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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

hi im a bbw and tend to get alot and i mean alot of men emailing me and as soon as i tell them im a bbw they dont want to know, can these men read my profile states im a bbw ffs.

question is do bbw ladies turn u on or off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met a bbw, and I have to say she was fantastic. Very sexy.

So yes, bbw's turn me on along with all sorts of ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in the BBW fan club

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some men will like big women, some small, some medium and some all women. Its all down to choice. I have full pictures on my profile so its hard for them not to know im a big woman. Has it ever stopped me getting messages or meets? Never.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

hi guys thannks for ur imput, it hasnt stopped me getting meets its just annoying that men dont read my profile

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By *edro71Man over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

it's a big turn on for me. Women should never feel bad about themselvs. Usually find that bbw are a lot happier with who they are

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By *ashful BazMan over a year ago

poole dorset

"I'm in the BBW fan club"

And Mr Licker!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"hi im a bbw and tend to get alot and i mean alot of men emailing me and as soon as i tell them im a bbw they dont want to know, can these men read my profile states im a bbw ffs.

question is do bbw ladies turn u on or off "

If men don't know then you are or as it looks now wasn't making it clear. Possibly more pictures would help so they wouldn't be confused.

For me its not a size thing but a pretty/ugly issue. If someone is a SUW (skinny ugly woman) or a BUW (Big Ugly Woman) i am not interested. I prefer though someone who isn't obese or scrawny but in-between seeing you ask for opinions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There will always be people that don't read profiles on here, you can usually tell from the first line before you even open the mail that they haven't read profile.

I can also honestly say that my size being a BBW hasn't stopped me getting any meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter."

On here its not really a dating site though, i am not on here to take someone to the cinema, for a pizza and then drop her off at home. Essentially its for hooking up for sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter."

Well i for one will gladly have u as a naughty little fetish and will be gald to take you out for a drink, and when i get u at Chams next week will eat u in public.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mr Good Knight in Chesterfield is not representative of all me. I also want to get sex, but I'm happy to have dinner and even go to a cinema if the mood decides. It helps to break the ice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter.

On here its not really a dating site though, i am not on here to take someone to the cinema, for a pizza and then drop her off at home. Essentially its for hooking up for sex."

It may not be a dating site but im damned sure i wouldnt screw a fella who wouldnt want to meet me for a drink or a meal etc. Its about friendship to if your lucky enough to find a gentleman on your travels

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter.

On here its not really a dating site though, i am not on here to take someone to the cinema, for a pizza and then drop her off at home. Essentially its for hooking up for sex.

Ditto what peaches said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter.

On here its not really a dating site though, i am not on here to take someone to the cinema, for a pizza and then drop her off at home. Essentially its for hooking up for sex.

There are plenty of other sites to find that sort of thing. On the majority of profiles it states no strings. A big proportion of members are couples. The wife in a couple isn't here to go for a drink and a meal with a single guy. And feeding a woman does not make you a gentleman in my books, not by a long way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter.

On here its not really a dating site though, i am not on here to take someone to the cinema, for a pizza and then drop her off at home. Essentially its for hooking up for sex.

Ditto what peaches said."

So your partner is quite happy for you to go out for a meal and a drink with a single male then if you agree with that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter.

On here its not really a dating site though, i am not on here to take someone to the cinema, for a pizza and then drop her off at home. Essentially its for hooking up for sex.

a meal or a drink doesnt equal 'strings'. For alot of people the social side of swinging is important too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter.

On here its not really a dating site though, i am not on here to take someone to the cinema, for a pizza and then drop her off at home. Essentially its for hooking up for sex.

Ditto what peaches said.

So your partner is quite happy for you to go out for a meal and a drink with a single male then if you agree with that?"

My Husband has no problems with that. Infact my most local contact is a very good friend, we've been for walks, drinks, lunches... horses for courses really. As long as everyone is happy with what's happening then surely that's all that matters?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter.

On here its not really a dating site though, i am not on here to take someone to the cinema, for a pizza and then drop her off at home. Essentially its for hooking up for sex.

a meal or a drink doesnt equal 'strings'. For alot of people the social side of swinging is important too."

So you husband is ok about another guy wining and dinning you is he? Going out on what would class as a date with more than 50% of the population might not be a string but its hardly swinging is it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You asked me the same question twice. Yes those things are fine. Doesn't mean I'm about to run off with the guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whoever mentioned about being fed???

Ever heard of going dutch and paying one's way?

Women can earn a decent salary and pay their own way nowadays!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter.

On here its not really a dating site though, i am not on here to take someone to the cinema, for a pizza and then drop her off at home. Essentially its for hooking up for sex.

Ditto what peaches said.

So your partner is quite happy for you to go out for a meal and a drink with a single male then if you agree with that?

Well i would go as far as to say your in the minority. There is a lot of jealousy in swinging and many relationships have had problems when friendships and more form.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are all adult enough to realise its a "swinging site" but.........

There are a hell of a lot of us ladies that also like the social side of things too.

I like to be friends with the guy im bonking , i dont like the cold hearted fuck and leave syndrome.

Some do and thats ok.

It wouldnt do if we all liked the same thing but i can tell you summat, most guys would get a lot further in the meets department if they put them selves out a little .

And didnt just wanna "fcuk"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well i would go as far as to say your in the minority. There is a lot of jealousy in swinging and many relationships have had problems when friendships and more form."

If jealousy is involved then swinging surely isn't for them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And agree with pearl.

Most of us go dutch these days and dont expect a fella to pay the lot. but it is nice getting to know someone over a drink and the odd meal ...somewhere safe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are all adult enough to realise its a "swinging site" but.........

There are a hell of a lot of us ladies that also like the social side of things too.

I like to be friends with the guy im bonking , i dont like the cold hearted fuck and leave syndrome.

Some do and thats ok.

It wouldnt do if we all liked the same thing but i can tell you summat, most guys would get a lot further in the meets department if they put them selves out a little .

And didnt just wanna "fcuk"

Well i am being 100% honest here and if i was chatting to someone on here and they asked to go out for a drink and a meal i would be a little surprised. I see very few verifications stating they went out for a drink and a nice meal. If you find one let me know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just because its not written down, doesnt mean it aint happening.

Im sure there are many on here who can tell you different

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And agree with pearl.

Most of us go dutch these days and dont expect a fella to pay the lot. but it is nice getting to know someone over a drink and the odd meal ...somewhere safe

Yep!

I guess it might apply more to those who prefer to just have a small number of regular contacts rather than a list of one-off encounters.

After all, the more you get to know someone the better the sex (in my experience).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just an observation here.... Mr Knight has verifications on his profile and one of them he seems to have taken the lady for a drink... go figure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im a single girl so no need to ask anybodys permission. And I love the social side of swinging as much as the sex. And I wont just have anybody back just for the sake of sex I got a dildo for that. But it is nice to be wined and dined what ever happened to romance. And I dont even mind going dutch.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love BBW but looks come into it to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But..........

you cant have romance shaz...this site is for sex only....tut...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just an observation here.... Mr Knight has verifications on his profile and one of them he seems to have taken the lady for a drink... go figure

You want to READ again! Where does it say i took anyone out for a drink. Too clever for your own boots ......ohhh your not are you.

