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"Hello gang, When going out on a date, who should pay, The Gentleman or do you go dutch? What does everyone think? I've got my own opinion but I'll keep it to myself, till the conversation gets going." 50/50 | |||
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"There are no rules about who pays, do what makes you both feel comfortable. For example if the guy I’m with goes to pay I would offer to pay my half, if he declines I’ll accept and say I’ll pay next time. " This!! | |||
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"There are no rules about who pays, do what makes you both feel comfortable. For example if the guy I’m with goes to pay I would offer to pay my half, if he declines I’ll accept and say I’ll pay next time. This!! " If there is a next time | |||
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"There's no 'should' pay or rule for this. Its whatever you feel yourself. What do you normally do? " Don’t sit on the fence | |||
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"The man of course. Why should ladies pay? " Yeah quite blooming right,you want to date us then pay for the privilege . I do actually like the guy to at least pay for the first drink,then I'll obviously get the next and take turns or share the cost of any meals and so on. | |||
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"The man of course. Why should ladies pay? Yeah quite blooming right,you want to date us then pay for the privilege . I do actually like the guy to at least pay for the first drink,then I'll obviously get the next and take turns or share the cost of any meals and so on." Do you not want to date him? | |||
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"The man of course. Why should ladies pay? Yeah quite blooming right,you want to date us then pay for the privilege . I do actually like the guy to at least pay for the first drink,then I'll obviously get the next and take turns or share the cost of any meals and so on. Do you not want to date him? " What? | |||
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"The man of course. Why should ladies pay? Yeah quite blooming right,you want to date us then pay for the privilege . I do actually like the guy to at least pay for the first drink,then I'll obviously get the next and take turns or share the cost of any meals and so on. Do you not want to date him? What?" Quote: Yeah quite blooming right,you want to date us then pay for the privilege. | |||
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"There are no rules about who pays, do what makes you both feel comfortable. For example if the guy I’m with goes to pay I would offer to pay my half, if he declines I’ll accept and say I’ll pay next time. This!! If there is a next time " | |||
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"There's no 'should' pay or rule for this. Its whatever you feel yourself. What do you normally do? " I'm a bit old school, I feel the man should pay for the first date and lady should give the tip. Then from the next date, the roles can be reversed or split, however you want. | |||
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"There's no 'should' pay or rule for this. Its whatever you feel yourself. What do you normally do? Don’t sit on the fence " Lol! Personally, i always offer to pay. I like to pay. It's gentlemanly and polite and that is how i was brought up | |||
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"If you meet a girl in a bar and she arrives first and gets herself a drink but not you. Walk away. She’s selfish and it’s just the tip of the iceberg. " Or she didn't know how long you'd be or what drink you wanted C | |||
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" Vanilla date just the food and wine ,,, " Yeah, Just Vanilla, going out for a meal type,date. | |||
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"There's no 'should' pay or rule for this. Its whatever you feel yourself. What do you normally do? Don’t sit on the fence Lol! Personally, i always offer to pay. I like to pay. It's gentlemanly and polite and that is how i was brought up " You were brought up a long time ago.. world has changed my friend. You are a nice guy so I’m going to tell you that Some of my lady friends just go on dates for nice dinners.. I watch and learn.. | |||
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"If you meet a girl in a bar and she arrives first and gets herself a drink but not you. Walk away. She’s selfish and it’s just the tip of the iceberg. Or she didn't know how long you'd be or what drink you wanted C" Exactly | |||
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"There's no 'should' pay or rule for this. Its whatever you feel yourself. What do you normally do? Don’t sit on the fence Lol! Personally, i always offer to pay. I like to pay. It's gentlemanly and polite and that is how i was brought up You were brought up a long time ago.. world has changed my friend. You are a nice guy so I’m going to tell you that Some of my lady friends just go on dates for nice dinners.. I watch and learn.. " Lol i may be getting on a bit but i'm not stupid! Lol For a start, i'm a good judge of character and very picky. Plus, i am never going for a meal on a first date. That just isn't happening! | |||
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"I have a vagina, why should I even bring my purse???" | |||
