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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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this is to all ladies, single, or in a couple, if a hot guy came up to you in a pub and chatted you up ... would you be highly offended or would you be flattered? Or would you only be flattered if he was in a couple? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"lol, you have lost me. Are you asking if a fit guy chatted me up if i would be offended? If so no i wouldnt"
Okay, I'll re-word it. If a guy chatted you up in a pub would you take offence?
So yeah Diamond, that was what I was asking lol and ty for reply xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would be very flattered. You saying i cant pull hot guys doh "
I'm not saying that. I personally hate the word pulling, but hey ho each to their own. I'll say what I'm saying at some point. If I can be arsed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes!!
You a lady now bertie? lol
I was answering the question you asked me...was that difficult to understand?"
I posted the questions to ladies or ladies in a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes!!
You a lady now bertie? lol
I was answering the question you asked me...was that difficult to understand?
I posted the questions to ladies or ladies in a couple."
Oh dear! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes!!
You a lady now bertie? lol
I was answering the question you asked me...was that difficult to understand?
I posted the questions to ladies or ladies in a couple.
Oh dear!"
Why oh dear? Sometimes you can butt out, its cool ya know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure YOU get to decide who posts on threads...perhaps I'm wrong."
Are you taking the piss mate? I asked a question, ffs get a grip, it was a genuine question, you tried to be smart, you didn't succeed. Get over it. |
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Now now children... 
Princess... did someone get offended after being chatted up? What's the context... was he a dwarf with a humpback?!*
*disclaimer... no offence to any dwarves or people with humps! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now now children...
Princess... did someone get offended after being chatted up? What's the context... was he a dwarf with a humpback?!*
*disclaimer... no offence to any dwarves or people with humps! "
No _irtygirl, it's a genuine question. Everyone is over analysing. Just go with the question  |
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No _irtygirl, it's a genuine question. Everyone is over analysing. Just go with the question "
In that case, I don't really understand it. Why would someone ever be offended by being chatted up? Even if you weren't interested, surely it's flattering?
*scratches head* |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No _irtygirl, it's a genuine question. Everyone is over analysing. Just go with the question
In that case, I don't really understand it. Why would someone ever be offended by being chatted up? Even if you weren't interested, surely it's flattering?
*scratches head*"
Thank you 
For the record, I agree! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We can all post on anything. I asked a question that's all. A question that most people were thinking.Your question makes no sense...I asked you to explain...you don't want to that is fine...not a problem.
There is a guaranteed way to exclude people from posting on your threads...don't start one. If you do people will respond as they wish...I think that's how it works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok love "
I will.
Originally the male doing the pulling was in a couple while pulling pishes at a bar, now the male in the couple has had a quicky, but that would be expected as he pulled pishes in the bar.
It is well known that pishes will nibble on most meaty offerings, therefore simple to catch.
What I want to know is - did the quicky divorce happen before or after pishes got pulled ?
Could be wrong tho, bloody early mornings eh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok love
I will.
Originally the male doing the pulling was in a couple while pulling pishes at a bar, now the male in the couple has had a quicky, but that would be expected as he pulled pishes in the bar.
It is well known that pishes will nibble on most meaty offerings, therefore simple to catch.
What I want to know is - did the quicky divorce happen before or after pishes got pulled ?
Could be wrong tho, bloody early mornings eh."
I re-posed the question after that. I couldn't give two hoots if people post on my threads. My point was and has been verified, that women would not be offended if a guy chatted them up in a pub. Quite simply put, why are they so fukin annoyed if a guy chats them up on here.
I'm not looking for a long winded debate. The point was made.
Cheers x |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok love
I will.
Originally the male doing the pulling was in a couple while pulling pishes at a bar, now the male in the couple has had a quicky, but that would be expected as he pulled pishes in the bar.
It is well known that pishes will nibble on most meaty offerings, therefore simple to catch.
What I want to know is - did the quicky divorce happen before or after pishes got pulled ?
Could be wrong tho, bloody early mornings eh.
I re-posed the question after that. I couldn't give two hoots if people post on my threads. My point was and has been verified, that women would not be offended if a guy chatted them up in a pub. Quite simply put, why are they so fukin annoyed if a guy chats them up on here.
I'm not looking for a long winded debate. The point was made.
