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What's worse, turned down for physical attributes or personality?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Like for example, a guy doesn't want you because you have enhanced boobs or you're overweight or you're too tall or too short, or a guy is physically attracted to you and meets you but then doesn't want you because he thinks you're a maniac?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can take that physically I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but if they said it’s my personality that puts them off I think it would smart a bit. But their choice x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality i think, getting rejected because of how I look doesn't really bother me

But then again, Ive never been turned down because of personality because I'm such a fucking delightful person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I probably wouldn’t believe him if he said my personality was shit!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality i think, getting rejected because of how I look doesn't really bother me

But then again, Ive never been turned down because of personality because I'm such a fucking delightful person."

And recently being turned down for being a single father hurt more than i thought it would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d be upset for being turned down for my enhanced boobs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just know that I'm not everyone's cup of tea!! And unless you're brave

have no problems with people not liking me at all for whatever reasons!!

Let's be honest here, I'm fussy so respect everyone else is entitled to be and it's much more attractive than the shag anything brigade

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

I live in the real world so I am realistic to know that there are ladies who are more attractive, slimmer or just what people are looking for. That feels fine to me cos i dont need validation from strangers on a sex site.

Rejection is part of life.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Personality for me. I'm not under any illusions that I'm physically for everyone - no one is. But personality would probably feel a lot more personal. I don't know. I've yet to be turned down.

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By *r Appreciator.Man over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

Personality. I'd doubt my whole existence.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I live in the real world so I am realistic to know that there are ladies who are more attractive, slimmer or just what people are looking for. That feels fine to me cos i dont need validation from strangers on a sex site.

Rejection is part of life."

Yet the sex site need facial verification from you.

*Sorry, just the first thought that popped in my head when I read this.

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

I can’t say I have ever bothered to ask as to why I have been rejected.

I have many issues so I rather than worry about a single one I blame them all and feel a little better about it.

Being rejected on the basis of my personality would be quite harsh as I think that’s my best bit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can take that physically I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but i been turned down because of my personality and grammar and disability but the fact is i’m such a delightful person,. I think it would smart a bit. But their choice anyway have fun filled times ahead XXOO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like for example, a guy doesn't want you because you have enhanced boobs or you're overweight or you're too tall or too short, or a guy is physically attracted to you and meets you but then doesn't want you because he thinks you're a maniac?

Have you been turned down recently?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality, definitely.

I accepted who I am physically a long time ago, so being turned down for my physical appearance no longer bothers me. It happens all the time.

Unfortunately for many you have to get past the physical before you get to the personality.

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By *educedWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

I accept that my personality is not for everyone. I can be pretty bizarre. Recently, someone left a social meet because I quoted Salad Fingers at them.

But for the most part, most people have been pretty polite post social and just said I am not for them so it could be my fat arse who knows?

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By *orningtonCroissantMan over a year ago

notts and humberside

Depends if we are taking dating or swinging. I can cope with physical rejection on here as we all have a fantasy type and if that doesn’t fit that’s just life. Personality, that’s harder to take but if dating at least that person is being honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If beauty is skin deep I must have been born inside out...

If someone doesn't want you then you will never know the reasons why no matter what they may say ...

Well all a part from that one girl who told me I was too ugly to fuck

Maybe there are more important things than in life that what someone you may never know thinks about you....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality for me. I'm not under any illusions that I'm physically for everyone - no one is. But personality would probably feel a lot more personal. I don't know. I've yet to be turned down.

We’re looking forward to being turned down by you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I accept that my personality is not for everyone. I can be pretty bizarre. Recently, someone left a social meet because I quoted Salad Fingers at them.

But for the most part, most people have been pretty polite post social and just said I am not for them so it could be my fat arse who knows? "

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By *ooby birdWoman over a year ago

North West

"I can take that physically I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but if they said it’s my personality that puts them off I think it would smart a bit. But their choice x "

I'm with you on this one Angie x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just read that other thread. Oh Lordy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality hurts more,

my physique is what I want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

'The perception that people have of you doesn't have to become your reality'.

If someone turns me down based on physical attributes, it wouldn't bother me at all. I would actually appreciate their honesty.

If someone turns me down based on their assumption of my personality through their observation of my textual interactions on fab, it wouldn't bother me at all either. People tend to jump into conclusion in a hastive way anyway.

Now, if it is someone I care about, I would try to apologise the best way I can.