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"I dated a strong and relatively wealthy feminist once, and she insisted on paying...I just went with the flow on that..." You got financially dominated by an Alpha female. | |||
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"I have a vagina, why should I even bring my purse???" The troll game is strong, with this one | |||
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"There's no 'should' pay or rule for this. Its whatever you feel yourself. What do you normally do? Don’t sit on the fence Lol! Personally, i always offer to pay. I like to pay. It's gentlemanly and polite and that is how i was brought up You were brought up a long time ago.. world has changed my friend. You are a nice guy so I’m going to tell you that Some of my lady friends just go on dates for nice dinners.. I watch and learn.. Lol i may be getting on a bit but i'm not stupid! Lol For a start, i'm a good judge of character and very picky. Plus, i am never going for a meal on a first date. That just isn't happening! " Cheers | |||
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"Hello gang, When going out on a date, who should pay, The Gentleman or do you go dutch? What does everyone think? I've got my own opinion but I'll keep it to myself, till the conversation gets going." You should both leg it for a laugh | |||
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"I have a vagina, why should I even bring my purse???" Well unless you have a zip on your c*nt, everything will fall out! | |||
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"If you meet a girl in a bar and she arrives first and gets herself a drink but not you. Walk away. She’s selfish and it’s just the tip of the iceberg. Or she didn't know how long you'd be or what drink you wanted C" That’s what text messaging is for. If in doubt get the man a pint! If I arrive first I’ll always buy the lady a drink. If I don’t know what she likes I’ll take a guess at a glass of wine. Nothing worse than after meeting someone having to go que at the bar. That’s the litmus test for me. If she fails I doubt I’ll being seeing her again. | |||
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"I have a vagina, why should I even bring my purse???" Funny place to keep your money but hey ho each to their own | |||
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"You should both leg it for a laugh " Her: "Why have you got your air max on?" Me: "You'll find out later!" | |||
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"I have a vagina, why should I even bring my purse???" Where do you keep your phone? X | |||
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"I have a vagina, why should I even bring my purse??? Well unless you have a zip on your c*nt, everything will fall out! " Check out my profile pic | |||
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"I have a vagina, why should I even bring my purse??? Well unless you have a zip on your c*nt, everything will fall out! Check out my profile pic " Ah the modern woman! | |||
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"K,f.c is pretty cheap I always pay " Is this where I'm going wrong? So, I've got to take them the Kentucky for a Zinger meal? What say you, ladies? | |||
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"Is this a dating site? I'm in the wrong place !!" I was just asking, to get some varying opinions. We've also had a bit of a laugh too. Job done. | |||
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"Is this a dating site? I'm in the wrong place !! I was just asking, to get some varying opinions. We've also had a bit of a laugh too. Job done. " A good job done too OP | |||
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"Is this a dating site? I'm in the wrong place !!" Why do you think the OP means with people on here? Some people do call a social a date though. It's pretty much like a date, with the possibility of sex or a sexual relationship after. | |||
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"K,f.c is pretty cheap I always pay Is this where I'm going wrong? So, I've got to take them the Kentucky for a Zinger meal? What say you, ladies?" A bag of chips from the chippy | |||
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"There's no 'should' pay or rule for this. Its whatever you feel yourself. What do you normally do? Don’t sit on the fence Lol! Personally, i always offer to pay. I like to pay. It's gentlemanly and polite and that is how i was brought up You were brought up a long time ago.. world has changed my friend. You are a nice guy so I’m going to tell you that Some of my lady friends just go on dates for nice dinners.. I watch and learn.. " I’d be inclined to say that ‘lady’ isn’t a word I’d use to describe someone who uses a guy she’s not interested in to get a nice meal by going on a date with him! I also don’t know anyone who would do that. | |||
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" A bag of chips from the chippy " #wifematerial | |||
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" A bag of chips from the chippy #wifematerial " Only if she eats most of yours too! | |||
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"Why do you think the OP means with people on here? Some people do call a social a date though. It's pretty much like a date, with the possibility of sex or a sexual relationship after." I was just on about in general. Out there in Vanilla land. | |||
