I have just received a message from a couple just saying “accom?”
Why do couples think all males are desperate and will jump at any opportunity given to them. Don’t get me wrong really attractive couple but I know they would block any male who sent them a similar message of “fuck later”. So why is it acceptable for couples to do it to guys.
Grrrr okay rant over ha ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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over a year ago
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I agree but as single males it's something that we have to accept. It's not much different to a wink and you say they're attractive.. I guess you have to think from their point of view as to how many messages they receive. I'm looking from outside the box |
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"I have just received a message from a couple just saying “accom?”
Why do couples think all males are desperate and will jump at any opportunity given to them. Don’t get me wrong really attractive couple but I know they would block any male who sent them a similar message of “fuck later”. So why is it acceptable for couples to do it to guys.
Grrrr okay rant over ha " coz they are spoilt for choice and can ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because the idea of *couples* all thinking with the same (hypocritical) mind don’t exist. Some (many?) couples hate the lazy messages and will send out decent messages. Others may not care. Others may send lazy messages.
#notallcouples. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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There was a very good thread along similar lines about this yesterday.
I think "some" of all categories are just as guilty of this - some like it and will respond to simple one word messages, others look for a little more than that - I guess it's a question of finding those that match your view.
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"I agree but as single males it's something that we have to accept. It's not much different to a wink and you say they're attractive.. I guess you have to think from their point of view as to how many messages they receive. I'm looking from outside the box "
Its not just single men that get them...
I get plenty that just say 'x'..as if that's going to entice me to want to respond to a single man ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"I agree but as single males it's something that we have to accept. It's not much different to a wink and you say they're attractive.. I guess you have to think from their point of view as to how many messages they receive. I'm looking from outside the box
Its not just single men that get them...
I get plenty that just say 'x'..as if that's going to entice me to want to respond to a single man "
I got ‘you’re my sub bitch’ as the title from a couple, and the message was ‘.’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone can do it..
When you B+Q it. I see they're still selling turf. Who the fuck lays turf at this time of year in these weather conditions? " British weather cmon ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
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It's wanting everything their own way. Same as demanding a facial photo with a long paragraph on the 1st message or else its deleted and you are blocked etc as if anyone gives a fuk..
Yet they have little or nothing on their own profile....it's laughable |
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"I have just received a message from a couple just saying “accom?”
Why do couples think all males are desperate and will jump at any opportunity given to them. Don’t get me wrong really attractive couple but I know they would block any male who sent them a similar message of “fuck later”. So why is it acceptable for couples to do it to guys.
Grrrr okay rant over ha "
Just reply back with one word. Yes, no or maybe. |
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"I have just received a message from a couple just saying “accom?”
Why do couples think all males are desperate and will jump at any opportunity given to them. Don’t get me wrong really attractive couple but I know they would block any male who sent them a similar message of “fuck later”. So why is it acceptable for couples to do it to guys.
Grrrr okay rant over ha "
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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It happens with couples to couples messages to so you aren't being discriminated against LOL.
Just had a message from a couple - "Hey"
I thought OK let's run with this and see where it goes so I replied - "Hi, thanks for your message, how are you?"
The reply back was simply "male or frmale" (note the spelling).
Not wanting to waste too many letters in case big words were an issue I replied - "Both".
I then get the reply - "How you guts" (note the spelling again).
So what do you think, d*unk messaging or just ignorant messaging? I will not be sending any more messages in reply to this couple as this is obviously going nowhere.
I hate short messages but thankfully the one, two or three-word messages are few and far between, it is just laziness and a lack of sincerity in my books. |
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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Depends on the day, if I have other mails to respond to then more time invested into a message would take priority although a one worded message doesn't necessarily mean anything bad, it's the quality of conversation that continues dictates if it's worthwhile or not.but for professionals it makes complete sense to be blunt. Time is a rarity and if you can't meet their primary need then there's no point beating about the bush |
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"I've just had one with that says '?'.... in the headline and message. I'll be replying promptly then "
It basically probably means, ‘Are you interested (in sexual shenanigans)’ but the sender got so tired of non replies etc that they saved their typing fingers by abating the message to its barest components ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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"I've just had one with that says '?'.... in the headline and message. I'll be replying promptly then
It basically probably means, ‘Are you interested (in sexual shenanigans)’ but the sender got so tired of non replies etc that they saved their typing fingers by abating the message to its barest components "
Oh bugger. I missed out on a shag there then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s replies ( if at all ) that are 1 liners like “seriously “
Vamoose
FFS !!!
Or the Scottish Staple put down
Aye Right "
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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It is not just couples, it's just that particular couple. I get plenty of one-liners. That's fine I just know that their style doesn't suit me, ignore and move on.
By reading the message I have already provided the same amount of effort as they put in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just received a message from a couple just saying “accom?”
Why do couples think all males are desperate and will jump at any opportunity given to them. Don’t get me wrong really attractive couple but I know they would block any male who sent them a similar message of “fuck later”. So why is it acceptable for couples to do it to guys.
Grrrr okay rant over ha "
Lots of men send the same.
Maybe women do too (wouldn't know though although I don't myself)
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I get quite a few hi, hey, how's you, mainly on FG, generally I view their profile then ignore or reply back with a one word answer, that has sparked a proper conversation occasionally but generally I feel if they can't be bothered to put a little effort in to their opening message then I can't be bothered with them. |
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