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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why are you here? What were you hoping to find?
Are you here for something specific? If you are do you focus on that alone or are you open to other things?
If you have a specific kink do you mention it in a first message? Just to filter out those not into it?
Also how likely do you think it is you'll find it here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums mostly and finding some ladies to share our lusty sexy times.
It’s harder than one may thing to find a lady it appears for a couple like us, that isn’t that experienced etc but I’m sure someone will turn up, we are off to our first club in two weeks following advice so we will see how that goes.
Geeky x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started out just looking for couples for sep room now we are looking for so much more and have done so much more..Fab definitely has given us so many experiences we wouldnt have had with it  |
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"Forums mostly and finding some ladies to share our lusty sexy times.
It’s harder than one may thing to find a lady it appears for a couple like us, that isn’t that experienced etc but I’m sure someone will turn up, we are off to our first club in two weeks following advice so we will see how that goes.
Geeky x"
Did you intend on going to clubs when you joined Fab?  |
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Hmmmmm I don’t really know what I was looking for to be honest. I’m not a swinger, I ended up on here because someone thought I’d enjoy it. I didn’t want one off meets and I achieved that, I was enjoying my experience. Then Swing and I stumbled into each other  . I’ve also made friendships which I really didn’t think would happen, they make me smile so much. Now I’m just here for the forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As corny as this sounds, it’s about finding people with the right attitude.
So many good looking people here but it’s important to me to find people who are open and honest, willing to explore your interests with you and share their interests and preferences whilst having the right attitude.
I’ve experienced people who become obsessive, possessive, jealous, non-discreet, don’t turn up when planned and people who don’t want to explore and by that I mean use fab as a means for clocking up the notches on the vanilla bedpost.
There can be elements of a clique on here, which comes with the usual issues and I don’t mean to tarnish most people on here with that but as a single male, it can’t be easy to be stereotyped and therefore challenging to speak to or even meet new people
Ideally I’m looking for a regular trusted group of individuals and couples with a diverse set of interests who hold regular private/discreet parties and are willing to explore each other’s interests.
I had a good network established when I first joined fab but unfortunately I deleted my profile when venturing back into the vanilla world for a few years and came back to fab unable to find my previous contact
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Forums mostly and finding some ladies to share our lusty sexy times.
It’s harder than one may thing to find a lady it appears for a couple like us, that isn’t that experienced etc but I’m sure someone will turn up, we are off to our first club in two weeks following advice so we will see how that goes.
Geeky x
Did you intend on going to clubs when you joined Fab? "
It’s always been something on the bucket list for us both but we never get time a weekend free because the kids are here, we happened to have a weekday off together and saw a daytime event come up.
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"Forums mostly and finding some ladies to share our lusty sexy times.
It’s harder than one may thing to find a lady it appears for a couple like us, that isn’t that experienced etc but I’m sure someone will turn up, we are off to our first club in two weeks following advice so we will see how that goes.
Geeky x
Did you intend on going to clubs when you joined Fab?
It’s always been something on the bucket list for us both but we never get time a weekend free because the kids are here, we happened to have a weekday off together and saw a daytime event come up.
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You’ll have to update us how it goes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forums mostly and finding some ladies to share our lusty sexy times.
It’s harder than one may thing to find a lady it appears for a couple like us, that isn’t that experienced etc but I’m sure someone will turn up, we are off to our first club in two weeks following advice so we will see how that goes.
Geeky x
Did you intend on going to clubs when you joined Fab?
It’s always been something on the bucket list for us both but we never get time a weekend free because the kids are here, we happened to have a weekday off together and saw a daytime event come up.
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You’ll have to update us how it goes "
We will, we’re a little nervous but I’m sure we will be fine once we are there x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d like to meet a single man who lives in Reading and can accommodate and who’s interested in meeting for more than just a quick fuck.
Do I think I’ll find it here? No. |
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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago
Newport |
Where enjoying the social side, being tied down with kids it's hard to have an adult conversation or company.
If we can have a little kinky fun also, mff, mft then great.
Need to start exploring the club scene though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure anymore ...
Initially it was to meet people for sex while I was single.
