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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't you just hate it when you turn up to a meet after spending an hour or more to get ready and he's wearing jogging bottoms and hooded top 
Please guys, a little bit of effort to look presentable 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm totally with you OP. I put a hell of a lot of effort in, I plan ahead for days, so I feel annoyrdvof aman turns up in jogging both of old, there's just no excuse or reason for it, at all.
First impressions really do count. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm totally with you OP. I put a hell of a lot of effort in, I plan ahead for days, so I feel annoyrdvof aman turns up in jogging both of old, there's just no excuse or reason for it, at all.
First impressions really do count."
Jeez, how many typos?!
I feel annoyed if a man turns up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind as long as the man is clean and tidy. My former FWB was a right scruffy bugger, in shorts, trainers and T.shirt. He was a great sexual partner though xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you turn up to a meet after spending an hour or more to get ready and he's wearing jogging bottoms and hooded top
Please guys, a little bit of effort to look presentable
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No man over 21 should wear a hooded top ever! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm totally with you OP. I put a hell of a lot of effort in, I plan ahead for days, so I feel annoyrdvof aman turns up in jogging both of old, there's just no excuse or reason for it, at all.
First impressions really do count."
Glad it's not just me.... and yes, first impressions really do count.
Luckily I hadn't dressed to play. First meet is always play safe with the outfits. Just wore a summer dress with tights and the g-string he requested. Needless to say he never got as far as seeing the g-string. Met, had a chat then I left.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you turn up to a meet after spending an hour or more to get ready and he's wearing jogging bottoms and hooded top
Please guys, a little bit of effort to look presentable
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Lol how old was this guy |
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"Don't you just hate it when you turn up to a meet after spending an hour or more to get ready and he's wearing jogging bottoms and hooded top
Please guys, a little bit of effort to look presentable
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 bloody useless fella I always make sure I look the best I can and smell even better   x |
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Believer of first impressions count. I know the lady will make an effort so I should to.
Oh and the person that said a man over 21 shouldn’t wear a hoodie, as a sports coach it’s a bit of my “uniform”. What do you suggest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had a man turn up in jogging bottoms to a social or play meet, even though it would be easier to get his kit off if he had ... as for me making an effort, i ensure i look presentable but I wouldn't go OTT |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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"I find that they make an effort first time then it slips after that. As soon as they cease to make an effort I cease to meet them  "
Aw, I'm the opposite way round. A man must be presentable on a first meet, but if he lets his standards slip on later meets, that's OK. I just pop him straight in the shower, if he's come to mine from work. Smell nice and a spare dressing gown is fine for second and subsequent meets. (Same goes for me, on later meets. If they expect anything more than smell nice and nearly naked, they'll be disappointed  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankfully I've not had that yet 
We can change that if you want?
I'm too old to be meeting someone who wears trackie bottoms and a hoodie  "
You're never too old to wear the latest chav trends. Now do you like reebok or addidas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ThT happened to me, my first real date as a single woman and he turned up in a track suit, not matching neither. Safe to say he didn’t get a second one x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankfully I've not had that yet
We can change that if you want?
I'm too old to be meeting someone who wears trackie bottoms and a hoodie
You're never too old to wear the latest chav trends. Now do you like reebok or addidas "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends ..
I'm not fussed - clean and fresh and not a knob head is all good with me.
One of the best meets I've had I was wearing a cardigan... "
Aww no a cardigan?!? ... I’d rather have the trackies ... please say it wasn’t brown with elbow patches?!? I do like sportswear ... nice and shape defining though not baggy ones
Kx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends ..
I'm not fussed - clean and fresh and not a knob head is all good with me.
One of the best meets I've had I was wearing a cardigan...
Aww no a cardigan?!? ... I’d rather have the trackies ... please say it wasn’t brown with elbow patches?!? I do like sportswear ... nice and shape defining though not baggy ones
Kx "
Haha no elbow patches but it was navy
K you could wear anything and look ridiculously hot!
Jealous x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends ..
I'm not fussed - clean and fresh and not a knob head is all good with me.
One of the best meets I've had I was wearing a cardigan...
Aww no a cardigan?!? ... I’d rather have the trackies ... please say it wasn’t brown with elbow patches?!? I do like sportswear ... nice and shape defining though not baggy ones
Kx
Haha no elbow patches but it was navy
K you could wear anything and look ridiculously hot!
Jealous x"
Aww thankyou lovely x ... do you reckon I’d get away with baggy trackies and a navy cardigan? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends ..
I'm not fussed - clean and fresh and not a knob head is all good with me.
One of the best meets I've had I was wearing a cardigan...
Aww no a cardigan?!? ... I’d rather have the trackies ... please say it wasn’t brown with elbow patches?!? I do like sportswear ... nice and shape defining though not baggy ones
Kx
Haha no elbow patches but it was navy
K you could wear anything and look ridiculously hot!
Jealous x
Aww thankyou lovely x ... do you reckon I’d get away with baggy trackies and a navy cardigan? "
I reckon you could ...