Cheers x"
I wouldn't be offended in the slightest, if my partner was with me or not. xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok love
I will.
Originally the male doing the pulling was in a couple while pulling pishes at a bar, now the male in the couple has had a quicky, but that would be expected as he pulled pishes in the bar.
It is well known that pishes will nibble on most meaty offerings, therefore simple to catch.
What I want to know is - did the quicky divorce happen before or after pishes got pulled ?
Could be wrong tho, bloody early mornings eh."
No clue what your intentions with that post were but I'll not lose any sleep over it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"would depend on the guy and if I found him attractive or not!!"
but would you be flattered if he found you attractive enough to chat up? Question isn't would you shag him ... would you be offended that he found you attractive enough to chat you up? |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"would depend on the guy and if I found him attractive or not!!
but would you be flattered if he found you attractive enough to chat up? Question isn't would you shag him ... would you be offended that he found you attractive enough to chat you up?"
no, I wouldn't be offended at that. Hell if any of us were offended at getting chatting us up then we would all be born again virgins.
It's how the chatting up takes shape and what is said that mattters surely
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"would depend on the guy and if I found him attractive or not!!
but would you be flattered if he found you attractive enough to chat up? Question isn't would you shag him ... would you be offended that he found you attractive enough to chat you up?
no, I wouldn't be offended at that. Hell if any of us were offended at getting chatting us up then we would all be born again virgins.
It's how the chatting up takes shape and what is said that mattters surely
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ty x |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"would depend on the guy and if I found him attractive or not!!
but would you be flattered if he found you attractive enough to chat up? Question isn't would you shag him ... would you be offended that he found you attractive enough to chat you up?
no, I wouldn't be offended at that. Hell if any of us were offended at getting chatting us up then we would all be born again virgins.
It's how the chatting up takes shape and what is said that mattters surely
ty x"
yw, now this virin is off to bed herself again - speak to you all tomorrow. Have a good night xxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a hot guy that was in a couple tried to chat me up in a pub I would wonder just how d*unk/brave he was doing that with his partner around
If a hot single guy tried to chat me up in a pub then I would be flattered
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now now children...
Princess... did someone get offended after being chatted up? What's the context... was he a dwarf with a humpback?!*
*disclaimer... no offence to any dwarves or people with humps!
No _irtygirl, it's a genuine question. Everyone is over analysing. Just go with the question "
It's not a question of over analysis: your question is poorly worded and those of us with a nodding understanding of the English languge are somewhat confused!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Now now children...
Princess... did someone get offended after being chatted up? What's the context... was he a dwarf with a humpback?!*
*disclaimer... no offence to any dwarves or people with humps!
No _irtygirl, it's a genuine question. Everyone is over analysing. Just go with the question
It's not a question of over analysis: your question is poorly worded and those of us with a nodding understanding of the English languge are somewhat confused!
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Well others understood it, it would seem. Still unsure why you latch onto the whether the question was or was not badly worded. I wasn't aware this was an English class. In the future I'll remember I'm being graded on my "grasp of the English language". And yes, language, not languge. If you're going to pull someone up on their English, perhaps you should make sure you spell correctly when doing so.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought the question was a tad silly why would anyone be offended if some hottie chatted you up in a pub. It would make my day. Put a smile on my face that would. Would I shag him probably not, maybe stranger things have happened lol |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!
I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...
The next question was likely to be (given that most would probably say they wouldn't be offended) If it is OK to be chatted up in a pub, then why do women on here get so upset by guys chatting them up on here?
Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never get upset being chatted up I find it a compliment. Even if I don't like the person.
If a woman was to say she got offended by it then she's got her ass so far up her own ass and thinks she too special to be chatted up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!
I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...
The next question was likely to be (given that most would probably say they wouldn't be offended) If it is OK to be chatted up in a pub, then why do women on here get so upset by guys chatting them up on here?
Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...
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Don't put youself down...it's not beyond you. You have done exactly what you say is beyond you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never get upset being chatted up I find it a compliment. Even if I don't like the person.
If a woman was to say she got offended by it then she's got her ass so far up her own ass and thinks she too special to be chatted up "
Would have to disagree there. I was chatted up in my kitchen by the "Yardie" bloke that delivered my Tesco shopping. I didn't feel flattered that he was leaning against my cupboards, looking around my kitchen, asking me if I was single - even though my order states "Mrs" and offering me his mobile number - all within 30 seconds of walking through my front door!  |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!