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By *ummy mummyWoman over a year ago

southampton-ish

"I love BBW but looks come into it to.

of course it would...bbw or slim women or anything in between (and same for the guys) you have to be attracted to the person...it is like if a guy messages me asking if I like black men...yes I like black men...white men...MEN...but that does not mean that I will meet all black men..or white or whatever...there has to be that spark

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh well I guess I will get used and abused as usual.

Think I have been reading to much will have my head full of romance close my eyes and have my body for lust fantasy is a beautiful thing.

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By *adchickCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

"But..........

you cant have romance shaz...this site is for sex only....tut...

Most people join this site for NSA sex..... not romance in whatever shape or form.

Or has swinging changed so much over the past few years that romance, kissing, cuddling, wining and dining is now part of the 'NSA sex' that we all talk about.

anyway....

back to the subject.

I used to be a BBW, no shortage of offers, but did feel sometimes that it was a guilty pleasure of some and even worse, that it was sometimes......'something they just had to try so they could tell their friends about it'

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Romance is not a word I would associate with swinging/casual/recreational sex. That doesn't mean there can't be a social side and doesn't mean you can't be mates and have a laugh... but romance and recreational sex.... nope not getting the link.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple over a year ago

Bristol

turns both of us off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Romance is not a word I would associate with swinging/casual/recreational sex. That doesn't mean there can't be a social side and doesn't mean you can't be mates and have a laugh... but romance and recreational sex.... nope not getting the link.

Why not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing for me is as much as foreplay than sucking cock

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

romance n.

A love affair.

Ardent emotional attachment or involvement between people; love: They kept the romance alive in their marriage for 35 years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this why long term relationships come on here to spice things up? I am single and looking for hot sex and romance whats wrong with that. Its that time off year coming up to xmas and another year alone.

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By *andKCouple over a year ago

Norfolk

"romance n.

A love affair.

Ardent emotional attachment or involvement between people; love: They kept the romance alive in their marriage for 35 years.

if we are talking romance (big ahhhhh please) K and I are celebrating the 35th aniversary of our first date by renewing our wedding vows next month

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

If people are looking for romance on a swinging site then no wonder the people who are looking for NSA sex are confused.

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

"If people are looking for romance on a swinging site then no wonder the people who are looking for NSA sex are confused."

Especially when their nudey photos get rejected on the Matchmaker web site....

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Is this why long term relationships come on here to spice things up? I am single and looking for hot sex and romance whats wrong with that. Its that time off year coming up to xmas and another year alone."

Hot sex.... fine.

Romance.... that's something else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"romance n.

A love affair.

Ardent emotional attachment or involvement between people; love: They kept the romance alive in their marriage for 35 years.

if we are talking romance (big ahhhhh please) K and I are celebrating the 35th aniversary of our first date by renewing our wedding vows next month

That is beautiful guys wow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not really sure about the whole romance thing.

Developing a friendship with the odd meal, drink or whatever else is one thing but I wouldn't call it romance.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"romance n.

A love affair.

Ardent emotional attachment or involvement between people; love: They kept the romance alive in their marriage for 35 years.

if we are talking romance (big ahhhhh please) K and I are celebrating the 35th aniversary of our first date by renewing our wedding vows next month

Congratulations.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Well i am being 100% honest here and if i was chatting to someone on here and they asked to go out for a drink and a meal i would be a little surprised. I see very few verifications stating they went out for a drink and a nice meal. If you find one let me know."

Good evening!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being a BBW or Skinny doesnt give the right to people to be disrespectful to others. Yes we are all different. it would make for a very boring world if we where all the same.!!!

I agree it would be a help if people took the time to read your profiles before contacting you , but a perfect world we dont live .

There is plenty of fun to be had by everyone. So lets get on with it !!!

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By *andKCouple over a year ago

Norfolk

oh and btw also got matching his n hers rings to exchange ............... hoping to pop in to Heodonism for the honeymoon though

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

On the original question....

I go for personality. I know this looks like "the right thing to say" on here, but tough - it's true. I've had more fun with someone I could connect to mentally, even if nothing sexual took place. Looks are a factor, but they're secondary, and size is only an element of looks. It's the same as age. Sexy fun people aren't defined by those criteria.

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By *heekysmile73Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"On the original question....

There are lots of factors... to me sexiness is very much in the mind and the right personality can be a huge turn on. Looks and size do play some part but don't really determine how wonderful the sex is going to be.

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By *lack_BoltMan over a year ago

oxford

"I'm not really sure about the whole romance thing.

Developing a friendship with the odd meal, drink or whatever else is one thing but I wouldn't call it romance."

Totally agree with you there. I think Mr Knight's _iews are a little harsh and extreme because it sounds too cold and clinical.

I swing because it's a lifestyle, which includes forming friendships. I think treating swinging as just a way to get free sex is disrespectful to the other person, or people, involved.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My wedding dress was a size 24. I've had four children size 24. Meeting men size 24 has never been a problem and all my playmates stem from a social meet first.

I've never felt like someone's fetish. I've been on holiday with playmates, even went to a wedding with one, he didn't want to go alone. I've been on shopping trips where my impeccable tastes were needed

, I've been to the theatre. I went for a second meal with someone this week. We haven't played yet as I'm still healing but we enjoy each others company.

I have a group of about eight regular playmates, four I've been seeing for three years. One I speak to every day. He's in Las Vegas at the moment and it's out of sight out of mind. We're friends, there's no romance involved with any of my playmates: that's not what I'm here for.

I did have 10 regular playmates but two were getting attached so they were cut loose. We're still friends but no meets, not even a shared drink.

I think if people are looking for romance here they are confused. For some my friendships may seem close but my playmates and I are all single, we have recreational sex with other people, but we're friends and I socialise with friends both in and outside this lifestyle.

NSA fun works for me: romance plays no part in it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Original question - BBW huge turn off..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think the question is that cut and dry

I'm sure guys who like BBWs don't like all big ladies, I think it depends on the person, I'm a size 14\ 16 ish and I have never had any problems getting meets off here, I'm sure a lot of guys just shag anything but I'm sure that don't go for every guy I've met, my profile states I am large built and I've never had any problems with men that message me, I'm sure some guys will skip me by after reading that but most men are happy to meet me and tell me they like a bit of meat lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When mrs Mally was swinging we got a lot of insulting remarks about her size by the shallow single guy and even some couples who considered there own body type to be "fabulous", I prefer the bigger women myself and have found that they're a lot more fun to be around than those who are struggling to maintain their size 8 figure

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By *ummy mummyWoman over a year ago

southampton-ish

"When mrs Mally was swinging we got a lot of insulting remarks about her size by the shallow single guy and even some couples who considered there own body type to be "fabulous", I prefer the bigger women myself and have found that they're a lot more fun to be around than those who are struggling to maintain their size 8 figure

I knew there was another reason I liked you mally...hehehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

again, and im sorry to be picky lol ive met some lovely ladies of all sizes, your going to get good and bad in all groups of people, but i dont think 'fun' comes in a body size, slim ladies who seem stuck up would probably be the same no matter what they looked like, ive met some really nice slim ladies, some people just have an attitude problem and they would have that no matter what their dress size was

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kissing for me is as much as foreplay than sucking cock"

kissing isnt romantic tho, its the feeling towards who your kissing that makes it romantic

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By *adchickCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

Totally agree Polo.