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

Rejection is part of life."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not conventionally handsome and I'm a bit odd. I really don't worry about rejection for either reason

Rejection is a part of life. To question which is better or worse seems a bit pointless to me and arguably routed in a level of vanity/ego that doesn't register with me

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

Personality every time.

Its like looking at a shop window where the model looks amazing in her outfit.

Then you realise its a dummy.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Personality.

You can’t help how you grow but you can help being a first class tosspot!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Neither would bother me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Either way it’s their loss

(Well if you don’t love yourself then who will hey

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rejection is part of life."

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"'The perception that people have of you doesn't have to become your reality'.

If someone turns me down based on physical attributes, it wouldn't bother me at all. I would actually appreciate their honesty.

Now, if it is someone I care about, I would try to apologise the best way I can."

Noooo dont shave... think about your username... wont someone think about the username lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"'The perception that people have of you doesn't have to become your reality'.

If someone turns me down based on physical attributes, it wouldn't bother me at all. I would actually appreciate their honesty.

Now, if it is someone I care about, I would try to apologise the best way I can.

Noooo dont shave... think about your username... wont someone think about the username lol"

Haha nope ! It was for the forum copy cat picture challenge

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose. "

And do you think that hurts more?

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

Neither really.

Looking at the thread it seems the assumption is that if a personality is a turn off then the person must be ugly/bad/negative but it’s just the same as looks; it’s all subjective.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose. "

I’d probably feel a bit shit if I was turned down for being too full on. However, you’ve admitted yourself you can be. Do you think it’s something you can change, or do you even want to?

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By *occerstar579Man over a year ago

Harrogate

I guess you have had experience of this as you raised the issue. If people have been cruel about your looks or personality then try and be brave. We are not all the same. You have clearly enhanced your tits but as long as you are happy that's the main thing. They will not be to everyone's taste but you have done it for yourself. As for personality then you shouldn't aim to please everyone. Just be yourself. Again this won't be to everyone's liking but be truthful to yourself.

As low as you may be feeling at the moment don't be. There is always someone out there who will like you for you. Someone somewhere. Don't give up hope!

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"'The perception that people have of you doesn't have to become your reality'.

If someone turns me down based on physical attributes, it wouldn't bother me at all. I would actually appreciate their honesty.

Now, if it is someone I care about, I would try to apologise the best way I can.

Noooo dont shave... think about your username... wont someone think about the username lol

Haha nope ! It was for the forum copy cat picture challenge"

OMG I actually shouted out loud when I saw that avatar and now I can’t look. Is it still there? Is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

And do you think that hurts more?"

Yeah course, it's almost 4 months on and I'm still thinking about the dude!

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

It woodount bother me eather way. I'm use to it.

But

If i wos going to turn anyone down it wood be on thar personally not on thar looks.

no afence to anyone hear but if i had to choose out of looks or personally. I'd ruther have sumone with a grate personally but don't look so hot than sumone that looks hot but has a crap up them self's personally.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

And do you think that hurts more?

Yeah course, it's almost 4 months on and I'm still thinking about the dude! "

He wasn’t they guy for you. If a man wants you he will be delighted that you double text (or whatever) if he doesn’t he will find it annoying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality.

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By *hortfuseWoman over a year ago

Belfast

Not bothered either way to be honest. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Although to be fair personality wise I'm a fucking delight. Have a badge that says it so clearly it's official. tbf I've also one that says fuck off which I point to regularly!

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I can take that physically I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but if they said it’s my personality that puts them off I think it would smart a bit. But their choice x "

I know I, not physically perfect, ripping six pack and a 12"inch cock and the stamina of a Duracell bunny, and my personality can be a bit moody,

but it their choice. I just try to be open and respectable to them as Human beings should be each

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rejection is rejection. The reason is immaterial, the result is the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality I think. Take all sorts to make a world.

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

And do you think that hurts more?

Yeah course, it's almost 4 months on and I'm still thinking about the dude!

He wasn’t they guy for you. If a man wants you he will be delighted that you double text (or whatever) if he doesn’t he will find it annoying.

Sounds like op has found a guy she fancies but the guy is a bit like me personally wize.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get turned down all the time for all sorts or reasons but each no brings you closer to a yes but usually its phisical i find life is hard with this bag on my head all the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do wish you ladies understood what it's like not to have access to sex based on your looks.

I don't think you could cope XD

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By *eah BabyCouple over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"Personality every time.

Its like looking at a shop window where the model looks amazing in her outfit.

