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What Is The Point Of Soft Swap?
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"Is it just me or does anyone else don't understand this thing called Soft Swap. Hey.., I'm all for "Each To Their Own", but I can't help seeing it as anything other than a cock tease.., And if I wanted anything doing with a cock tease, I'll carry on flirting with our new receptionist at work "between 2 couples, why is that cock teasing... | |||
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"Is it just me or does anyone else don't understand this thing called Soft Swap. Hey.., I'm all for "Each To Their Own", but I can't help seeing it as anything other than a cock tease.., And if I wanted anything doing with a cock tease, I'll carry on flirting with our new receptionist at work "If you're all for 'each to their own' then why even ask the question? | |||
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"Simple answer - It's something that those that are into it find fun for them! "yep, simples, we are all on here for the same reason, pleasure and you take your pleasure as you like your pleasure. | |||
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"Soft Swing: Soft Swing is when there is playing around but not full penetrative sex with others. Often, in a couples situation, the women will have sex with each other with the men watching and then the couples will have sex with their own partners. Both full swing & soft swing is fine with us * creeps round graveyard *" Thanks, that was the other one I had read about........but having been offered a no touching other than your own partner as soft swop in our inbox ...then I assume people have different definitions. | |||
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First time i've ever heard a man comparing a blowjob to flirting mind  | |||
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"Is it just me or does anyone else don't understand this thing called Soft Swap. " I*t's just you  | |||
"Is it just me or does anyone else don't understand this thing called Soft Swap. I*t's just you "yep its just him | |||
"Is it just me or does anyone else don't understand this thing called Soft Swap. Hey.., I'm all for "Each To Their Own", but I can't help seeing it as anything other than a cock tease.., And if I wanted anything doing with a cock tease, I'll carry on flirting with our new receptionist at work "Why should, or does it, bother you so much when you are a single man and you don't have anyone to 'soft swap' with? People looking for soft swap will invariably be couples who get off watching their partners do things with other SIMILARLY LIKE MINDED PEOPLE and then swap back to their own partner for intercourse. It's not even an issue, it's simply how some people like to play and as a single guy it shouldn't have any bearing whatsoever on your swinging life. So why bleat on about it? | |||
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"Is it just me or does anyone else don't understand this thing called Soft Swap. Hey.., I'm all for "Each To Their Own", but I can't help seeing it as anything other than a cock tease.., And if I wanted anything doing with a cock tease, I'll carry on flirting with our new receptionist at work "careful fella , companies have these days there own take on 'flirting' its called the sack for gross misconduct ! | |||
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"for someone who says on thier profile that thier time on here is limited and you wont waste it on pointless......blah blah blah what is the point of this thread? " Ain't some people really touchy bagman_n_angel .., as you've been kind enough to look through my profile, you may recall that making a forum post on any topic that I like, with no obligation for any other member of this site to reply to such a post, wasn't one of the things I classed as a time wasting pointless exercise.
The definitions of many swinging terms are very varied. Even the term "swinging" doesn't have a common definition, never mind soft swap.
I am writing as a single male and this informs my take on this. After reading the responses to this post so far, it appears most of you aren't aware that there are couples who approach single guys for soft swap/play, where they expect some kissing, touching, nipple play, maybe a bit of oral.., but no penetrative sex. When things come to a head, they expect the guy to sit back and watch them have sex. The couple clearly gets a kick from all this, which I can understand, but I struggle to see what possible fun a single male can have with this. That is why I've likened it to a cock tease.
And I'm frankly quite puzzled with some of you that are being quite confrontational about this while speaking up for soft swapping. I really meant it when I said "each to their own", but that doesn't mean that I can't for example, have a conversation around homosexuality because I'm straight.., or ask a vegetarian how come they can't understand the pleasure one can have from a nicely cooked juicy steak.
They can of course be very simplistic about it all and say, I'm a vegan because I don't eat meat or I'm gay because I only fancy people of the same sex as me.., which will of course be a valid response. But that I think will be a shame because they haven't advanced the conversation and they will have been better off not getting involved in it at all.