We love the social side, meeting friends old and new, having a gossip, wading, bum deep, into the odd orgy etc.

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By *lack_BoltMan over a year ago

oxford

"again, and im sorry to be picky lol ive met some lovely ladies of all sizes, your going to get good and bad in all groups of people, but i dont think 'fun' comes in a body size, slim ladies who seem stuck up would probably be the same no matter what they looked like, ive met some really nice slim ladies, some people just have an attitude problem and they would have that no matter what their dress size was "

You're absolutely right. It's what I keep saying really, and I know sometimes it sounds like I'm trying to say the right thing, but it's personality that counts. That's why friendships are important.

I have a preference for BBWs because I find big girls more sexually exciting than skinny girls, but some of my playmates are slim women because they have lovely personalities and we get on well.

Nothing is written in stone and you can get just as many BBWs with a bad attitude as you can any other type of woman.

(it made sense in my head

)

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Im in the 'Dont want to be wined and dined camp'.

There are people that Ive met that I now consider to be friends and Id be more than happy spending an evening having a natter and a meal with any of them because I really enjoy their company, but I dont want to make any arrangements with anyone that sound like we are going on a 'date'.

If I ever thought that there was any

romance' involved - from either party - then, for me, that would be time to kick it into touch.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with you 100%: couldn't have put it better myself!

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By *ollie_JCouple over a year ago

London

To the original OP Not for us..

And in response to one of the remarks above.. Some people don't have to struggle to be a size 8..

Which for me, mr new, is bloody annoying because i have to watch what i eat and mrs new has double my portions.. Grrrr..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

i dont get the need for this question (yes i know is an open forum and everyine is free to post what they want blah blah blah!!!)

if that avatar has been your avatar for a long time now then it is clear from that before you even open your profile that you are a bbw. is it that once you have sent face pics that the men go cold? could it be that they are not attracted to you?? (p.s. i have never seen your face pic so this in by no means a slight on you or what you look like - who am i to judge???)

have to say these bbw threads are getting a bit like the black cock threads for me - boring! folk like what they like and all the bbw threads in the world will not change peoples attitudes to that.

they also make it seem like 'us' bbw;s need our egos stroking in a public arena by constantly getting people to admit they like larger ladies

so what if some guys go off you after a bit, theres plenty more where they came from!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont get the need for this question (yes i know is an open forum and everyine is free to post what they want blah blah blah!!!)

have to say these bbw threads are getting a bit like the black cock threads for me - boring! folk like what they like and all the bbw threads in the world will not change peoples attitudes to that.

they also make it seem like 'us' bbw;s need our egos stroking in a public arena by constantly getting people to admit they like larger ladies

so what if some guys go off you after a bit, theres plenty more where they came from!!"

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are people that Ive met that I now consider to be friends and Id be more than happy spending an evening having a natter and a meal with any of them because I really enjoy their company, but I dont want to make any arrangements with anyone that sound like we are going on a 'date'.

Agree with jez on this one - quite happy to meet up with friends just to have a chat and a laugh over a drink or something to eat.

Just because I am not their cup of tea or visa versa to play with, it does not mean we do not get on etc...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I knew there was another reason I liked you mally...hehehe"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont get the need for this question (yes i know is an open forum and everyine is free to post what they want blah blah blah!!!)

have to say these bbw threads are getting a bit like the black cock threads for me - boring! folk like what they like and all the bbw threads in the world will not change peoples attitudes to that.

they also make it seem like 'us' bbw;s need our egos stroking in a public arena by constantly getting people to admit they like larger ladies

so what if some guys go off you after a bit, theres plenty more where they came from!!"

When I saw the thread title I rolled my eyes: I do that when I see "I've a big cock why no meet?" etc type threads also.

Personally I find it arrogant: it's as if the poster can't believe someone has turned them down so try to whip up "empathy" from other posters!

Not everyone finds Jennifer Anniston, Halle Berry, Cheryl Cole attractive: we're NEVER going to appeal to everyone.

Instead of concentrating on people who don't want to meet you look to those that do and drop the ego massaging threads!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps I am naive or not too cynical enough to realise this and similar threads are ego massaging threads.

Aren't we all guilty of seeking our ego massaged to an extent by participating in open forums???

Some are very good at boosting their achievements and how wonderful they are, some quite blatant, while others do it more subtly.

I can be found in the former camp myself from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well its a matter of preference really isnt it? Personally im never short of meets, if they cant be bothered to read your profile then theyre not worth meeting huni!

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By *edangel_2013Woman over a year ago

southend

I'm going to Manchester next week, going to a club with a bunch of friends.

Whilst I'm there I'm going to meet one of my closest friends.

I met him on the swinging scene a few years ago. We're going to head to Yo Sushi, have something to eat, then to a couple of pubs for something to drink.

Will I fuck him? Probably not. He's married, his wife doesn't swing, but is quite happy for him to. I've met his wife, she's quite happy for him to meet me, and go out for something to eat with me. If they didn't have the child, she'd probably come too.

Swinging isn't about romancing someone into bed. But making friends along the way is to an extent inevitable, depending on the way you play I guess.

Oh.... and if they have a pretty face, and smile a lot I couldn't give a flying fcuk what size people are!!!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

to some and I hasten to add SOME...

they will shag anyone of any gender, size, race, hair colour, hair length and/or with athlete's foot.

so there will be SOMEONE for EVERYONE ON HERE..

just don't believe all the pish they write in their messages.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have known some of my playmates for up to five years so i think i can say they are good friends. They telephone me, we have a gossip and a laugh. They come over and we spend half the evening laughing and talking. BUT i would never go out for a meal or a drink with them. They are playmates not prospective boyfriends to me nsa means just that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love bbw's and I love a lady to have some meat on the bone as such. There is skinny and skinny.

Not jean on skinny ladies, doesn't mean that they like BBW,S not be rejected.

Everyones tastes are different, what one likes another dislikes.

All ladies are beautiful xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are plenty of other sites to find that sort of thing. On the majority of profiles it states no strings. A big proportion of members are couples. The wife in a couple isn't here to go for a drink and a meal with a single guy. And feeding a woman does not make you a gentleman in my books, not by a long way."

In answer to your question....a couple would happily invite you to their home, there is safety in numbers and the female has someone looking out for her interest.

a single woman, however, needs to protect herself so it is highly usual to ask to meet someone in a public place before taking it any further.

this is not classed as a date...nor is it them trying to grasp for one. It is called common sense in my book.

I certainly wouldn't be shopping amongst the one line brigade for a date.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On sites like this there someone for everyone. No one is the same, We all like diffrent things BIG, small, Fat, Thin, middlesize, each person have there own look and likes and its about loving yourself for who you are, Having fun and being happy . Not what others think all the time. We are who we are. x xx JO XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mr Good Knight in Chesterfield is not representative of all me. I also want to get sex, but I'm happy to have dinner and even go to a cinema if the mood decides. It helps to break the ice."

nice one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter.

On here its not really a dating site though, i am not on here to take someone to the cinema, for a pizza and then drop her off at home. Essentially its for hooking up for sex.

Ditto what peaches said.

So your partner is quite happy for you to go out for a meal and a drink with a single male then if you agree with that?