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"K,f.c is pretty cheap I always pay Is this where I'm going wrong? So, I've got to take them the Kentucky for a Zinger meal? What say you, ladies? A bag of chips from the chippy " I put out for a chip butty | |||
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"If you meet a girl in a bar and she arrives first and gets herself a drink but not you. Walk away. She’s selfish and it’s just the tip of the iceberg. Or she didn't know how long you'd be or what drink you wanted C That’s what text messaging is for. If in doubt get the man a pint! If I arrive first I’ll always buy the lady a drink. If I don’t know what she likes I’ll take a guess at a glass of wine. Nothing worse than after meeting someone having to go que at the bar. That’s the litmus test for me. If she fails I doubt I’ll being seeing her again. " A gentleman would never let a lady arrive first on a date | |||
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"The man of course. Why should ladies pay? Yeah quite blooming right,you want to date us then pay for the privilege . I do actually like the guy to at least pay for the first drink,then I'll obviously get the next and take turns or share the cost of any meals and so on. Do you not want to date him? What? Quote: Yeah quite blooming right,you want to date us then pay for the privilege. " Nope not with you. You do know I was joking about the first sentence yeah?! | |||
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"I put out for a chip butty" More #wifematerial | |||
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"I put out for a chip butty More #wifematerial " #perfectfabwoman more like lol | |||
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"I put out for a chip butty More #wifematerial " Let’s not get carried away | |||
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"I put out for a chip butty More #wifematerial Let’s not get carried away " Hey I am wife material, my verifications say so | |||
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"K,f.c is pretty cheap I always pay Is this where I'm going wrong? So, I've got to take them the Kentucky for a Zinger meal? What say you, ladies? A bag of chips from the chippy Don't forget the savaloy I put out for a chip butty " | |||
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"I put out for a chip butty More #wifematerial #perfectfabwoman more like lol" "Me: Hello is that Just eat? Chippy: Yeah! Me: Can I have a delivery, please? Chippy: What would like? Me: 2 Bags of chips pronto" | |||
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"Hey I am wife material, my verifications say so " Goes to see. | |||
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"The male normally buys the first drink I find, but if there's a second I always offer to get it. Likewise with food, I always offer half. Some men accept and some dont. " Do the ones that accept ever get a second date, or are you secretly seething!? | |||
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"If you meet a girl in a bar and she arrives first and gets herself a drink but not you. Walk away. She’s selfish and it’s just the tip of the iceberg. Or she didn't know how long you'd be or what drink you wanted C That’s what text messaging is for. If in doubt get the man a pint! If I arrive first I’ll always buy the lady a drink. If I don’t know what she likes I’ll take a guess at a glass of wine. Nothing worse than after meeting someone having to go que at the bar. That’s the litmus test for me. If she fails I doubt I’ll being seeing her again. " Now I kinda know what you mean,but I don’t want a guy choosing a drink for me which I may not like,that's just a waste of money and a but arrogant to me,I really don't see an issue with going back to the bar which I'd do myself and get my own drink. This would never happen anyway as I meet people outside the pub incase the bugger doesn't turn up,then I'd just leave. | |||
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"I'll offer to pay 1 st time.... maybe 2nd time but then I'll think come on! Time to stump up equal rights & all that garbage. " But what if (for example) you are employed in a good job and she is a single mum on benefits? Does that change it? Surely it’s unfair to ask someone to pay for something they can’t afford? | |||
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"But what if (for example) you are employed in a good job and she is a single mum on benefits? Does that change it? Surely it’s unfair to ask someone to pay for something they can’t afford?" If I met someone in that situation, I'd pay for the whole night and it wouldn't bother me. | |||
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"Hello gang, When going out on a date, who should pay, The Gentleman or do you go dutch? What does everyone think? I've got my own opinion but I'll keep it to myself, till the conversation gets going." So what is your opinion if you've not already said,we've told you ours? | |||
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"The male normally buys the first drink I find, but if there's a second I always offer to get it. Likewise with food, I always offer half. Some men accept and some dont. Do the ones that accept ever get a second date, or are you secretly seething!? " I’m happy to pay my way, no seething lol x | |||
