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By *ast_And_Curious OP   Man  over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Arranged a meet then that person not showed up? Happened to me last night. She was the one who messaged first and asked to meet and seemed very keen. My last message to her was, "I'll be there in 10" which she read and didn't reply to. She has verifications on here too. Luckily was a local meet so wasn't too much of a waste of my time. Just a little puzzling and a bit irritating.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've had too many like that which is why I now only meet at parties and clubs!! Fed up of having my time wasted x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had this the other night. Think its a teenage geek in his bedroom.

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By *ast_And_Curious OP   Man  over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Yeah I just thought it was strange as she was the one who suggested it and was like "are you leaving now" etc. Plus she's verified so has met guys off here before so can't be a loss of bottle. She hasn't been online since so whether I'll get any apology/explanation remains to be seen.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've had too many like that which is why I now only meet at parties and clubs!! Fed up of having my time wasted x"

our time off work together is precious to us. So we only meet in clubs for this reason and also if you don't actually 'click' in the club, you can just walk away and mingle with others

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Report her to Admin as a time waster. It's such a rotten thing to do to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Id guess that she is a he.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yeah I just thought it was strange as she was the one who suggested it and was like "are you leaving now" etc. Plus she's verified so has met guys off here before so can't be a loss of bottle. She hasn't been online since so whether I'll get any apology/explanation remains to be seen. "

Either, 'she's' a fake profile, veri's can be fake too , but she could have a genuine reason, but time will tell

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By *afadaoMan  over a year ago

Staines

I’ve had this a few times. When it was local I just brushed it off as an occupational hazard but when I travelled I was fuming!

Even if you’ve been a member here for a while you can still get duped

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've had too many like that which is why I now only meet at parties and clubs!! Fed up of having my time wasted x

our time off work together is precious to us. So we only meet in clubs for this reason and also if you don't actually 'click' in the club, you can just walk away and mingle with others

Mrs x"

Arranging childcare too!! Also love the safety of them too especially flying solo x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just need to move on. Happens to most of us at some point.

It feels bad at the time but it says more about them than you.

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By *ast_And_Curious OP   Man  over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I've met a fair few women from online over the years and this is the first time it's happened. Although was gonna be my first meet from here. Oh well better luck next time perhaps!

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By *ackandsashaCouple  over a year ago

West Dublin

2 of our last 3 meets let us down. And the one couple we did meet and play with ( a lot of fun !!! ) was a couple we met here a few years ago and played with several times.

Of of the times we were let down we had been talking to daily for a week and exchanged face pics too. Then we were all spruced up, carpets and been taken up etc lol. Then.........nothing

Would have even preferred a crappy excuse.

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I had one bloke stand me up for a social,years ago.

I txt him where there was no sign of him,he said "got cold feet ",then went unlos, well verified.

Fast forward a few months ,he rejoins,asks to meet and is suprised I say no ta,after last time.

People eh?

Sorry u got a div op ,block and report.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Unlucky OP.

I've had 2 on Fab.

It's a real kick in the teeth.

But as one door shuts... You'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Had it once. I wasn't meeting but finally felt ready to do so. Had spoke loads and loads. He was verified and occasionally used the forums. Loads of messages pre meet. Until the morning of the meet. And nothing. So I went shopping instead but was pissed off

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Had it happen a few times either they arrange and then stop messaging or arrange and cancel when I’m on my way or they go unlos...I’ve got to the point where I only arrange local meets and have a back up plan (going out anyway) so it’s not a wasted trip out it’s annoying and makes it harder for the genuine ones

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