Then you realise its a dummy.

HaHa....love that statement and totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality every time.

Its like looking at a shop window where the model looks amazing in her outfit.

Then you realise its a dummy.

HaHa....love that statement and totally agree "

Yeah baby !

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"I do wish you ladies understood what it's like not to have access to sex based on your looks.

I don't think you could cope XD"

Lots of us get turned down. The fact you think that all men would fuck all of us is quite sad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

I’d probably feel a bit shit if I was turned down for being too full on. However, you’ve admitted yourself you can be. Do you think it’s something you can change, or do you even want to? "

Want to, like I recognise the signs massively and know that by saying a certain thing or doing a certain action it's gonna blow up in my face but it's like self sabotage, can't help myself, when i sense that they're slipping I try clawing them back and that's when the cray cray comes out!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

I’d probably feel a bit shit if I was turned down for being too full on. However, you’ve admitted yourself you can be. Do you think it’s something you can change, or do you even want to?

Honestly. Pretend you’re not bothered and they’ll soon show an interest again. It’s like a disease in men haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

And do you think that hurts more?

Yeah course, it's almost 4 months on and I'm still thinking about the dude!

He wasn’t they guy for you. If a man wants you he will be delighted that you double text (or whatever) if he doesn’t he will find it annoying.

Sounds like op has found a guy she fancies but the guy is a bit like me personally wize."

Umm no _eeside absolutely not.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Are we serious. Two similar threads by the same person within a few hours God do look at me please!"

I looked cool nail polish!

I wouldnt like to be turned down because of my personality,but I can be a fairly quiet antisocial kinda person at time's so it's to be expected.

It takes a whole lot more than a pleasant face and tits for someone to want to spend more than the time it takes to have a shag with a person,as we all know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can understand I'm not for everyone physically. But my personality is who I am so i think it would hurt a little more but i think i would still understand that I'm just not the type of personality that particular person likes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

I’d probably feel a bit shit if I was turned down for being too full on. However, you’ve admitted yourself you can be. Do you think it’s something you can change, or do you even want to?

In my (not vast) experience of relationships with men, the cray cray response will almost always send them running for the hills.

Play it cool OP. And take the advice of a wee 87 yr old Scottish Granny, " what's for ye won't go by ye!"

I'm looking good for 87, no?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't particularly care, just because someone doesn't like my personality it doesn't mean I'm not fabulous to someone else, and I gave up my dreams of becoming a supermodel decades ago.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

And do you think that hurts more?

Yeah course, it's almost 4 months on and I'm still thinking about the dude! "

Do you not think you should be thinking about why his rejection has bothered you so much?

Unrequited feelings aren't pleasant but (and I might be completely wrong here) you seem to be unhealthily obsessing over this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

personality and I've been looking that I've never Been let down

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS over a year ago

Stockport

Rejection is part of life.

Yes, this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd suggest that taking it to heart and brooding over it implies that it hit a nerve where your own insecurity is concerned.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

I've not been turned down as such on here but then I don't make many approaches so that does kind of protect you from rejection! I have had a number of 'promising' mail exchanges fizzle out however without any explanation so can only conclude they didn't like me for one reason or another and really all you can do is shrug and move on rather than get offended by it.

I know I can't possibly be all things to all people so being turned down for looks wouldn't bother me so long as it was a generic 'not my type' as opposed to a spiteful remark about something I couldn't help like being too freckly or whatever. And to be honest if my character wasn't totally assassinated I wouldn't mind being turned down for my personality either as I know full well I have traits that not everyone's comfortable with. Though if I was accused of being a 'maniac' I'd probably be rather bemused at suddenly being seen as a lot more exciting than I actually am!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think its more crushing to be turned down for personality than how you look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From experience, being turned down for being damaged hurt more than being turned down for how I look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've not been turned down as such on here but then I don't make many approaches so that does kind of protect you from rejection! I have had a number of 'promising' mail exchanges fizzle out however without any explanation so can only conclude they didn't like me for one reason or another and really all you can do is shrug and move on rather than get offended by it.

I'm with you on this as I never approach guys first so rejection isn't a real issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"From experience, being turned down for being damaged hurt more than being turned down for how I look. "

Yep I feel you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality i think, getting rejected because of how I look doesn't really bother me

But then again, Ive never been turned down because of personality because I'm such a fucking delightful person.