But I'm not sure I want a relationship anymore so this all feels a bit empty.
I'd like a FWB but It's not happening for me - there's a few experiences I'd like to have this year - but I don't want to do them alone- I want to meet a partner in crime  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like interesting and clever intelligent people. People who's personalities i can get along with, they're who I will talk to and hopefully make friends. It's the same in fab.
The good thing about Fab is, if I find them cute, I could possibly try to tempt them to my bed.....along with a few of their friends.
I'm only actively looking for something particular when I've got my 11/10 horn on...which is most day.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm here to chat with like minded people and maybe get to meet some of them too.
The sex aspect is a bonus, not an essential.
Will I find what I am looking for? I'm chatting with some lovely ladies, so yes, works for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We joined looking for a lady to join us, then expanded that to full swap with couples. We keep toying with the idea of a club but it hasn’t happened yet. And in amongst all that I found the forums and have made some great friends and met some of the nicest and craziest people. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got to the point where I'm not even 100% sure what I'm looking for on here now, so it's more of a case of just seeing what happens and go from there for me. |
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We are here for exciting sexual encounters , and yes we have found what we are looking for .
Fab is the most amazing place for what we seek , and we feel very lucky to have found it , and so many like minded thrill seekers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on here for something i find hard to come across in real life/never get the chance to act on.
And that is an older bbw. Just find then incredibly attractive. Just not easy to meet in real life. Either they are married, not around my social circles or just not interested in younger men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im mainly here for the forums and the chat and to lurk quietly in the corner watching the way people interact on here and the things I read that both make me laugh and think.
It's not why I joined originally and I now very rarely either make the first contact with anyone by pm or spend much time reading random profiles in search of... well I guess I know what im looking for on those few occasions where I may find it.
While a fb/fwb would be something I welcome I tend not to go looking any more with that intent being content with just wandering the forums and throwing in the occasional comment on the various threads.
If anyone falls over my dark little man cave and decides I'm worth a chat or more then.... |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I joined hoping to continue pushing my sexual boundaries and exploring my sexuality - that's been great fun to say the least and something I'm planning on getting back to in a few months.
I've sort of gone on a tangent of sorts and found something I wasn't looking for at all and it's fantastic. Right now I'm here for the forums and occasionally indulging in fucking others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined to indulge my love of non vanilla kinky-fuckery. I don't want to date, nor do I want just a bang from the site with all the fish. I joined to meet like minded and to expand my own experiences.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A local filthy bastard who is happy to service me regularly. And who can accommodate. And who is a nice, honest, straight forward, says it how it is and
Doesn't play games kind of fella, who is not an alcoholic, isn't drug dependant, and who doesn't have a gambling problem. Preferably with a big schlong and a sense of humour that'll make me crack a smile.
In an ideal world and all that... |
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"A local filthy bastard who is happy to service me regularly. And who can accommodate. And who is a nice, honest, straight forward, says it how it is and
Doesn't play games kind of fella, who is not an alcoholic, isn't drug dependant, and who doesn't have a gambling problem. Preferably with a big schlong and a sense of humour that'll make me crack a smile.
In an ideal world and all that... "
This is a man you are talking about yes ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A local filthy bastard who is happy to service me regularly. And who can accommodate. And who is a nice, honest, straight forward, says it how it is and
Doesn't play games kind of fella, who is not an alcoholic, isn't drug dependant, and who doesn't have a gambling problem. Preferably with a big schlong and a sense of humour that'll make me crack a smile.
In an ideal world and all that... This is a man you are talking about yes ??? "
He's out there somewhere!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A local filthy bastard who is happy to service me regularly. And who can accommodate. And who is a nice, honest, straight forward, says it how it is and
Doesn't play games kind of fella, who is not an alcoholic, isn't drug dependant, and who doesn't have a gambling problem. Preferably with a big schlong and a sense of humour that'll make me crack a smile.
In an ideal world and all that... This is a man you are talking about yes ???
He's out there somewhere! "
Hopefully in Reading |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A local filthy bastard who is happy to service me regularly. And who can accommodate. And who is a nice, honest, straight forward, says it how it is and
Doesn't play games kind of fella, who is not an alcoholic, isn't drug dependant, and who doesn't have a gambling problem. Preferably with a big schlong and a sense of humour that'll make me crack a smile.