Well i would go as far as to say your in the minority. There is a lot of jealousy in swinging and many relationships have had problems when friendships and more form."

You may be right vis a vis some couples but everyone is different. Certainly if I were a single on here I would like to think that the guy would also enjoy the occasional outing with me. Socialising and getting to know each other can only improve the sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps I am naive or not too cynical enough to realise this and similar threads are ego massaging threads.

Aren't we all guilty of seeking our ego massaged to an extent by participating in open forums???

Some are very good at boosting their achievements and how wonderful they are, some quite blatant, while others do it more subtly.

I can be found in the former camp myself from time to time.

Astute observation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On the original question....

same here, well put

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you go for it Shaz, no one can tell you what to think or what to want. Tough, if they don't like it eh ... he he

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By *u-cee smurfetteWoman over a year ago

aberdeen

i class myself as a bbw im a size 20 with a belly lol i have met some lovely guys that say a bigger fuller women turns them on so much and also the personality to go with it then there is others when you say im a big girl dont like it and stop mailing you if we were all perfect size zeros in this world it would be a boring place xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i class myself as a bbw im a size 20 with a belly lol i have met some lovely guys that say a bigger fuller women turns them on so much and also the personality to go with it then there is others when you say im a big girl dont like it and stop mailing you if we were all perfect size zeros in this world it would be a boring place xx"

no desire to be perfect nor a size zero and I really do not think many ladies on here have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We joined swinging to add to our sex lives not to spice things up because anything was missing

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By *ayceeCouple over a year ago

northampton

I am big...I state in our profile I am but I can honestly say at a club or party it's my eyes and naughty smile that people tend to look at...oh and my tits of course!! I never ask if people are fans of "BBW's" as if they don't like me they wouldn't be there playing with me. Take me or leave me...(most take, I am a naughty minx!) Everyone has a choice . Jem xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am big...I state in our profile I am but I can honestly say at a club or party it's my eyes and naughty smile that people tend to look at...oh and my tits of course!! I never ask if people are fans of "BBW's" as if they don't like me they wouldn't be there playing with me. Take me or leave me...(most take, I am a naughty minx!) Everyone has a choice . Jem xxx"

You are bloody gorgeous xxx

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By *ayceeCouple over a year ago

northampton

You are bloody gorgeous xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am big..."

You are curvy to me, lovely lady!

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By *ayceeCouple over a year ago

northampton

"I am big...

You are curvy to me, lovely lady!

Well ty Pearl xxx

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By *amschwingerzCouple over a year ago

West

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter."

Good point...and I often feel that men think we are just desparate..I am very conscious of it and its certainly one of the factors why we dont/wont meet people.

No big deal though..I am also very happy with 'our thing' on here..it suits me/us fine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"hi im a bbw and tend to get alot and i mean alot of men emailing me and as soon as i tell them im a bbw they dont want to know, can these men read my profile states im a bbw ffs.

question is do bbw ladies turn u on or off "

turn off (the record please)

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By *lack_BoltMan over a year ago

oxford

BBW turn on or turn off?

After giving this a little bit of serious thought I think if you see BBWs as a fetish, or something you'd merely like to try, then it has to be a turn on.

However I think going out for a drink and/or a bite to eat, although not necessary, is a way of appreciating the person and finding out more about your potential new friend. It's not a date and doesn't require any more commitment than having the same with a "vanilla" friend.

Intent is the key. A date is only a date if both parties want it to be, the activity doesn't, in itself, commit you to potential wedded bliss.

The fact that the woman may be a BBW is incidental and whether she is a turn on or turn off is more to do with the chemistry between the people involved. To ask whether a BBW is a turn on or turn off ignores the person/personality beneath.

Just my _iew and I make no apologies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally, I am a BBW lover. I was converted at the age of 21

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

go! BBW girls.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i personally think most men like women with a bit of meat on their bones and a good pair of tits lol

im not slim, ive never pretended to be, tho id like to have a better body than i have i have come to accept what i am, however i have never had any problems meeting guys off here and most men i meet want to meet me again

at the end of the day we are what we are and because theres so many people use such sites theres alweays going to be someone for everyone so if someone dont like you, for whatever reason, just move on to someone who does

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not my thing though it does depend on what size? Ive seen some at Chams, much too big for my taste but still looked fabulous

And no, very few people read peoples profiles, hence i get young lads and those from the other end of the country contacting me

Incidentally i once got turned down by a couple that thought i was too big for them as they prefer slim, im a size 14, they prefer 12 and under, horses for courses

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By *ohjaneCouple over a year ago

south staffs

No, we are not turned on by BBW's.

Yes, we do like a feeling of romance between us and our sex partners.

Yes, we do go out for meals / cinema / pub drinks with our meets.

No, we are not confused between meeting for sex and dating.

Neither of us want to change our status quo, which is also of 35 years duration, nor are we looking for spice, just adding to our already excellent sex life, and finding new friends on the way.

Long may it continue.

Jane x (on behalf of Tarzan too)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its not about size sometimes its looks and personality! Personality size 20 and over is too much for us bt its never ruled out if get on really wel with a person. Think people especialy single men on this thread are getting nsa sex and swinging mixed up! Cant just expect to meet sum1 fuk them instantly and then bugger off like some want! As a couple we like to send a few messages arrange to meet up for a drink and then if we get on we do if not its cool we wouldnt be bothered as we dont have expectations!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would never swing with a guy who was only interested in me because after all its a way of getting sex. He would have to find me attractive and sexy.

Im not a "make do" for anyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"hi im a bbw and tend to get alot and i mean alot of men emailing me and as soon as i tell them im a bbw they dont want to know, can these men read my profile states im a bbw ffs.

question is do bbw ladies turn u on or off "

turn off

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By *arlot ScarlettWoman over a year ago

Bolton

Turn off for me I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find them a turn on, a woman with rubenesque curves 100 times more sexier than a woman straight up and down, no curves, flat boobs who looks like a boy without a penis

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find them a turn on, a woman with rubenesque curves 100 times more sexier than a woman straight up and down, no curves, flat boobs who looks like a boy without a penis

we just see them as fat really to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love the curves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

bit of both.

i chat to many bbw's because i like their personality and look at things.

but some ive encountered havnt been so friendly.maybe someone has upset them before hand.

but i see no problem. still a person at the end of the day.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Love the curves

"
mmmmmmm loving urs too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Theres someone for everyone on sites like this good thing we dont all like same thing.. I am bi i have been with bigger ladys and small have to say i like both. Its the person inside too ... yes looks play a big part in swinging but we are who we are end of the day. Just like horny nice sexie people who can be themselfs xx jo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Theres someone for everyone on sites like this good thing we dont all like same thing.. I am bi i have been with bigger ladys and small have to say i like both. Its the person inside too ... yes looks play a big part in swinging but we are who we are end of the day. Just like horny nice sexie people who can be themselfs xx jo"

i think that sums it up well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Off

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By *arlot ScarlettWoman over a year ago

Bolton

"I find them a turn on, a woman with rubenesque curves 100 times more sexier than a woman straight up and down, no curves, flat boobs who looks like a boy without a penis

lol and what about the 100's of us who are inbetween? I'm not a big girl but not straight up and down either, still curvy in all the right places!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"bit of both.

i chat to many bbw's because i like their personality and look at things.

but some ive encountered havnt been so friendly.maybe someone has upset them before hand.

but i see no problem. still a person at the end of the day."