And recently being turned down for being a single father hurt more than i thought it would"

That's just madness, plenty of single parents on here me being one of them x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On the physical side, I know a lot and I mean a lot of men won't find me sexually attractive, and that's fine I don't expect them to, I'm fully aware of all my flaws so take no offence. I also don't think there is a person alive who wouldn't be turned down by someone for NSA sex, no matter how hot they think they may be.

I've never knowingly been rejected for my personality but I'm sure people haven't been interested in me because we didn't click and I guess that would be considered a personality thing either way that doesn't bother me either, but would probably sting a little more than the physical rejection.

Whilst, I don't have a problem with being rejected either way, I don't think I'm an asshole or psychotic so I'd probably be a bit upset if someone thought I was either of these. But if I was an asshole or psychotic then I'd like to think I'd accept and understand the rejection.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

I’d probably feel a bit shit if I was turned down for being too full on. However, you’ve admitted yourself you can be. Do you think it’s something you can change, or do you even want to?

Every man I’ve dated has had a period of being really interested and then the interest feigns. As women, I think we then try to pull them closer and it pushes them away. If you feel them slipping, let them go. Act like you’re not bothered. It’s like some sort of weird radar and they come back. Easier said than done though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not the type to take things personally so I don't think either would bother me.

I've never been turned down as such, but men have gone quiet after seeing them a few times.

I don't think anything of it, but I'm not looking for a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

I’d probably feel a bit shit if I was turned down for being too full on. However, you’ve admitted yourself you can be. Do you think it’s something you can change, or do you even want to?

That happened to me with my long term partner this week. He was gone, I cried but accepted it, then he was back. I didn't think for one minute it was because of how I look or my personality. It hurt because I though I wasn't going to see him again but I didn't take it personally.

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

I’d probably feel a bit shit if I was turned down for being too full on. However, you’ve admitted yourself you can be. Do you think it’s something you can change, or do you even want to?

Ohh its so hard and quite upsetting when a man do this (or woman) . Gawd it hurts your feelings. Wanting you one minute, no contact for months then pop up with a Hi as if nothing has happened. It is crushing when you want them so badly but nothing you can do about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

I’d probably feel a bit shit if I was turned down for being too full on. However, you’ve admitted yourself you can be. Do you think it’s something you can change, or do you even want to?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on the guy and what I think of him. Both probably.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can take that physically I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but if they said it’s my personality that puts them off I think it would smart a bit. But their choice x "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t know about you all but I like boobs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't be offended by either. I am who and what I am because of now I look and behave, so if they they don't like me, that's just life. I just concentrate on the ones who do like me instead

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By *agermeisterMan over a year ago

Leeds

TheI loss, whatever the excuse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"TheI loss, whatever the excuse"

Given that she's pissed off about it months on, arguably it's very much her loss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think any rejection would be upsetting, it's how you're rejected makes the difference between being upset for 2 mins and thinking ahh feck it their loss or the one that really lingers and effects your confidence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think any rejection would be upsetting, it's how you're rejected makes the difference between being upset for 2 mins and thinking ahh feck it their loss or the one that really lingers and effects your confidence"

Very good point.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both smarts a bit. Sometimes it hurts more than others.

I'd prefer someone to be put off by my looks rather than my personality though.

I know I'm not going to be physically appealing to most people.

I like to think I'm fairly easy to get on with though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I've been rejected, generally people just fade away, without really giving a reason...it's their choice.

Bit of a bummer, id prefer to quantify my reason for not wanting to see someone so they're in no qualms about things and can move on, but everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess if it was someone I liked then personality would hurt more.

If they didn't like me physically then it would be instant and we wouldn't get to the stage of flirting etc and I wouldn't have invested anything into it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

I’d probably feel a bit shit if I was turned down for being too full on. However, you’ve admitted yourself you can be. Do you think it’s something you can change, or do you even want to?

Ahh I’m sorry to hear this - I expect it’s hard to get back to normal even when they come back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been turned down recently?

Not recently and not for my physical attributes but for being too full on which would fall under personality I suppose.

I’d probably feel a bit shit if I was turned down for being too full on. However, you’ve admitted yourself you can be. Do you think it’s something you can change, or do you even want to?

Ahh I’m sorry to hear this - I expect it’s hard to get back to normal even when they come back."

He was only gone for a few hours; he played the my way or high way game and I picked the high way.

Strangely, when he changed his mind I felt annoyed that he had pulled a stunt like that, all because I haven't had time for him recently.

There's more than not wanting a body or personality to it.

