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Subtle flirt or come and get it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Reading through the threads and I notice lots of different styles of flirting. Sometimes I think I wish. I could be as forthright with what I want to say. So I think im a subtle flirt, ( and yes I know when I’ve had a drink not so subtle). I’m just very aware that I’m not for everyone and literally unless someone is forthright with me I don’t recognise I’m being flirted with. So what type of flirt are you, and are you comfortable with saying what you want in a forward manner. X |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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On a one on one basis when I have established the other person is on my level. I would describe my flirting as pure filth. Arguably that isn't flirting though lol. On the forums I prefer suggestive but sometimes I get excited and go a bit more forward. Face to face I would say similar. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I'm rubbish at flirting. I put everything down to just banter.
I never think anyone is flirting with me unless they are really honest about it.
I don't have the confidence to just go for it."
Your pics make my temperature rise.
Honest enough for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently I flirt with everyone the time... But if I like someone I get worse if they are on the same level and in private I would make a vicar
Haha
Don't make me blush x"
Can I??? Pleeeeeeeaase? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can never find the right side of the line....
When I flirt it's too subtle for the person I'm with and they want outward and forward
When I'm forward and bold they want someone subtle...
I keep trying though haha |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Apparently I flirt with everyone the time... But if I like someone I get worse if they are on the same level and in private I would make a vicar
Haha
Don't make me blush x
Can I??? Pleeeeeeeaase? x"
You can try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just flip my hair about a bit and hope for the best.
For a long time I thought I was terrible at flirting. Other people have since told me different. "
Tartlet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im probably the most incompetent flirt on the planet. I clearly need lessons especially watching those so skilled in such ways and how they operate, for want of a better description, on the forums
I do find it much easier one on one and can vary from flirty to downright filthy. It helps if it's someone I know or may have met. But maybe that's more to do with a connection that goes beyond just text.
But I'm a guy who lives in a cave and therefore a bit slow.
Much of the time I fail dismally to recognise if someone is flirting with me. Like most cave men I probably just need clubbed over the head before I get it.
And if your going to club me that hard you may as well just grab me by the hair carry me off to your lair and just show me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I may be a bit too obvious...
Hatter, flick your hair this way for me to grab hold of..faf?
Peach x"
But you’re not offensive with it. I’m talking about those that say outright language that belongs in private x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with you OP. I tend to think they are just being nice to me. Sort of a pat on the head and have a lolly kind of thing. Humour ing me.
No one could want me.
Then I remember I'm actually quite a good fuck and I think I suck cock and tease women well. I might not be everyone's cup of tea, scars and a very fat belly put a few off. But I am me and that's the best I can be.
Then I get braver with my flirting.
Same for you OP. I'm sure you're a damn fine woman to have in bed or elsewhere and they'd be lucky to have you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just flip my hair about a bit and hope for the best.
For a long time I thought I was terrible at flirting. Other people have since told me different.
Tartlet"
Yeah, exactly. That. I always thought I was an angel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm useless at flirting, or spotting it (assuming anyone actually flirts with me, which remains unconfirmed). Personally I'd prefer it if women were up front, either with interest or rejection, trying to pick up on hints drives me mad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just flip my hair about a bit and hope for the best.
For a long time I thought I was terrible at flirting. Other people have since told me different.
I thought you had a twitch "
No, that's my eye, people think I wink at them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I absolutely cannot flirt with women, I'm always terrified it comes across as sleazy or pervy
You can come across me if you like "
See now a gorgeous woman like yourself just sends me a blushing jitter! You know how to flirt well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See reading these answers it seems that most of us are subtle flirts who are better in one to one situations. Yet the forums are full of flirting. Do we recognise when we flirt or is it a case of we’re more comfortable in the surroundings so can be flirty in the knowledge that we won’t be judged for it x |
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"I absolutely cannot flirt with women, I'm always terrified it comes across as sleazy or pervy
You can come across me if you like
See now a gorgeous woman like yourself just sends me a blushing jitter! You know how to flirt well "
*she saw me* what do I do now?!
shoulders back, regain composure.