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"But what if (for example) you are employed in a good job and she is a single mum on benefits? Does that change it? Surely it’s unfair to ask someone to pay for something they can’t afford? If I met someone in that situation, I'd pay for the whole night and it wouldn't bother me." Nor me...I’d feel too guilty otherwise! | |||
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"If you meet a girl in a bar and she arrives first and gets herself a drink but not you. Walk away. She’s selfish and it’s just the tip of the iceberg. Or she didn't know how long you'd be or what drink you wanted C That’s what text messaging is for. If in doubt get the man a pint! If I arrive first I’ll always buy the lady a drink. If I don’t know what she likes I’ll take a guess at a glass of wine. Nothing worse than after meeting someone having to go que at the bar. That’s the litmus test for me. If she fails I doubt I’ll being seeing her again. " I don't drink wine, would I then have to drink it to not upset you | |||
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"So what is your opinion if you've not already said,we've told you ours?" I'm a bit old school, I feel the man should pay for the first date and lady should give the tip. Then from the next date, the roles can be reversed or split, however you want. | |||
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"I'm probably of the bag of fish and chips by the river type of date though " This thread has revealed the #wifematerial has't it. | |||
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"Hey I am wife material, my verifications say so Goes to see. " Was I right? | |||
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"Hey I am wife material, my verifications say so Goes to see. Was I right? " You most certainly where and they are traveling many miles to see you. The Jammy feckers. | |||
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"This thread has revealed the #wifematerial has't it. " Haha love that! Anything is possible... I am sure plenty of us singles can be: #hubbymaterial #wifeymaterial | |||
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"The male normally buys the first drink I find, but if there's a second I always offer to get it. Likewise with food, I always offer half. Some men accept and some dont. " Yes this. I am old school and if a guy wants to treat me, I graciously let him. Sometimes I want to treat someone, and then they accept graciously too. Sometimes I like to buy a friend a surprise present if he has been generous to me. It all works fine! | |||
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"According to my inbox only bitches get taken on dates, real women cook!!! I'm fucking creased!! " Hahaha! Love it! | |||
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"According to my inbox only bitches get taken on dates, real women cook!!! I'm fucking creased!! " Ok Bitch, where's your fave chippy. and do you know that Bitch is an acronym for either, Babe In Total Control Of Herself or Because I Totally Challenge Him | |||
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"The male normally buys the first drink I find, but if there's a second I always offer to get it. Likewise with food, I always offer half. Some men accept and some dont. Do the ones that accept ever get a second date, or are you secretly seething!? I’m happy to pay my way, no seething lol x" Add to hotlist.... haha | |||
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"I fully agree with paying 50/50 on a date but what about if you go to a club as a couple? Say it's £20 for couples and £5 or free for ladies, should I pay £10 to halve the couple cost although I could get in cheaper on my own?" An interesting thought - but conversely as it's usually more expensive for single men, should he have to pay more if he's accompanying you? Say it's £40 for single men - he'd be more out of pocket than you would be in your example | |||
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"I fully agree with paying 50/50 on a date but what about if you go to a club as a couple? Say it's £20 for couples and £5 or free for ladies, should I pay £10 to halve the couple cost although I could get in cheaper on my own? An interesting thought - but conversely as it's usually more expensive for single men, should he have to pay more if he's accompanying you? Say it's £40 for single men - he'd be more out of pocket than you would be in your example " I tho k your calculator might be broken. Give it a little tap. | |||
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"I fully agree with paying 50/50 on a date but what about if you go to a club as a couple? Say it's £20 for couples and £5 or free for ladies, should I pay £10 to halve the couple cost although I could get in cheaper on my own? An interesting thought - but conversely as it's usually more expensive for single men, should he have to pay more if he's accompanying you? Say it's £40 for single men - he'd be more out of pocket than you would be in your example I tho k your calculator might be broken. Give it a little tap. " Excuse me while I throw my phone at the wall.... *Think! | |||