Almost. They had different personalities because they were different people. I don't get the way people say oh BBW's are nice to talk to as if their fat is loaded with laughing genes ounce for ounce. They are human first.. fat after. And YES I do know I said FAT cos I meant FAT.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally like curves, I have to admit I do like bigger boobs and curvy hips. Now that could be a girl who is slim but still very curvy or a bigger girl who has curves in all the right places too. Definitely a lover of the 50 pin up girls and women like Marilyn Monroe, absolutely gorgeous. Oh and of course the delectable Jessica Rabbit lol.

Women who have boyish figures, very very slim but rather androgynous, like many catwalk models, are great to look at, but not sexy to me. Grace Jones for instance, very unusual look, amazing to look at in fact, but I dont find her body sexy. I prefer a more feminine curvy woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agreed Totally Feebs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of us here can pinch the inch i am sure and no one it perfect i spent years hating myself feeling not good enough i know how damaging it can be ... I dont wish bigger people to feel les of a person just because thay are bigger .... Yes we all have our likes and not likes but whos to say slim skinny is best. No one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would never swing with a guy who was only interested in me because after all its a way of getting sex. He would have to find me attractive and sexy.

Im not a "make do" for anyone "

Same here

And because i is nice too

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

i chat to many bbw's because i like their personality and look at things.

...."

But not just after they have been looking at the scales... tears are never sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"bit of both.

i chat to many bbw's because i like their personality and look at things.

but some ive encountered havnt been so friendly.maybe someone has upset them before hand.

but i see no problem. still a person at the end of the day."

How gracious that you acknowledge larger women are 'people'...I'm sure that validation will please them...after all bigger people are jolly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i chat to many bbw's because i like their personality and look at things.

....

But not just after they have been looking at the scales... tears are never sexy."

Hentai to that

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By *adchickCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

"I find them a turn on, a woman with rubenesque curves 100 times more sexier than a woman straight up and down, no curves, flat boobs who looks like a boy without a penis

we just see them as fat really to be honest"

Thats not a nice word to use. It may be true of some but not something you say in polite society.

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By *UNCHBOXMan over a year ago

folkestone

What does BBW actually stand for?. Ive always wondered.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Big ...bold and well worth meeting

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"What does BBW actually stand for?. Ive always wondered. "

Big Bulges Welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find them a turn on, a woman with rubenesque curves 100 times more sexier than a woman straight up and down, no curves, flat boobs who looks like a boy without a penis

we just see them as fat really to be honest

Thats not a nice word to use. It may be true of some but not something you say in polite society."

sorry overweight or undertall

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By *raeme_R_BellMan over a year ago

Washington

my girlfriend is a BBW and i love her to bits i find a BBW a huge turn on more than a skinny girl

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By *umourCouple over a year ago

Rushden

"No, we are not turned on by BBW's.

Yes, we do like a feeling of romance between us and our sex partners.

Yes, we do go out for meals / cinema / pub drinks with our meets.

No, we are not confused between meeting for sex and dating.

Neither of us want to change our status quo, which is also of 35 years duration, nor are we looking for spice, just adding to our already excellent sex life, and finding new friends on the way.

Long may it continue.

Jane x (on behalf of Tarzan too)"

Perfect, saved us typing it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I prefer women with extra but in my experience when mrs Mally was swinging, she was seen as a target to make fun of cause of her size by both couples and singles, which is why she is reluctant to get back onto the swinging scene

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By *umourCouple over a year ago

Rushden

"I find them a turn on, a woman with rubenesque curves 100 times more sexier than a woman straight up and down, no curves, flat boobs who looks like a boy without a penis

lol and what about the 100's of us who are inbetween? I'm not a big girl but not straight up and down either, still curvy in all the right places!"

Also, if something along the lines of that first comment had been typed about a big woman (as deleted from a thread last week!) it would have been deleted! Seems you can hurt the slim girls feelings but not the big girls!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I hold my hands up and apologise because it was me who posted and I typed exactly what my brain was thinking without wording it in a more appropriate way.

It was rude to say the last few words. My opinions havent changed, I do prefer a woman with curves rather than a woman who is straight up and down, and of course many women, regardless of their figure type, can be extremely sexy - but it was wrong to be so blunt and I apologise for any offence

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I think Bigbad hit the nail on the head when he said that some one is sexy because of the way they carry themselves, confidence is a huge turn on....as is femininity etc.....we all have preferences but there also the peripheral details that make the whole package more attractive..hope that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i agree sexy is an attitude not a body size

attraction is a body size but you can see somneone you like the look of that you dont find sexy, unconfidance to me can make attractive person unsexy, amoung many other things

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"i agree sexy is an attitude not a body size

attraction is a body size but you can see somneone you like the look of that you dont find sexy, unconfidance to me can make attractive person unsexy, amoung many other things"
yes i agree....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"my girlfriend is a BBW and i love her to bits i find a BBW a huge turn on more than a skinny girl

what i want to know is on threads like this why are women refursed to as either a BBW or skinny, ive read the thread thro couple of times and theres been a few post that describe women as either BBW, fat, skinny, shaped like a child, straight up and down

if you went by these posts every women is either a size 20+ or a size 6 theres no inbetween

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"my girlfriend is a BBW and i love her to bits i find a BBW a huge turn on more than a skinny girl

if you went by these posts every women is either a size 20+ or a size 6 theres no inbetween

"
i started a thread ages ago called "the inbetweeners" for exactly the same reason lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What sizes are the inbetweeners

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What sizes are the inbetweeners

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no idea lol

depends on hight my eldest daughter is 5ft10 and size 8 and looks very under weight due to her hight

but i think for an average hight women a size 10, 12, 14 is inbetween, most see a size 16 as the lower end of a BBW

everyone sees things different tho

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

i dont think the bbw issue, those that have one will ever be resolved, we all like different things..variety,,,spice n all that xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont think the bbw issue, those that have one will ever be resolved, we all like different things..variety,,,spice n all that xx"

Just like cock size!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

"i dont think the bbw issue, those that have one will ever be resolved, we all like different things..variety,,,spice n all that xx"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my life time I've played with big ladies, small ladies, tall ladies and short ladies and can say that the fun I've enjoyed with them bares absolutely no relationship to their dress size or body shape.

My best times have been with the ladies who have made the experience a fun one. A laugh and a joke, a giggle or two, good conversation and of course, good sex make the occaision memorable, and not how much of the bed she takes up

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By *lack_BoltMan over a year ago

oxford

"In my life time I've played with big ladies, small ladies, tall ladies and short ladies and can say that the fun I've enjoyed with them bares absolutely no relationship to their dress size or body shape.

Yup! Absolutely correct!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I adore BBW's.

I have a fb who's a BBW, and we've been mates since we was at school.

Like a previous poster already said, Alot of BBW's tend to be alot happier with themselves and their bodies, I know my fb is.

