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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??"
It really adds up over the week.. yes |
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By *andl76Couple
over a year ago
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From the fella in this couple - I'd hang on to that bod for as long as I could. you reach a point in life when you can't stay in that shape anymore and you'll long for the days you had abs if you don't enjoy the gym however that's a different story . But I'd say stay in that shape . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes "
Doing what? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?"
Working out and the time to go there and come back |
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?"
Popcorn at the ready  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do whatever makes you happy OP. I've been fat (like proper fat) still got to chat and meet with like minded people as I do now. It makes very little difference in the grand scheme of things  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
I think do whatever is right for you "
That’s a very diplomatic statement lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?
Popcorn at the ready "
They show some really good movies at the gym lol |
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?
Popcorn at the ready
They show some really good movies at the gym lol"
Strictly earphones in and music for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?
Popcorn at the ready
They show some really good movies at the gym lol
Strictly earphones in and music for me "
And stare at hotties  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
I think do whatever is right for you
That’s a very diplomatic statement lol "
It's not diplomatic, that's only a question you can answer yourself,do you want to eat healthy and do you want to spend less time in the gym?  |
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?
Popcorn at the ready
They show some really good movies at the gym lol
Strictly earphones in and music for me
And stare at hotties "
Me ? No I have my own hottie to stare at as we work out together .. not many got arms like him  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?
Popcorn at the ready
They show some really good movies at the gym lol
Strictly earphones in and music for me
And stare at hotties
Me ? No I have my own hottie to stare at as we work out together .. not many got arms like him "
It’s all about size, is it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
I think do whatever is right for you
That’s a very diplomatic statement lol
It's not diplomatic, that's only a question you can answer yourself,do you want to eat healthy and do you want to spend less time in the gym? "
I want to become a sofa bear and have a body like mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?
Working out and the time to go there and come back "
Fair enough, if you enjoy it and can spare the time then keep going to the gym. I get the impression you asked the question to get attention though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?
Working out and the time to go there and come back
Fair enough, if you enjoy it and can spare the time then keep going to the gym. I get the impression you asked the question to get attention though "
Yes, I’m an attention whore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?
Working out and the time to go there and come back
Fair enough, if you enjoy it and can spare the time then keep going to the gym. I get the impression you asked the question to get attention though
Yes, I’m an attention whore "
Fair enough, am I allowed to comment on your ‘gym body’  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a dad with a gym fit bod my 26 year old daughter said recently that I was looking good for my age is that a backhanded compliment lol"
You do look great , do you workout or is it good genetics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A fit dad bod, or something in between. I think hard, defined bods looks amazing, but I find them intimidating and so are strictly look but don't touch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A fit dad bod, or something in between. I think hard, defined bods looks amazing, but I find them intimidating and so are strictly look but don't touch. "
Oh go on,  |
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"I’m a dad with a gym fit bod my 26 year old daughter said recently that I was looking good for my age is that a backhanded compliment lol
You do look great , do you workout or is it good genetics "
A bit of both my mum was always slim I do about 7 hours a week in the gym cycle a bit and have a physical job but I eat well 90% of the time
And thank you  |
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"From the fella in this couple - I'd hang on to that bod for as long as I could. you reach a point in life when you can't stay in that shape anymore and you'll long for the days you had abs if you don't enjoy the gym however that's a different story . But I'd say stay in that shape . "
What he said ^^^ it's true, I've been a yo-yo worker outer (yes I know that's not even a thing) but it gets harder to get it back every time, now I'm just fighting the flab rather that chasing the six pack. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m a dad with a gym fit bod my 26 year old daughter said recently that I was looking good for my age is that a backhanded compliment lol
You do look great , do you workout or is it good genetics
A bit of both my mum was always slim I do about 7 hours a week in the gym cycle a bit and have a physical job but I eat well 90% of the time
And thank you "
Ah right, it certainly works well for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Love a dad bod not so keen on gym bunnies x"
Dad boddish here, shame I can't message you though. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
I think do whatever is right for you
That’s a very diplomatic statement lol
It's not diplomatic, that's only a question you can answer yourself,do you want to eat healthy and do you want to spend less time in the gym?
