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Expectations knowing how to keep it real!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been a site member now since September, when I first joined didn't really know what to expect,put some photos up and off I went, filtering through profile after profile sending pm's constantly trying to get attention a meet sex, I managed to get a meet and we had a few socials and more, it was great, but my first impressions of the site was a free for all lots and lots of sex!! Was it wrong, it's not quite as easy as that few months passed nothing!!  then I decided to change my game plan and head off into the forums, where I posted new threads got chatting to some great ppl meet new friends and I've found my place on this site and enjoying it now! I have no expectations these days, I come on check messages have the odd chat in the forums meet new friends and keeping it real, I've learned it's not a free for all and sex sex it's about enjoying yourself chatting getting to know ppl having a laugh and being patience, what are your views of the site and expectations |
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"I've been a site member now since September, when I first joined didn't really know what to expect,put some photos up and off I went, filtering through profile after profile sending pm's constantly trying to get attention a meet sex, I managed to get a meet and we had a few socials and more, it was great, but my first impressions of the site was a free for all lots and lots of sex!! Was it wrong, it's not quite as easy as that few months passed nothing!! then I decided to change my game plan and head off into the forums, where I posted new threads got chatting to some great ppl meet new friends and I've found my place on this site and enjoying it now! I have no expectations these days, I come on check messages have the odd chat in the forums meet new friends and keeping it real, I've learned it's not a free for all and sex sex it's about enjoying yourself chatting getting to know ppl having a laugh and being patience, what are your views of the site and expectations "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been a site member now since September, when I first joined didn't really know what to expect,put some photos up and off I went, filtering through profile after profile sending pm's constantly trying to get attention a meet sex, I managed to get a meet and we had a few socials and more, it was great, but my first impressions of the site was a free for all lots and lots of sex!! Was it wrong, it's not quite as easy as that few months passed nothing!! then I decided to change my game plan and head off into the forums, where I posted new threads got chatting to some great ppl meet new friends and I've found my place on this site and enjoying it now! I have no expectations these days, I come on check messages have the odd chat in the forums meet new friends and keeping it real, I've learned it's not a free for all and sex sex it's about enjoying yourself chatting getting to know ppl having a laugh and being patience, what are your views of the site and expectations "
Same boat mate. The forums are the place to be. Meet some funny, entertaining, and sexy ladies through the forums. Long may it continue!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been a site member now since September, when I first joined didn't really know what to expect,put some photos up and off I went, filtering through profile after profile sending pm's constantly trying to get attention a meet sex, I managed to get a meet and we had a few socials and more, it was great, but my first impressions of the site was a free for all lots and lots of sex!! Was it wrong, it's not quite as easy as that few months passed nothing!! then I decided to change my game plan and head off into the forums, where I posted new threads got chatting to some great ppl meet new friends and I've found my place on this site and enjoying it now! I have no expectations these days, I come on check messages have the odd chat in the forums meet new friends and keeping it real, I've learned it's not a free for all and sex sex it's about enjoying yourself chatting getting to know ppl having a laugh and being patience, what are your views of the site and expectations
Well said "
thank you beautiful xx how are you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been a site member now since September, when I first joined didn't really know what to expect,put some photos up and off I went, filtering through profile after profile sending pm's constantly trying to get attention a meet sex, I managed to get a meet and we had a few socials and more, it was great, but my first impressions of the site was a free for all lots and lots of sex!! Was it wrong, it's not quite as easy as that few months passed nothing!! then I decided to change my game plan and head off into the forums, where I posted new threads got chatting to some great ppl meet new friends and I've found my place on this site and enjoying it now! I have no expectations these days, I come on check messages have the odd chat in the forums meet new friends and keeping it real, I've learned it's not a free for all and sex sex it's about enjoying yourself chatting getting to know ppl having a laugh and being patience, what are your views of the site and expectations
Same boat mate. The forums are the place to be. Meet some funny, entertaining, and sexy ladies through the forums. Long may it continue! "
Defiantly meet some great ppl on here that I totally respect and value there friendship  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love the forums, anything else happens if it happens.. Quite happy bunny overall here "
Same for me.
I'm not the most pro active meeter i'll admit, but the site does work if you give it time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been a site member now since September, when I first joined didn't really know what to expect,put some photos up and off I went, filtering through profile after profile sending pm's constantly trying to get attention a meet sex, I managed to get a meet and we had a few socials and more, it was great, but my first impressions of the site was a free for all lots and lots of sex!! Was it wrong, it's not quite as easy as that few months passed nothing!! then I decided to change my game plan and head off into the forums, where I posted new threads got chatting to some great ppl meet new friends and I've found my place on this site and enjoying it now! I have no expectations these days, I come on check messages have the odd chat in the forums meet new friends and keeping it real, I've learned it's not a free for all and sex sex it's about enjoying yourself chatting getting to know ppl having a laugh and being patience, what are your views of the site and expectations
Well said thank you beautiful xx how are you xx"
Good ta xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Love the forums, anything else happens if it happens.. Quite happy bunny overall here
Same for me.