A tight cardie unbuttoned indecently and some tracksuit bottoms hanging off those hips- chavtastic but still hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends ..
I'm not fussed - clean and fresh and not a knob head is all good with me.
One of the best meets I've had I was wearing a cardigan...
Aww no a cardigan?!? ... I’d rather have the trackies ... please say it wasn’t brown with elbow patches?!? I do like sportswear ... nice and shape defining though not baggy ones
Kx
Haha no elbow patches but it was navy
K you could wear anything and look ridiculously hot!
Jealous x
Aww thankyou lovely x ... do you reckon I’d get away with baggy trackies and a navy cardigan?
I reckon you could ...
A tight cardie unbuttoned indecently and some tracksuit bottoms hanging off those hips- chavtastic but still hot "
Chavtastic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw a group of lads on my way home I think they were off out on the town. One was rocking a burgundy velour tracksuit thing looked kinda expensive but soooo chav too it reminded me of the shell suit days he’ll look back at that and regret it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tight fitting White tshirt and clean, ironed joggers mmmmm. Preferably with nothing on underneath
Not really a first meet but a play meet is cool.
As long as a guy is comfortable and clean I'm not fussed what he wears. |
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We wouldn't dream of not being spruced up and smelling fresh. Thankfully those who we have met have done likewise.
If it was apparent none or even a basic level of effort was made, there wouldn't be a second chance to make that impression... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joggers up their leg, with pulled up white ankle socks and nike trainers.... oh wait, that’s my local!
OP If I meet turned up like that, I’d turn away - fast. I like the seduction and a well-dressed gentleman is hot. Effort counts. |
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"Don't you just hate it when you turn up to a meet after spending an hour or more to get ready and he's wearing jogging bottoms and hooded top
Please guys, a little bit of effort to look presentable
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With white socks and black plastic (imitation leather) formal shoes one would hope ?  |
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If he is clean and smells good, I'm pretty happy. I used to make much more effort to look good for meets but realised that if things went well, they'd see me naked with makeup smeared everywhere! So I try to be realistic and wear something comfortable, light makeup and perfume. Mind you, last social I had went so well that I did regret not having shaved my legs that day! But he didn't seem to mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dress to impress, crocs, budgie smugglers, propeller cap and a air horn.
#NewWankBankMaterial
Add those white socks and I’m cumming
Threesome?"
... digging out the leggings and slippers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I saw a group of lads on my way home I think they were off out on the town. One was rocking a burgundy velour tracksuit thing looked kinda expensive but soooo chav too it reminded me of the shell suit days he’ll look back at that and regret it lol"
ROFL yes he's going to regret it...
I remember wearing a shiny black and turquoise tracksuit in the 80s
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I saw a group of lads on my way home I think they were off out on the town. One was rocking a burgundy velour tracksuit thing looked kinda expensive but soooo chav too it reminded me of the shell suit days he’ll look back at that and regret it lol
ROFL yes he's going to regret it...
I remember wearing a shiny black and turquoise tracksuit in the 80s
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Have you still got it... I need it for tonight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like guys in joggers so wouldn't bother me. I had a guy turn up to a second meet (at my house) wearing flip flops and a dressing gown with nothing underneath! |
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"I like guys in joggers so wouldn't bother me. I had a guy turn up to a second meet (at my house) wearing flip flops and a dressing gown with nothing underneath! "
I once did that with a coat. Felt exciting driving there but felt a right wally on the way home when the excitement had gone lol |
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"I saw a group of lads on my way home I think they were off out on the town. One was rocking a burgundy velour tracksuit thing looked kinda expensive but soooo chav too it reminded me of the shell suit days he’ll look back at that and regret it lol
ROFL yes he's going to regret it...
I remember wearing a shiny black and turquoise tracksuit in the 80s
Have you still got it... I need it for tonight "
ROFL - where are you going?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like guys in joggers so wouldn't bother me. I had a guy turn up to a second meet (at my house) wearing flip flops and a dressing gown with nothing underneath!
I once did that with a coat. Felt exciting driving there but felt a right wally on the way home when the excitement had gone lol"
He brought clothes with him for the next morning, shorts and a hoody! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like guys in joggers so wouldn't bother me. I had a guy turn up to a second meet (at my house) wearing flip flops and a dressing gown with nothing underneath!
I once did that with a coat. Felt exciting driving there but felt a right wally on the way home when the excitement had gone lol"
Someone did that to me once. We never made it past the hallway.
She brought a change of clothes though- #doh |
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"I like guys in joggers so wouldn't bother me. I had a guy turn up to a second meet (at my house) wearing flip flops and a dressing gown with nothing underneath!
I once did that with a coat. Felt exciting driving there but felt a right wally on the way home when the excitement had gone lol
Someone did that to me once. We never made it past the hallway.