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"I wouldn't date a female who expected me to pay the bill/tab whatever. That's because I believe all people are equal and should act accordingly." But not all people earn the same amount of money. | |||
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"I wouldn't date a female who expected me to pay the bill/tab whatever. That's because I believe all people are equal and should act accordingly. But not all people earn the same amount of money." Then they should stay home. I wouldn't go out with friends if I couldn't afford to pay my way, dates are no different | |||
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"I fully agree with paying 50/50 on a date but what about if you go to a club as a couple? Say it's £20 for couples and £5 or free for ladies, should I pay £10 to halve the couple cost although I could get in cheaper on my own? An interesting thought - but conversely as it's usually more expensive for single men, should he have to pay more if he's accompanying you? Say it's £40 for single men - he'd be more out of pocket than you would be in your example I tho k your calculator might be broken. Give it a little tap. Excuse me while I throw my phone at the wall.... *Think! " While you're at it throw your calculator too... If he had to pay £40 because they each pay the relevant gender fee rather than the couples one - he'd be £20 worse off than paying the couples fee which is £10 more than she would be if they did pay it | |||
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"I'll offer to pay 1 st time.... maybe 2nd time but then I'll think come on! Time to stump up equal rights & all that garbage. But what if (for example) you are employed in a good job and she is a single mum on benefits? Does that change it? Surely it’s unfair to ask someone to pay for something they can’t afford?" Yeah if I like the woman I'll keep paying. If not then I wouldn't see her again. | |||
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"I fully agree with paying 50/50 on a date but what about if you go to a club as a couple? Say it's £20 for couples and £5 or free for ladies, should I pay £10 to halve the couple cost although I could get in cheaper on my own? An interesting thought - but conversely as it's usually more expensive for single men, should he have to pay more if he's accompanying you? Say it's £40 for single men - he'd be more out of pocket than you would be in your example I tho k your calculator might be broken. Give it a little tap. Excuse me while I throw my phone at the wall.... *Think! While you're at it throw your calculator too... If he had to pay £40 because they each pay the relevant gender fee rather than the couples one - he'd be £20 worse off than paying the couples fee which is £10 more than she would be if they did pay it " That was her point. It's £20 cheaper for the guy to pay the full couple price, but more expensive for her if she went half. So, the guy should just pay it. | |||
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"According to my inbox only bitches get taken on dates, real women cook!!! I'm fucking creased!! " A date doesn't have to be a meal. It could be a trek or a walk on the beach. Then nobody pays ?? | |||
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"On a date, If she offers to pay half I’ll say it’s my treat and pay. If she makes no attempt to pay anything I’ll say let’s split it or ask if she wants to pick up the tab. If you meet a girl in a bar and she arrives first and gets herself a drink but not you. Walk away. She’s selfish and it’s just the tip of the iceberg. " Wow, that's quite an idea you've got there. So what, if the lady arrives first or her date is late, she is just supposed to sit there, waiting? And get everyone, staff in particular, looking at her like she's a weirdo? If the situation was reversed, would you not get yourself a drink while waiting??? | |||
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"I fully agree with paying 50/50 on a date but what about if you go to a club as a couple? Say it's £20 for couples and £5 or free for ladies, should I pay £10 to halve the couple cost although I could get in cheaper on my own?" if you have gone as a couple you pay couples rates. | |||
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"I'm probably of the bag of fish and chips by the river type of date though This thread has revealed the #wifematerial has't it. " I can see an opening for a kinky chip shop | |||
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"I can see an opening for a kinky chip shop " Downloads business plan software. | |||
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"If you're drinking its a round each, if you're eating I'd offer to split. If someone insists on paying they can knock themselves out, it doesn't offend me." i agree and sometimes its a nice guesture | |||
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" A bag of chips from the chippy #wifematerial Only if she eats most of yours too!" Pinched chips taste so much better | |||
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"There's something off putting about mean men. It may be old fashioned to some but on a first date I'd expect the man to pay as he invited me out. The next time I'd pick up the tab or split it. " If someone asked to take me out to dinner they want to pay. If a friend says shall we go out for dinner we both pay. If I invite someone out to dinner/cinema/whatever, I pay. | |||
