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How do you know if you're ugly
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol i knew that would come up but i feel as though you all would say no youre not ugly just be polite  "
Sure I've been blocked couple of times after sending one.fuck em. I don't think anyone should call folk ugly.none of us are perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op beauty is in the eye of the beholder but yes fab people here do tend to think they're standards are higher here than in real world you just got to accept it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I make myself gag, it's not a good day! Lol!
Someone will think you are the hottest thing going (trying to apply the the same positive attitude to myself! Hahahaha!) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Like the vanilla world not everyone will find everyone attractive - has happened to all of us at one time or another.
And can't believe it's happened that many times in the week you've been here OP - give it time (and the right profile/approach) and someone will be along.
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "
When I send a face 'piccy' and they delete my message or block me, then I know that I am ugly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I make myself gag, it's not a good day! Lol!
Someone will think you are the hottest thing going (trying to apply the the same positive attitude to myself! Hahahaha!)"
Been trying that positive thing for years yet still the mirror cracks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol i knew that would come up but i feel as though you all would say no youre not ugly just be polite
Sure I've been blocked couple of times after sending one.fuck em. I don't think anyone should call folk ugly.none of us are perfect "
I bet u have caused a few nr car accidents with that figure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So why not have a face pic for profile ..if someone's attracted or not life easier than what your doing now does it not ?......tbh I wouldn't worry you've a good body so wouldn't worry so much mate |
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Very much in the same boat mate.
The thing i hate is you send your pictures and then one they never reply or two straight block you.
So would love to know if they would do that to a person face to face as well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got blocked the first two times, I've sent someone a face pic.
Don't worry OP, it only took me 5 cosmetic surgeries and £27,000 pounds to get that fixed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very much in the same boat mate.
The thing i hate is you send your pictures and then one they never reply or two straight block you.
So would love to know if they would do that to a person face to face as well.
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I would. If someone I didn't know and didn't want to talk to came up to me and introduced themselves? Yeah I'd walk off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out "
This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know
As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol i knew that would come up but i feel as though you all would say no youre not ugly just be polite "
There no such thing as ugly . I could find you the hottest mab on earth and the next person not be interested .
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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago
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"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out
This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know
As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change. "
MzQT I have witnessed you in real life and can confirm you are very far from ugly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out
This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know
As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change.
MzQT I have witnessed you in real life and can confirm you are very far from ugly "
Doesn't change that I feel ugly. It's my prerogative. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You only have to watch Jeremy Kyle to know there's someone out there for everyone.
Honestly though, OP, like the others have said, it may be that you're just not for them. That doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out
This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know
As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change.
MzQT I have witnessed you in real life and can confirm you are very far from ugly
Doesn't change that I feel ugly. It's my prerogative. "
I feel like a God on my bike, that doesn't make me want to ride off a cliff to test my immortality  . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who wants a face pic then? Ha only jokin i dont have a facepic as my profile pic cause i dont fancy my friends or family seeing me on here although I've told most of my friends i made this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't change that I feel ugly. It's my prerogative.
I feel like a God on my bike, that doesn't make me want to ride off a cliff to test my immortality ."
I don't get the point u are making lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't change that I feel ugly. It's my prerogative.
I feel like a God on my bike, that doesn't make me want to ride off a cliff to test my immortality .
I don't get the point u are making lol "
Because it's crap, don't listen to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who wants a face pic then? Ha only jokin i dont have a facepic as my profile pic cause i dont fancy my friends or family seeing me on here although I've told most of my friends i made this"
I want a face pic now because I'm a nosey bitch  |
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"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out
This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know
As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change. "
Send us one, we will be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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maybe they know you and are being polite in their way about it.. personality and then face for me.. although I've never fucked an ugly person haha.. I'm intrigued x - jo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It happens to us all OP, don't take it personally. As others have said not everyone will react the same. Be patient another thought though, if the people you've sent face pics to are local, it could be that they recognise you and don't want to make things awkward? Could be wrong but you never know |
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "
From what I see so far, it all looks good
You're photo verified
Have a profile picture
Have a few pictures in your profile
You're very to the point
From the female of a couple, this is what we initially look at and would want to know more.
I don't think an ugly face can go with that body?
Maybe you get no response because you're just not to that persons taste.
Remember also that if it's a couple you're messaging, they both have to like you, straight or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "
I bet you if you sent me a face pic I would reply back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'll have to send us one so we can check you out
This lol .. send me one and I'll let ya know
As for me? Well I always feel ugly, so doesn't matter what anyone says really that won't change. "
I'm surprised any lad looks up from your fantastic tits to realise your a troll lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked
From what I see so far, it all looks good
You're photo verified
Have a profile picture
Have a few pictures in your profile
You're very to the point
From the female of a couple, this is what we initially look at and would want to know more.
