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Seroulsy does my head in
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try think too much on to lovely. Most get ignored at some point. As for chat. It goes at a crazy pace, most are even ignoring each other. Just hoping the female will respond to them. I'm not a fan of the chat rooms. Too fast for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try think too much on to lovely. Most get ignored at some point. As for chat. It goes at a crazy pace, most are even ignoring each other. Just hoping the female will respond to them. I'm not a fan of the chat rooms. Too fast for me "
What the hell was the first line?? Haha. I meant to say... Try not to think too much on it lovely.... Bedtime i think! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Things would be different if I had boobs
Not necessarily. I have some and men ignore me, women too. I carry on in my own little world  "
Me too
Actually, it tends to be women who ignore me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't take it personally, it's just the nature of the forums.
By which I mean, it happens to me all the time and I try not to take it personally
I do that's my problem "
Yeah me too, very often though I try not to. It's like life though, you can't get on with everyone.
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By *apstar OP Man
over a year ago
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"Things would be different if I had boobs
Not necessarily. I have some and men ignore me, women too. I carry on in my own little world
Me too
Actually, it tends to be women who ignore me "
Really .. I do find that hard 2 believe |
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"Don't take it personally, it's just the nature of the forums.
By which I mean, it happens to me all the time and I try not to take it personally
I do that's my problem "
You shouldn't do really though. It's mostly like a lot of people having a bit of banter at work.
Put it this way, I think of the Forums as a 24 hr pub, you can walk in and talk to someone that is piquing your interest on a subject, obviously it takes time to get your feet under the table as it were, as long as you're polite and respectful, people will appreciate you and you will get yourself known  |
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By *apstar OP Man
over a year ago
Harpenden |
"Don't take it personally, it's just the nature of the forums.
By which I mean, it happens to me all the time and I try not to take it personally
I do that's my problem
You shouldn't do really though. It's mostly like a lot of people having a bit of banter at work.
Put it this way, I think of the Forums as a 24 hr pub, you can walk in and talk to someone that is piquing your interest on a subject, obviously it takes time to get your feet under the table as it were, as long as you're polite and respectful, people will appreciate you and you will get yourself known "
Thank you for that that's much appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another problem I have I think i can make everyone happy "
We're not so dissimilar, I've always been like that too.
The trick is, accept and value yourself as you are but also accept and value reality.
I mean, accept that you're the kind of person who wants to make everyone happy. Love yourself for that. But also accept and value the fact that you can't. |
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By *apstar OP Man
over a year ago
Harpenden |
"Another problem I have I think i can make everyone happy
We're not so dissimilar, I've always been like that too.
The trick is, accept and value yourself as you are but also accept and value reality.
I mean, accept that you're the kind of person who wants to make everyone happy. Love yourself for that. But also accept and value the fact that you can't. "
This is true thanks for that x |
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"Don't take it personally, it's just the nature of the forums.
By which I mean, it happens to me all the time and I try not to take it personally
I do that's my problem
You shouldn't do really though. It's mostly like a lot of people having a bit of banter at work.
Put it this way, I think of the Forums as a 24 hr pub, you can walk in and talk to someone that is piquing your interest on a subject, obviously it takes time to get your feet under the table as it were, as long as you're polite and respectful, people will appreciate you and you will get yourself known
Thank you for that that's much appreciated"
After 13 years on here, I know that I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but I still continue to post inane drivel on some threads  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be great if there a Like button for posts. I would've Liked every single post in this thread. It's difficult having to choose which one to reply + quote to. I reply to the words and not the person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be great if there a Like button for posts. I would've Liked every single post in this thread. It's difficult having to choose which one to reply + quote to. I reply to the words and not the person. "
*like* |
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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago
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"It would be great if there a Like button for posts. I would've Liked every single post in this thread. It's difficult having to choose which one to reply + quote to. I reply to the words and not the person. "
The like button is a good idea. I'm a member of a totally different forum and you can like posts, to agree/endorse the comments without having to reply..
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"One thing that does my head in is when men clearly ignore you in a group chat / forums.. rant over "
Some of us couples get ignored, too. The female here is usually the one that posts and don’t mind being ignored. I usually pop in occasionally, put in my ‘2p’ worth - hopefully not upsetting the apple art too much and then disappear!  |
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"One thing that does my head in is when men clearly ignore you in a group chat / forums.. rant over "
Although it's good to chat and might seem like General chit chat I would guess there's a sexual motive behind a lot of it so as you're straight they may be avoiding you. |
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"One thing that does my head in is when men clearly ignore you in a group chat / forums.. rant over "
I find it hilarious in the kiss fuck avoid threads where the guy below me always finds the woman like 3 people above me. Absolutely terrified someone would see him associating with a bi guy. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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My boobs don’t help - I get ignored a lot but I only notice three days later when I remember to pop back to a thread
It has no impact on my life. I do my own thing in my own way and it works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im trying to set a record for the number of threads I can end
I know several people who do this
Its a fine art!"