Hello lady, aren't you a delight for my eyes. Hope you don't mind me running my finger over you a little. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you can truly only flirt successfully with someone who finds you attractive....otherwise it's just creepy and painful. If there is mutual attraction the flirting can be as subtle or overt as the individuals |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I absolutely cannot flirt with women, I'm always terrified it comes across as sleazy or pervy
You can come across me if you like
See now a gorgeous woman like yourself just sends me a blushing jitter! You know how to flirt well
*she saw me* what do I do now?!
shoulders back, regain composure.
Hello lady, aren't you a delight for my eyes. Hope you don't mind me running my finger over you a little. "
Aww only a finger and only a little?
(Finding it hard to type with this daft grin and shiver of excitement lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you can truly only flirt successfully with someone who finds you attractive....otherwise it's just creepy and painful. If there is mutual attraction the flirting can be as subtle or overt as the individuals"
I'm probably just creepy and painful a lot then
I shamelessly flirt with people in the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you can truly only flirt successfully with someone who finds you attractive....otherwise it's just creepy and painful. If there is mutual attraction the flirting can be as subtle or overt as the individuals
I'm probably just creepy and painful a lot then
I shamelessly flirt with people in the forums "
Ha...im just overt...dont see the point in messing about on here.... if that makes me creepy and painful we are a pair lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I absolutely cannot flirt with women, I'm always terrified it comes across as sleazy or pervy
I know that pain haha"
With you both on this.
Women scare me. I'm a wuss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I on e got told by a mate I was acting lime a real creep because I really liked a girl in the club I was in but couldn't think of an opener...i could t take my eyes off her though...mad axeman staring haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a dirty flirty cunt-aching mind-twisting sex-hungry rascal.
But I’m shy. And very innocent.
Hahaha....now that I can live with"
You want me to move in? |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I absolutely cannot flirt with women, I'm always terrified it comes across as sleazy or pervy
I know that pain haha
With you both on this.
Women scare me. I'm a wuss. "
Women scare me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a dirty flirty cunt-aching mind-twisting sex-hungry rascal.
But I’m shy. And very innocent.
Hahaha....now that I can live with
You want me to move in? "
Only if you can be rely quiet and invisible...otherwise why not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a dirty flirty cunt-aching mind-twisting sex-hungry rascal.
But I’m shy. And very innocent.
Hahaha....now that I can live with
You want me to move in?
Only if you can be rely quiet and invisible...otherwise why not "
I cannot do either of these things. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"See reading these answers it seems that most of us are subtle flirts who are better in one to one situations. Yet the forums are full of flirting. Do we recognise when we flirt or is it a case of we’re more comfortable in the surroundings so can be flirty in the knowledge that we won’t be judged for it x "
'Subtle'? Haha! I think that it's one of those things where the majority of the time a person won't out and out say they are a flirt because... I don't know. Self deprecation? Genuinely unaware?
The forum definitely encourages it - if one person starts with the more tend to follow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I probably flirt more on here than I do in pm's as some of my conversations are with ladies I am unlikely to meet. I just enjoy their perspective on things. Whether I do it well or badly in the forums is for the unfortunate recipients to judge. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"See reading these answers it seems that most of us are subtle flirts who are better in one to one situations. Yet the forums are full of flirting. Do we recognise when we flirt or is it a case of we’re more comfortable in the surroundings so can be flirty in the knowledge that we won’t be judged for it x
'Subtle'? Haha! I think that it's one of those things where the majority of the time a person won't out and out say they are a flirt because... I don't know. Self deprecation? Genuinely unaware?
The forum definitely encourages it - if one person starts with the more tend to follow."
Absolutely. Just needs someone to get the ball rolling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it down to the to people involved if there a connection you’ll flirt with ech othere with out even knowing...
Having said that I’m shite at it to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m a dirty flirty cunt-aching mind-twisting sex-hungry rascal.
But I’m shy. And very innocent.
Hahaha....now that I can live with
You want me to move in?
