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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So they saying goes.

Are you one who gives one chance if hurt or they disrespect you in dome way. Walk

Do you give another chance but enter into it cautious

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

That depends entirely on how bad the ‘bite’ was

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By *ig Chris75Man over a year ago

Sandbach

I guess that it would depend on who they were - and how well you knew them.

I tend to work on the theory if they've done it once they are likely to do it again.

I've never arranged a meet and not turned up - and would expect others to value a meet or whatever just the same.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Its best to walk away as its normally only a matter of time before they shit on you again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to give second chances but i don't anymore..

Best to just cut your losses and move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dont mind giving 2nd chances or even 3rds but i do have mug tattood on my head

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

I used to give chances, it took me far too long to work out that it rarely worked out well for me. So now, if you hurt me, that’s it, I cut you off, much easier to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I usually give around 71 chances before realising I’m an idiot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I usually give around 71 chances before realising I’m an idiot

Same.

Actually I usually know after the 2nd chance but I just keep on anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I usually give around 71 chances before realising I’m an idiot

Me too! Haha glad im not the only one x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes. It depends on what and the persons reactions to it going forward x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps everyone deserves a second chance...

Follow your (heart)

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By *isa 59Woman over a year ago

Newcastle

I will often give a second chance but it all depends on the nature of the misdemeanour.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

One chance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One chance."

Even for roofers?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I usually give around 71 chances before realising I’m an idiot

Same.

Actually I usually know after the 2nd chance but I just keep on anyway. "

Yep that’s me too. I make myself cringe sometimes

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

depending on the situation, people deserve at least one second-chance, but if they are known to letting people down then no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I usually give around 71 chances before realising I’m an idiot

Me too! Haha glad im not the only one x"

Haha no there’s a whole team of us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I usually give around 71 chances before realising I’m an idiot

Me too! Haha glad im not the only one x

Haha no there’s a whole team of us

I draw the line at 69 it always distracts me for some reason

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dont mind giving 2nd chances or even 3rds but i do have mug tattood on my head

Haha Yep so do i

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I usually give around 71 chances before realising I’m an idiot

Me too! Haha glad im not the only one x

Haha no there’s a whole team of us

Haha it seems that there is

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It depends entirely what the situation was and how much I wanted to shag them!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always prepared to give someone a second chance.

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By *ollyGWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"Perhaps everyone deserves a second chance...

Follow your (heart)"

No way!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"One chance.

Even for roofers?

Well maybe.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"So they saying goes.

Are you one who gives one chance if hurt or they disrespect you in dome way. Walk

Do you give another chance but enter into it cautious

Depends who and what. I give people I care about second chances, but I can be ruthless with those who have not yet earned my loyalty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I give second chances but it doesn't mean I trust them. It takes alot to earn my trust and you've got be someone pretty special. My gut feelings always give me a pretty good kicking..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do give second chances (probably thirds and fourths too) to the ones I love. There will be consequences though

People on here? Probably, if I like them enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once bitten, but twice shy.

I keep my distance,

but you still catch my eye.

Great.

Now I got Last Christmas by Wham! Stuck in my bonce.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Once bitten, but twice shy.

I keep my distance,

but you still catch my eye.

Great.

Now I got Last Christmas by Wham! Stuck in my bonce.

Once bitten

Twice shy

Keep one eye open

For the bad guys

You’re welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well I must be a glutton for punishment because I keep giving 2nd 3rd 4th and more chances I really need a tattoo saying mug on my head walk right in

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

If you mean on here. Then the answer is no second chances

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely once bitten twice shy...2nd chances are invariably a waste of time

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

No second chances.

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By *rjimMan over a year ago

nr bristol

If someone lets you down once it's their fault.

If they let you down again, it's your fault.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm probably guilty of giving people too many chances, forgiving or ignoring little things. Occasionally things that actually offended me because I cared too deeply for that person.

But I can also totaly cold hearted at times, I'll cut people out my life completely without a second thought once a line has been crossed.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"If someone lets you down once it's their fault.

If they let you down again, it's your fault."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If someone lets you down once it's their fault.

If they let you down again, it's your fault.

Wow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It does depend on circumstances, sometimes I will forgive, others it's a definite no-no ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So they saying goes.

Are you one who gives one chance if hurt or they disrespect you in dome way. Walk

Do you give another chance but enter into it cautious

On here?

Once, maybe twice- following my instincts.

In relationships- too many x

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Great White - Once Bitten Twice Shy

www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bz61YQWZuYU

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Skid Row - Youth Gone Wild

www.youtube.com/watch?v=4jpf-eC-Xlk

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

We need to keep our self respect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That depends entirely on how bad the ‘bite’ was

This

And depends on the sincerity of the person who hurt you too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We need to keep our self respect. "

That as well

You need to find a balanced between what the person had done to you, his/her sincerity in being sorry for it and your pride.

Pride can be a good thing but a bad thing as well.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

It depends on what has happened - I will certainly express my feelings and opinion and possibly negotiate.

This may be about me and not them, to an extent - is it my stuff or truly just because someone has been disrespectful to me. I'm inclined towards not giving second chances too readily.

It's most important that you don't walk away carrying scars that haven't heeled, so that you repeat any mistakes of choices or your own involvement making something wrong for you imo

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