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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
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Just a different sort of drama. Crying into their Creme de Menthe because they cant find curtains to match their new rug, whilst the others cry into their beer when their team loses. But that can apply for both sexualities.  |
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I feel that I get stalked more by gay men than Bi men as with Bi men will take it or leave it but some gay men are more clingy or if its a subtle no, I seem to either get blocked or a mini domestic is going on in my inbox.
I tend to stay on the m/f Bi side of playing or just mmmmm lol  |
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Depends what you mean by drama really.
At uni, I developed a habit of going to gay nightclubs for the simple reason that I never ever saw a fight in one (except for a few dykes). Whereas about ~20% of the people that go to straight clubs on a Friday or Saturday are knuckle draggers that seem to go for the express purpose of getting in a fight.
Gay men are more promiscious, on average, so they tend to have more relationship drama to deal with.
That said, once the constitution of a social group becomes more than 50% female, then you can guarantee that they will start hen pecking. |
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
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Yes, it’s been proven in controlled scientific experiments.
I think you’ve been watching way to much of Louis Spence. |
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"I feel that I get stalked more by gay men than Bi men as with Bi men will take it or leave it but some gay men are more clingy or if its a subtle no, I seem to either get blocked or a mini domestic is going on in my inbox.
I tend to stay on the m/f Bi side of playing or just mmmmm lol "
How does anyone get stalked on here? If someone sends you one arsey message, you block them don't you? |
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
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In what sense OP?
In my experience every person brings their own sense of drama just in different ways |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh 
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence. "
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested |
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
Classic stereotyping. Are you Alan Sugar in disguise?"
No, Alan Sugar has more charm. |
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested "
I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.
I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language. |
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested
I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.
I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language. "
I understand where you're coming from.
I was only voicing my opinion and not claiming it as a fact |
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Frankly the whole thread is a huge generalisation, many straight people bring their own drama in their own way. Irrespective of sexuality, creed or gender people react to things differently |
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested "
He just wants to cause drama. Winky face. |
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested
He just wants to cause drama. Winky face."
Did you really type 'winky face' rather than just the emoji? |
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested
I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.
I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language.
I understand where you're coming from.
I was only voicing my opinion and not claiming it as a fact"
I can't really see that distinction. If you say "the camp ones over exaggerate" you are making a factual statement. |
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested
I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.
I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language.
I understand where you're coming from.
I was only voicing my opinion and not claiming it as a fact
I can't really see that distinction. If you say "the camp ones over exaggerate" you are making a factual statement. "
Well, when you are only reading half of what I put then yea I see where you're coming from |
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested "
I’m ambivalent to you not being interested. |
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested
He just wants to cause drama. Winky face.
Did you really type 'winky face' rather than just the emoji? "
Yes emojis are dead to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested
He just wants to cause drama. Winky face."
See what you done there. |
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested
I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.
I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language.
I understand where you're coming from.
I was only voicing my opinion and not claiming it as a fact
I can't really see that distinction. If you say "the camp ones over exaggerate" you are making a factual statement.
Well, when you are only reading half of what I put then yea I see where you're coming from"
The phrase "I would say" adds nothing. |
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"The camp ones over-exaggerate more I would say
Another generalisation.
Meh
Good retort, I bow down before your eloquence.
If you disagree with what I said then that's fine, but at least provide something that suggests I'm wrong and I'll happily chat about it, or don't say anything at all.
But if you're just going accuse me of generalisation then I'm not really interested
I think the general argument is that generalisations based on personal experience are, per se, unreliable.
I mean about 95% of the people I know have English as a first language. I can't conclude from that that most people have English as a first language.
I understand where you're coming from.
I was only voicing my opinion and not claiming it as a fact
I can't really see that distinction. If you say "the camp ones over exaggerate" you are making a factual statement.