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

"I accept that my personality is not for everyone. I can be pretty bizarre. Recently, someone left a social meet because I quoted Salad Fingers at them.

Well I'd consider that a plus!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I accept that my personality is not for everyone. I can be pretty bizarre. Recently, someone left a social meet because I quoted Salad Fingers at them.

"
can i touch your rusty spooooons

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By *atureMischiefCouple over a year ago

Lutterworth

Either way he don’t deserve you, as the old saying goes plenty more fish in the sea x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I was rejected because of my personality, it would hurt a bit. I'm quite a quiet and reserved person and may come across as snobby but I'm not at all. I don't care what people think of my looks or body; I hate it too so it wouldn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality.. I try to be a nice person and always be polite.

I often get funny looks from the elderly. I offer to help them with their shopping, if I see them struggling in Tescos etc.

It's nice to be nice.

I have a few tattoos so, I tend to be judged before I've opened my mouth

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had my hoodie on this morning at shop the shopkeeper said he watched me all the way round until he saw it was me people jump to conclusions about people all the time thats why i like the forum it gives you a better idea of a persons personality

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If it were from here it honestly wouldn't bother me either way, unless it were done in a rude and derogatory manner, I appreciate and understand that you're not going to be a match for everyone and given that I place great store in attraction (both physical and mental/personailty) before wanting to meet, totally accept that others will use the same criteria too.

Where it might hurt a little would either be relating to something more deep and meaningful or if it was someone I had already met or had built a "connection" with who had a change of heart for either of those reasons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are born with most of or physical attributes and apart from toning up or losing a bit of timber at times....we are stuck with what we are given. Personasty is another thing...some people can change for the better whilst I see some beautiful people who are down right ugly inside and seem uncapabile of making any change whatsoever...

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"We are born with most of or physical attributes and apart from toning up or losing a bit of timber at times....we are stuck with what we are given. Personasty is another thing...some people can change for the better whilst I see some beautiful people who are down right ugly inside and seem uncapabile of making any change whatsoever..."

Yep agree with this

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By *inakiss64Woman over a year ago

Near St Albans

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By *inakiss64Woman over a year ago

Near St Albans

I will reply by saying that is a matter of opinion, can't please everyone you meet, so who cares if they don't like your personality or body.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep agree with this

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By *_TelfordMan over a year ago

Telford

As a long timer now doing this as both a couple and a single with wife’s blessing (as could she), I’ve come to one very obvious conclusion.

It doesn’t matter.

See people will like what they like. I’m attracted to red heads, and would likely pick one over a blonde. But that doesn’t mean the blonde would be ugly. I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

I’ve been with many couples and women who have been utterly delightful people, who have been both beautiful and just normal people. People with a little around the sides, and people who had their bodies chiselled out by a modelling agency. It all makes no difference.

But I’ve also been around people who were complete and utter knob jockies, people so far up their own arse they didn’t even know what day it was. People so selfish and rude, they felt compelled to be rude to me, to my face. I’ve been around beautiful people like this, and also down right ugly ones.

So looks wise it doesn’t matter?

I would much rather be intimate with somebody who I can have a laugh with and is a nice person, somebody I can at least be friendly with. Looks don’t rwally play into that all that much. Sure there’s an attraction level, of course. But I’m attracted to a nice person more than a pretty one.

An ugly inside person is ugly no matter how they look. There’s a LOT of them about, not just in swinging but in life too. It’s one of the reasons I hate myself sometimes. I have no muscles and to be honest don’t want to look that way. My body is average. My looks are average. But I’m a funny guy, who knows what he’s doing, and have never once let anybody down in this area due to my personality.

Sadly I wish a lot more people would be more about personality, because my couple profile has been turned down a few times because of how “I” look, even when the people doing the turning down wasn’t exactly going to set the world on fire themselves.

I guess just be yourself, and if it’s not good enough for somebody else, then they aren’t good enough for you. We (telfordCouple86) must be doing something right though, because we are quite popular, have a shit load of friends, have met with lots of people... despite how I look.

G x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them. "

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

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By *educedWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

"I accept that my personality is not for everyone. I can be pretty bizarre. Recently, someone left a social meet because I quoted Salad Fingers at them.

can i touch your rusty spooooons

Not unless your name is Marjorie Stewart Baxter.

