have to start your message again! Obviously there's ways round it such as spacing the words or writing b00bs instead of boobs for example. Really stupid considering the site is for over 18s but I guess they don't want people having "adult" conversations.
The other thing I don't like is how the site dictates the age range you can talk to. So if you're a 50 year old cougar forget trying to talk with a guy in his 20s! It isn't too bad for a free site though. "
But all of those are to try and discourage it's use as a sex site, which I am glad of now I only use fab for sex. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ?
Why not, You're being honest in what you want and I recon other people will see that in what you have written, Ask someone to edit you opening post a little and help you with the meet post pointing them to you profile,
There will be other people looking for what you're looking for, Like I said it's something different and you can always change it back if it doesn't work
Very true
New profile dun.
How's it look ? its ok but if your just going to wait around and not send any messages you might be in for a long wait. How many women have contaxted you first with a view to a meet since youve been here
Haha....arr 0
The thing is it takes a lot for me to send a 1st message to someone and wen you've spent like a hour riteing it making sure its rite and bilding up the nurvers to send it in the 1st place. Just to have it deleted un reed really nokes you back."
That's going to be true on every site. It's going to be huge luck for someone to just come across your profile and decide you are the one for them.
You are limiting your chances by concentrating yourself just in the lounge of Fab. Fab is niche and the lounge is a niche of that niche.
I know it's hard but taking up some of the suggestions you have had (several times) opens up your chances.
I'm female and get blocked and ignored when I send messages so it will be harder for you, especially as you want a relationship and not random sex.
Go out and meet people, join other sites, spread the chances wider.
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"What I hate about POF is the men aren't allowed to write anything remotely adult on there. Even the words "naughty" and "dirty" and other non-explicit words aren't allowed so if you write any of the words it doesn't like then your message won't send and you have to start your message again! Obviously there's ways round it such as spacing the words or writing b00bs instead of boobs for example. Really stupid considering the site is for over 18s but I guess they don't want people having "adult" conversations.
The other thing I don't like is how the site dictates the age range you can talk to. So if you're a 50 year old cougar forget trying to talk with a guy in his 20s! It isn't too bad for a free site though. "
I prefer to have normal conversations on there and take it elsewhere if I want to be flirty. Don’t want sleazy messages on a dating app. |
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Well yes I km that but it's way over the top on the words you can't use. I can understand words like "cock, pussy, fuck, spunk" etc but some of the words are just stupid. Funnily enough you can write "anal" haha. Also too many scammers but they're a problem on any site and the dodgy ones tend to get removed pretty quickly. |
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"But POF is not free to reply to people's messages. Not in the UK
Is it not? I don’t pay to use Pof
Me neither.
Last time I used it you had to pay to read messages, unless it's changed since
I’ve had a profile a few years and never had to pay to read or send messages.
It's just like most dateing sites.
The ladies get it for free.
The guys haf to pay. Cos the guys out number the ladies so thay make mor money from it.
I don’t think my male friends pay either. You pay to use the extra things on there like seeing if someone read your message etc. "
That's right. It's still free to search, read and send messages even for a fella. There are some 'pay for' extras but to be honest you don't really need them and can still use the service productively. Everyone I know who uses the site doesn't bother to pay a penny. |
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"What I hate about POF is the men aren't allowed to write anything remotely adult on there. Even the words "naughty" and "dirty" and other non-explicit words aren't allowed so if you write any of the words it doesn't like then your message won't send and you have to start your message again! Obviously there's ways round it such as spacing the words or writing b00bs instead of boobs for example. Really stupid considering the site is for over 18s but I guess they don't want people having "adult" conversations.
The other thing I don't like is how the site dictates the age range you can talk to. So if you're a 50 year old cougar forget trying to talk with a guy in his 20s! It isn't too bad for a free site though.
I prefer to have normal conversations on there and take it elsewhere if I want to be flirty. Don’t want sleazy messages on a dating app. "
Ditto, I delete them on sight. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Well yes I km that but it's way over the top on the words you can't use. I can understand words like "cock, pussy, fuck, spunk" etc but some of the words are just stupid. Funnily enough you can write "anal" haha. Also too many scammers but they're a problem on any site and the dodgy ones tend to get removed pretty quickly. "
You can't write d*unk or on here.
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"You might have better luck posting in the meets section,
That's what anyone else would of been told, Oh and I'm not taking the piss,
Most people know you in the forums and for whatever reason it hasn't happened,
Why don't you post for a meet but change your profile text for what you have written in your opening post,
Its something different and you never know it might work
So your saying i shood make my 1st post my profile ?
Why not, You're being honest in what you want and I recon other people will see that in what you have written, Ask someone to edit you opening post a little and help you with the meet post pointing them to you profile,
There will be other people looking for what you're looking for, Like I said it's something different and you can always change it back if it doesn't work
Very true
New profile dun.
How's it look ? its ok but if your just going to wait around and not send any messages you might be in for a long wait. How many women have contaxted you first with a view to a meet since youve been here
Haha....arr 0
The thing is it takes a lot for me to send a 1st message to someone and wen you've spent like a hour riteing it making sure its rite and bilding up the nurvers to send it in the 1st place. Just to have it deleted un reed really nokes you back.well what you going to do on these dating sites then. Cause if you sit back and wait nothing will happen. Practice writing messages. The more you write the easier it will become. Why dont you invest in one of those machines you talk your message into
I do have that soft wear on my fone but it only works in a quiet place.
As for sending messages its hard to explain but i fill im under a lot of presher wen i do send them.
well send your messages from a quiet area. I understand you feel under alot of pressure but there is no point people trying to help you if your not prepared to do your share"
Very true.
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