My answer is, you are who you are...be happy and live with it, I for one am proud to go out for a drink/Coffee/Meal with my Beautiful curvy f/b (although everyone around us think we are nothing more than friends, little do they know!!..lol)She's hot, and I'm so proud to be seen with her

And in my book, all BBW's are sexy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"it's a big turn on for me. Women should never feel bad about themselvs. Usually find that bbw are a lot happier with who they are"

as compared to?????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God I could scream when people come out with statements like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"it's a big turn on for me. Women should never feel bad about themselvs. Usually find that bbw are a lot happier with who they are

as compared to?????"

Wonder how many will be dieting in 10 days time ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"bit of both.

i chat to many bbw's because i like their personality and look at things.

but some ive encountered havnt been so friendly.maybe someone has upset them before hand.

but i see no problem. still a person at the end of the day.

How gracious that you acknowledge larger women are 'people'...I'm sure that validation will please them...after all bigger people are jolly.

nice one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find sometimes that we are there naughty little fetish we are alright to fuck but to be taken out in public to have a drink or a bite to eat then thats a different matter.

On here its not really a dating site though, i am not on here to take someone to the cinema, for a pizza and then drop her off at home. Essentially its for hooking up for sex."

bit of a narrow minded attitude isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

sexy to one may not be sexy to another. Do not group people together this way it is not a cattle or sheep market here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well unless it's a small mixed group like we have at ours from time to time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well unless it's a small mixed group like we have at ours from time to time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are all adult enough to realise its a "swinging site" but.........

There are a hell of a lot of us ladies that also like the social side of things too.

I like to be friends with the guy im bonking , i dont like the cold hearted fuck and leave syndrome.

Some do and thats ok.

It wouldnt do if we all liked the same thing but i can tell you summat, most guys would get a lot further in the meets department if they put them selves out a little .

And didnt just wanna "fcuk"

When I meet it's usually for at least one night, longest meet was 4 nights. I went with one couple to their mates 40th on one of the days, also went out for a meal with them, also went out for lunch, did other stuff like watch telly, sunbathe as well as have mad partying at night. It's nsf in the sense I don't want to marry them lol three would be a crowd in the long run ... but I consider all the folks I meet regularly extremely good friends. The sexy stuff is just a bonus and because we are all so comfortable with each other, it's pretty awesome

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By *llielonglegsCouple over a year ago

winsford

I'm 5ft 10, have 38DD's and am a curvy size 14. Does that make me a BWW???? Who cares! Those who have other ideas of their perfect woman jog on! I've had plenty of guys (and girls) like what I am spanning from 18 yr olds to the more mature type. I do the odd bit of glamour modelling and have had great feedback from it. Just be proud of what you are and who you are will shine through!

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By *ingleguy1973Man over a year ago

peterborough

personality and especially confidence are more important. if someone is happy within themselves they will be more confident and definitely sexier

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sexy is as sexy does (Forest fucking Grumpy)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"personality and especially confidence are more important. if someone is happy within themselves they will be more confident and definitely sexier"
your so right there .. x we have to learn to love ourselfs for who we are inside and out not always think of others and be happy in our own skin x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sexy is as sexy does (Forest fucking Grumpy)

"
what you been on today woman , lol sex and more sex i bet x tell your happy , lol x

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

To quote Calvin Harris.

I like all the girls.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sexy is as sexy does (Forest fucking Grumpy)

what you been on today woman , lol sex and more sex i bet x tell your happy , lol x"

he he, I'm tea total, but nearly always happy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm 5ft 10, have 38DD's and am a curvy size 14. Does that make me a BWW???? Who cares! Those who have other ideas of their perfect woman jog on! I've had plenty of guys (and girls) like what I am spanning from 18 yr olds to the more mature type. I do the odd bit of glamour modelling and have had great feedback from it. Just be proud of what you are and who you are will

shine through!"

No I dont think a size 14 is BBW, as size 12 is considered to be average

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

shine through!

No I dont think a size 14 is BBW, as size 12 is considered to be average"

careful use of passive voice there. May I ask then ... by whom?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

shine through!

No I dont think a size 14 is BBW, as size 12 is considered to be average"

Size 16 is the average size for a woman in the UK just now. I consider size 20+ to be in the BBW category but it's down to personal _iew points. Some people regard a size 12 as fat. Everyone's different. I'm 10/12 and so is my mate, but we both look like we're completely different sizes just because of the way our body shapes are. I have long legs, which makes me look tall, but I'm small. She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs so people don't realise. She has big boobs, I have small saggy ones lol, she has a flat tummy (no kids), I have a flabby mummy tummy. It's much more than just a dress size. Lot of the time it depends what shop you go in, some shops I'm a 14

I think I might have confused myself there, but I know what I meant lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is what is on the inside that counts, you can have a stunner, who makes heads turn, but they could be the nastiest person in the world, beauty is not skin deep, it is an overall package.

I have met some beautiful ladies of the larger size, I say be happy in the skin you are in.

A woman is a woman, does not matter if they are large or skinny, it is the peson who you want to spend time with, not the body.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM) over a year ago

birmingham

"Turn off for me I'm afraid."

Size 12 or over, a turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is what is on the inside that counts, you can have a stunner, who makes heads turn, but they could be the nastiest person in the world, beauty is not skin deep, it is an overall package.

I have met some beautiful ladies of the larger size, I say be happy in the skin you are in.

A woman is a woman, does not matter if they are large or skinny, it is the peson who you want to spend time with, not the body."

or in between

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs"

Wow 3ft taller! Can i meet your 8ft 4 friend please

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM) over a year ago

birmingham

"A woman is a woman, does not matter if they are large or skinny, it is the peson who you want to spend time with, not the body."

Of course body size matter's when considering a sexual meet, we have numerous bbw friends we socialise with frequently, not one of them would I consider fvking tho!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Turn off for me I'm afraid.

Size 12 or over, a turn off for me."

aw shucks, won't be interested in me then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nearly 6foot and mostly legs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs

Wow 3ft taller! Can i meet your 8ft 4 friend please

pmsl okay smarty pants, I meant inches

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A woman is a woman, does not matter if they are large or skinny, it is the peson who you want to spend time with, not the body.

Of course body size matter's when considering a sexual meet, we have numerous bbw friends we socialise with frequently, not one of them would I consider fvking tho! "

And that is your choice, from YOUR friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs

Wow 3ft taller! Can i meet your 8ft 4 friend please

pmsl okay smarty pants, I meant inches

I was guessing that

I will live in hope i find a 8ft plus big bird

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is what is on the inside that counts, you can have a stunner, who makes heads turn, but they could be the nastiest person in the world, beauty is not skin deep, it is an overall package.

I have met some beautiful ladies of the larger size, I say be happy in the skin you are in.

A woman is a woman, does not matter if they are large or skinny, it is the peson who you want to spend time with, not the body.

or in between"

Yes PLease

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs

Wow 3ft taller! Can i meet your 8ft 4 friend please

pmsl okay smarty pants, I meant inches

I was guessing that

I will live in hope i find a 8ft plus big bird

lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No ONE is Perfect No matter what size Big small middle size .... Thing i hate is when others put people down because of size ...... be so boring if we all was same size ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" No ONE is Perfect No matter what size Big small middle size .... Thing i hate is when others put people down because of size ...... be so boring if we all was same size .."

Scuse me, my mammy said I was

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" No ONE is Perfect No matter what size Big small middle size .... Thing i hate is when others put people down because of size ...... be so boring if we all was same size ..