I want to become a sofa bear and have a body like mine "
Hmmm...not sure can do both!  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m a dad with a gym fit bod my 26 year old daughter said recently that I was looking good for my age is that a backhanded compliment lol"
I would say that was a lovely comment from your daughter.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A fit dad bod, or something in between. I think hard, defined bods looks amazing, but I find them intimidating and so are strictly look but don't touch. "
That’s what I think.. it’s so look at me and trying hard |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A fit dad bod, or something in between. I think hard, defined bods looks amazing, but I find them intimidating and so are strictly look but don't touch.
That’s what I think.. it’s so look at me and trying hard"
So, tell us again why you spend hours a week in the gym?  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?
Working out and the time to go there and come back "
Take that same dedication, commitment and time, and direct it at something else. It might be something you already do, or it could be something new like learning a new language, learning to paint, doing a degree or masters. |
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"A fit dad bod, or something in between. I think hard, defined bods looks amazing, but I find them intimidating and so are strictly look but don't touch.
That’s what I think.. it’s so look at me and trying hard"
Personally I admire anyone that is dedicated to working out .. its damn hard work and tbh if it mayes them feel really good about themselves then bloody good luck to them
As for ‘its so look at me’ - why the hell not ! You yourself spend hours at the gym ifvits not so you look good and feel good then why bother ???? |
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?"
Ah - you’re the guy who was having a go at everyone on the multiple shags thread aren’t you?
Don’t you have a television then?  |
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"I’m a dad with a gym fit bod my 26 year old daughter said recently that I was looking good for my age is that a backhanded compliment lol
I would say that was a lovely comment from your daughter. "
Thank you x |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m a dad with a gym fit bod my 26 year old daughter said recently that I was looking good for my age is that a backhanded compliment lol
I would say that was a lovely comment from your daughter.
Thank you x"
You're welcome  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?
Ah - you’re the guy who was having a go at everyone on the multiple shags thread aren’t you?
Don’t you have a television then? "
Who are you?? |
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As someone attracted to other men I think both can be incredibly sexy but it all comes down to confidence, and different physiques are better on different people. I can be more turned on by a stocky bloke who's a bit rough round the edges with a pot belly than a 'beautiful' one who looks amazing, definitely takes care of himself but cannot hold a conversation and doesn't have any craic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A fit dad bod, or something in between. I think hard, defined bods looks amazing, but I find them intimidating and so are strictly look but don't touch.
Oh go on, "
If you insist  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts? "
Thoughts? Seeing as I don't know you, I'd suggest you do what you want for you, rather than what a bunch of random strangers think you should do.  |
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TBH I’ve found men seem to be more bothered about this (having - or not having- a six pack) than most women are!
I’d say a six pack on a guy is the equivalent of 34ee breasts on a woman. Many like them, but few insist upon them!
Do what makes you happy op - your call as long as you’re healthy and happy! X |
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There’s many different forms of exercise to keep in shape other than purely gym work. In fact, it’s good to experiment and furthermore keeps things more interesting as opposed to stagnating through performing the same monotonous movements/reps etc. ad infinitum  |
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OP if you are happy in your own body then that's all that matters.
Don't worry about what others think or change to suit them.
There are plenty of people in both camps and you can't please everyone. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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If you've a fit, toned body why not work to keep it if you like the end result? It is a lot harder to get back in shape if you wish in the future if you give up your gym as opposed to maintaining what you currently have.
I go to the gym, i'm fit, but i'm not hung up on trying to reclaim the six pack I had in my twenties, and I think it's a non issue for most women tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Embrace what your maker gave you. If something makes you happy, thats all that matters. Personally I eat what I want and I've been lucky to have a fast metabolism, but I've always been built like a streak of piss, and never felt the need to buff up when it's been the "in" look. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thinking of going natural and eating healthy instead of spending hours in the gym..
Any thoughts?
Do you spend hours at the gym??
It really adds up over the week.. yes
Doing what?
Ah - you’re the guy who was having a go at everyone on the multiple shags thread aren’t you?
Don’t you have a television then? "
Hello yes it’s me but I wasn’t having a go at having multiple shags. What I said was that people who visit clubs are at higher risk of STIs
And I do have a television but I hardly watch it apart from my favourite shows.