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By *_TelfordMan over a year ago

Telford

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence. "

A personal opinion is not an insult. I don’t like boob jobs, they don’t look as good as natural boobs. I don’t like Mexican food, because it doesn’t taste as good as Indian. See how thats not an insult, it’s an opinion? If I was to comment on your physical appearance with fake boobs, then it becomes personal. However what I said was how I feel about them in general. G

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Years ago I remember being turned down on a real dating site by two guys for different but equally silly reasons.

1) my kids. Even though he had two kids of his own.

2) my career. We worked within the same industry. Turns out he would find me threatening to his masculinity due to me being higher up and more qualified than him.

And you guys think us women can be weird and complicated

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Are you still going on about this?!

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence. "

Umm that's not a insult that's just an opinyoun.

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

We'll sed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both smarts a bit. Sometimes it hurts more than others.

I'd prefer someone to be put off by my looks rather than my personality though.

I know I'm not going to be physically appealing to most people.

I like to think I'm fairly easy to get on with though. "
i am in the same boat to a point

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"A personal opinion is not an insult."

It very much can be, though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't feel that one is worse than the other. I can't be everyone's cup of tea physically, or mesh with everyone personality wise. I would just hope they'd be tactful, otherwise either wouldn't feel good.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

I guess it depends in how the rejection is delivered.

If someone told me I wasnt their type physically then fine but if they said they didn't want to be with me cos I'm a fat ugly fuck if be a bit pissed off.

Similarly if someone said that they didn't think we gelled personality wise that's fine, if they said I was a crazy bitch then not so fine!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its not like you can do anything about what others think so fuck it just do what makes you happy. And id rather associate with nice people as opposed to arseholes regardless of whether i want to have sex with them or not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

Borderline, though.

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By *_TelfordMan over a year ago

Telford

"Borderline, though. "

Not really, no. It’s actually really common for both men and women to not like boob jobs due to them looking unnatural. I didn’t comment o hers, but boob jobs in general.

The best boob job anybody can have is one where you can’t tell it’s been done. But people take it to extremes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Borderline, though.

Not really, no. It’s actually really common for both men and women to not like boob jobs due to them looking unnatural. I didn’t comment o hers, but boob jobs in general.

The best boob job anybody can have is one where you can’t tell it’s been done. But people take it to extremes.

I’d say adding in that they pretty much all look terrible probably isn’t needed.

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I guess it depends in how the rejection is delivered.

If someone told me I wasnt their type physically then fine but if they said they didn't want to be with me cos I'm a fat ugly fuck if be a bit pissed off.

Similarly if someone said that they didn't think we gelled personality wise that's fine, if they said I was a crazy bitch then not so fine! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've still to meet someone in the real world who doesn't like me. I'm easy going and very diplomatic and find it a piece of piss to talk to anyone

There is people I don't like but there's reason for that...if they are bitchy or moany. People aren't unlikable for no reason x

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I was once turned down for an unusual reason; my name(!)

To be fair, the lady in question explained it to me. She had previously been in a relationship with a person sharing said name and he had been an abusive arsehole both to her and her children to put it mildly. She had therefore come to associate such deplorable behaviour with the name.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've still to meet someone in the real world who doesn't like me. I'm easy going and very diplomatic and find it a piece of piss to talk to anyone

There is people I don't like but there's reason for that...if they are bitchy or moany. People aren't unlikable for no reason x"

Or opinionated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've still to meet someone in the real world who doesn't like me. I'm easy going and very diplomatic and find it a piece of piss to talk to anyone

There is people I don't like but there's reason for that...if they are bitchy or moany. People aren't unlikable for no reason x

Or opinionated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone didn't find me attractive and told me it was cause my boobs are too small.... Then I think I'd be fine with that. If he said it's cause he finds my personality horrendous then that might sting a little

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've still to meet someone in the real world who doesn't like me. I'm easy going and very diplomatic and find it a piece of piss to talk to anyone

There is people I don't like but there's reason for that...if they are bitchy or moany. People aren't unlikable for no reason x"
your right but in all honest i think there more mean people than polite friendly ones online and in the real world if everyone got on well then the world would be a better place to live in or chat on the net

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If someone didn't find me attractive and told me it was cause my boobs are too small.... Then I think I'd be fine with that. If he said it's cause he finds my personality horrendous then that might sting a little

It doesn't mean he's right! Just because you may not have compatible personalities, it doesn't mean either of you are flawed in any way, just incompatible..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

Well considering mine are just there in that little avatar to your left and you say they all look bad and you've yet to see a good one, again as mine are right there you're including mine in that statement then yes you are insulting. Even calling them fake boobs is insulting because they aren't fake, they're still the persons skin, breast tissue and nipples, just with an implant. I've got a metal plate in my jaw as well from when my step father battered me, do you wanna call me fucking robocop as well just to secure the deal. I just think it's a shit move to go at people that have surgery cos obviously they wouldn't go through the pain and cost if they were happy in the first place and to still have them insulted is just extra salt in the wound, but that's just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

That's some tangent x

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By *_TelfordMan over a year ago

Telford

Wow... Talk about an over reaction and missing the point. And they say the forums are a nice place.