Only if you can be rely quiet and invisible...otherwise why not
I cannot do either of these things. "
Such a shame... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I may be a bit too obvious...
Hatter, flick your hair this way for me to grab hold of..faf?
Peach x
*flips hair*
Is that a yes....
Peach x"
Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See reading these answers it seems that most of us are subtle flirts who are better in one to one situations. Yet the forums are full of flirting. Do we recognise when we flirt or is it a case of we’re more comfortable in the surroundings so can be flirty in the knowledge that we won’t be judged for it x
'Subtle'? Haha! I think that it's one of those things where the majority of the time a person won't out and out say they are a flirt because... I don't know. Self deprecation? Genuinely unaware?
The forum definitely encourages it - if one person starts with the more tend to follow."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I absolutely cannot flirt with women, I'm always terrified it comes across as sleazy or pervy
I know that pain haha
With you both on this.
Women scare me. I'm a wuss. "
I think for me it's partly because I know how women face lecherous comments constantly and I don't want to be another sleaze.
And partly because More magazine only taught me how to flirt with men and never women |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm with you OP. I tend to think they are just being nice to me. Sort of a pat on the head and have a lolly kind of thing. Humour ing me.
No one could want me.
Then I remember I'm actually quite a good fuck and I think I suck cock and tease women well. I might not be everyone's cup of tea, scars and a very fat belly put a few off. But I am me and that's the best I can be.
Then I get braver with my flirting.
Same for you OP. I'm sure you're a damn fine woman to have in bed or elsewhere and they'd be lucky to have you. "
Yes, I’m confident once we get to the point of getting naked together it’s just the getting me there. Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently I flirt with everyone the time... But if I like someone I get worse if they are on the same level and in private I would make a vicar
Haha
Don't make me blush x
Can I??? Pleeeeeeeaase? x
You can try "
Right...!!!! Check your inbox I'm a few mins x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See reading these answers it seems that most of us are subtle flirts who are better in one to one situations. Yet the forums are full of flirting. Do we recognise when we flirt or is it a case of we’re more comfortable in the surroundings so can be flirty in the knowledge that we won’t be judged for it x
'Subtle'? Haha! I think that it's one of those things where the majority of the time a person won't out and out say they are a flirt because... I don't know. Self deprecation? Genuinely unaware?
The forum definitely encourages it - if one person starts with the more tend to follow."
I flirt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See reading these answers it seems that most of us are subtle flirts who are better in one to one situations. Yet the forums are full of flirting. Do we recognise when we flirt or is it a case of we’re more comfortable in the surroundings so can be flirty in the knowledge that we won’t be judged for it x
'Subtle'? Haha! I think that it's one of those things where the majority of the time a person won't out and out say they are a flirt because... I don't know. Self deprecation? Genuinely unaware?
The forum definitely encourages it - if one person starts with the more tend to follow.
I flirt. "
Do you I've never noticed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See reading these answers it seems that most of us are subtle flirts who are better in one to one situations. Yet the forums are full of flirting. Do we recognise when we flirt or is it a case of we’re more comfortable in the surroundings so can be flirty in the knowledge that we won’t be judged for it x
'Subtle'? Haha! I think that it's one of those things where the majority of the time a person won't out and out say they are a flirt because... I don't know. Self deprecation? Genuinely unaware?
The forum definitely encourages it - if one person starts with the more tend to follow.
I flirt.
Do you I've never noticed"
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"See reading these answers it seems that most of us are subtle flirts who are better in one to one situations. Yet the forums are full of flirting. Do we recognise when we flirt or is it a case of we’re more comfortable in the surroundings so can be flirty in the knowledge that we won’t be judged for it x
'Subtle'? Haha! I think that it's one of those things where the majority of the time a person won't out and out say they are a flirt because... I don't know. Self deprecation? Genuinely unaware?
The forum definitely encourages it - if one person starts with the more tend to follow."