She brought a change of clothes though- #doh"
It wasn’t my brightest moment lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't you just hate it when you turn up to a meet after spending an hour or more to get ready and he's wearing jogging bottoms and hooded top
Please guys, a little bit of effort to look presentable
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Christ, I used to crack out my knee high boots and army trousers. To be fair though, the woman in question has a boot fetish, and she would request them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don’t step out of the front door unless I look good and smell good, even if it’s food shopping never mind meeting someone. Lack of respect for yourself and the other person otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always make an effort - even if it’s just a social. I think the way you present yourself represents who and how you are..
I love to meet a man that has made an effort to look - and smell - good.. |
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I live in a hoody & gym kit all week for work.
So I do like to make an effort in looking feminine, and dress nicely out of work.
If someone turned up to a first meet dressed like thst I'd definitely be a bit disappointed.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like guys in joggers so wouldn't bother me. I had a guy turn up to a second meet (at my house) wearing flip flops and a dressing gown with nothing underneath!
I once did that with a coat. Felt exciting driving there but felt a right wally on the way home when the excitement had gone lol
Someone did that to me once. We never made it past the hallway.
She brought a change of clothes though- #doh
It wasn’t my brightest moment lol"
You were probably subliminally thinking ahead... If you got pulled (pardon the pun) for speeding on the way home... I can see the advantages... |
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"No man over 21 should wear a hooded top ever! "
Are we talking sports hooded tops? Fashion hooded tops? Or hooded tops right across the board? Because I wear a lot of band merch, and like almost all of the male metalhead community, I wear band hoodies underneath a sleeveless patch jacket. Am I included in this post-21 hoodie ban? |
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"No man over 21 should wear a hooded top ever!
Are we talking sports hooded tops? Fashion hooded tops? Or hooded tops right across the board? Because I wear a lot of band merch, and like almost all of the male metalhead community, I wear band hoodies underneath a sleeveless patch jacket. Am I included in this post-21 hoodie ban? "
To be honest I have no idea what you’re on about but I say Yes! |
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"No man over 21 should wear a hooded top ever!
Are we talking sports hooded tops? Fashion hooded tops? Or hooded tops right across the board? Because I wear a lot of band merch, and like almost all of the male metalhead community, I wear band hoodies underneath a sleeveless patch jacket. Am I included in this post-21 hoodie ban?
To be honest I have no idea what you’re on about but I say Yes! "
Think Metallica (I don't listen to them anymore, but just for the sake of a well known band), rather than addidas or kappa |
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"I saw a group of lads on my way home I think they were off out on the town. One was rocking a burgundy velour tracksuit thing looked kinda expensive but soooo chav too it reminded me of the shell suit days he’ll look back at that and regret it lol
ROFL yes he's going to regret it...
I remember wearing a shiny black and turquoise tracksuit in the 80s
Have you still got it... I need it for tonight
ROFL - where are you going?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No man over 21 should wear a hooded top ever!
Are we talking sports hooded tops? Fashion hooded tops? Or hooded tops right across the board? Because I wear a lot of band merch, and like almost all of the male metalhead community, I wear band hoodies underneath a sleeveless patch jacket. Am I included in this post-21 hoodie ban?
To be honest I have no idea what you’re on about but I say Yes!
Think Metallica (I don't listen to them anymore, but just for the sake of a well known band), rather than addidas or kappa"
Well I did have a bit of a crush on James after he cut his hair. The thing about rock groupies I find that sometimes they can look a bit unkempt but some women like that look so go with those ones I guess |
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"I know there's some right scruffy buggers about,who would turn up to a meet in scruffs for heavens sake. Cake anyone?"
Please then the PT can come and work it off me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No man over 21 should wear a hooded top ever!
Are we talking sports hooded tops? Fashion hooded tops? Or hooded tops right across the board? Because I wear a lot of band merch, and like almost all of the male metalhead community, I wear band hoodies underneath a sleeveless patch jacket. Am I included in this post-21 hoodie ban?
To be honest I have no idea what you’re on about but I say Yes!
Think Metallica (I don't listen to them anymore, but just for the sake of a well known band), rather than addidas or kappa
Well I did have a bit of a crush on James after he cut his hair. The thing about rock groupies I find that sometimes they can look a bit unkempt but some women like that look so go with those ones I guess "
I know exactly what you mean. Those ones with the beard that is not cared for properly and jeans with holes in. Thankfully, I try to keep my beard in check and even smelling nice, and also don't even wear jeans, so if anything ends up with a hole, I replace it.
On another note, you should check out the bass player/vocalist from a band called blind haze. He might get you a bit hot under the collar |
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"That's why I don't bother dressing up now. They get greying, greasy hair, Primark Jeggings and flip flops.
Oh we so need to meet! "
You won't know what's hit you |
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"Don't you just hate it when you turn up to a meet after spending an hour or more to get ready and he's wearing jogging bottoms and hooded top
Please guys, a little bit of effort to look presentable
No man over 21 should wear a hooded top ever! "
I object. Can definitely wear a fitted hoodie with chinos and trainers for a casual date  |
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