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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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The morning, mid morning, lunchtime, mid afternoon etc, etc (you get the picture) horn.
Also I miss cuddles from someone that I did not birth.
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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago
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"The morning horn when you have no one to share it with x
Very annoying! Mind you my ex was rubbish in the morning, I used to set the alarm half an hour early but he was too slow to wake up!  "
lol  can't imagine that having looked a photos |
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The morning, mid morning, lunchtime, mid afternoon etc, etc (you get the picture) horn.
Also I miss cuddles from someone that I did not birth.
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Agreed! Those big tight manly cuddles that make you feel protected *sigh* |
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"The morning horn when you have no one to share it with x
Very annoying! Mind you my ex was rubbish in the morning, I used to set the alarm half an hour early but he was too slow to wake up! lol can't imagine that having looked a photos"
And I was 30 years younger then lol!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cuddles. Someone to share the burden when you are worried about something.
Wholeheardly agree."
Just winging, whining & complaining
Nobody saying to share the happy moments in life  |
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"Cuddles. Someone to share the burden when you are worried about something.
Wholeheardly agree.
Just winging, whining & complaining
Nobody saying to share the happy moments in life "
Yes I agree some men do just like a partner to winge,whine and complain to. |
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"Cuddles. Someone to share the burden when you are worried about something.
Wholeheardly agree.
Just winging, whining & complaining
Nobody saying to share the happy moments in life
Yes I agree some men do just like a partner to winge,whine and complain to. "
Yeah cos you ladies never whine about anything hey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cuddles. Someone to share the burden when you are worried about something.
Wholeheardly agree.
Just winging, whining & complaining
Nobody saying to share the happy moments in life
Yes I agree some men do just like a partner to winge,whine and complain to. "
Haha and blaming others lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having no one to talk to when things have took a turn for the worst, whether it be a bad day at work or hearing some bad news...
That is when I feel alone "
So you only want someone to drop your burden on.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wake up with somone and not have that “weird” feeling about leaving. Have a sofa day, Talkling absolute crap with each other, stay in your pyjamas all day, watch films and eat rubbish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having someone to be my first thought and last thought of the day.
Having someone to make happy.
That's nice "
I get a lot of pleasure from loving and being loved. I like to take time to know someone. It's the small things that make us feel valued.
A note in ur pocket. A favourite sweetie. A bath run and massage at the end of a hard day. Making someon feel valued and adored.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The worst thing:
Having to clean up your own vomit when you're properly ill.
More generally, not having someone to bring me out of the mess of my own thoughts and to make me want to be my best self. |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"Having someone to be my first thought and last thought of the day.
Having someone to make happy.
That's nice
I get a lot of pleasure from loving and being loved. I like to take time to know someone. It's the small things that make us feel valued.
A note in ur pocket. A favourite sweetie. A bath run and massage at the end of a hard day. Making someon feel valued and adored.
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Yes I miss that too, someone to look after, not because they are incapable, but because it feels good to make someone else feel good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having someone to be my first thought and last thought of the day.
Having someone to make happy.
That's nice
I get a lot of pleasure from loving and being loved. I like to take time to know someone. It's the small things that make us feel valued.
A note in ur pocket. A favourite sweetie. A bath run and massage at the end of a hard day. Making someon feel valued and adored.
Yes I miss that too, someone to look after, not because they are incapable, but because it feels good to make someone else feel good"
Exactly. And I do random acts of kindness for lots of people, strangers, family friends but it isnt the same. How soft does that sound? I know I know |
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Snuggles, and having someone stroke my forehead or hold my hand. I love touch and closeness. I like sitting on laps, being held and that general feeling of "I got ya" is so reassuring. However I'd rather not have it, than have some fool try to pretend it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its paying the bills for me .
rent
council tax
electric
gas
water
internet connection
tv licence
mobile phone
car tax
car insurance
fuel
food shopping
not much left each month..........
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having someone to be my first thought and last thought of the day.
Having someone to make happy.
That's nice
I get a lot of pleasure from loving and being loved. I like to take time to know someone. It's the small things that make us feel valued.
A note in ur pocket. A favourite sweetie. A bath run and massage at the end of a hard day. Making someon feel valued and adored.
I can't believe I'm reading this.. it's stuff from the dreams x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"only thing i can think of is having to stump up £30 for a bloke to come and clean the oven..