So guys, lets all take a chill pill. If soft swapping is your thing, please carry on by all means, and if you feel offended by my post, then please walk on by and don't contribute. | |||
"for someone who says on thier profile that thier time on here is limited and you wont waste it on pointless......blah blah blah what is the point of this thread? Ain't some people really touchy bagman_n_angel .., as you've been kind enough to look through my profile, you may recall that making a forum post on any topic that I like, with no obligation for any other member of this site to reply to such a post, wasn't one of the things I classed as a time wasting pointless exercise.
The definitions of many swinging terms are very varied. Even the term "swinging" doesn't have a common definition, never mind soft swap.
I am writing as a single male and this informs my take on this. After reading the responses to this post so far, it appears most of you aren't aware that there are couples who approach single guys for soft swap/play, where they expect some kissing, touching, nipple play, maybe a bit of oral.., but no penetrative sex. When things come to a head, they expect the guy to sit back and watch them have sex. The couple clearly gets a kick from all this, which I can understand, but I struggle to see what possible fun a single male can have with this. That is why I've likened it to a cock tease.
And I'm frankly quite puzzled with some of you that are being quite confrontational about this while speaking up for soft swapping. I really meant it when I said "each to their own", but that doesn't mean that I can't for example, have a conversation around homosexuality because I'm straight.., or ask a vegetarian how come they can't understand the pleasure one can have from a nicely cooked juicy steak.
They can of course be very simplistic about it all and say, I'm a vegan because I don't eat meat or I'm gay because I only fancy people of the same sex as me.., which will of course be a valid response. But that I think will be a shame because they haven't advanced the conversation and they will have been better off not getting involved in it at all.
So guys, lets all take a chill pill. If soft swapping is your thing, please carry on by all means, and if you feel offended by my post, then please walk on by and don't contribute."Now that's irony! Someone being touchy about someone else supposedly being touchy! Nowt like throwing a tizzy. You asked a question dont throw your toys out when people reply to it as you look a bit silly. | |||
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"So guys, lets all take a chill pill. If soft swapping is your thing, please carry on by all means, and if you feel offended by my post, then please walk on by and don't contribute." You invited comments both for and against soft swing when you posted it on an open forum. It is the very nature of debate to hear opposing sides of a given topic and to attempt to suppress one particular _iew because it doesn't coincide with your own is a form of fascism. It wasn't that you posted your _iews against soft swing but the manner in which you addressed it. You belittled those who do prefer swinging without full penetrative sex and maybe, by your own definition, if soft swing isn't for you perhaps you should have 'walked on by' and not started a thread on the subject. | |||
"What is the point of anything?" to deep for fab me thinks | |||
"In defence of the OP..he is a GREAT F**k.. "im sure he is and prob a very nice guy, but thats not really the point here | |||
"In defence of the OP..he is a GREAT F**k..
im sure he is and prob a very nice guy, but thats not really the point here"And by the admission above, he's absolutely pointless to couples who only soft swing. | |||
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"What is the point of anything?" Perharps that should have been my question, based on some of the responses to this post lol On a serious note, I'm willing to admit that my question could have been framed better, but some of the responses were getting personal, and my question wasn't, neither was my second post on this thread. I am quite happy for people to have a different point of _iew from mine and a few people have expressed those _iews on this thread without getting personal about it. And I'm sure some may not have noticed amongst everything else, but a few of the responses have actually addressed the Subject Of The Post, and in quite some detail as well. | |||
"for someone who says on thier profile that thier time on here is limited and you wont waste it on pointless......blah blah blah what is the point of this thread? Ain't some people really touchy bagman_n_angel .., as you've been kind enough to look through my profile, you may recall that making a forum post on any topic that I like, with no obligation for any other member of this site to reply to such a post, wasn't one of the things I classed as a time wasting pointless exercise.
The definitions of many swinging terms are very varied. Even the term "swinging" doesn't have a common definition, never mind soft swap.