In an ideal world and all that... "
I'm looking for a woman who's dirty and likes kinky hot sex.....
A woman who will giver herself to me in my command.....
A woman who will roll around with me and laugh....
A woman who, sometimes wants slow sensual sex....
Amd all 4 of them to climb in bed with me at the same time every now and then. |
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"A local filthy bastard who is happy to service me regularly. And who can accommodate. And who is a nice, honest, straight forward, says it how it is and
Doesn't play games kind of fella, who is not an alcoholic, isn't drug dependant, and who doesn't have a gambling problem. Preferably with a big schlong and a sense of humour that'll make me crack a smile.
In an ideal world and all that... This is a man you are talking about yes ???
He's out there somewhere! "
Good luck with that lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm looking for several things...
A dominant, a regular local fb, a distraction from the real world.
I haven't found my dom or fb yet but have found both here in the past, so have hope.
The bonus is I've made some many wonderful friends, some of whom I believe will stay friends for life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Currently I am on here for the forums only. When this exclusive fb thing goes tits up I think what I will be looking for will be different to what I was before. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
I'm here to connect with friends to sort out nights out at clubs and events, for a little bit of banter, to try and be a positive information source for new people entering the scene, and to enjoy the crazy world that Fab can be.
I have some specific kinks, that I do mention on my profile.
I am flexible and open to other ideas and suggestions, but I am also very sceptical, as I have heard quite a lot of it before, so I trust heavily on my instinct.
I do enjoy Fab, it has brought me a rollercoaster of emotions, plenty of new experiences, some great friends, and who knows what the future may hold!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mostly just use the forum, but my perfect match would be a local cougar for a mother and son role play where I would hang out with her and be naughty and on weekends, cuddle up on the sofa to watch a movie and snack on some haribos  |
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"I'm here to connect with friends to sort out nights out at clubs and events, for a little bit of banter, to try and be a positive information source for new people entering the scene, and to enjoy the crazy world that Fab can be.
I have some specific kinks, that I do mention on my profile.
I am flexible and open to other ideas and suggestions, but I am also very sceptical, as I have heard quite a lot of it before, so I trust heavily on my instinct.
I do enjoy Fab, it has brought me a rollercoaster of emotions, plenty of new experiences, some great friends, and who knows what the future may hold!
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^ A perfect summary !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A local filthy bastard who is happy to service me regularly. And who can accommodate. And who is a nice, honest, straight forward, says it how it is and
Doesn't play games kind of fella, who is not an alcoholic, isn't drug dependant, and who doesn't have a gambling problem. Preferably with a big schlong and a sense of humour that'll make me crack a smile.
In an ideal world and all that... "
Can I have one of those as well please?
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Sir Galahad told me that this might serve as the location of the Holy Grail so atop my trusty steed I have come searching. Thus far I’ve only stumbled across some old, discarded McDonald’s cups but with righteousness in my heart and luck on my side, I shall persevere in my holy quest. Oooo look, is that a Coke can? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined because I wanted to experience Group sex which I have enjoyed and to meet a few regular guys to satisfy my appetite. I've also enjoyed clubs and parties and a few threesomes; been able to prove to myself that being attracted to women is okay.
I was introduced to the Forums by a friend and now really enjoy the chat and daily banter.
Fast forward 2 years and I have struggled to find guys that don't just want a quick fuck and go. I am still hopeful things will change as I've not been meeting for months, but my standards are very high and it's not easy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined to be able to hopefully chat with anyone and everyone in the hope that I don't get judged for my preferences and make lots of friends along the way. One day I will stumble across my Miracle and I would love to be able to introduce her to those friends I made along the way. And with the few great friends, maybe share my Miracle with them .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm looking for my U2 cassette single.
Still not found it?
Nah, I think I lost it on Sunday."
Shame. On a happier note, I did some parkour.