Still not sure why you would bring it here from another thread.. anyway happy holidays |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahhhh the old dad bod thread,havnt seen one in a few days
Mmmm....dad bods...yummy "
..and there you have it. I work on the theory that you should never look better than the woman you are with. They really don't like it.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ahhhh the old dad bod thread,havnt seen one in a few days
Mmmm....dad bods...yummy
..and there you have it. I work on the theory that you should never look better than the woman you are with. They really don't like it.. "
Lol 1 2 3... comments coming |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahhhh the old dad bod thread,havnt seen one in a few days
Mmmm....dad bods...yummy
..and there you have it. I work on the theory that you should never look better than the woman you are with. They really don't like it..
Lol 1 2 3... comments coming "
Flame suit on....  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Ahhhh the old dad bod thread,havnt seen one in a few days
Mmmm....dad bods...yummy
..and there you have it. I work on the theory that you should never look better than the woman you are with. They really don't like it.. "
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I can honestly say I've never once been to the gym . I bike everywhere , walk the dog twice a day , drink lots of water ,eat fruit n veg . For me that's all I need . I'm still slim . Don't have a six pack but feel healthy so that's all that matters to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep myself in good shape. A good diet and i run a few miles every morning. Although i'll never be that 11 stone soldier i once was. Back then i could do an 8 miler with both kit and a hangover. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swimming is the best excercise i have ever done,and iv been doing fitness/gym for 35 years"
Well it seems to be working
But what have you got against parsnips?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not a gym junkie I do a few hours here and there I figure you should keep in reasonable shape so you’re partner finds you hot...moobs aren’t a good look. You’re both gonna get old and eventually have to reach down to her ankles for a tit wank while your balls will scrape on the floor enjoy it while it lasts! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't do the gym myself, I tend to get out doing plenty of swimming, cycling and running, I'll never be sculpted like some people but I'm fairly happy with my Dad bod  |
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"How do you define a dad bod ?? . I'm nearly 41 with a dad bod but I don't have children so do i qualify ??" dad bid = you put on a pair of trunks and walk the beach like you own it and don't care what you look like a fog of confidence follows you aswell as a horde of horny ladies  |
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"How do you define a dad bod ?? . I'm nearly 41 with a dad bod but I don't have children so do i qualify ?? dad bid = you put on a pair of trunks and walk the beach like you own it and don't care what you look like a fog of confidence follows you aswell as a horde of horny ladies " Well as neither of them ever happen i guess i dont qualify . Maybe a liberal dash of Lynx and the ladies would flock towards me  |
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"I’m a dad with a gym fit bod my 26 year old daughter said recently that I was looking good for my age is that a backhanded compliment lol" that's totally true ! 50 you look fantastic!!! Hard work pays off ! Well done ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just to be awkward I like somewhere in between. Mr used to work out a lot and was very physically active, his legs looked like a Marvel character's! He's not so active now (and a Dad!) but still has a great overall build without being scarily ripped. I find that quote intimidating.
I like the kind of build that a lot of manual workers have. Guys that have worked with their bodies for years and so have a decent shape but still enjoy a pint and a curry. |
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"I’m a dad with a gym fit bod my 26 year old daughter said recently that I was looking good for my age is that a backhanded compliment lol that's totally true ! 50 you look fantastic!!! Hard work pays off ! Well done ! "
Thank you x |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Just to be awkward I like somewhere in between. Mr used to work out a lot and was very physically active, his legs looked like a Marvel character's! He's not so active now (and a Dad!) but still has a great overall build without being scarily ripped. I find that quote intimidating.
I like the kind of build that a lot of manual workers have. Guys that have worked with their bodies for years and so have a decent shape but still enjoy a pint and a curry. "
Hubby was a builder all his working life and still has a fabulous build  |
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"There’s many different forms of exercise to keep in shape other than purely gym work. In fact, it’s good to experiment and furthermore keeps things more interesting as opposed to stagnating through performing the same monotonous movements/reps etc. ad infinitum "
Exactly - I would say eat well and do something you enjoy - cycle, swim, whatever.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit of cycling here and there and don't eat shite. That's my nylon resolution anyway
Nylon resolution
How come predictive text always predicts the wrong bloody text? "
Oh jeeez I just seen that....nylon lycra similar I suppose lol  |
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