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Does it put you off ... ?
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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depends on timelines... if everyday for the last 6 months.. probably not... for no other reason than it would make me think I was the next available cock.
if over a much longer period and a mix of social meets/sexual meets... I would like to be considered for a meet. Wouldn't increase or decrease my desire to meet up.
what others do.. up to them, doesn't mean I need to join tho.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont really go by verifications too much.... if we all click and they can hold a conversation and of course theres a sexual connection/attraction then who knows !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"depends on timelines... if everyday for the last 6 months.. probably not... for no other reason than it would make me think I was the next available cock.
if over a much longer period and a mix of social meets/sexual meets... I would like to be considered for a meet. Wouldn't increase or decrease my desire to meet up.
what others do.. up to them, doesn't mean I need to join tho.."
22 seperate veri's in 2months (and some repeats) ? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"depends on timelines... if everyday for the last 6 months.. probably not... for no other reason than it would make me think I was the next available cock.
if over a much longer period and a mix of social meets/sexual meets... I would like to be considered for a meet. Wouldn't increase or decrease my desire to meet up.
what others do.. up to them, doesn't mean I need to join tho..
22 seperate veri's in 2months (and some repeats) ?"
are you asking me a question? I would need to look at the profile, see what they are looking for, do they match what I am looking for... do they turn me on or are just a mouth to unload in...
lots of other factors than just reading their report card oops verifications |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"..... or does it make you even keener ?
if you get a meet request from someone who's verification list reads like the dead sea scrolls ?"
lol at dead sea scrolls... for us being new to the scene, we dont mind seeing a long list of great sexual encounters.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"depends on timelines... if everyday for the last 6 months.. probably not... for no other reason than it would make me think I was the next available cock.
if over a much longer period and a mix of social meets/sexual meets... I would like to be considered for a meet. Wouldn't increase or decrease my desire to meet up.
what others do.. up to them, doesn't mean I need to join tho..
22 seperate veri's in 2months (and some repeats) ?
are you asking me a question? I would need to look at the profile, see what they are looking for, do they match what I am looking for... do they turn me on or are just a mouth to unload in...
lots of other factors than just reading their report card oops verifications"
nah - i answered the question for myself before i posted the forum
just interested in other people _iewpoints on the matter |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"depends on timelines... if everyday for the last 6 months.. probably not... for no other reason than it would make me think I was the next available cock.
if over a much longer period and a mix of social meets/sexual meets... I would like to be considered for a meet. Wouldn't increase or decrease my desire to meet up.
what others do.. up to them, doesn't mean I need to join tho..
22 seperate veri's in 2months (and some repeats) ?
are you asking me a question? I would need to look at the profile, see what they are looking for, do they match what I am looking for... do they turn me on or are just a mouth to unload in...
lots of other factors than just reading their report card oops verifications
nah - i answered the question for myself before i posted the forum
just interested in other people _iewpoints on the matter"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont really bother me either way, i will meet people if they have loads of verifications or if they have none, im not here to judge people im here for sex and so long as i like them i will meet them no matter who else they have or havnt met
Theres no point being on a swingers site if your going to get pruidish about who others have met  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"..... or does it make you even keener ?
if you get a meet request from someone who's verification list reads like the dead sea scrolls ?"
I don't take a lot of notice over verifications and would never make assumptions over numbers but i may over who they have met though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont really bother me either way, i will meet people if they have loads of verifications or if they have none, im not here to judge people im here for sex and so long as i like them i will meet them no matter who else they have or havnt met
Theres no point being on a swingers site if your going to get pruidish about who others have met "
Same here.
If we like the sound/look of someone we will meet the regardless how many or few they have.
Although....
If someone been on the site for like 2 years or something and not got 1 single verification it makes us wonder why
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although....
If someone been on the site for like 2 years or something and not got 1 single verification it makes us wonder why
Tony"
i think its very easy to be a single guy and have been a member on here for over a year and never had a meet
But i think all because someone hasnt met does not mean they wont given the chance
however its much easier for couple and women, as we all know, so i think any couple/woman that has been on here for a year plus and not met is because they dont want to
And i know some people are 'fussy' but surely to god on a site as big as this even the most fussy person can find someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmmmm...I'm going to contradict myself answering this. Some people will only meet the verified - it doesn't bother me if they're verified or not: I'm able to make my own mind up.
However - here's the contradiction: if I'm scrolling down the list of verifications, I stop, have a cappucinno and not got to the end, take another break to go to the loo and the marker at the side is only half way down, then in all likelihood I wouldn't meet them, especially if they had "straight" and one verification stated how good he sucked cock.
(((Hangs head in shame for being a hypocrite))) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to read the veris coz you can read between the lines!! Those that a couple of lines long, with not much to say can mean they found it hard to write the veri, others are obviously enthusiastic & show the person was a good meet.
That said, I (f) dont like meeting unveris since we had a bad meet with one. Everyone has to have a first time, but in that case, I would arrange a social meet first since our bad experience.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"..... or does it make you even keener ?
if you get a meet request from someone who's verification list reads like the dead sea scrolls ?"
A meet is a meet as long as they don't look like a dead scroll |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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usually use feedback to see who people have been meeting to see what type of people they have played with....ie everyday fun people or the body beautiful people.
no point wasting our time mailling them if they arnt intereseted in our type of people.
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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Depends on the veri's.
If there are loads of repeats from singles saying......"he's mine", "love ya best friend"...... "love the wifey"...... etc........ I'd be blocking them like a shot......nothing like a mad bunnyboiler to dent ya fun.
And providing there are no openly barebacking veri's.... wouldn't bother me.
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