Best of luck to you, I’m out of this thread. Peace out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Physical is no problem, i hope people think im a nice person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Physical is no problem, i hope people think im a nice person "

You do have a nice penis however

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

So by your logic you were insulting all those with pics on here that admit to flashing by saying they had saggy tits and bums in your thread yesterday? When you pount a finger three point back at you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

That's some tangent x"

Well not really is it considering a good chunk of the thread is people saying nasty things about breast implants.

Just wondering if they feel the same about people that have prosthetic limbs because if you want to split hairs that's still getting a foreign object to replace something you haven't got which is pretty much what breast implants do, replace something that you didn't have in the first place.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

That's some tangent x

Well not really is it considering a good chunk of the thread is people saying nasty things about breast implants.

Unless your implants are for actual medical reasons (body dysmorphia included which you categorically stated you did not have yesterday) you can't really compare your choice to enhance your boobs to someone having a prosthetic limb.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow... Talk about an over reaction and missing the point. And they say the forums are a nice place.

Best of luck to you, I’m out of this thread. Peace out.

It’s a bit like saying. I really don’t like Telford. Pretty much everyone there is a chav. That’s all I’m saying. It’s cool to not like something, but you don’t need to add in the other part

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

That's some tangent x

Well not really is it considering a good chunk of the thread is people saying nasty things about breast implants.

I've not seen any threads about fake jaws but I'm sure you'll start a thread about one x

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By *_TelfordMan over a year ago

Telford

"Wow... Talk about an over reaction and missing the point. And they say the forums are a nice place.

Best of luck to you, I’m out of this thread. Peace out.

Really sorry I have to reply to this with a burning desire...

But pretty much everybody in Telford IS a bloody chav, and I was born and raised here with all my family here :p You will be hard pressed to find anybody who lives in Telford who doesn’t want to move away. There’s a reason somebody spray painted “Birthplace of chavs” over the top of the “birthplace of industry” sign haha

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I’d say adding in that they pretty much all look terrible probably isn’t needed. "

^This.^

“I don’t like boob jobs,” is expressing an opinion.

“They all look terrible,” directed at somebody with implants, is a bit insulting.

Tbh, you could even leave yourself a bit of wiggle room; something like, “I think they mostly look terrible,” while still a bit blunt, leaves room for someone to think you’re not talking about them specifically.

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

So by your logic you were insulting all those with pics on here that admit to flashing by saying they had saggy tits and bums in your thread yesterday? When you pount a finger three point back at you "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow... Talk about an over reaction and missing the point. And they say the forums are a nice place.

Best of luck to you, I’m out of this thread. Peace out.

Really sorry I have to reply to this with a burning desire...

I’m allowed to say it because I’m from Telford originally. Haha... I’ve not seen the sign though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

So by your logic you were insulting all those with pics on here that admit to flashing by saying they had saggy tits and bums in your thread yesterday? When you pount a finger three point back at you

Stick your thumb up all you like mate, you'll still be a virgin.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

So by your logic you were insulting all those with pics on here that admit to flashing by saying they had saggy tits and bums in your thread yesterday? When you pount a finger three point back at you

Stick your thumb up all you like mate, you'll still be a virgin. "

Wow.... Now who's getting nasty and personal?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

So by your logic you were insulting all those with pics on here that admit to flashing by saying they had saggy tits and bums in your thread yesterday? When you pount a finger three point back at you

Stick your thumb up all you like mate, you'll still be a virgin. "

And you wonder why you can't keep a man x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t like boob jobs, as they pretty much always look bad and have yet to really see one that looks good... but I wouldn’t insult a person with them.

Umm there, you just did in that sentence.