What ? ..... "
that's quite a bargain round here, most charge £50! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Reminds me of a line i think it was chris rick said... 'two choices in life.. married and bored.. or single and lonely' lol"
But a swingers life is never dull x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reminds me of a line i think it was chris rick said... 'two choices in life.. married and bored.. or single and lonely' lol
But a swingers life is never dull x"
not when you got fab forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reminds me of a line i think it was chris rick said... 'two choices in life.. married and bored.. or single and lonely' lol"
There's a solution to that though, marry a fellow swinger! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reminds me of a line i think it was chris rick said... 'two choices in life.. married and bored.. or single and lonely' lol
There's a solution to that though, marry a fellow swinger!"
I nearly did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"only thing i can think of is having to stump up £30 for a bloke to come and clean the oven..
What ? .....
that's quite a bargain round here, most charge £50!"
Around here it's £90! But they do use only non corrosive materials |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"positivity... best feeling is remembering that i am blessed to have felt all of the above. "
Yep, that’s true, they say it’s better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having no one to go on holiday with 
I miss this too! Or when you want to have dinner and everyone’s busy...
Yeah so this too! Cinema is another one for me"
*cries into ice cream* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!"
I REALLY need a holiday. I’d settle for Wales at the moment. |
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!"
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him."
Oh Vietnam is meant to be amazing! |
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him.
Oh Vietnam is meant to be amazing! "
I know and I really really REALLY wonna go but not the way he's thinking. I know it's going to go tits up but obviously I know nothing.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him.
Oh Vietnam is meant to be amazing!
I know and I really really REALLY wonna go but not the way he's thinking. I know it's going to go tits up but obviously I know nothing.."
Lads on tour!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not being able to use a drill, without thinking I or the house may explode. Also not being tall enough to reach those awkward places and a little to mard to climb a ladder .....let's Not get me going on spiders....maybe I need to be with spiderman 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him.
Oh Vietnam is meant to be amazing!
I know and I really really REALLY wonna go but not the way he's thinking. I know it's going to go tits up but obviously I know nothing.."
Vietnam, Laos & Cambodia are awesome dude. |
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him.
Oh Vietnam is meant to be amazing!
I know and I really really REALLY wonna go but not the way he's thinking. I know it's going to go tits up but obviously I know nothing..
Lads on tour!? "
No nothing like that we've not long since come back from Thailand. Can't really explain on here but my thinking is if I don't go he's not going to do it alone and I'll not end up carrying his coffin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him.
Oh Vietnam is meant to be amazing!
I know and I really really REALLY wonna go but not the way he's thinking. I know it's going to go tits up but obviously I know nothing..
Lads on tour!?
No nothing like that we've not long since come back from Thailand. Can't really explain on here but my thinking is if I don't go he's not going to do it alone and I'll not end up carrying his coffin."
Oh gosh, that sounds serious!
I hope it all works out and nothing terrible happens! |
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him.
Oh Vietnam is meant to be amazing!
I know and I really really REALLY wonna go but not the way he's thinking. I know it's going to go tits up but obviously I know nothing..
Vietnam, Laos & Cambodia are awesome dude."
I know |
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him.
Oh Vietnam is meant to be amazing!
I know and I really really REALLY wonna go but not the way he's thinking. I know it's going to go tits up but obviously I know nothing..
Lads on tour!?
No nothing like that we've not long since come back from Thailand. Can't really explain on here but my thinking is if I don't go he's not going to do it alone and I'll not end up carrying his coffin.
Oh gosh, that sounds serious!
I hope it all works out and nothing terrible happens! "
Thanks. Dad might be old but he's not daft. Bloody kids wish I knew so much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him.
Oh Vietnam is meant to be amazing!
I know and I really really REALLY wonna go but not the way he's thinking. I know it's going to go tits up but obviously I know nothing..
Lads on tour!?
No nothing like that we've not long since come back from Thailand. Can't really explain on here but my thinking is if I don't go he's not going to do it alone and I'll not end up carrying his coffin.
Oh gosh, that sounds serious!
I hope it all works out and nothing terrible happens!
Thanks. Dad might be old but he's not daft. Bloody kids wish I knew so much "
I wish I’d listened to my parents. Much of the time, you guys really do know best! |
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him.
Oh Vietnam is meant to be amazing!
