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Do profile names turn you off?
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We receive the odd message where the profile picture looks okay but then look at their profile name and think, sorry not on the right page so don't bother replying.
Some are amusing but others are just  .
Do some put you off too? |
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"We receive the odd message where the profile picture looks okay but then look at their profile name and think, sorry not on the right page so don't bother replying.
Some are amusing but others are just ."
Exactly this |
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over a year ago
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"We receive the odd message where the profile picture looks okay but then look at their profile name and think, sorry not on the right page so don't bother replying.
Some are amusing but others are just .
Do some put you off too?"
of course but mainly guys names  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We receive the odd message where the profile picture looks okay but then look at their profile name and think, sorry not on the right page so don't bother replying.
Some are amusing but others are just .
Do some put you off too?"
Yep definitely, I’ve seen several that I use think really...you think that’s enticing?
Probably could be missing out but hey ho |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I often wonder what on earth the owner was thinking when they chose some of the more graphic usernames - did they really think it was going to be appealing to write to someone unsolicited with a name like Back Door Destroyer?!
Or are users that choose those names never planning on meeting and just here to perv pics and troll people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm put off names that have anything to do with things I don't like, for instance I'm not a big fan of race play, (nothing to do with the 100m) So I tend to stay away from any username that has "4black, 4BBC, or the like in it, this is my personal preference after all |
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"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means?  "
I'm guessing it's when someone alludes to a racial preference in their username  |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;) |
Im a man, how can i afford to be so shallow on here as to be put off by cock crusher or such like 
Serious though there is some whoppers that make the swerve button so very useful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means? "
Interracial sex where the focus is on the race of the participants, and phrases like big black cock, and black dick are used in reference to a human being |
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"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means?
Interracial sex where the focus is on the race of the participants, and phrases like big black cock, and black dick are used in reference to a human being "
Ahhh my mistake |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means?
Interracial sex where the focus is on the race of the participants, and phrases like big black cock, and black dick are used in reference to a human being
Ahhh my mistake "
That's the definition as I see it, I'm not saying you are wrong, that is my explanation of it, you explained it well |
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"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means?
Interracial sex where the focus is on the race of the participants, and phrases like big black cock, and black dick are used in reference to a human being "
Completely agree. Be more human. |
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Decided not use this profile name on a fanzine forum site. 
We have other profile names on a different site as the names are appropriate for that place and do not relate well here.
Some profile names can put us off. Also something about it taking seven seconds for someone to make up their mind about you upon meeting is worth remembering for a first social . . . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a guy who posts in the forums who’s profile name I don’t like but I agree with most things he posts and I find him to be very intelligent so I would meet him regardless of his name. |
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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago
upton wirral |
"We receive the odd message where the profile picture looks okay but then look at their profile name and think, sorry not on the right page so don't bother replying.
Some are amusing but others are just .
Do some put you off too?"
yes very much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh yes...also good ones attract us
Funnily enough, yours would put me off 
Well that’s OK, each to their own  "
But, having seen your posts in the forums I know it’s just a joke and you come across as lovely people so names I take with a pinch of salt on here |
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"Oh yes...also good ones attract us
Funnily enough, yours would put me off
Well that’s OK, each to their own
But, having seen your posts in the forums I know it’s just a joke and you come across as lovely people so names I take with a pinch of salt on here "
Thank you, we try not to provoke and to help move debates on...or (attempt to) be amusing x |
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I have to admit I've been put off replying to mail because I've found someone's profile name distasteful (needless to say a meet was never going to happen).
A person's choice in profile name is a reflection of their personality. If its something really vulgar and cheap... Well... Enough said...  |
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"Oh yes...also good ones attract us
Funnily enough, yours would put me off
Well that’s OK, each to their own
But, having seen your posts in the forums I know it’s just a joke and you come across as lovely people so names I take with a pinch of salt on here
Thank you, we try not to provoke and to help move debates on...or (attempt to) be amusing x"
I do find it amusing when you reply and quote on the forums and sign your name and the other person thinks you’re calling them a twat or bitch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its all about first impressions really I suppose."
yes example M&M they make me think of chocolate........drillafrommanilla makes me think of a philippino sweat shop |
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"Its all about first impressions really I suppose.yes example M&M they make me think of chocolate........drillafrommanilla makes me think of a philippino sweat shop
Ah, but are we nuts "
oooooooo Cadburys bake em and they cover them with chocolate |
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"Its all about first impressions really I suppose.yes example M&M they make me think of chocolate........drillafrommanilla makes me think of a philippino sweat shop
Ah, but are we nuts oooooooo Cadburys bake em and they cover them with chocolate "
Wrong thread, ads you loved from the past, lol |
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"Its all about first impressions really I suppose.yes example M&M they make me think of chocolate........drillafrommanilla makes me think of a philippino sweat shop
Ah, but are we nuts oooooooo Cadburys bake em and they cover them with chocolate
Wrong thread, ads you loved from the past, lol "
lol did a few .......get in the bowl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, do I need to google the meaning of ‘race play’ or wait for someone else to ask what it means?
