Just throwing it out there. I feel great!
It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"
Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!
I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.
If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.
You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.
I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more!  |
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"Just throwing it out there. I feel great!
It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"
Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!
I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.
If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.
You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.
I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more! "
A good thread. Well done x |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"Just throwing it out there. I feel great!
It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"
Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!
I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.
If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.
You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.
I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more! "
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Thank you, I just hope if there's one person who needs to hear this, one person who's struggling to believe they're better than they're being told that they read it.
Life is for living, not suffering for someone else's ego.
If you're wondering "am I in an abusive relationship?" Yes...yes you are. |
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"Thank you, I just hope if there's one person who needs to hear this, one person who's struggling to believe they're better than they're being told that they read it.
Life is for living, not suffering for someone else's ego.
If you're wondering "am I in an abusive relationship?" Yes...yes you are. "
Inspirational |
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"Thank you, I just hope if there's one person who needs to hear this, one person who's struggling to believe they're better than they're being told that they read it.
Life is for living, not suffering for someone else's ego.
If you're wondering "am I in an abusive relationship?" Yes...yes you are. "
Well done you!!! |
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By *heOwlMan
over a year ago
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"Just throwing it out there. I feel great!
It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"
Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!
I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.
If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.
You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.
I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more! "
Well done, it's not easy picking yourself up again and even harder to really feel good about yourself again.
Also really good sharing this for those who are currently struggling to see that tiny glimmer of light at the end of their tunnel.
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Well done you ...i was in a very abusive relationship for 21 years and after he beat my face in front of my 2 youngest children I finally plucked up the courage and got an injunction on him.
My children's and my life is so much better and we never been so happy xx |
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"Just throwing it out there. I feel great!
It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"
Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!
I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.
If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.
You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.
I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more! "
That's great....did it 11 years ago and still surviving.....xxxx |
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I feel your happiness too.
Discarded a scheming arsehole ex, hit the gym last year, regained my fitness, loving that, and works great too.
Since joining Fabs, I've encountered some lovely people, and I'm smiling
apart from the fact, that I had to make my own pancakes...... |
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Well done OP I'm pretty sure there's a few people reading this thinking that sounds familiar. If one of those can take courage from your words, how amazing would that be |
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"Just throwing it out there. I feel great!
It's very very close to the 1 year celebration of kicking out my abusive ex and becoming a singleton. In that year I've lost 4 stone in weight and bagged me a ton of confidence. I've made new friends, I've proved I can do it on my own despite the years of hearing "you're nothing without me"
Yes, financially things are tough, very tough, but I survive. I might go without a lot of things, but you know what....I AM LIVING!!!!
I'm not just living though, I'm enjoying life, even with its struggles.
If there's anyone reading who is unhappy, being bullied, let me tell you something. You CAN do it, you CAN be happy, believe in yourself no matter what they say.
You are the you you are, not the you they say you are.
I'm rocking the me I am, and I thank that ex for the shit I went through, it makes me appreciate me more! "
Well done, I'm coming up to 2 years away from my abusive ex. Like you financially things are tough but I'm in a much better place now. And I have a lovely new man who treats me better than I think I deserve.
Still have my doubts about myself but feeling good about life. |
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"Well done OP I'm pretty sure there's a few people reading this thinking that sounds familiar. If one of those can take courage from your words, how amazing would that be "
I really hope that's the case. |
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this post!! Well done you lovely x
your shoe pic 8th Dec 