Well, when you are only reading half of what I put then yea I see where you're coming from
The phrase "I would say" adds nothing. "
It means "In my opinion" so it kind of does |
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
Just a different sort of drama. Crying into their Creme de Menthe because they cant find curtains to match their new rug, whilst the others cry into their beer when their team loses. But that can apply for both sexualities. "
Fact. End of. Rant over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
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Did I miss the memo for sweeping statements and generalisation day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
Did I miss the memo for sweeping statements and generalisation day? "
We sent yours by carrier pigeon, he should be at yours by Tuesday, he had to make a detour to deliver a memo on a dairy farmer thread, to a bloke in Somerset. |
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It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..
Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all.. |
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My guess would be that different groups all have similar levels of drama (or anything else), but that some are read as acceptable while others are dismissed as a thing (different group) do. Like women and gossip or bitchiness/assertiveness. |
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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago
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"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..
Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all.."
More like small minded and heterosexist |
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"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..
Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all..
More like small minded and heterosexist"
Come everyone knows that Gay men dress well, like musical theatre and are good with interior design... |
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"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..
Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all..
More like small minded and heterosexist
Come everyone knows that Gay men dress well, like musical theatre and are good with interior design... "
oh my god.....am i gay?  |
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"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..
Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all..
More like small minded and heterosexist
Come everyone knows that Gay men dress well, like musical theatre and are good with interior design...
oh my god.....am i gay? "
Wanna find out  |
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"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..
Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all..
More like small minded and heterosexist
Come everyone knows that Gay men dress well, like musical theatre and are good with interior design...
oh my god.....am i gay?
Wanna find out "
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"It's like a guy once said to me, that in a 'lesbians relationship' one of them must play the 'guy role'..
Some people just have their stereotypical views, that's all..
More like small minded and heterosexist
Come everyone knows that Gay men dress well, like musical theatre and are good with interior design...
oh my god.....am i gay?
Wanna find out "
I don't know which half wrote this....but sure, I'm in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is today Let's be bigoted Friday' ??
I think OP is just trying to say something ignorant and watch people implode.
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How is it? He isn't saying the entire gay male population, just those he's noticed. |
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By *ara JTV/TS
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"Is today Let's be bigoted Friday' ??
I think OP is just trying to say something ignorant and watch people implode.
How is it? He isn't saying the entire gay male population, just those he's noticed. "
Lololol
Noticed what?
That big “I am gay” tattoo on the forehead?
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"Is today Let's be bigoted Friday' ??
I think OP is just trying to say something ignorant and watch people implode.
How is it? He isn't saying the entire gay male population, just those he's noticed.
Lololol
Noticed what?
That big “I am gay” tattoo on the forehead?
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Maybe he has gaydar.. |
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
I know straight and bi men who are total drama queens - it's just men you know!!!  "
Oi leave it woman!! |
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"Is today Let's be bigoted Friday' ??
I think OP is just trying to say something ignorant and watch people implode.
How is it? He isn't saying the entire gay male population, just those he's noticed.
Lololol
Noticed what?
That big “I am gay” tattoo on the forehead?
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Yes because that's the only way anyone ever knows if someone is gay. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
In what sense OP?
In my experience every person brings their own sense of drama just in different ways"
In Relationship drama sense  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
Classic stereotyping. Are you Alan Sugar in disguise?"
Call me Lord Sugar, lady  |
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"Frankly the whole thread is a huge generalisation, many straight people bring their own drama in their own way. Irrespective of sexuality, creed or gender people react to things differently"
Let me help you with your generalisation, Gay men cause more drama in their relationships |
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
In what sense OP?
In my experience every person brings their own sense of drama just in different ways
In Relationship drama sense "
How would you know? Maybe the gay people you know are just more open about their relationship drama. So much goes on behind closed doors. There’s drama to be had no matter your sex or sexual orientation |
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
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Just men in general Nanaman. Just in different dramatic tones 
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"Do gay men cause more drama than straight men? I could be wrong but this is something I’ve noticed.
I know straight and bi men who are total drama queens - it's just men you know!!!
Oi leave it woman!!"
I'm a lady I'll have you know! |
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