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Would you rather sex on your first meet or second meet.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Depends on numerous things but generally would prefer a social element first- whether that be for an hour or so in the social area of a club or doing a social activity before moving to a hotel room or even just having a pure social meet and then arranging to meet at a later date if we both wanted to.
Circumstances usually dictate which  |
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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago
Ladywell, Lewisham. |
"Depends on numerous things but generally would prefer a social element first- whether that be for an hour or so in the social area of a club or doing a social activity before moving to a hotel room or even just having a pure social meet and then arranging to meet at a later date if we both wanted to.
Circumstances usually dictate which "
brilliant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Preferably first meet social. If we get on it’s always nice to end the evening with a bit of a smooch, but nothing is ever expected on a first Social (any snogs a nice by-product)
Once the ice is broken hopefully on to a play meet. I know many are here for a fuck and don’t need that social aspect, but for me it makes for a better experience if we’ve met and we’re already comfortable with each other  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the least second but I've been known to have a couple of socials then a soft play meet before a fuck meet "
Soft play? Like a ball pit? I suppose it COULD be arousing. I mean, it is balls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First for us. We don't do a strictly social meets as we rarely get the chance to meet so we prefer to chat a little and then play.
As long as everyone wants to.
~Mia |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me, I'd rather socialize first , have a chat , drink and If feel like im in the mood of playing and yeah...let's get down to business."
I always do sex on the first meet....
I have to get my moneys worth for the coffee I paid for.... |
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"What are these things you talk about ?
Meets
No idea what they are lol you get it at the deli counter, or sometime in the fridge at a supermarket"
Yes the deli counter all be it it was a quiet farm shop and that came about as I was bending at the fridge ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets see how the mood takes us
Or how many drinks you've d*unk "
I went vegan for a year, so can't drink a lot any more as a side affect. 
If you've got pretty eyes i'll get d*unk on them instead  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First. If they suggested waiting for a second meet I would assume that second meet would never be happening and it's their way of saying no thanks.
So it's first. It's swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually meet on the understanding of a social with no expectations and just go with the flow. Both times we've flowed..but one was only kissing and a bit of fumbling because of where we met...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would rather the second time but that's cos I'd have to see them in the flesh to make sure there's attraction. Last guy I met though was supposed to be a social but we skipped the going for coffee part and went straight back to mine and had a half fuck! |
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Depends on the person and how we get on. I’ve had meets wherevits purely about the sex and it happens straight away.
I’ve had social meets with no expectations that have ended up in some play, and I’ve had purely social meets with the play happening at a later date |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First. The guys I meet will have already put months worth of chatting in. If I don't know if I want to fuck them by then, then I doubt a few more hours in a bar will change anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have done both to be honest but do prefer to go for a drink first somewhere neutral before heading to a room/ house / hotel , just to make sure everyone's comfortable and the attractions there . We don't get much free time so like to make it worth it when we do  .as
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
We only meet at clubs so I guess 1st meet.... we like to advertise where and when we are going in our profile, say hello and swap smiley face pics here and agree to meet at the club, then enjoy a casual chat at the club, establish a bit of chemistry then go play if it feels right.
It works for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes take longer than a second meet, before i consider having sex. It depends on the time and connection. If i don't have a lot of it, i usually go for a second social, just to keep both of us on target, until i can find proper time. I'm not into rushed meets |
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