I am writing as a single male and this informs my take on this. After reading the responses to this post so far, it appears most of you aren't aware that there are couples who approach single guys for soft swap/play, where they expect some kissing, touching, nipple play, maybe a bit of oral.., but no penetrative sex. When things come to a head, they expect the guy to sit back and watch them have sex. The couple clearly gets a kick from all this, which I can understand, but I struggle to see what possible fun a single male can have with this. That is why I've likened it to a cock tease.
And I'm frankly quite puzzled with some of you that are being quite confrontational about this while speaking up for soft swapping. I really meant it when I said "each to their own", but that doesn't mean that I can't for example, have a conversation around homosexuality because I'm straight.., or ask a vegetarian how come they can't understand the pleasure one can have from a nicely cooked juicy steak.
They can of course be very simplistic about it all and say, I'm a vegan because I don't eat meat or I'm gay because I only fancy people of the same sex as me.., which will of course be a valid response. But that I think will be a shame because they haven't advanced the conversation and they will have been better off not getting involved in it at all.
So guys, lets all take a chill pill. If soft swapping is your thing, please carry on by all means, and if you feel offended by my post, then please walk on by and don't contribute."We r soft swingers ( everything apart from penatration with a cock ) maybe you should ask some of the single guys on our verifications why they met us to be teased? I can see your point, after all who would want to meet a couple and have their body touched by fingers / mouth / boobs / kissing /massage. I mean what single guy would want to spend time naked whilst in the company of a beautifull woman and seeing the pleasure on her face as u use your imagination to make her body tingle? Surely its better to turn up with a hard on to save all the teasing. Then no small talk / walk in / cock in / shoot your load ( after all thats the most important thing to you ) / say thanks then leave x Guess thats real swinging eh x | |||
"Is it just me or does anyone else don't understand this thing called Soft Swap. Hey.., I'm all for "Each To Their Own", but I can't help seeing it as anything other than a cock tease.., And if I wanted anything doing with a cock tease, I'll carry on flirting with our new receptionist at work "think you need a dating site not a swingers one! | |||
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"So, OP.... There you are at a club and you pick up a fantastic looking girl. You start to get all jiggy with her and she points out that as she doesn't know you sex is off the menu, but light foreplay is OK... Do you tell her to fuck off cos she is a cock tease?? Just askin" yeah unless she has a strap on on lol | |||
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"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. " On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all  | |||
"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all "Au contraire... it is more often quite the opposite. | |||
"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all "I have to disagree with this re the guy having all the fun as I have always had a lot of fun in a soft swing scenario,it's very sensual and erotic! Z | |||
"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all
I have to disagree with this re the guy having all the fun as I have always had a lot of fun in a soft swing scenario,it's very sensual and erotic! Z"Well thats the thing see, at this moment in time, i cannot see it being fun or erotic for a woman 
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"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all
I have to disagree with this re the guy having all the fun as I have always had a lot of fun in a soft swing scenario,it's very sensual and erotic! Z
Well thats the thing see, at this moment in time, i cannot see it being fun or erotic for a woman
confused.com "So, you can't imagine being touched, stroked, nibbled or licked etc etc etc? Crikey, that's a shame. Z | |||
"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all
I have to disagree with this re the guy having all the fun as I have always had a lot of fun in a soft swing scenario,it's very sensual and erotic! Z
Well thats the thing see, at this moment in time, i cannot see it being fun or erotic for a woman
confused.com "Please refer to my original comment | |||
"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all
I have to disagree with this re the guy having all the fun as I have always had a lot of fun in a soft swing scenario,it's very sensual and erotic! Z
Well thats the thing see, at this moment in time, i cannot see it being fun or erotic for a woman
confused.com
So, you can't imagine being touched, stroked, nibbled or licked etc etc etc? Crikey, that's a shame. Z"Of course and its part of a good sex session but surely after all that, no pentration? I just think that once one has done all the exploration of each others bodies, the natural course to follow is to penetrate, just feels like teasing - i can expect to go away unsatisfied from playing at a club but not from a meet?? Its no good i give up, i cannot see the point in havin a main course without dessert | |||
"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all
I have to disagree with this re the guy having all the fun as I have always had a lot of fun in a soft swing scenario,it's very sensual and erotic! Z
Well thats the thing see, at this moment in time, i cannot see it being fun or erotic for a woman
confused.com
So, you can't imagine being touched, stroked, nibbled or licked etc etc etc? Crikey, that's a shame. Z
Of course and its part of a good sex session but surely after all that, no pentration? I just think that once one has done all the exploration of each others bodies, the natural course to follow is to penetrate, just feels like teasing - i can expect to go away unsatisfied from playing at a club but not from a meet??