So by your logic you were insulting all those with pics on here that admit to flashing by saying they had saggy tits and bums in your thread yesterday? When you pount a finger three point back at you

Stick your thumb up all you like mate, you'll still be a virgin. "

Jesus Christ, no fucking need!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Oh my.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite ironic it happened on a looks or personality thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Right just cos everyone treats him like a novelty on here does not mean he's exempt from having things said back to him when he's already said that I have a crap up myself personality and done the little thumb up thing to every shitty comment someone's said towards me. Now if you don't believe that little thumb up thing isn't antagonising or way to have a dig themselves then I'm giving you all too much credit.

It's not nasty or personal to say he is a virgin when in almost every thread he himself says he is a virgin, do you see the distinction between people being nasty and personal compared to me just simply repeating something that he has said himself many times. Now I've got what 5,6 maybe more people all having a go yet that's fine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right just cos everyone treats him like a novelty on here does not mean he's exempt from having things said back to him when he's already said that I have a crap up myself personality and done the little thumb up thing to every shitty comment someone's said towards me. Now if you don't believe that little thumb up thing isn't antagonising or way to have a dig themselves then I'm giving you all too much credit.

Seems like you give him a hard time on a regular basis though?

Do correct me if I’m wrong!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

What was shitty about my comment that he liked?

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

And wear did i say... YOU... have a crap up myself personality. ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Your post about him being a Virgin was not a statement of fact it was intended to be nasty and belittle him. If you think we are all too stupid to see that then you have vastly under estimated us.

You said earlier on on the thread that someone making a general comment about fake boobs was nasty and abusive towards you personally. Firing a personal jibe at someone is absolutely nasty and abusive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Seems like you give him a hard time on a regular basis though?

Do correct me if I’m wrong!"

By telling him that he should seek professional guidance instead of just giving him sperm to anyone that wants it. Many more people agreed. Trying to help the kid when he goes on and on and on about how he'll never find anyone to have sex with. That's giving him a hard time, really? I'd already told him that I've stopped commenting on his threads which he agreed with and acknowledged. Was giving him advice cos nobody else did until I made the first comment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"a guy is physically attracted to you and meets you but then doesn't want you because he thinks you're a maniac?

I really can't see how anyone would come to that conclusion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your post about him being a Virgin was not a statement of fact it was intended to be nasty and belittle him. If you think we are all too stupid to see that then you have vastly under estimated us.

Oh us now is it, you and the fanny sand crew.

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By *naquest321Man over a year ago

Carlisle

Ehh, win some loose some.

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By *ilNdoCouple over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

And wear did i say... YOU... have a crap up myself personality. ?"

This is my 1st post on the thread witch i wos just arnsaring the thread question.

If anyone wants to chek its not changed fill free to look up the thread. It's about 8 hours agow.

So my post..... Copy and paste.....

It woodount bother me eather way. I'm use to it.

But

If i wos going to turn anyone down it wood be on thar personally not on thar looks.

Wear in Thar did i say that YOU your self op had a crap up yourself personality. ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Your post about him being a Virgin was not a statement of fact it was intended to be nasty and belittle him. If you think we are all too stupid to see that then you have vastly under estimated us.

Oh us now is it, you and the fanny sand crew. "

You lumped everyone together. I was simply following your example.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

You are still to answer what was shitty about my comment that _eeside responded to.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd be miffed if someone turned me down because they didn't like me...as in my personality.

But this is fab it's no biggy.

Ps I can't believe another thread from the OP is going a bit

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Also.... Who is fanny sand?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also.... Who is fanny sand?

I looked for them, must be unlos!

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

Well this has gone all Triggly Puff.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also.... Who is fanny sand?

Dunno but I've still got some in mine from last week. You're welcome to it if you fancy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone thinks I’m a maniac then I’d find that quite funny and wouldn’t be fussed, but if they thought I was boring or an arsehole then that would bother me. Not fussed about looks, we all like different things, I for one have very unusual taste

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Also.... Who is fanny sand?

Dunno but I've still got some in mine from last week. You're welcome to it if you fancy

Could be fun finding it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hasn't anyone mentioned every holes a goal yet?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Personality i think, getting rejected because of how I look doesn't really bother me

But then again, Ive never been turned down because of personality because I'm such a fucking delightful person."

You too?!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also.... Who is fanny sand?

Dunno but I've still got some in mine from last week. You're welcome to it if you fancy

Could be fun finding it

Bit of a lucky dip in there mind you but go for it

....sorry for the hijack OP...As you were...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve been rejected for both. They both hurt until you become immune or stop putting yourself out there to be rejected.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hmm what can the next thread be...

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