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Ok I'm told I look younger than I am but it's hard to believe the % of people who are obviously lieing about thier age compared to there photos.
The odd one or 2 I can understand but I get at least 10 a week that look significantly older than they put on their profile....
Thoughts.....
(Sorry of spelling is off #dyslexic) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lots of people lie on here, about all sorts of stuff...
lying about their age can backfire if they are actively meeting, although I've never met anyone who looked significantly older than they said they were.
I also think though, if you can get away with it and its only a couple of years, then why not go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most women on here want younger guys, so I'm guessing some of the older guys change their age so they are allowed to message then, or appear in others age range search results. |
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"I look older than I am, It doesn't mean I'm lying about my age. Maybe I should start taking my birth certificate to meets "
This i get ^^
You'd expect a few guys to look older than they are but the amount of guys who look 48-50 and put 35ish on their profile is staggering.
If you can get away with it then find but some are so obviously lieing.
One guy I've met in a club said he was 27. His profile say 33 and he told some one else he was 31. What's the point if they can't keep it straight? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Mine is accurate. I actually wish with retrospect I'd thought a bit and not had my fab birthday as my real birthday but there you go. I have spoken to quite a few people who have freely admitted to lying about their age on here; always by shaving a few years off. More men than women. I understood their reasons and didn't have an issue with it since their fake ages were believable. |
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"I look older than I am, It doesn't mean I'm lying about my age. Maybe I should start taking my birth certificate to meets
This i get ^^
You'd expect a few guys to look older than they are but the amount of guys who look 48-50 and put 35ish on their profile is staggering.
If you can get away with it then find but some are so obviously lieing.
One guy I've met in a club said he was 27. His profile say 33 and he told some one else he was 31. What's the point if they can't keep it straight? "
that's because many men think that once they reach the big 4 0 then that's it in respect of getting meets, so they change their DOB so they are under 40 #daftsods |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it more women than men, or the other way round? Personally I think lying is pointless, unless you're playing a role. We are all who we are, age really doesn't change anything. Especially as others can tell you're lying either on here or in person! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 36 my age is wrong.....but even my real age is wrong as I look like a young brad pitt
what..pock marked skin and lanky blond hair?
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don't have pot marks and shave my head....cause I'm going bald....i look fuck all like him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I look older than I am, It doesn't mean I'm lying about my age. Maybe I should start taking my birth certificate to meets
This i get ^^
You'd expect a few guys to look older than they are but the amount of guys who look 48-50 and put 35ish on their profile is staggering.
If you can get away with it then find but some are so obviously lieing.
One guy I've met in a club said he was 27. His profile say 33 and he told some one else he was 31. What's the point if they can't keep it straight? "
15 years is one hell of a lie to make though! If I shaved off 15 years, it would be very obvious, and so would it be for most men.
Liars seem to forget their lies, then make up different ones, or can't keep track of the ones they've told. Nothing to lose by telling the truth. Honesty is the best policy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My real birthday is the same on here, there's a day in June where I'll level up to 34!
My experience I've come across guys that add a few years on. 2 years ago I shagged a guy who said he was 29 then said he was actually 24 but made a new profile to get through my filters, naughty! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol 15 years is a stretch for anyone. I guess its about the filters. You've got to ask yourself what they mean, making a new profile is naughty though. You must be special ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't liy about anything. but sum have sed I look older than I am.....not Shor if that's a good or bad thing lol"
I think its the moustache that ages you..
id say it was a bad thing (no offence) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm 36 my age is wrong.....but even my real age is wrong as I look like a young brad pitt
what..pock marked skin and lanky blond hair?
don't have pot marks and shave my head....cause I'm going bald....i look fuck all like him "
is that why you wear the woolly hat? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm 36 my age is wrong.....but even my real age is wrong as I look like a young brad pitt
what..pock marked skin and lanky blond hair?
don't have pot marks and shave my head....cause I'm going bald....i look fuck all like him "
I look fuck all like Brad Pitt too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to like being thought of older when I was going to clubs, when I was 15/16 and thought of as 19. I hit 22 and it was depressing lol. Having a shaved head now seems to age me. 33 going on 40 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My fab age is the same as my real age... I'll probably need to change it next year when I turn 40.... (sob)
I've chatted to people who have divulged that they've lied mahoooosively about their age... that's up to them, for me I have a keen eye and lies like that would bother me far more than anyone's real age would
Beard |
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"I'm 36 my age is wrong.....but even my real age is wrong as I look like a young brad pitt
what..pock marked skin and lanky blond hair?
don't have pot marks and shave my head....cause I'm going bald....i look fuck all like him
is that why you wear the woolly hat?"
I got a cap on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 39, don't see the point in lying.
Older I get, less I care (though having a bit of an 'oh my, I'm nearly 40' thing at the moment) "
Im totally with you... somehow I'm nearly 40???
When did that happen? |
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"I'm 39, don't see the point in lying.