Its no good i give up, i cannot see the point in havin a main course without dessert "Hellooooo!!!! We do have penetrative sex - with our own partners! We also love full swap so we get the best of both worlds! Z | |||
"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all
I have to disagree with this re the guy having all the fun as I have always had a lot of fun in a soft swing scenario,it's very sensual and erotic! Z
Well thats the thing see, at this moment in time, i cannot see it being fun or erotic for a woman
confused.com
Please refer to my original comment "Sorry but im still struggling to comprehend the point, will have to try it and let you know, for now ive taken it off my profile | |||
"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all
I have to disagree with this re the guy having all the fun as I have always had a lot of fun in a soft swing scenario,it's very sensual and erotic! Z
Well thats the thing see, at this moment in time, i cannot see it being fun or erotic for a woman
confused.com
So, you can't imagine being touched, stroked, nibbled or licked etc etc etc? Crikey, that's a shame. Z
Of course and its part of a good sex session but surely after all that, no pentration? I just think that once one has done all the exploration of each others bodies, the natural course to follow is to penetrate, just feels like teasing - i can expect to go away unsatisfied from playing at a club but not from a meet??
Its no good i give up, i cannot see the point in havin a main course without dessert
Hellooooo!!!! We do have penetrative sex - with our own partners! We also love full swap so we get the best of both worlds! Z"Guess its just a couples thing then? | |||
"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all
I have to disagree with this re the guy having all the fun as I have always had a lot of fun in a soft swing scenario,it's very sensual and erotic! Z
Well thats the thing see, at this moment in time, i cannot see it being fun or erotic for a woman
confused.com
Please refer to my original comment
Sorry but im still struggling to comprehend the point, ...."I rest my case | |||
"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all
I have to disagree with this re the guy having all the fun as I have always had a lot of fun in a soft swing scenario,it's very sensual and erotic! Z
Well thats the thing see, at this moment in time, i cannot see it being fun or erotic for a woman
confused.com
Please refer to my original comment
Sorry but im still struggling to comprehend the point, ....
I rest my case "lol - and I've lost the will to live! Z | |||
"In my experience it is the less creative with limited imagination who cannot see a number of situations where soft swap/swing can be intensely gratifying, providing satisfaction on a different level to plain ol’ bonking. On the other hand, i also see no point in soft swing, nothing to do with being less creative, its to do with having been on my own for over 10 yrs after my kids dad and i split so for me, i want not only to make up for lost time but learn more too, just at this moment in time, and for a change, ive read all the comments before commenting, it just seems that soft swing is all about pleasure for a guy and not for a woman at all
I have to disagree with this re the guy having all the fun as I have always had a lot of fun in a soft swing scenario,it's very sensual and erotic! Z
Well thats the thing see, at this moment in time, i cannot see it being fun or erotic for a woman
confused.com
Please refer to my original comment
Sorry but im still struggling to comprehend the point, ....