Pun of the week, if that was intentional |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said hi like 5 times and was ignorned.. the second a lady talks and pops all the men "
Women get bombarded with private messages in the chatrooms i cant keep up with them all nevermind whoever talks to me in the chatroom  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One thing that does my head in is when men clearly ignore you in a group chat / forums.. rant over "
Why does everyone feel like they have to have a reply to everything they put?
Get over yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some 'straight' men think that if they reply to you it will make them become gay!
Look at the fuck, kiss and avoid thread... How 'straight' men quickly delete their 'fuck' when they realised that a man jumped in between them and the woman they wanted to fuck. It is laugheable ! |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
"Im trying to set a record for the number of threads I can end
Must try harder  "
I'm excellent at that
Op if you know you are taking it personally, you know what you need to work on |
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It's interesting that lots of people feel they're ignored yet seem to ignore others.
It's not the case that they do of course. Its the nature of chat rooms and forums and human nature. Accepting that makes the experience more pleasant |
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"It would be great if there a Like button for posts. I would've Liked every single post in this thread. It's difficult having to choose which one to reply + quote to. I reply to the words and not the person.
The like button is a good idea. I'm a member of a totally different forum and you can like posts, to agree/endorse the comments without having to reply..
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I just give a thumbs up,mind you it as got me a ban too. |
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"It would be great if there a Like button for posts. I would've Liked every single post in this thread. It's difficult having to choose which one to reply + quote to. I reply to the words and not the person.
The like button is a good idea. I'm a member of a totally different forum and you can like posts, to agree/endorse the comments without having to reply..
I just give a thumbs up,mind you it as got me a ban too."
Giving a thumbs up will not get you a ban. |
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"It would be great if there a Like button for posts. I would've Liked every single post in this thread. It's difficult having to choose which one to reply + quote to. I reply to the words and not the person.
The like button is a good idea. I'm a member of a totally different forum and you can like posts, to agree/endorse the comments without having to reply..
I just give a thumbs up,mind you it as got me a ban too.
Giving a thumbs up will not get you a ban."
I'm afraid it did. |
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"It would be great if there a Like button for posts. I would've Liked every single post in this thread. It's difficult having to choose which one to reply + quote to. I reply to the words and not the person.
The like button is a good idea. I'm a member of a totally different forum and you can like posts, to agree/endorse the comments without having to reply..
I just give a thumbs up,mind you it as got me a ban too.
Giving a thumbs up will not get you a ban.
I'm afraid it did."
If the text accompanying your thumbs up broke forum rules it would have. |
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"Was in one of the forums . Also happens in the kik groups "
Don't let it get to you, it happens in the chatrooms too, a guy comes in and goes hello ladies . It wouldn't occur to me to go into a chatroom and speak to the men and ignore the women, but I guess alot of men on here assume if they say hi to someone of the same sex that they are obliged to shag them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another problem I have I think i can make everyone happy
We're not so dissimilar, I've always been like that too.
The trick is, accept and value yourself as you are but also accept and value reality.
I mean, accept that you're the kind of person who wants to make everyone happy. Love yourself for that. But also accept and value the fact that you can't. "
 agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Things would be different if I had boobs"
Some women get ignored too. But yeah it’s mostly men.
Basically if the OP doesn’t fancy you or you’re not lusted after by 99.95% of the forum, then you’re stuffed.
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"It would be great if there a Like button for posts. I would've Liked every single post in this thread. It's difficult having to choose which one to reply + quote to. I reply to the words and not the person.
The like button is a good idea. I'm a member of a totally different forum and you can like posts, to agree/endorse the comments without having to reply..
I just give a thumbs up,mind you it as got me a ban too.
Giving a thumbs up will not get you a ban.
I'm afraid it did.
If the text accompanying your thumbs up broke forum rules it would have."
It was a thumbs up to one of Dashes posts. He got a ban,I did and think a woman who gave a thumbs up got one too. On the brightside,I got alot of things done on that weekend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose it depends on what you were thumbing up to, if it was something that was breaking rules then...
Either way, discussing bans on the forum isn't allowed so it might be best not to "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Much of what I say is ignored by many. Doesn't really bother me, I post primarily because I'm bored or want distraction and I'll happily say what I think without considering the plaudits it will get. Ive never seen the need to post to seek popularity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Much of what I say is ignored by many. Doesn't really bother me, I post primarily because I'm bored or want distraction and I'll happily say what I think without considering the plaudits it will get. Ive never seen the need to post to seek popularity"
And that's that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tried chat once, too fast for me
Forums are cool, basically the only reason I'm still here. I've been on this site for over 13 years now, and you do get bypassed sometimes, it can be quite frustrating when you have responded to a post and it has been ignored, only for someone else to type pretty much what you have said and for everyone else to quote their post  "
I keep getting told off for posting paragraphs. So used to forum style posting. |
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