Interracial sex where the focus is on the race of the participants, and phrases like big black cock, and black dick are used in reference to a human being "
That kind of stuff puts me off as well. Not that I'm usually the focus of their attention, but I've had a couple try to contact me. They don't like it when I explain why either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I thought long an hard about my user name, had several on the shortlist, used twitter polls to judge public perception, here is the final top 5 which led to me picking my current username
1. steblue
2. its_a_hard_cock_life
3. cum_machine_3000
4. dirtyshagmiester_2018
5. skankshagger |
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"I thought long an hard about my user name, had several on the shortlist, used twitter polls to judge public perception, here is the final top 5 which led to me picking my current username
1. steblue
2. its_a_hard_cock_life
3. cum_machine_3000
4. dirtyshagmiester_2018
5. skankshagger"
Um.....do you mind if I borrow the last one ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought long an hard about my user name, had several on the shortlist, used twitter polls to judge public perception, here is the final top 5 which led to me picking my current username
1. steblue
2. its_a_hard_cock_life
3. cum_machine_3000
4. dirtyshagmiester_2018
5. skankshagger
Um.....do you mind if I borrow the last one ? "
Mate its all yours, only just scraped 5th position ahead of felcher  |
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"Oh yes...also good ones attract us
Funnily enough, yours would put me off
Well that’s OK, each to their own
But, having seen your posts in the forums I know it’s just a joke and you come across as lovely people so names I take with a pinch of salt on here
Thank you, we try not to provoke and to help move debates on...or (attempt to) be amusing x
I do find it amusing when you reply and quote on the forums and sign your name and the other person thinks you’re calling them a twat or bitch "
Ah yes, I was sent to the naughty step for that once...hmm... |
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Names... Some often make me wonder about the person's mentality.
I'll admit, I get messages, one look at the username & it's an instant delete, don't even check profile or read message.
I got told I was shallow for pre judging people this way, maybe I am, but I really have no interest in interacting with Mr* gonna destroy you, big load, hardfucker, mingemauler, pussy slayer.
*names may have been changed to protect the uninnocent |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Names... Some often make me wonder about the person's mentality.
I'll admit, I get messages, one look at the username & it's an instant delete, don't even check profile or read message.
I got told I was shallow for pre judging people this way, maybe I am, but I really have no interest in interacting with Mr* gonna destroy you, big load, hardfucker, mingemauler, pussy slayer.
*names may have been changed to protect the uninnocent "
Wholeheartedly agree plus any women with "slut" or similar in their name also.  |
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"Hmmm......what about, ‘Fanny Fiddler’? It has a sort of innocent ring to it without being overly vulgar. 
Innocent?? Really??
Hmmmm.....‘Vag Grabber’ maybe?
You have a very nice bottom. "
Ah ha! That’s inspired me - ‘Bottom Feeder’ it is then |
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"Hmmm......what about, ‘Fanny Fiddler’? It has a sort of innocent ring to it without being overly vulgar.
Innocent?? Really??
Hmmmm.....‘Vag Grabber’ maybe?
You have a very nice bottom.
Ah ha! That’s inspired me - ‘Bottom Feeder’ it is then "
*stands out of the way of the stampede* |
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"Hmmm......what about, ‘Fanny Fiddler’? It has a sort of innocent ring to it without being overly vulgar.
Innocent?? Really??
Hmmmm.....‘Vag Grabber’ maybe? "
Could make a couples profile Vag+Veg grabber |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to |
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"And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to "
More than any profile name in our case along with action shots.
Just our preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to
More than any profile name in our case along with action shots.
Just our preference."
your pics are very nicely done |
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"And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to
More than any profile name in our case along with action shots.