I rest my case "Me too i will try it and let you know | |||
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" My conclusion therefore based on the above, the search on soft swing on Fab’s forums and comments made on here are that, it is really only for couples and voyeurs, it is something enjoyed at clubs as one does not always get the chance to sit on someone’s cock. I don’t think it is particularly something for me as I would find it uncomfortable playing with a couple in their home, then being left to sit and watch whilst he shags her senseless, totally pointless as my problem is that I cannot come by clit play at all, indeed I’ve only been coming with finger/cock play since I’ve been swinging. With that in mind I agree with the comment above that it would just be frustrating (and a tease), would rather stay home and play with my rabbit. " And your conclusion shows the limits of your imagination, as you only refer to one scenario which you feel could involve you. Why is it going to visit only one couple? … what about 6 couples, all giving their attention to you…. what about 6 guys and a bag of toys, ALL giving their attention to you. The “what abouts” are almost endless… only limited by the mind they are created in. | |||
" My conclusion therefore based on the above, the search on soft swing on Fab’s forums and comments made on here are that, it is really only for couples and voyeurs, it is something enjoyed at clubs as one does not always get the chance to sit on someone’s cock. I don’t think it is particularly something for me as I would find it uncomfortable playing with a couple in their home, then being left to sit and watch whilst he shags her senseless, totally pointless as my problem is that I cannot come by clit play at all, indeed I’ve only been coming with finger/cock play since I’ve been swinging. With that in mind I agree with the comment above that it would just be frustrating (and a tease), would rather stay home and play with my rabbit. And your conclusion shows the limits of your imagination, as you only refer to one scenario which you feel could involve you. Why is it going to visit only one couple? … what about 6 couples, all giving their attention to you…. what about 6 guys and a bag of toys, ALL giving their attention to you. The “what abouts” are almost endless… only limited by the mind they are created in. " Yes I admit my imagination is poor, it always has been and i cant help that. Kind of reminds me of the big round room from what ive seen on occasions, stories i have heard too | |||
"I'm not going to quote as it's too long! I agree that a single lady probably wouldn't go along to meet a soft swap couple if she is unable to come by oral stimulation alone. However, we have only ever soft played with couples and have never been left unfulfilled as I have always had several orgasms and usually had penetrative sex with Steve as the others were with each other. We would never, ever in a million years leave ANYONE just sitting and watchig us get our rocks off if that wasn't satisfactory for them, for God's sake what kind of monsters would do that?!?!? I think that just becaus people don't understand something they can't be in a position to say it's not good - lots of people like soft swing so we must be doing something right! It may just be a couple thing, obviously the right dynamics need to be there and all need to be included all the time but I also know of a few couples who only soft swap and also meet single guys. If the guy knows the score and goes along to play, he either genuinely enjoys it or goes along in thehopes that they'll realise how fantastic he is and change their whole ethos of swinging just for him! Either way, the chap can't complain after the fact. So, to sum up - lots of flirting, kissing, touching, licking, stroking is a lovley way to spend a divine couple of hours! Z" Your last line matches exactly what was said on some of the websites i visited too | |||
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" I agree that a good amount of the pleasure we can get from sex is linked to the mind. However I do not agree, as someone implied above, that those who don't soft swap or don't understand how they can get sexual pleasure from it are less creative or have a less imaginative mind. Our minds stretch to help us get the best of what we're interested in or what we're capable of. ..." That would be me then. And I stand by my comment. People dismiss so many things because they limit their imagination to one or two possible scenarios... usually ones they know they won't enjoy, if they are trying to prove that point. I don't believe for one minute if 4 or 5 naked babes offered to lay you down and spent an hour or so massaging you, licking your cock and balls, one wanking your cock as another's lips brush over the top, the next ready to wrap her ample breasts around your cock.... you'd say "sorry ladies... no poke, no bloke... I'm off" | |||
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" I don't believe for one minute if 4 or 5 naked babes offered to lay you down and spent an hour or so massaging you, licking your cock and balls, one wanking your cock as another's lips brush over the top, the next ready to wrap her ample breasts around your cock.... you'd say "sorry ladies... no poke, no bloke... I'm off"" Er.... actually yes would be out the door | |||