Older I get, less I care (though having a bit of an 'oh my, I'm nearly 40' thing at the moment)
Im totally with you... somehow I'm nearly 40???
When did that happen?"
I know! Bastard time theives |
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I can appreciate some people will bend the truth slightly and others will blatantly lie..
I turned 45 this year and at that point dropped off the radar of some on here, likewise reaching 40 or 50... It's that whole skip counting thing, rounding to whole and half figures..
And of course it is so easy to lie, there are no checks to validate the information you say about yourself..
If someone does lie about their age, what difference does it make if you find them attractive anyway.. If it's a vanity thing then why not indulge and allow them their foible.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm proud of my age so I tell the truth happily.
what about your butthole that you wanted to bleach lol "
It's on my profile for you to wank over at your leisure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can appreciate some people will bend the truth slightly and others will blatantly lie..
I turned 45 this year and at that point dropped off the radar of some on here, likewise reaching 40 or 50... It's that whole skip counting thing, rounding to whole and half figures..
And of course it is so easy to lie, there are no checks to validate the information you say about yourself..
If someone does lie about their age, what difference does it make if you find them attractive anyway.. If it's a vanity thing then why not indulge and allow them their foible.."
but lying about their age would probably stop me being attracted...find it really pathetic somehow.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it goes a bit deeper. This whole life is based on trust, even if its for a short period. If people lie about the simplest things, what about the bigger ones? Lol but then again if a lady knocks a few years off for confidence, is that bad? Not really |
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"I'm proud of my age so I tell the truth happily.
what about your butthole that you wanted to bleach lol
It's on my profile for you to wank over at your leisure "
I don't swing that way, just remember your thread about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm proud of my age so I tell the truth happily.
what about your butthole that you wanted to bleach lol
It's on my profile for you to wank over at your leisure
I don't swing that way, just remember your thread about it "
It's ok dude, I'm flattered and have no problem with you obsessing about my bum hole. I'm just sorry I'm not gay or I'd let you lick it |
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If I connect with someone and they match their pics (and not from 20 years ago like I've had on 2 meets!) then I don't mind people lying about their age. Its irrelevant mostly as it's more about the person for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must be lucky because nobody I've met has looked considerably older than the age they said they were.
In fact, I'd say I've been more pleasantly surprised than horrified |
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"I'm proud of my age so I tell the truth happily.
what about your butthole that you wanted to bleach lol
It's on my profile for you to wank over at your leisure
I don't swing that way, just remember your thread about it
It's ok dude, I'm flattered and have no problem with you obsessing about my bum hole. I'm just sorry I'm not gay or I'd let you lick it "
keep dreaming Mr Muscle...you tried bleaching it with that btw |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm proud of my age so I tell the truth happily.
what about your butthole that you wanted to bleach lol
It's on my profile for you to wank over at your leisure
I don't swing that way, just remember your thread about it
It's ok dude, I'm flattered and have no problem with you obsessing about my bum hole. I'm just sorry I'm not gay or I'd let you lick it
keep dreaming Mr Muscle...you tried bleaching it with that btw "
Brilliant! Your so funny and witty I might just let you give it a little rim after all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no problem with my age as at the moment i dont look like it .... I dont see the problem with peoples age as presumably you have seen his/her picture and have decided if you want to pursue things further.
Its not like this is a dating site more a fantasy site lol |
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"I'm proud of my age so I tell the truth happily.
what about your butthole that you wanted to bleach lol
It's on my profile for you to wank over at your leisure
I don't swing that way, just remember your thread about it
It's ok dude, I'm flattered and have no problem with you obsessing about my bum hole. I'm just sorry I'm not gay or I'd let you lick it
keep dreaming Mr Muscle...you tried bleaching it with that btw
Brilliant! Your so funny and witty I might just let you give it a little rim after all "
Oh just get a room you two..! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm 39, don't see the point in lying.
Older I get, less I care (though having a bit of an 'oh my, I'm nearly 40' thing at the moment)
Im totally with you... somehow I'm nearly 40???
When did that happen?
I know! Bastard time theives "
It happened to me a few months back. It's not that bad. Honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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44 and proud
My birthday on here is also the correct day
It's the female profiles on here and then the same one on POF but 8years older that I find amusing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some are loosing whole decades on here.
It's really quite strange when you meet in person cause in your head you're thinking fook you've had a rough time of it or seriously? 37 about 10yrs ago
I think men are as bad as women in lying about age.
I'm too old for a lot of age filters on profiles now. Think I'll change it to 37 again |
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"Some are loosing whole decades on here.
It's really quite strange when you meet in person cause in your head you're thinking fook you've had a rough time of it or seriously? 37 about 10yrs ago
I think men are as bad as women in lying about age.