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"I fully agree with paying 50/50 on a date but what about if you go to a club as a couple? Say it's £20 for couples and £5 or free for ladies, should I pay £10 to halve the couple cost although I could get in cheaper on my own? An interesting thought - but conversely as it's usually more expensive for single men, should he have to pay more if he's accompanying you? Say it's £40 for single men - he'd be more out of pocket than you would be in your example I tho k your calculator might be broken. Give it a little tap. Excuse me while I throw my phone at the wall.... *Think! While you're at it throw your calculator too... If he had to pay £40 because they each pay the relevant gender fee rather than the couples one - he'd be £20 worse off than paying the couples fee which is £10 more than she would be if they did pay it That was her point. It's £20 cheaper for the guy to pay the full couple price, but more expensive for her if she went half. So, the guy should just pay it." Just two different ways of looking at it I guess - either way if you're going as a couple and intending to stay as a couple while at the club then the couples rate split down the middle would be the way to go in my book | |||
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"According to my inbox only bitches get taken on dates, real women cook!!! I'm fucking creased!! Ok Bitch, where's your fave chippy. and do you know that Bitch is an acronym for either, Babe In Total Control Of Herself or Because I Totally Challenge Him " Ah, but there’s only one Bitch... | |||
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"Ah, but there’s only one Bitch..." No, there's quite a few, I've been out them. | |||
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"There's no 'should' pay or rule for this. Its whatever you feel yourself. What do you normally do? Don’t sit on the fence " He likes the feel of them spikes in his arse | |||
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"Hello gang, When going out on a date, who should pay, The Gentleman or do you go dutch? What does everyone think? I've got my own opinion but I'll keep it to myself, till the conversation gets going." I'm happy to pay, if the evening goes well it's the best investment ever | |||
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"Ah, but there’s only one Bitch... No, there's quite a few, I've been out them." They’re bitches, not Bitch lol | |||
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"I’ve paid the bill once and told him to leave the tip. He seemed surprised, didn’t see him again lol" Was that on a first date? | |||
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"I fully agree with paying 50/50 on a date but what about if you go to a club as a couple? Say it's £20 for couples and £5 or free for ladies, should I pay £10 to halve the couple cost although I could get in cheaper on my own?" Well said xx | |||
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"I’ve paid the bill once and told him to leave the tip. He seemed surprised, didn’t see him again lol Was that on a first date?" Yes, I don’t see why a woman can’t pay, I knew I wasn’t going to see him again he was boring. | |||
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"I fully agree with paying 50/50 on a date but what about if you go to a club as a couple? Say it's £20 for couples and £5 or free for ladies, should I pay £10 to halve the couple cost although I could get in cheaper on my own? An interesting thought - but conversely as it's usually more expensive for single men, should he have to pay more if he's accompanying you? Say it's £40 for single men - he'd be more out of pocket than you would be in your example I tho k your calculator might be broken. Give it a little tap. " | |||
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"I fully agree with paying 50/50 on a date but what about if you go to a club as a couple? Say it's £20 for couples and £5 or free for ladies, should I pay £10 to halve the couple cost although I could get in cheaper on my own? Well said xx " Nothing to fight for at Atlantis club in Stoke. They charge full price for single women | |||
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"Yes, I don’t see why a woman can’t pay, I knew I wasn’t going to see him again he was boring. " Oh well. You Alpha Female'd him to death, Is what you did. | |||
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"Yes, I don’t see why a woman can’t pay, I knew I wasn’t going to see him again he was boring. Oh well. You Alpha Female'd him to death, Is what you did." Yes I did, Well I’m sure a strong man would have been ok with it. Equality isn’t it? | |||
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"I pay for my own. If he gets a massive steak I'm not splitting the bill!" Yes, they're so greedy those men!! | |||
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"Ladies pay obviously " our dates off | |||
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"I pay for my own. If he gets a massive steak I'm not splitting the bill!" What about if you like him a lot and he doesnt earn as much as you. | |||
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"Ladies pay obviously our dates off " Cheap skate | |||