" I agree that a good amount of the pleasure we can get from sex is linked to the mind. However I do not agree, as someone implied above, that those who don't soft swap or don't understand how they can get sexual pleasure from it are less creative or have a less imaginative mind. Our minds stretch to help us get the best of what we're interested in or what we're capable of. ... That would be me then. And I stand by my comment. People dismiss so many things because they limit their imagination to one or two possible scenarios... usually ones they know they won't enjoy, if they are trying to prove that point. I don't believe for one minute if 4 or 5 naked babes offered to lay you down and spent an hour or so massaging you, licking your cock and balls, one wanking your cock as another's lips brush over the top, the next ready to wrap her ample breasts around your cock.... you'd say "sorry ladies... no poke, no bloke... I'm off"" You can have a lot of fun without a poke, i would stop | |||
" I don't believe for one minute if 4 or 5 naked babes offered to lay you down and spent an hour or so massaging you, licking your cock and balls, one wanking your cock as another's lips brush over the top, the next ready to wrap her ample breasts around your cock.... you'd say "sorry ladies... no poke, no bloke... I'm off" Er.... actually yes would be out the door " I wasn't saying that to you. lol | |||
" I don't believe for one minute if 4 or 5 naked babes offered to lay you down and spent an hour or so massaging you, licking your cock and balls, one wanking your cock as another's lips brush over the top, the next ready to wrap her ample breasts around your cock.... you'd say "sorry ladies... no poke, no bloke... I'm off" Er.... actually yes would be out the door I wasn't saying that to you. lol" love yer new ad polo http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u-6njVFEq2A | |||
"ALL pleasure we get is linked to the mind!You cannot detach the body from the brain." You can too detach the body from the brain - by the use of alcohol. | |||
"ALL pleasure we get is linked to the mind!You cannot detach the body from the brain. You can too detach the body from the brain - by the use of alcohol. " brain is a muscle and physical, mind is intangible, nobody really knows what it is. | |||
"ALL pleasure we get is linked to the mind!You cannot detach the body from the brain. You can too detach the body from the brain - by the use of alcohol. " | |||
" I don't believe for one minute if 4 or 5 naked babes offered to lay you down and spent an hour or so massaging you, licking your cock and balls, one wanking your cock as another's lips brush over the top, the next ready to wrap her ample breasts around your cock.... you'd say "sorry ladies... no poke, no bloke... I'm off" Er.... actually yes would be out the door I wasn't saying that to you. lol" I don't understand. Why weren't you saying that to them? You were referring to people who don't get soft swap weren't you? So why exclude them from you less imaginative/creative mind statement. They are a couple, they don't get soft swap and don't do soft swap and they've said it clearly in bold letters in their profile. Please correct me if I'm wrong.., are you saying that your statement only applies to single guys? It is okay for couples not to see the fun in soft swap but not single guys? Going back to your scenario, if it is not going to eventually lead to some hip thrusting on my part, then as tempting as it may be, I'm not having any 4 or 5 naked babes do anything to me. | |||
" I don't believe for one minute if 4 or 5 naked babes offered to lay you down and spent an hour or so massaging you, licking your cock and balls, one wanking your cock as another's lips brush over the top, the next ready to wrap her ample breasts around your cock.... you'd say "sorry ladies... no poke, no bloke... I'm off" Er.... actually yes would be out the door I wasn't saying that to you. lol I don't understand. Why weren't you saying that to them? You were referring to people who don't get soft swap weren't you? So why exclude them from you less imaginative/creative mind statement. They are a couple, they don't get soft swap and don't do soft swap and they've said it clearly in bold letters in their profile. Please correct me if I'm wrong.., are you saying that your statement only applies to single guys? It is okay for couples not to see the fun in soft swap but not single guys? Going back to your scenario, if it is not going to eventually lead to some hip thrusting on my part, then as tempting as it may be, I'm not having any 4 or 5 naked babes do anything to me." There is much you don't understand (by your own admission) It is very simple... I would have tailored the example to be more suiting to a couple if it was aimed at a couple. If the human race dismissed everything it didn’t understand… we’d be sitting around some burning twigs on our flat world. It’s OK to not understand something. It’s OK to have not yet imagined how something may work in a certain situation for you because of not understanding it. It's even OK to understand something and decide it really doesn't work enough for you. But to dismiss it totally before even understanding it, label it as something it is not and refuse to let your imagination create possibilities… hmmmm. | |||