I'm not the most pro active meeter i'll admit, but the site does work if you give it time "
It's all about enjoying your time on here for whatever reason it maybe |
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"I've been a site member now since September, when I first joined didn't really know what to expect,put some photos up and off I went, filtering through profile after profile sending pm's constantly trying to get attention a meet sex, I managed to get a meet and we had a few socials and more, it was great, but my first impressions of the site was a free for all lots and lots of sex!! Was it wrong, it's not quite as easy as that few months passed nothing!! then I decided to change my game plan and head off into the forums, where I posted new threads got chatting to some great ppl meet new friends and I've found my place on this site and enjoying it now! I have no expectations these days, I come on check messages have the odd chat in the forums meet new friends and keeping it real, I've learned it's not a free for all and sex sex it's about enjoying yourself chatting getting to know ppl having a laugh and being patience, what are your views of the site and expectations "
Spot on OP too many guys think its a knocking shop |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well said op!
After lots of time wasters and no shows,we took to club meets only. we have made lots of new friends!
Forums are great  "
Totally agree forums are the place to be!! And as long as we're polite and respectful to each other what can go wrong |
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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago
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"I've been a site member now since September, when I first joined didn't really know what to expect,put some photos up and off I went, filtering through profile after profile sending pm's constantly trying to get attention a meet sex, I managed to get a meet and we had a few socials and more, it was great, but my first impressions of the site was a free for all lots and lots of sex!! Was it wrong, it's not quite as easy as that few months passed nothing!! then I decided to change my game plan and head off into the forums, where I posted new threads got chatting to some great ppl meet new friends and I've found my place on this site and enjoying it now! I have no expectations these days, I come on check messages have the odd chat in the forums meet new friends and keeping it real, I've learned it's not a free for all and sex sex it's about enjoying yourself chatting getting to know ppl having a laugh and being patience, what are your views of the site and expectations "
i think that sums it up things are diff to sort on times and do take time and id say if your trying to meet a couple may take a bit longer ,i can see why folks go to clubs as it would cut a lot of it out but he ho all good fun and if nothing else theres allways chat and messages |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can't really add to that OP perfectly put and with the exception of your early experience/expectations of the site (which I mercifully skipped) about sums up my thoughts precisely "
thank you G Man |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been a site member now since September, when I first joined didn't really know what to expect,put some photos up and off I went, filtering through profile after profile sending pm's constantly trying to get attention a meet sex, I managed to get a meet and we had a few socials and more, it was great, but my first impressions of the site was a free for all lots and lots of sex!! Was it wrong, it's not quite as easy as that few months passed nothing!! then I decided to change my game plan and head off into the forums, where I posted new threads got chatting to some great ppl meet new friends and I've found my place on this site and enjoying it now! I have no expectations these days, I come on check messages have the odd chat in the forums meet new friends and keeping it real, I've learned it's not a free for all and sex sex it's about enjoying yourself chatting getting to know ppl having a laugh and being patience, what are your views of the site and expectations
i think that sums it up things are diff to sort on times and do take time and id say if your trying to meet a couple may take a bit longer ,i can see why folks go to clubs as it would cut a lot of it out but he ho all good fun and if nothing else theres allways chat and messages "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I deffo concur. This is my second time around on this site and I'm a hell of a lot more laid back and chilled than I was last time and enjoying my time more as more of a forumite."
fair play to ya mate |
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"I deffo concur. This is my second time around on this site and I'm a hell of a lot more laid back and chilled than I was last time and enjoying my time more as more of a forumite.fair play to ya mate "
Cheers, yeah, haven't met anyone yet and just building my confidence to try a club visit. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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The joy of the forums is it gives you a chance to know and be known without having to sell yourself in a single message. They're a great filter as you can get more of a feel for people's personalities than you ever will from a profile.
The downside is regular posters represent a tiny fraction of the Fab population so by sticking to the forums there are a lot of people you may never come across. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree, had that attitude should extend beyond the forums too  "
Beyond the forums? That's a cold and heartless place. I'm never going there ever again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I deffo concur. This is my second time around on this site and I'm a hell of a lot more laid back and chilled than I was last time and enjoying my time more as more of a forumite.fair play to ya mate
Cheers, yeah, haven't met anyone yet and just building my confidence to try a club visit. "
good on you mate and I'm sure you will meet someone soon just be yourself enjoy and have a laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The forums are great and I've met some great people in the forums who I know will be in my life for a long time. A shame there are a few that still overstep the mark. Yes you find the odd bunny boiler or troll but at the end of the day you always have 3 choices..shut up and put up.....block...or turn off the thing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The joy of the forums is it gives you a chance to know and be known without having to sell yourself in a single message. They're a great filter as you can get more of a feel for people's personalities than you ever will from a profile.
The downside is regular posters represent a tiny fraction of the Fab population so by sticking to the forums there are a lot of people you may never come across."
very true mate like this comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The joy of the forums is it gives you a chance to know and be known without having to sell yourself in a single message. They're a great filter as you can get more of a feel for people's personalities than you ever will from a profile.
The downside is regular posters represent a tiny fraction of the Fab population so by sticking to the forums there are a lot of people you may never come across."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ha ha I think most of us chaps come on here thinking it will be a jolly rumpy pumpy fest.
That's why the forums are so good , a Chap may get a woman's perspective on the site and realise its a good place to make chums |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ha ha I think most of us chaps come on here thinking it will be a jolly rumpy pumpy fest.
That's why the forums are so good , a Chap may get a woman's perspective on the site and realise its a good place to make chums "
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By (user no longer on site)
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The Forums are only a tiny...I mean TINY part of fab.
A few I've met that don't post on the forums didn't even know they existed until I told them.
One of them has since been posting, the others still haven't. |
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