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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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...who loathes the term "BBW"?
I'm fat and never refer to myself as a BBW.
If I categorise my pics then I do select it but the term just makes me cringe.
Probably just me, but interested to find out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...who loathes the term "BBW"?
I'm fat and never refer to myself as a BBW.
If I categorise my pics then I do select it but the term just makes me cringe.
Probably just me, but interested to find out "
I hate labels too especially on my shorts  |
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I’m sure you’re not.
The B for beautiful seems to be the one most find problematic as it’s very subjective. I’m comfortable with the term. I’m big, pretty (see it’s subjective) and a woman. No issues here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can you think of anything better. I use it as a polite term but like yourself I would say I am just fat but others take offence to being called fat so I'll stick to playing it safe.  |
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Of course youre not. There have been numerous posts on the hundreds of bbw threads where people have said they dislike it.
Although I note that you do participate in the bbw chat threads so can't be that against the term.
I don't for a second belive I am beautiful as the acronym suggests big it is a useful label for people to see that I I'm a big lass.
I have no problem using the word fat to describe myself but a lot of people tend to use it alongside more insulting words and so it is not a popular way of describing people. |
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"Of course youre not. There have been numerous posts on the hundreds of bbw threads where people have said they dislike it.
Although I note that you do participate in the bbw chat threads so can't be that against the term.
I don't for a second belive I am beautiful as the acronym suggests big it is a useful label for people to see that I I'm a big lass.
I have no problem using the word fat to describe myself but a lot of people tend to use it alongside more insulting words and so it is not a popular way of describing people. "
Oh and before I get accused of it..... I am not saying you shouldn't participate in bbw threads or indeed go to bbw events etc, it was just an observation |
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"I’m sure you’re not.
The B for beautiful seems to be the one most find problematic as it’s very subjective. I’m comfortable with the term. I’m big, pretty (see it’s subjective) and a woman. No issues here. "
Yes you are, that’s why you’re on my hotlist |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. Mainly because I don't consider myself 'B' (the second one).
You are, that’s why you’re on my hotlist too  "
Where did you tether your horse today? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like or dislike the term I chat alot on the BBW thread and it's used on our profile however I'm not beautiful but as people say beauty is in the beholder and if like to think I had an inner beauty p.s I'm fat and wobbly xx |
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How about using the word Rubenesque ?
The word beautiful seems to be sticking point for the ladies who have posted here and I suppose you all have your own ideas of what that word means.
You all look beautiful to me, rarely will a stick thin lady catch my eye.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't loathe it, but I don't identify as one. When a man messages and mentions BBW I tell him he's going to be very disappointed when he sees my face and saggy stomach. |
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The term has become so used and normalised I think some now just a generic way of describing their size/shape even if they don't really like the the term or feel it reflects them. It's just become almost a default and no doubt lost a lot of its original meaning/intention (what ever that was). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes i loathe it ,i prefer i am curvy ,or i am size 18 or whatever
its just as bad as people that write gud instead of good , why would you do that ?
and a kiss after every sentence x
why would you do that x
do blokes think the women think ,oh he's such a lovely guy he sends me a kiss after every sentence x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes i loathe it ,i prefer i am curvy ,or i am size 18 or whatever
its just as bad as people that write gud instead of good , why would you do that ?
and a kiss after every sentence x
why would you do that x
do blokes think the women think ,oh he's such a lovely guy he sends me a kiss after every sentence x "
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's just another label. I don't read too much into the terminology. Everyone knows that not every big person is beautiful. It's just a polite and gentle way to say fat. I see no issue with it personally. It's not meant as a negative, yet people take it as such. Or they feel it's condescending. I cant think of worst names to be called, in all honesty. That one is tame |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just another label. I don't read too much into the terminology. Everyone knows that not every big person is beautiful. It's just a polite and gentle way to say fat. I see no issue with it personally. It's not meant as a negative, yet people take it as such. Or they feel it's condescending. I cant think of worst names to be called, in all honesty. That one is tame "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I dont like it either , as surely all women are beautiful regardless of the size of their bodies "
Everyone is beautiful to someone. But to some they won't be attractive. |
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"...who loathes the term "BBW"?
I'm fat and never refer to myself as a BBW.
If I categorise my pics then I do select it but the term just makes me cringe.
Probably just me, but interested to find out "
I'm not particularly bothered about labels . You know I think you are immensely Fuckable Miss . Coquette ....
( Except on Wednesday between 7 and 10pm ) It's coming home !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...who loathes the term "BBW"?
I'm fat and never refer to myself as a BBW.
If I categorise my pics then I do select it but the term just makes me cringe.
Probably just me, but interested to find out I'm not particularly bothered about labels . You know I think you are immensely Fuckable Miss . Coquette ....
( Except on Wednesday between 7 and 10pm ) It's coming home !!"
Thank you young man, and I agree I'm not available then either  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Personally I dont like it either , as surely all women are beautiful regardless of the size of their bodies
Everyone is beautiful to someone. But to some they won't be attractive. "
I know I'm not attractive to most but I also don't mind |
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"...who loathes the term "BBW"?
I'm fat and never refer to myself as a BBW.
If I categorise my pics then I do select it but the term just makes me cringe.
Probably just me, but interested to find out I'm not particularly bothered about labels . You know I think you are immensely Fuckable Miss . Coquette ....
( Except on Wednesday between 7 and 10pm ) It's coming home !!
Thank you young man, and I agree I'm not available then either "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does anyone ever say if your not into skinny bony types walk buy .Anyway back to the question I've never really thought it to be a bad thing , it's an abbreviation I look out for I like cuddly ladies. So I'm going to say if you don't like then I don't either. You look great by the way.x |
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I'm not too keen on the bbw label but it does serve a useful purpose on fab. It can be a handy descriptor of body shape and size and we all know the options the site gives you to describe yourself aren't great.
I am definitely a woman and I'm big. As for being beautiful, I let others decide that for themselves. After all what one person thinks is beautiful the next might think is hideous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I dont like it either , as surely all women are beautiful regardless of the size of their bodies
Everyone is beautiful to someone. But to some they won't be attractive.
I know I'm not attractive to most but I also don't mind "
I didn't mean you. x It was a general comment. |
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