I'm too old for a lot of age filters on profiles now. Think I'll change it to 37 again "
I know a guy who had his 10 years younger. To be fair for the first year I knew him he could totally get away with it. When he hit 50 he had, let's say deteriorated and showing more his true age. I noticed one day he'd changed his fab age...to 37! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most women on here want younger guys, so I'm guessing some of the older guys change their age so they are allowed to message then, or appear in others age range search results. "
Disagree with the "most" part of your post. Sure some do but just as many prefer older.
I'm 48 and I look it so no point fibbing. The last three ladies I've met through here have been 31, 25, and 30 in reverse order. Most I've met (over the last 5/6 years...including previous profile) have been younger than me.
Horses for courses.....just being honest about it and aiming for your "market" seems to work best! |
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I find the age filters annoying..
If someone has their age filter set to 44, I cannot message them..
I don't think I look any older now I'm 45 then when I was 44 and I know I look far younger than most of my mates of the same age.. (no paper Round in Nam for me..Dagnam was too far away to deliver papers in..)
Maybe if the filters allowed a little leeway, say +-5 years people might be less inclined to lie about their age.
I really would not be fussed if someone I found attractive outside of my desired range contacted me, after all, age is just a number.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am slightly younger on here than in reality but that's because our profile was apparently obvious so somebody we know, so changed area and my age. I do tell people how old i am if it comes up. I would say i look the age I've stated so people are not gonna have the 1664 experience from me x |
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It never occurred to me to lie about my age, but I have been told by a lot that I don't look it. One guy I met confessed he'd lied about his age and was actually 5 years older and then asked me how old i really was! When I said 57, he laughed and said but I thought you were 45! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's so easy to fake shit online, my policy has been to just believe whatever you choose to tell me - and if you lied, it's on you.
I don't care if you're full of shit.
You just better look like your pics. |
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I don't mind people lying about their age, as long as it's not too much. A year or two is fine. Met someone a few years ago who said he was 36. When I met him, he was clearly about 50. I literally just walked off. So much older than his picture suggested. He's still on here... And still has the age of 36! Haha. Some just hope the other person may think 'well we're both here, may as well shag then'... Ummm nope! .
I don't lie about my age. I personally don't see the point. If someone is looking for younger than me, I'd rather not pretend to be that age, in order to meet them. I'd prefer to meet someone who's happy to meet a 39 year old . |
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By *ad-GirlWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok I'm told I look younger than I am but it's hard to believe the % of people who are obviously lieing about thier age compared to there photos.
The odd one or 2 I can understand but I get at least 10 a week that look significantly older than they put on their profile....
Thoughts.....
(Sorry of spelling is off #dyslexic)"
My first though its "They are not being honest"
Second though is "what else are they lying about"
Finally the word avoid pops into my mind and thats what I do. |
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"I can appreciate some people will bend the truth slightly and others will blatantly lie..
I turned 45 this year and at that point dropped off the radar of some on here, likewise reaching 40 or 50... It's that whole skip counting thing, rounding to whole and half figures..
And of course it is so easy to lie, there are no checks to validate the information you say about yourself..
If someone does lie about their age, what difference does it make if you find them attractive anyway.. If it's a vanity thing then why not indulge and allow them their foible..
but lying about their age would probably stop me being attracted...find it really pathetic somehow.."
Yes yes and yes ^^^ this is exactly what I mean |
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"Ok I'm told I look younger than I am but it's hard to believe the % of people who are obviously lieing about thier age compared to there photos.
The odd one or 2 I can understand but I get at least 10 a week that look significantly older than they put on their profile....
Thoughts.....
(Sorry of spelling is off #dyslexic)
My first though its "They are not being honest"
Second though is "what else are they lying about"
Finally the word avoid pops into my mind and thats what I do. "
Exactly. It's a bit manipulating to think they are only lieing about their age because I'm said I'm not into guys older or younger than X.
You take the choice away from the person just to get a foot in instead of being honest about it.
So what else would you lie about to get in my pants... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tbh age means fuck all to me.
I'm 35, have 4 children and still get asked for ID. WHICH suggests in the real world I don't look as old as I God damn feel!
When meeting younger guys this can work as an advantage, however I LOVE older men and really struggle in the vanilla world to have any kind of relationship with my type because I look younger than I am |
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My fab age is my real age, I'm an honest person and I'd rather meet someone who was honest with me.
If they can't do it about their age, what else will they lie about? |
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I had a really lengthly messsage today about the "mistake" on my profile because it says 51. Made me smile. But im happy and confident and what if im outside some filters. Plenty are outside mine.
Never met anyone whose lied about their age or if they have theyve gotten aeay with it |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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I look old compared to some, young compared to others.
I see no point in changing the number of years I've been learning about life.
Yes I am aware I fall outside many profile age range, but it is about choices. |
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I know one guy on here has shaved 17 years of his age.
I met him years ago for a social and he was older than me. Anyway he rejoined and messaged me and i clocked his age on his profile and it said 40 when i asked him about it he said he was 57 and he doesnt even look a young 57 |
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