I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...
The next question was likely to be (given that most would probably say they wouldn't be offended) If it is OK to be chatted up in a pub, then why do women on here get so upset by guys chatting them up on here?
Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...
Don't put youself down...it's not beyond you. You have done exactly what you say is beyond you!"
And that reply only goes to reinforce my thoughts on the person you are!
I still do not understand why you and people like you have to pull things apart! And if you read it again, that is what I said was beyond me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!
I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...
The next question was likely to be (given that most would probably say they wouldn't be offended) If it is OK to be chatted up in a pub, then why do women on here get so upset by guys chatting them up on here?
Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...
Don't put youself down...it's not beyond you. You have done exactly what you say is beyond you!
And that reply only goes to reinforce my thoughts on the person you are!
I still do not understand why you and people like you have to pull things apart! And if you read it again, that is what I said was beyond me!"
Well of course it does! |
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"Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!
I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...
The next question was likely to be (given that most would probably say they wouldn't be offended) If it is OK to be chatted up in a pub, then why do women on here get so upset by guys chatting them up on here?
Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...
Don't put youself down...it's not beyond you. You have done exactly what you say is beyond you!
And that reply only goes to reinforce my thoughts on the person you are!
I still do not understand why you and people like you have to pull things apart! And if you read it again, that is what I said was beyond me!"
just ignore him (see my narky thread ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why people feel the need to pull posts apart just because they either don't like them or they are not clever enough to understand them is beyond me!
I can see what the OP is trying to get at and I think it is a very valid question! If you were in a pub (or anywhere?) and were chatted up by someone, would you be flattered or offended...
The next question was likely to be (given that most would probably say they wouldn't be offended) If it is OK to be chatted up in a pub, then why do women on here get so upset by guys chatting them up on here?
Perhaps some people on here need to get out a little more instead of being keyboard warriors...
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Thank you. And yes, that was the point I was trying to make. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this is to all ladies, single, or in a couple, if a hot guy came up to you in a pub and chatted you up ... would you be highly offended or would you be flattered? Or would you only be flattered if he was in a couple?"
single or not i would be flattered |
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i had a guy wait till i moved away from my husband the other day shopin in tescos come up to me ask me for my number lol
was flattered if only he knew we were swingers he wouldnt have had to wait till hubby moved  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this is to all ladies, single, or in a couple, if a hot guy came up to you in a pub and chatted you up ... would you be highly offended or would you be flattered? Or would you only be flattered if he was in a couple?"
So I guess we shouldn't be going up to you to chat you up if we see you in a pub...............
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this is to all ladies, single, or in a couple, if a hot guy came up to you in a pub and chatted you up ... would you be highly offended or would you be flattered? Or would you only be flattered if he was in a couple?
So I guess we shouldn't be going up to you to chat you up if we see you in a pub...............
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not if you are going to make her cry! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this is to all ladies, single, or in a couple, if a hot guy came up to you in a pub and chatted you up ... would you be highly offended or would you be flattered? Or would you only be flattered if he was in a couple?
So I guess we shouldn't be going up to you to chat you up if we see you in a pub...............
not if you are going to make her cry!"
Ah, I only ever make the girls cry when I leave
I nick all the booze......... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"this is to all ladies, single, or in a couple, if a hot guy came up to you in a pub and chatted you up ... would you be highly offended or would you be flattered? Or would you only be flattered if he was in a couple?
So I guess we shouldn't be going up to you to chat you up if we see you in a pub...............
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Eh? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"this is to all ladies, single, or in a couple, if a hot guy came up to you in a pub and chatted you up ... would you be highly offended or would you be flattered? Or would you only be flattered if he was in a couple?
So I guess we shouldn't be going up to you to chat you up if we see you in a pub...............
not if you are going to make her cry!
Ah, I only ever make the girls cry when I leave
I nick all the booze........."
You'd be heck of a brave to nick my booze |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would be flattered if a hot guy came up to me in a pub and chatted me up.
The second part of your question - would I only be flattered if he was in a couple - no I wouldnt be flattered if he was in a couple I would think cheeky bastard.
I wouldnt be flattered if a common chavvy type bloke, pissed up, staggered over to me and said, you're gorgeous love, fancy going outside - I would say go fuck yourself you idiot |
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