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"I pay for my own. If he gets a massive steak I'm not splitting the bill!" You're not one of those people that sit there and add up exactly what their meal cost are you? | |||
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"Ladies pay obviously our dates off Cheap skate " Yes you are | |||
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"Ladies pay obviously our dates off Cheap skate " Yes you are | |||
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"Ladies pay obviously our dates off Cheap skate Yes you are " Bin him Spidey, you should be getting taken to 5 star hotels. | |||
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"There are no rules about who pays, do what makes you both feel comfortable. For example if the guy I’m with goes to pay I would offer to pay my half, if he declines I’ll accept and say I’ll pay next time. This!! " I also think this too If a man (in the past) asked me out, and then suggested we go halves I’d be pissed off... but, if he offered to pay I’d definitely offer half! X | |||
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"Ladies pay obviously our dates off Cheap skate Yes you are Bin him Spidey, you should be getting taken to 5 star hotels. " I should be taken to 5 star hotels, and have grapes fed to me | |||
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"Ladies pay obviously our dates off Cheap skate Yes you are Bin him Spidey, you should be getting taken to 5 star hotels. I should be taken to 5 star hotels, and have grapes fed to me " | |||
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"What if a married man who is not cheating, has a meet at a hotel with a single female swinger. Who pays? " As the married man has obviously accidentally joined a swingers site and accidentally arranged a meet with a single female, this causes a real dilemna | |||
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"This is a minefield for the modern Twat...I have always paid if there is a mismatch in resources available, but with somebody who earns an equivalent or greater salary, we have discussed it first...I dated a strong and relatively wealthy feminist once, and she insisted on paying...I just went with the flow on that..." The best response. | |||
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"What if a married man who is not cheating, has a meet at a hotel with a single female swinger. Who pays? As the married man has obviously accidentally joined a swingers site and accidentally arranged a meet with a single female, this causes a real dilemna" How come? I said he's not cheating. | |||
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"What if a married man who is not cheating, has a meet at a hotel with a single female swinger. Who pays? As the married man has obviously accidentally joined a swingers site and accidentally arranged a meet with a single female, this causes a real dilemna How come? I said he's not cheating. " Then that leaves the assumption that you are referring to a married man who has no idea that the single woman may enjoy swinging...a business meet? A potential business meet? An old friends meet? | |||
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"I don’t date. But when I meet I pay. No question. " That’s if she lets you | |||
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"What if a married man who is not cheating, has a meet at a hotel with a single female swinger. Who pays? " What's someone's marital status got to do with it? | |||
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"What if a married man who is not cheating, has a meet at a hotel with a single female swinger. Who pays? What's someone's marital status got to do with it?" | |||
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"I don’t date. But when I meet I pay. No question. That’s if she lets you " Oh really? You gonna buy me breakfast then Sb? | |||
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"What if a married man who is not cheating, has a meet at a hotel with a single female swinger. Who pays? " A question you can ask your next meet..! | |||
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"I should be taken to 5 star hotels, and have grapes fed to me " Nice one, mate | |||
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"I pay for my own. If he gets a massive steak I'm not splitting the bill! You're not one of those people that sit there and add up exactly what their meal cost are you? " Yep down to the last penny. | |||
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"What if a married man who is not cheating, has a meet at a hotel with a single female swinger. Who pays? " He uses money from the joint account surely | |||
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"On a date, If she offers to pay half I’ll say it’s my treat and pay. If she makes no attempt to pay anything I’ll say let’s split it or ask if she wants to pick up the tab. If you meet a girl in a bar and she arrives first and gets herself a drink but not you. Walk away. She’s selfish and it’s just the tip of the iceberg. " Lord! If I arrived early enough to be there first I'd buy myself a drink to get over the shock! How shit would it look to be sitting there nursing a glass of water until you arrived to buy me a drink!! Shared bills all the way, unless we're starting to be a regular friends. | |||
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