Just our preference.your pics are very nicely done "
Mr is a dab hand with his Nikon |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to "
Are you sure?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Our profile name puts some people off but it’s not a bad thing as far as we are concerned , it immediately tells people our type of relationship so those that don’t understand our dynamics or haven’t any interests in our type of play don’t need to waste their time reading our profile because they will already know we aren’t a suitable match we are not by any means into full on bdsm or anything too extreme but we do like people who have an interest or at least understanding of d/s play trying to keep explaining to people who have no idea can get tedious !
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"Our profile name puts some people off but it’s not a bad thing as far as we are concerned , it immediately tells people our type of relationship so those that don’t understand our dynamics or haven’t any interests in our type of play don’t need to waste their time reading our profile because they will already know we aren’t a suitable match we are not by any means into full on bdsm or anything too extreme but we do like people who have an interest or at least understanding of d/s play trying to keep explaining to people who have no idea can get tedious !
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Fab definately needs some "Sticky posts" Or a glossary of terms.. I'm fed up of having to explain the difference between BDSM and D/S as well.. lovley when I bump into someone who already understands and is on my wavelength.. maybe it's good to have the bad? So we can appreciate the awesome for what it is? |
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"They should choose with more thought.
Mr Pussy Pumper 2000 (made up btw) is not really inviting.
Then they wonder why no one replies "
Or cumdumpwhore69 type names who start threads complaining men treat them like erm cum dump whores. ..go figure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Our profile name puts some people off but it’s not a bad thing as far as we are concerned , it immediately tells people our type of relationship so those that don’t understand our dynamics or haven’t any interests in our type of play don’t need to waste their time reading our profile because they will already know we aren’t a suitable match we are not by any means into full on bdsm or anything too extreme but we do like people who have an interest or at least understanding of d/s play trying to keep explaining to people who have no idea can get tedious !
Fab definately needs some "Sticky posts" Or a glossary of terms.. I'm fed up of having to explain the difference between BDSM and D/S as well.. lovley when I bump into someone who already understands and is on my wavelength.. maybe it's good to have the bad? So we can appreciate the awesome for what it is?"
We can appreciate the awesome regardless but you’re right it’s so great when we chat and people already understand or are genuinely keen to learn rather than dismiss it or worse .. they watch 50 shades and assume they know it all |
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"Our profile name puts some people off but it’s not a bad thing as far as we are concerned , it immediately tells people our type of relationship so those that don’t understand our dynamics or haven’t any interests in our type of play don’t need to waste their time reading our profile because they will already know we aren’t a suitable match we are not by any means into full on bdsm or anything too extreme but we do like people who have an interest or at least understanding of d/s play trying to keep explaining to people who have no idea can get tedious !
Fab definately needs some "Sticky posts" Or a glossary of terms.. I'm fed up of having to explain the difference between BDSM and D/S as well.. lovley when I bump into someone who already understands and is on my wavelength.. maybe it's good to have the bad? So we can appreciate the awesome for what it is?
We can appreciate the awesome regardless but you’re right it’s so great when we chat and people already understand or are genuinely keen to learn rather than dismiss it or worse .. they watch 50 shades and assume they know it all "
That book needs destroying |
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"Our profile name puts some people off but it’s not a bad thing as far as we are concerned , it immediately tells people our type of relationship so those that don’t understand our dynamics or haven’t any interests in our type of play don’t need to waste their time reading our profile because they will already know we aren’t a suitable match we are not by any means into full on bdsm or anything too extreme but we do like people who have an interest or at least understanding of d/s play trying to keep explaining to people who have no idea can get tedious !
Fab definately needs some "Sticky posts" Or a glossary of terms.. I'm fed up of having to explain the difference between BDSM and D/S as well.. lovley when I bump into someone who already understands and is on my wavelength.. maybe it's good to have the bad? So we can appreciate the awesome for what it is?
We can appreciate the awesome regardless but you’re right it’s so great when we chat and people already understand or are genuinely keen to learn rather than dismiss it or worse .. they watch 50 shades and assume they know it all That book needs destroying "
But then it would be Pulp Fiction |
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"And not one of those names entered this thread ,imagine many regret their choices but many are oblivious to ,I quite often think a cock profile pic is a put off for most to
More than any profile name in our case along with action shots.
Just our preference.your pics are very nicely done
Mr is a dab hand with his Nikon "
I bet he is |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
I see some cringe worthy user names and some oxymorons too, ie little# hot# etc but some of these are subjective to. Some might use my name as a block reason along with my profile. |
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