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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there someone on here that you just carry on going back to the profile, you've chatted a bit but things haven't quite progressed as you would have hoped. But deep down you think what a great fuck they would be.
Damn there is 1 Fab lady on here who keeps me coming back for more punishment
 
Yes theres a few
Distance makes fools of us all"
Not all of us...some of us see distance and think 'oooh an adventure' rather than 'well, thats that then' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there someone on here that you just carry on going back to the profile, you've chatted a bit but things haven't quite progressed as you would have hoped. But deep down you think what a great fuck they would be.
Damn there is 1 Fab lady on here who keeps me coming back for more punishment
Yes theres a few
Distance makes fools of us all
Not all of us...some of us see distance and think 'oooh an adventure' rather than 'well, thats that then'"
Who doesn't like an adventure, that's why we are here right? A long journey of sexual enlightenment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Of course! But sometimes, don't you think that maybe the fantasy would be better than the reality?
Peach x"
You will never know, I guess that's the exciting thing about it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do any of you tell the other person?? Take a chance or a risk... or do you just wishful think... OP this is your thread what do you do? "
On this occasion I have said I'd love to meet if she was interested anytime in the future , she since put up a "currently not meeting" So I do think now it's just wishful thinking. It was worth the risk though, if you don't ask you never know.
Who knows it could lead somewhere a few months down the line |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes but distance.... 
Liverpool isn't that far  
Haha no it isn’t!! 
Well that isn't a blatant no "
Hahaha no it’s isnt it an honest observation.. Liverpool isn’t too far... but we haven’t even chatted!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think the one I really want knows I exist
Why don’t you make yourself known? You never know!! I can't, filters"
Ooh that’s rubbish!! Maybe the forum should have a no filters day?? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think the one I really want knows I exist
Why don’t you make yourself known? You never know!! I can't, filters
Ooh that’s rubbish!! Maybe the forum should have a no filters day?? X"
I can just imagine how many messages you would get if that happened xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes but distance....
Liverpool isn't that far
Haha no it isn’t!!
Well that isn't a blatant no
Hahaha no it’s isnt it an honest observation.. Liverpool isn’t too far... but we haven’t even chatted!! "
That will have to change
I'm easily bribed and swayed with jammie dodgers and Yorkshire tea |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes but distance....
Liverpool isn't that far
Haha no it isn’t!!
Well that isn't a blatant no
Hahaha no it’s isnt it an honest observation.. Liverpool isn’t too far... but we haven’t even chatted!!
That will have to change
I'm easily bribed and swayed with jammie dodgers and Yorkshire tea "
Dunker or cruncher |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes but distance....
Liverpool isn't that far
Haha no it isn’t!!
Well that isn't a blatant no
Hahaha no it’s isnt it an honest observation.. Liverpool isn’t too far... but we haven’t even chatted!!
That will have to change
I'm easily bribed and swayed with jammie dodgers and Yorkshire tea
Dunker or cruncher "
Dunker, can't beat it. |
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"Arghhhhhhhhh I have got Grease songs stuck in my head now!!!!!!!!! "
Same..Like rama lama lama ka dinga da dinga dong
Remembered forever
As shoo-bop sha wadda wadda yippity boom de boom
Chang chang changitty chang sha-bop
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if you don't know what you want?
Don’t make a rash decision... just take your time x"
but you actually need to be able to say hello at first.
Still I can dream xx |
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Yes there was. Took my time and messaged here early one morning(when she wasn’t being bombarded by other guys). To my amazement she replied and we got on really well. Chatted all day and arranged a meet for a couple of days later. Messaged her again the next day and she just deleted... never spoke again |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"What if you don't know what you want?
Don’t make a rash decision... just take your time x but you actually need to be able to say hello at first.
Still I can dream xx"
Can you not tell them on here if you can’t private message? If the person is on this thread or on a kiss, bite or sex thread you could be fairly blatant and hopefully they would get the message and then you could move it to private talking? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if you don't know what you want?
Don’t make a rash decision... just take your time x but you actually need to be able to say hello at first.