I don't think an ugly face can go with that body?
Maybe you get no response because you're just not to that persons taste.
Remember also that if it's a couple you're messaging, they both have to like you, straight or not. "
sounds interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I'm surprised any lad looks up from your fantastic tits to realise your a troll lol x"
That's probably why they all think I'm beautiful I know how to use my assets lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I'm surprised any lad looks up from your fantastic tits to realise your a troll lol x
That's probably why they all think I'm beautiful I know how to use my assets lol "
pity your so far down south I'd love to watch your assets as u mesmerise me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The midwife slapped my dad.
When I was born they said to my dad "Good & Bad news, Its a beautiful little boy, bad news, its obviously not yours!"..
S"
Haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I'm surprised any lad looks up from your fantastic tits to realise your a troll lol x
That's probably why they all think I'm beautiful I know how to use my assets lol "
Assets, you mean 'ass etc'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who wants a face pic then? Ha only jokin i dont have a facepic as my profile pic cause i dont fancy my friends or family seeing me on here although I've told most of my friends i made this
I want a face pic now because I'm a nosey bitch "
Hahaha me too!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "
Could be worse. I have face pics public on my profile. Imagine the lack of response I get! Lol |
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You've been on here 7 days, but of patience mate.
Make sure your face pic is clear, either clean shaven or well kept beard/stubble. Don't pull a face and a natural smile. Selfies of single men are a tad off putting, try finding a sociable pic with you in and crop/boot everyone else out.
Good luck and have fun xxx |
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "
Reality bites mate; you weren't for them. Don't take it personally, just move on. It is possible they actually know you, and don't want their ordinary life and Fab life overlapping too. You're in a good location for future prospects, so like others have said, give it time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's it frowned upon to ask someone to wear a paper bag over their head?
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And a bag for yourself in case theirs falls off, it us called a 'Double bagger' |
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If I could only ever give out one bit of advice regarding Fab it would be this, don't let this place ever make you feel ugly. It is fatal.
I've skirted close on occasions. Thankfully I'm long passed that now. You have to remember that people will reject you but that's just the nature of the site and never because you're ugly. Nobody's ugly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "
That dont make you ugly, just not to their taste |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" the ugly club i suppose 7 days isnt long but ive suspected it for a while now haha"
How do you do out their in the real world? I've never rated my looks highly and do crap in the real world, i've only ever had one relationship in all my life, how do you think that feels that only one guy ever has seen you as good enough to spend time with
I bet you can beat that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "
your not on your own I've even been told I look like a chimp |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked
your not on your own I've even been told I look like a chimp "
Lee Evans made a career out of that, dont knock it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because you're not to everyone's taste it doesn't mean that there isn't someone out there who thinks you're absolutely the bees knees and would love to get to know you if you would just notice them.
Believe in yourself!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "
maybe you have the BOBFOC syndrome...
that's body off Baywatch, face off crimewatch |
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked
maybe you have the BOBFOC syndrome...
that's body off Baywatch, face off crimewatch "
My OH has said he's the other way round...
Face off Baywatch, body off Crimewatch!  |
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"Not finding someone attractive doesn't mean you think they're ugly."
this!
Op - this is a hard site for men to succeed in from the off!
You have a great body - you're clearly doing the best you can with what you've got!
Can I ask how you get on in the real world? Are you successful with ladies there?
A lot of guys who are very popular in the real world still struggle on here - especially when they're new! Xx |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
" the ugly club i suppose 7 days isnt long but ive suspected it for a while now haha
How do you do out their in the real world? I've never rated my looks highly and do crap in the real world, i've only ever had one relationship in all my life, how do you think that feels that only one guy ever has seen you as good enough to spend time with
I bet you can beat that "
I can! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so good question op,
I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?
My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so good question op,
I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?
My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery. "
The answer to that is really a mystery? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol i knew that would come up but i feel as though you all would say no youre not ugly just be polite "
How do we know if you're ugly or not? Ask the question but give us something to look at |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so good question op,
I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?
My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.
The answer to that is really a mystery?
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Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so good question op,
I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?
My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.
The answer to that is really a mystery?
Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved"
I am only surmising here, but I bet it has something to do with him being a billionaire |
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "
I don't know what you look like but don't say it's because you are ugly. It's just you're not their type. Nothing wrong with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so good question op,
I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?
My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.
The answer to that is really a mystery?
Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved
I am only surmising here, but I bet it has something to do with him being a billionaire "
How very dare you be so cynical
I for one have no doubt she would have still married him if he was a nobody working the checkouts at walmart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so good question op,
I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?
My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.
The answer to that is really a mystery?
Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved
I am only surmising here, but I bet it has something to do with him being a billionaire "
Okay there we have it mystery solved you need to be a billionaire to have a chance on fab good luck pmsl |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"It's happened to us a few times. Welcome to the ugly club
It happens to us all. ...I often get salt rubbed in the wound though as they bother to reply and call me cute .....then nothing!!
Cute is a friend zone word. I hear it a lot
It's not even that in my case  "
I'm straight so it's only friendship but you're going to have to harder to get called ugly and cute doesn't work with your striking features.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so good question op,
I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?
My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.
The answer to that is really a mystery?
Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved
I am only surmising here, but I bet it has something to do with him being a billionaire
Okay there we have it mystery solved you need to be a billionaire to have a chance on fab good luck pmsl"
or tits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's happened to us a few times. Welcome to the ugly club
It happens to us all. ...I often get salt rubbed in the wound though as they bother to reply and call me cute .....then nothing!!
Cute is a friend zone word. I hear it a lot
It's not even that in my case
I'm straight so it's only friendship but you're going to have to harder to get called ugly and cute doesn't work with your striking features.
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oh ssshhhh now Lickety. ...people generally respect your opinion on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked "
It happens to me most of the time, no reason to be bothered about it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so good question op,
I am going to counter it with another question, how can a woman like Melania Trump be attracted to Donald trump?
My answer would be It's a mystery, and the same thing should apply here, It's a mystery.
The answer to that is really a mystery?
Guess we better get old scooby and the gang involved
I am only surmising here, but I bet it has something to do with him being a billionaire
Okay there we have it mystery solved you need to be a billionaire to have a chance on fab good luck pmsl
or tits "
or a generous endowment.....policy lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not finding someone attractive doesn't mean you think they're ugly.
this!
Op - this is a hard site for men to succeed in from the off!
You have a great body - you're clearly doing the best you can with what you've got!
Can I ask how you get on in the real world? Are you successful with ladies there?
A lot of guys who are very popular in the real world still struggle on here - especially when they're new! Xx"
honestly i never ever get hit on. I know why tho i generally look moody even though im a happy person. But most likely not the best looking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beauty is fluid
It is subjective
Those we seek are probably the polar opposite of what most seek
And whilst we won't be in the majority, won't be on our own in that |
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked
It happens to me most of the time, no reason to be bothered about it though "
Not all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So i get the odd messge here and there saying hey nice pics ect. Then everytime i send a face pic i dont get a reply/message deleted and sometimes get blocked
It happens to me most of the time, no reason to be bothered about it though
Not all the time "
That's true |
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"Not finding someone attractive doesn't mean you think they're ugly.
this!
Op - this is a hard site for men to succeed in from the off!
You have a great body - you're clearly doing the best you can with what you've got!
Can I ask how you get on in the real world? Are you successful with ladies there?
A lot of guys who are very popular in the real world still struggle on here - especially when they're new! Xx honestly i never ever get hit on. I know why tho i generally look moody even though im a happy person. But most likely not the best looking "
I'm not the best looking either! I'm just lucky because I'm a woman - so I can make the most of myself with hair, make-up etc!
All you can do is make the most of the features you've got, ensure you're well groomed - and smile! I'm a sucker for a nice smile and nice eyes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ugly?
Ive had the same face for 20 years. I've never felt attractive. (What's attractive about big eyebrows, big nose and a mouth and face that burns when you grin?)
But... I now embrace and appreciate my quirks.
I'm open, friendly, relaxed...
Ugly or handsome isn't the only measure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So why not have a face pic for profile ..if someone's attracted or not life easier than what your doing now does it not ?......tbh I wouldn't worry you've a good body so wouldn't worry so much mate "
A lot of people don't want to be recognised on here. It's all about discretion. Keeping this side of their lives private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So why not have a face pic for profile ..if someone's attracted or not life easier than what your doing now does it not ?......tbh I wouldn't worry you've a good body so wouldn't worry so much mate
A lot of people don't want to be recognised on here. It's all about discretion. Keeping this side of their lives private. "
I totally get and respect that so maybe the other option would be to have one in friends only pics once you've messaged a few times instead ,I don't really know the answer to the problem it was just an idea to save this kind of "am I ugly" situation |
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Me the male know I am not as attractive as my other half so I send a pic on the understanding that you look at them after having 2 bottles of wine . I look good then |
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