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Same sex liking you pics ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Happy Fab Friday everyone,
I was told on a separate thread I needed more pics of myself (Mr) on our couples profile to try sell it a bit, so I managed to take one this mornimg for the purpose of just posting to our public gallery.
It was liked 4 times in the first 30 minutes which shocked me as I tend to get 1 like every so often if I'm lucky, the wife's pics understably get most, all my likes have been from men and I feel privileged by that, would be nice to know it appeals to females as well being a straight male.
Does anyone else feel hounded when the same sex like your pics ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What does it matter? Take it as a compliment. I don’t get why this bothers people. If you uploaded a photo to Facebook and someone of the same sex liked it, would you be annoyed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't bother me in the slightest. The thought of being annoyed by compliments is unfathomable to me. I even respond to male private messages with a thank you when they say "nice cock dude." |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What does it matter? Take it as a compliment. I don’t get why this bothers people. If you uploaded a photo to Facebook and someone of the same sex liked it, would you be annoyed? "
Did you even bother reading the post or do you take offence to everything ?
I never said it mattered to me ?, I did say not only that I took it as a compliment but that I felt privileged by the fact, and I wouldn't be uploading pics like this to Facebook for everyone to see anyway. |
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I tend to think its mostly men who feel hounded by the same sex fabbing pics, personally im happy for anyone to fab my pics, if that wasnt the case then i wouldnt put them on a public site in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would take it as a compliment. It's a nice pic  "
I certainly have taken it as a compliment trust me  not sure why other feel I got offended by the fact  |
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I don't care who fabs my photos - same sex or not, whether I fancy them or not - it's a compliment. If I don't want particular individuals to see me I can block them, and of course, anyone who finds same sex fabbing truly objectionable can always switch that function off completely which would solve the issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr H here , not bothered in the slightest who fabs my pics don’t put as many up as Mrs H but I do like to make an effort when I do so any appreciation is happily received |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It's a good pic OP - and the sheer ratio of men vs women on the site, and the fact that men are generally more visually stimulated is probably the reasoning behind it - as you and others have said it's a compliment nothing more.
I get fabbed by men, women and couple's alike and (even though I'm bi so open to it anyway) don't feel in the slightest bit hounded or even read a great deal into fabs at all - just see them as an appreciation of a pic |
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"Doesn't bother me in the slightest. The thought of being annoyed by compliments is unfathomable to me. I even respond to male private messages with a thank you when they say "nice cock dude.""
You have more than just a nice cock dude  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any fab on a pic is a compliment. The person fabbing it, likes it. I dont see it matters what sexuality the fabber or the recipiant is. Still a compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a good pic OP - and the sheer ratio of men vs women on the site, and the fact that men are generally more visually stimulated is probably the reasoning behind it - as you and others have said it's a compliment nothing more.
I get fabbed by men, women and couple's alike and (even though I'm bi so open to it anyway) don't feel in the slightest bit hounded or even read a great deal into fabs at all - just see them as an appreciation of a pic "
Agreed Gemini  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a straight man I’m not always sure how to take messages from other men. I have nothing against what they are into it’s just not my cup of tea. However I guess it’s the same as a straight man fabbing a lesbians picture would they see it as a compliment? It can’t be helped if somebody else of the same sex is into you just take it as a confident and if they ever message politely decline |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a straight man I’m not always sure how to take messages from other men. I have nothing against what they are into it’s just not my cup of tea. However I guess it’s the same as a straight man fabbing a lesbians picture would they see it as a compliment? It can’t be helped if somebody else of the same sex is into you just take it as a confident and if they ever message politely decline "
^^^^^ meant take it as a compliment not confident lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I take it all as a complement. It’s nice to feel noticed and appreciated
If it wasn't for blokes Fabbing my pics, I would only have roughly 1/3 of the appreciation I currently enjoy  "
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