Still I can dream xx
Can you not tell them on here if you can’t private message? If the person is on this thread or on a kiss, bite or sex thread you could be fairly blatant and hopefully they would get the message and then you could move it to private talking? "
as I outside their age range, not much point, and I wouldn't want to embarrass them or myself |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"What if you don't know what you want?
Don’t make a rash decision... just take your time x but you actually need to be able to say hello at first.
Still I can dream xx
Can you not tell them on here if you can’t private message? If the person is on this thread or on a kiss, bite or sex thread you could be fairly blatant and hopefully they would get the message and then you could move it to private talking? as I outside their age range, not much point, and I wouldn't want to embarrass them or myself"
Okay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There wasn't any except a week ago i saw someone from the forums in a different light. Really made me look at him differently instead of assuming he's a typical dick . Haha sorry
However, distance is a passion killer. Ah well.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if you don't know what you want?
Don’t make a rash decision... just take your time x
Hindsight! A wonderful thing x"
Oops!! Isn’t it just!!! Can decisions be changed? I know you won’t want to discuss in public... xx |
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"Is there someone on here that you just carry on going back to the profile, you've chatted a bit but things haven't quite progressed as you would have hoped. But deep down you think what a great fuck they would be.
Damn there is 1 Fab lady on here who keeps me coming back for more punishment
Yes theres a few
Distance makes fools of us all
Not all of us...some of us see distance and think 'oooh an adventure' rather than 'well, thats that then'"
Exactly this!!  I don't think "oh well", I think "Go gettem girl" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if you don't know what you want?
Don’t make a rash decision... just take your time x
Hindsight! A wonderful thing x
Oops!! Isn’t it just!!! Can decisions be changed? I know you won’t want to discuss in public... xx"
only one way to find out though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah this thread has made me a little wistful and sad! So many people lamenting distance and missed opportunities...
I’ve not been back long enough to really have an opinion nor to have anyone feel that way about me but I have regrets from my previous time here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think the one I really want knows I exist
Then tell her/them "
That’s a very good point! In the past I always let the object of my affections know. Distance isn’t really a barrier if you both are interested |
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"I don't think the one I really want knows I exist
Then tell her/them
That’s a very good point! In the past I always let the object of my affections know. Distance isn’t really a barrier if you both are interested "
Absolutely!!! You’ve got nothing to lose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sent a message to someone off my hotlist... crashed and burned!!!
Ah no. At least you tried x"
Hehe yes!! Better to have tried and failed... anyway whose next on the list!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sent a message to someone off my hotlist... crashed and burned!!!
Ah no. At least you tried x
Hehe yes!! Better to have tried and failed... anyway whose next on the list!! "
Absolutely! At least then you have your answer and all fun of picking your next target |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I sent a message to someone off my hotlist... crashed and burned!!!
Ah no. At least you tried x
Hehe yes!! Better to have tried and failed... anyway whose next on the list!! "
*Consults list - turns the page - frowns and sighs*
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s one I often go back too, I’m convinced we would be a good match but I’m not in their age range so will never know! Maybe that’s part of the attraction though!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll eventually wear him down
Probably, yeah...
Give me time.
Whoosh!"
Sorry, you have to be straight talking to me. My brain doesn't work very well now.
Unless you meant I'm so fat I'll squish him |
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"I'll eventually wear him down
Probably, yeah...
Give me time.
Whoosh!
Sorry, you have to be straight talking to me. My brain doesn't work very well now.
Unless you meant I'm so fat I'll squish him "
It wasn’t that, no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is, but it’s been more poor timing and circumstance that has got in the way...
I’m going to do something about that right now! "
Hope it goes well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was one man where distance put me off, but now we're a little more than friends and I'm happy to do the 3 hourly drive each month.
There are a few ladies that I'm attracted to but I don't approach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have people actually contacted them? Or is it a case of being worried of rejection? "
That's what I wonder as I've recently found out that the guy I'm seeing now has been lusting after me for years- even way back when I was here as a couple. I had always seen him around and thought he was hot and made me laugh but due to distance I didn't think anything would happen |
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