Okay okay. My name is Honey and I am a flirt. I can't help myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See reading these answers it seems that most of us are subtle flirts who are better in one to one situations. Yet the forums are full of flirting. Do we recognise when we flirt or is it a case of we’re more comfortable in the surroundings so can be flirty in the knowledge that we won’t be judged for it x
'Subtle'? Haha! I think that it's one of those things where the majority of the time a person won't out and out say they are a flirt because... I don't know. Self deprecation? Genuinely unaware?
The forum definitely encourages it - if one person starts with the more tend to follow.
Okay okay. My name is Honey and I am a flirt. I can't help myself. "
Yes you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See reading these answers it seems that most of us are subtle flirts who are better in one to one situations. Yet the forums are full of flirting. Do we recognise when we flirt or is it a case of we’re more comfortable in the surroundings so can be flirty in the knowledge that we won’t be judged for it x
'Subtle'? Haha! I think that it's one of those things where the majority of the time a person won't out and out say they are a flirt because... I don't know. Self deprecation? Genuinely unaware?
The forum definitely encourages it - if one person starts with the more tend to follow.
I flirt.
Do you I've never noticed
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And what are you planning to do with that |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Apparently I flirt with everyone the time... But if I like someone I get worse if they are on the same level and in private I would make a vicar
Haha
Don't make me blush x
Can I??? Pleeeeeeeaase? x
You can try
Right...!!!! Check your inbox I'm a few mins x "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll push it a but more with someone I've talked to a lot,(usually in messages though to keep my air of forum purity) but generally it's a lot of or just being cheeky . Sometimes people get it, other times not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't flirt
Ha ha, now I know you’re lying. X
Why Madame! What do you mean?! *assumes look of shocked disbelief* "
I’ve seen you in action, ooopps sorry not that action.
But I’ve seen you flirt x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't flirt
Ha ha, now I know you’re lying. X
Why Madame! What do you mean?! *assumes look of shocked disbelief*
I’ve seen you in action, ooopps sorry not that action.
But I’ve seen you flirt x "
Well... maybe a lil bit... |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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I flirt yes but asking people to play is where i struggle
A good couple friend of mine was flirting with me the other week and flashed her crotchless knickers and pussy at me....
For some stupid reason I blushed and when all shy. We have snogged before but i whilst I would play with them for sure I am always a bit shy when chatting
People laugh and say I have 97 veris but there is a lot more people I chat to and subtle flirt with that I don’t ask to play as I bottle it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I flirt yes but asking people to play is where i struggle
A good couple friend of mine was flirting with me the other week and flashed her crotchless knickers and pussy at me....
For some stupid reason I blushed and when all shy. We have snogged before but i whilst I would play with them for sure I am always a bit shy when chatting
People laugh and say I have 97 veris but there is a lot more people I chat to and subtle flirt with that I don’t ask to play as I bottle it "
Yes I get that totally. Even after spending a long time messaging and flirting with someone I don’t take it for granted that they want to play with me. X |
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I think mine is a combination of of subtle flirting, a little banter and downright bawdy verging on totally inappropriate..
But that is how i am away from here too... It gets me in so much trouble.... |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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tbh on Saturday I had the same because I took so long to ask the lady got d*unk and then was to pissed to play
For me the question of do you want to play sounds easy but I never know if it’s flirting or would they
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think mine is a combination of of subtle flirting, a little banter and downright bawdy verging on totally inappropriate..
But that is how i am away from here too... It gets me in so much trouble.... "
Add alcohol to me and that’s totally me. Otherwise I’m like a shy schoolgirl, blushing at everything x |
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I'm not a flirt, end of. I can't usually even banter. That's due to a paralyzing fear of being laughed at and/or humiliated if I tried ... combined with an almost complete inability to recognise when others are flirting with me I have to know someone *very* well indeed before I let my guard down.
On here, I just have to hope that my occasional long boring replies to some of the more 'serious' threads are some kind of turn on to someone occasionally ... |
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By *100Man
over a year ago
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I definitely need more than a subtle hint as I'm dirty and flirty by nature and think everyone is being saucy just like me so if you really want some just grab it don't mess around lol. |
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