I have climbed the highest mountains, I have run through the fields. I have run, I have crawled, I have scaled these city walls, yeah these city walls! Impressed? |
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I’m here to catch up with old friends meet new ones. Experience new pleasures and do everything my mother told me not to. Also I do get great advice from you ladies on how I dress what I should or shouldn’t wear and most importantly if all. Make up. God you girls can really do a good job xxx |
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"A local filthy bastard who is happy to service me regularly. And who can accommodate. And who is a nice, honest, straight forward, says it how it is and
Doesn't play games kind of fella, who is not an alcoholic, isn't drug dependant, and who doesn't have a gambling problem. Preferably with a big schlong and a sense of humour that'll make me crack a smile.
In an ideal world and all that... "
Does he need to be filthy rich too? In an ideal world of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm looking for my U2 cassette single.
Still not found it?
Nah, I think I lost it on Sunday.
Shame. On a happier note, I did some parkour.
I have climbed the highest mountains, I have run through the fields. I have run, I have crawled, I have scaled these city walls, yeah these city walls! Impressed?"
Very impressive. |
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By *vadownMan
over a year ago
Wickham |
Good one OP. Don't really know what I expected really just wanted to explore sexual activities openly hoping to meet like minded people and I've meet some great folk..thanks.
Open to most suggestions so generally not centered on anything in particular.
After I while I changed to wanting a FWB a horny lady obvs to share regular hedonistic time with chemistry for deep conversation....still searching.
Someone that's not scared of sex and the boundaries it pushes that make you feel alive..l just don't open doors i don't want to |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
North Colchester |
After a not so successful 22year marriage
I joined Fab to experience ME !
I want to feel free, liberated, experience all my sexual desires !
And I thank Fab for helping me on this amazing journey that I’m loving
I have experienced things that I would of only dreamt of
Look forward to many more
I love clubs parties where I’m able to be ME
I would really like a FWB but I’m enjoying looking for one for the time being
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I joined initially to meet women, I knew I had a desire in me a long time ago except I got married, had kids, forgot about me massively. A friend suggested here and tbh I didn't know what I was getting myself into!!
I've had a few wonderful experiences but I'm still looking for a fab wifey
I didn't expect to get so much attention from guys when I first joined. I started to want a little circle of fwbs, not random shags. I've met a few great guys |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
What I was looking for to begin with isnt the same. I've been on the site a lot of years now and I've changed. I think at the moment I'm happy to use as a social platform for socials as I can't find what I'm looking for. |
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Cal initially joined Fab to help us choose a club to attend, as we decided that was the best way for me to explore my bi-sexuality.
These days its mostly for the forums, checking out clubs and keeping in touch with people.
Its also rather nice to be able to share the naughty photos we enjoy taking.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are you here? What were you hoping to find?
Are you here for something specific? If you are do you focus on that alone or are you open to other things?
If you have a specific kink do you mention it in a first message? Just to filter out those not into it?
Also how likely do you think it is you'll find it here?"
We're just looking for like minded folk that don't take themselves too serious that we have a laugh and a drink or 3 with. That we can openly discuss fab subjects without anyone getting upset. As ultimately we will still have the sex with each other. |
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By *illowzWoman
over a year ago
Exeter |
I'm here to find myself. I got married at 22 and had a rough 10 year marriage. That broke up and I've been divorced 4 years. I finally feel ready to move on but don't want another relationship at the moment. So at the moment I'm just having casual slutty sex.
Also I know I'm bisexual have been since I was a teenager, but never got the chance to explore that properly.
So far I'm doing pretty well with finding what I need. Been invited to join a couple next week.
What I didn't expect was to find the social stuff on the forums so that's a big bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me sex is life's biggest gift and I beleive it should be explored and enjoyed to it's maximum potential.
So that means meeting women with the same attitude. Couples who do me the honour of inviting me in to their sex life. It also means going to parties to indulge in orgies, gangbangs and greedy girl parties.
However, I don't just want to meet and fuck people. I want to meet and socialise with these people too, I want to make like minded friends in the process, I want to be able to sit with a group people and openly talk about sex without receiving a stereotypical British response.
To end things off, after dipping my toe in the world of BDSM and playing as a dom. I would like to meet someone who can lead me on this journey of discovery and show me the way. |
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