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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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been on this site a few months now and looking for my first meet.i was on another site a year or so back and had a few meets.am i doing something wrong on here??really very genuine and discreet.cples ora fem is what iam looking for.so if anyone free next week....maybe send a message and i will send pic and mobile no.
thanks for reading.
chris x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get rid of your 'WARNING' on your profile - it is worth bugger all and makes you look like a prize idiot.
Get some photos on your profile to prove you're genuine
Lastly - have patience, get yourself known and refrain from the 'what am I doing wrong' type of forum posts.
Sorry if this sounds blunt, it's not meant to offend, but you ask a question and you get my (and I'm sure others') take on the matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deffo,the first thing we thought was get some photo's.You wouldn't go into a shop with nothing on show,your in a market place,set your stall out.
Trace & Ric
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Yes add some photos you can always put them in your private gallery to show to people on friends list. The warning is silly as you dont have any pictures on.
Make your profile stand out, so many single men girls//couples need something to make them stop and look, so a sense of humour, your likes and dislikes. Try having a look at other single guys profiles who have had success and see if you can get any pointers from them.
You need to stand out from the crowd without bigging yourself up too much. Show confidence with out being full of yourself |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
Did someone call?
Ok.... had a peek....... yawn
No pictures......check
Can't accommodate...... check
name sounds like you are a couple........check
warning (with no piccies)........ check
"dont dream it...give it a go" ...... check
"very discreet at all times" .......... check
"willing to send pics and mobile number to the genuine ones on here " ........ check
Safe sex icon .......... check
Whinging on the forums alread.........check
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**In truth**
No pictures .......... I'm an ugly munter......... check
Can't accommodate ............. I'm married and being a cheat .......... check
name sounds like you are a couple........Single man trying to bypass the couples check lists........check
warning (with no piccies)....... I think I'm important enough for some idiot to want to copy my profile............. check
"dont dream it...give it a go" ...... the couples ain't the ones dreaming mate... you are..........check
"very discreet at all times" ..........married and cheating........ check
"willing to send pics and mobile number to the genuine ones on here " ........ Condisending twat............check
Safe sex icon ..........it's NOT ticked and therefore, anyone with a modicum of common sense will pass you by as BAREBACKER.....AVOID........ check
Whinging on the forums alread.........Like you are the first single male to wimper and whinge....... boring as fook ........check
**This is actually meant as constructive critisism - now can you see why you have been unsuccessful? If not...... I'll spell it out even further**
Look at it from couples and single women's points of view. We get enough idiot, halfwitted, single male feckwits bugging us to last a lifetime.
Your profile is screaming "same old, same old"
Change it...... you may start to enjoy the site.
**All attitudes and critisisms inhere remain the property of the poster and her narcissistic tendancies**
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok iam hurt...lol.taken on board your comments,wow you are hard _adchick. edited my profile, i do have pics in pvt gallery.so fingers crossed for maybe some fun.
thanks to you all for your comments x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need pix in your public gallery as well.Ourselves and many others on site ignore profiles with no pix.Dare we say that you probably do too?Keep your face pix for your private gallery if you wish,just a couple of shots to give ppl an idea what you look like in your public one.Most ppl can't be arsed with getting drawn into the private gallery,msn gig.And many won't add as friends if you haven't chatted or met.Think about it.
Trace & Ric
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not take the discrete/safe sex thing a little further.... and advertise for glory hole sex... that way even if your wife turns up for your meet she still wont know its you!!
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"ok iam hurt...lol.taken on board your comments,wow you are hard _adchick. edited my profile, i do have pics in pvt gallery.so fingers crossed for maybe some fun.
thanks to you all for your comments x"
I'm glad you took it as constructive critisism.....
However, pvt piccies won't do you much good....
No picture....... either lazy or cheating. I'm afraid thats what alot of peeps presume.
I and about 90%of the people I know will just wander by if there are no pictures.
Even a body shot just to show if you match what others are looking for.
Other than that....... can't help!
Shyness is not a virtue in this world. It's a major set back.
Maddie.
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