I know and I really really REALLY wonna go but not the way he's thinking. I know it's going to go tits up but obviously I know nothing..
Lads on tour!?
No nothing like that we've not long since come back from Thailand. Can't really explain on here but my thinking is if I don't go he's not going to do it alone and I'll not end up carrying his coffin.
Oh gosh, that sounds serious!
I hope it all works out and nothing terrible happens!
Thanks. Dad might be old but he's not daft. Bloody kids wish I knew so much
I wish I’d listened to my parents. Much of the time, you guys really do know best! "
The trick is not telling them. Steer them in the right direction and let them think it's there idea.  |
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"Having no one to go on holiday with
Yep that's a pisser. So where we going then
Maldives? Blueeyedgirl is welcome too Bring your ice cream!
Carfull what you wish for. Both sound fantastic to me especially as I've just told my lad I'm not going to Vietnam with him.
Oh Vietnam is meant to be amazing!
I know and I really really REALLY wonna go but not the way he's thinking. I know it's going to go tits up but obviously I know nothing..
Lads on tour!?
No nothing like that we've not long since come back from Thailand. Can't really explain on here but my thinking is if I don't go he's not going to do it alone and I'll not end up carrying his coffin.
Oh gosh, that sounds serious!
I hope it all works out and nothing terrible happens!
Thanks. Dad might be old but he's not daft. Bloody kids wish I knew so much
I wish I’d listened to my parents. Much of the time, you guys really do know best!
The trick is not telling them. Steer them in the right direction and let them think it's there idea. "
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"The morning horn when you have no one to share it with x"
That's not exclusive to singles. Some of us can't be physically together much. That I find is even more frustrating when you hunger that one person so much it hurts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nobody to moan at me for pissing on the toilet seat, I really miss that.
Filthy bastud!"
Oh I should put the seat up and all That? Come on this the shit I miss, let's have a barney. |
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"Nobody to moan at me for pissing on the toilet seat, I really miss that.
Filthy bastud!
Oh I should put the seat up and all That? Come on this the shit I miss, let's have a barney. "
Put it up, then put it down again and close the lid to flush, what's wrong with you man - don't you know that everything within a metre of a flushing loo is contaminated with fecal matter....and most toothbrushes are kept within a metre!!
Food for thought huh....   |
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"Nobody to moan at me for pissing on the toilet seat, I really miss that.
Filthy bastud!
Oh I should put the seat up and all That? Come on this the shit I miss, let's have a barney.
Put it up, then put it down again and close the lid to flush, what's wrong with you man - don't you know that everything within a metre of a flushing loo is contaminated with fecal matter....and most toothbrushes are kept within a metre!!
Food for thought huh.... "
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"Nobody to moan at me for pissing on the toilet seat, I really miss that. "
In a previous relationship.. The amount of times I was given a go at for not putting the seat down, it was habit as I'd lived on my own for years prior.. I made a concerted effort to adapt to being part of a couple by putting the seat down but still couldn't do right from wrong... It took me months to grasp that putting g the seat down didn't mean the full thing with the lid.. I thought that's what she ment and still got the dead eye on a daily basis and I didn't have a clue what I was doing wrong as I was just doing as I was told. |
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"Nobody to moan at me for pissing on the toilet seat, I really miss that.
Filthy bastud!
Oh I should put the seat up and all That? Come on this the shit I miss, let's have a barney.
Put it up, then put it down again and close the lid to flush, what's wrong with you man - don't you know that everything within a metre of a flushing loo is contaminated with fecal matter....and most toothbrushes are kept within a metre!!
Food for thought huh....
See you've made my day, thank you. "
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"Nobody to moan at me for pissing on the toilet seat, I really miss that. In a previous relationship.. The amount of times I was given a go at for not putting the seat down, it was habit as I'd lived on my own for years prior.. I made a concerted effort to adapt to being part of a couple by putting the seat down but still couldn't do right from wrong... It took me months to grasp that putting g the seat down didn't mean the full thing with the lid.. I thought that's what she ment and still got the dead eye on a daily basis and I didn't have a clue what I was doing wrong as I was just doing as I was told. "
Well get on this, my Mrs moaned at me that much I resorted to sitting down when pissing saving a large quantity of grief. Now I'm single I feel like a proper bloke and am back to pissing standing up. But I lift and put seat down now. |
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