Scuse me, my mammy said I was

"
in her eyes you maybe xxx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM) over a year ago

birmingham

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM) over a year ago

birmingham

"Turn off for me I'm afraid.

Size 12 or over, a turn off for me.

aw shucks, won't be interested in me then

I like your postings

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" No ONE is Perfect No matter what size Big small middle size .... Thing i hate is when others put people down because of size ...... be so boring if we all was same size ..

Scuse me, my mammy said I was

in her eyes you maybe xxx"

alas! I don't wanna shag her

I'm perfectly happy being imperfect in a perfect way because it works for me and mine, in our world

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM) over a year ago

birmingham

"Thing i hate is when others put people down because of size ...... "

A bit like breasts

some beautiful ones

and some that are err

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs

Wow 3ft taller! Can i meet your 8ft 4 friend please

pmsl okay smarty pants, I meant inches

makes note to ones self not to take your word on the size of the cock of the guy u shag......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs

Wow 3ft taller! Can i meet your 8ft 4 friend please

pmsl okay smarty pants, I meant inches

makes note to ones self not to take your word on the size of the cock of the guy u shag......

lmfao!! ello stranger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs

Wow 3ft taller! Can i meet your 8ft 4 friend please

pmsl okay smarty pants, I meant inches

makes note to ones self not to take your word on the size of the cock of the guy u shag......

lmfao!! ello stranger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs

Wow 3ft taller! Can i meet your 8ft 4 friend please

pmsl okay smarty pants, I meant inches

makes note to ones self not to take your word on the size of the cock of the guy u shag......

lmfao!! ello stranger

"
i wont be a stranger after i have eaten you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thing i hate is when others put people down because of size ......

A bit like breasts

some beautiful ones

and some that are err

"
well i would never put a man down for a small one , lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs

Wow 3ft taller! Can i meet your 8ft 4 friend please

pmsl okay smarty pants, I meant inches

makes note to ones self not to take your word on the size of the cock of the guy u shag......

lmfao!! ello stranger

i wont be a stranger after i have eaten you

And you know now I'll give glowing re_iews on the length of your tongue pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ingleguy1973Man over a year ago

peterborough

" No ONE is Perfect No matter what size Big small middle size .... Thing i hate is when others put people down because of size ...... be so boring if we all was same size ..

Scuse me, my mammy said I was

in her eyes you maybe xxx

alas! I don't wanna shag her

I'm perfectly happy being imperfect in a perfect way because it works for me and mine, in our world

its the imperections that make people attractive... look at pamala anderson, got it all on paper; blond hair, blue eyes, big tits etc but something not quite right then look at sarah michelle gellar; funny little button nose but still gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

shine through!

No I dont think a size 14 is BBW, as size 12 is considered to be average"

no 12 is NOT average

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" No ONE is Perfect No matter what size Big small middle size .... Thing i hate is when others put people down because of size ...... be so boring if we all was same size ..

Scuse me, my mammy said I was

in her eyes you maybe xxx

alas! I don't wanna shag her

I'm perfectly happy being imperfect in a perfect way because it works for me and mine, in our world

Course it's not quite right with Pamela. She a BLEACHED blonde for a start. Plastic body. Plastic face.. false everything.

I do like her. But she's a manufactured sex doll like Jordan. Who I also like but NOT the way they look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"it's a big turn on for me. Women should never feel bad about themselvs. Usually find that bbw are a lot happier with who they are

as compared to?????

Wonder how many will be dieting in 10 days time ?

Me me me me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But would any of us ladies meet a BBM?

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

shine through!

No I dont think a size 14 is BBW, as size 12 is considered to be average

no 12 is NOT average"

Indeed it isn't. Size 16 is the UK average size for women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A woman is a woman, does not matter if they are large or skinny, it is the peson who you want to spend time with, not the body.

Of course body size matter's when considering a sexual meet, we have numerous bbw friends we socialise with frequently, not one of them would I consider fvking tho! "

They do know your thoughts though ?

Great to socialise and not good enough for fvcking !!!

Normally some guys like it the other way round

will fvck ya but wont be seen out with ya.

Luckily...all the guys ive met over the years have enjoyed both, but then i pick Nice guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with polo,most uk woman are size 16 and I would not class that as BBW.

There is chubby then there is curvy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But would any of us ladies meet a BBM?"

Big black man ????

Oh yes, known a few in my time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But would any of us ladies meet a BBM?

Big black man ????

Oh yes, known a few in my time

I think we all would peaches xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

im 5ft 3.

and i have found women who are curvy to be very eager in bed.

i have always had a great time with curvy or bbw women.

i dont really like the term bbw as i only see the person in front of me. ok she is no supermodel but i love them.

they are honest,caring and real.

and i always end up laughing and enjoying my time with them.

you ladies are wonderful xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its just the same as meeting guys...

If i meet someone and they are nice and funny make me laugh and have that twinkle in the eyes.

I dont really give a stuff what size they are if im honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im 5ft 3.

and i have found women who are curvy to be very eager in bed.

i have always had a great time with curvy or bbw women.

i dont really like the term bbw as i only see the person in front of me. ok she is no supermodel but i love them.

they are honest,caring and real.

and i always end up laughing and enjoying my time with them.

you ladies are wonderful xxxxxxx"

Not to stir up a hornet's nest, just genuinely curious. Does that mean you find slim women to be dishonest, uncaring and fake? From reading this thread and others like it, there seems to be a common theme coming out of them which is rather unflattering to the non-BBW! There also seems to be a general consensous that it's perfectly okay to ridicule slim women but it's absolutely rude and impolite to call a BBW fat. I am genuinely curious here, in your experience are slim women gits and fat women great fun? And can slim girls have a fancy name too? SBW? Slim beautiful women? Doesn't have the same ring though lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They are fat aren't they ... fat fat fat.

I think prisoners of war ate them all cos i never see a bbw in stripey jammies staring through the barbed wire. More pork pie Hitler.

Actually .... you are right I made that point on another thread. Although people say they like BBWs' they seem to treat them as a separate species.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once more for the record. Im fat. just in case any BBW is sobbing over her cup cake.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM) over a year ago

birmingham

"They do know your thoughts though ?

What's with the roly eyes? as for our females friends knowing my "preference" yes they do!

"Great to socialise and not good enough for fvcking !!!"

No idea what that's about! I take it you know what "preference" is?

"will fvck ya but wont be seen out with ya.

Ha, we will be seen out with ya, even you, but won't fvck ya!!

"but then i pick Nice guys

We only have your word for that!!!

See, I posted without any roly eyes!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Luv you Biiiiiiii... ha . your fat friend granny xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM) over a year ago

birmingham

"Once more for the record. Im fat"

Ah, but you're also loveable

Sadly, some bbw's aren’t

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oi .....im not BBW ( insert grumpy smiley}

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"oi .....im not BBW ( insert grumpy smiley}"

BBG?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM) over a year ago

birmingham

"oi .....im not BBW ( insert grumpy smiley}"

OK, you're "tasty" then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They are fat aren't they ... fat fat fat.

I think prisoners of war ate them all cos i never see a bbw in stripey jammies staring through the barbed wire. More pork pie Hitler.

Actually .... you are right I made that point on another thread. Although people say they like BBWs' they seem to treat them as a separate species. "

Absolutely pmsl at the prisoner of war bit and stripey pyjamas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im 5ft 3.

and i have found women who are curvy to be very eager in bed.

i have always had a great time with curvy or bbw women.

i dont really like the term bbw as i only see the person in front of me. ok she is no supermodel but i love them.

they are honest,caring and real.

and i always end up laughing and enjoying my time with them.

you ladies are wonderful xxxxxxx

not it doesnt have the same ring to it.

your right.

i just take people as they are to be honest.

if we get along then great.size doesnt always come into it.

and we do put too many lables on things dont we.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im 5ft 3.

and i have found women who are curvy to be very eager in bed.

i have always had a great time with curvy or bbw women.

i dont really like the term bbw as i only see the person in front of me. ok she is no supermodel but i love them.

they are honest,caring and real.

and i always end up laughing and enjoying my time with them.

you ladies are wonderful xxxxxxx

i agree with slutty here, ive seen it so many times on the forums and in the chat rooms where slim women are reffured to as stick insects etc and for some reason this is ok but if you called a big woman a beached whale there would be a uproar, never understood that one

at the end of the day people are people, you either like someone or you dont, be them tall, short, fat, thin

i doubt anyone would shag someone really based on looks alone, surely if you going to spend a night with someone you need to get alone too and its easy not to like someone your attracted too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im 5ft 3.

and i have found women who are curvy to be very eager in bed.

i have always had a great time with curvy or bbw women.

i dont really like the term bbw as i only see the person in front of me. ok she is no supermodel but i love them.

they are honest,caring and real.

and i always end up laughing and enjoying my time with them.

you ladies are wonderful xxxxxxx

at the end of the day people are people, you either like someone or you dont, be them tall, short, fat, thin

i doubt anyone would shag someone really based on looks alone, surely if you going to spend a night with someone you need to get alone too and its easy not to like someone your attracted too

correct.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

at the end of the day people are people, you either like someone or you dont, be them tall, short, fat, thin

i doubt anyone would shag someone really based on looks alone, surely if you going to spend a night with someone you need to get alone too and its easy not to like someone your attracted too

Well, I'm slim, petite, but also see myself as being funny, caring, honest (sometimes too honest) but MY SIZE does not deter/infer me as a person or from being who I am.....and certainly does not render me a fake either! I'm maybe too fussy at times, but I just call that standards!! - ok mini rant over lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"To quote Calvin Harris.

I like all the girls."

and this girl likes your bum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"it's a big turn on for me. Women should never feel bad about themselvs. Usually find that bbw are a lot happier with who they are

as compared to?????

Wonder how many will be dieting in 10 days time ?

We both work in the leisure/fitness industry and as a rule towards the end of January, early February the gym membership swells with the New Years Resolutionists, many of them BBW's.

On average about one in six will be there two months later, so it shows that they're not always that happy with who they are.........on the other hand they're not that unhappy that they stick at it either.

XXXX

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sorry, but I have just read some of the comments on this thread and think some of them are very offensive!!!

Just because I am slim and look after myself (no offence meant to anybody else) I am not happy or content with my body??? Bollocks.....I love my shape and size and am very proud and confident within myself, I don't need someone putting a lable or a generalisation against who I am, god... sometimes I wonder!!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"it's a big turn on for me. Women should never feel bad about themselvs. Usually find that bbw are a lot happier with who they are

as compared to?????

Wonder how many will be dieting in 10 days time ?

We both work in the leisure/fitness industry and as a rule towards the end of January, early February the gym membership swells with the New Years Resolutionists, many of them BBW's.

XXXX"

its not that its just we're lazy

lost count of the number of times i have joined a gym only to cancel it 2 moths later cos i never go or started going to weight watchers only to be the same weight 8 weeks down the line so now i just say 'fuck it' i am what i am!!!

i couldnt afford to be skinny anyway - i like only being able to shop in 3 shops lol

ladies (and gentleman) we are ALL beautiful no matter what size, shape, weight, colour, creed (whatever that means

) etc lets just take a moment to celebrate all that we are and all that makes us unique in our own special ways xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"will fvck ya but wont be seen out with ya. "

Ha, we will be seen out with ya, even you, but won't fvck ya!!

WELL......that makes two of us then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs

Wow 3ft taller! Can i meet your 8ft 4 friend please

An 8'4" friend with shorter legs than someone 3' shorter?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is 3ft taller than me but has shorter legs

Wow 3ft taller! Can i meet your 8ft 4 friend please

An 8'4" friend with shorter legs than someone 3' shorter?

Okay okay ya buggers!! lol

I muddled ma feet wi ma inches

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We both work in the leisure/fitness industry and as a rule towards the end of January, early February the gym membership swells with the New Years Resolutionists, many of them BBW's.

XXXX"

the fact of it is...you can be as thin as a pole or as big as me...and not be happy with everything.

My size doesnt bother me as much as my health and as I get excellent health checks and have (apparently) perfect posture...i'm not going to worry yet.

it's not just these women that are not happy.

one of my closest friends has to buy childrens clothes because she is so slim, her hip bones literally poke out through ehr clothes...yet, she could eat me under the table any day and, guess what, she's not happy....and guess what else? she's actually not as fit as me.

would consider my health over size any day of the week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

fascinating topic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its the person that turns you on - regardless of size - be happy in who and what you are....thats the best sexual attribute anyone can have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is what I was saying before yes I am a bbw and love my curves but dont enjoy the way some of the guys treat me they make me feel like a dirty little secret or a fetish.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is what I was saying before yes I am a bbw and love my curves but dont enjoy the way some of the guys treat me they make me feel like a dirty little secret or a fetish. "

too right.be proud of who you are xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im quite bored with this topic now...

No one should have to justify or defend their size/shape to anyone.

If ya dont like...dont look or get in touch.

simples.

I likes me...plenty of others like me so im not at all bothered

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im quite bored with this topic now...

No one should have to justify or defend their size/shape to anyone.

If ya dont like...dont look or get in touch.

simples.

I likes me...plenty of others like me so im not at all bothered

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your lovely xx just how you are.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

I can be 100% honest here too... apart from the times I've been to Chams... I have never met someone in swinging circles and fucked them WITHOUT meeting them for a drink or a meal beforehand. I most certainly do not expect to be 'taken' out... I'm solvent and independent and it's not about getting what you can out of someone... it's about being comfortable and having a good time and if that involves being a little bit sociable in the beginning then so be it.

I'm a single girl and apart from my own safety, meeting in a public place gives me the chance to know whether I actually want to fuck the person I'm meeting.

It doesn't work like that for everyone which I guess is lucky for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"hi im a bbw and tend to get alot and i mean alot of men emailing me and as soon as i tell them im a bbw they dont want to know, can these men read my profile states im a bbw ffs.

question is do bbw ladies turn u on or off "

Long thread! Not reading it, so will just add:

Immense turn off for me (the male), absolutely immense.

But then I can also read profiles - as the OP said, many simply cannot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What they come with on off switches now???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What they come with on off switches now???

wish the brain did sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What they come with on off switches now???

wish the brain did sometimes

Oh plenty you can turn on but then turn off so much quicker lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope I get to play with some BBWs in 2011.... Any gorgeous Brummie BBWs please feel free to inbox me x

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