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"All the clubs we go to mobile phones and cameras etc are banned for obvious reasons! Z" this was a well known club maybe i should have told them ,, just was thinking it was strange ,,, but had the stuff from gum to show woman. | |||
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"All the clubs we go to mobile phones and cameras etc are banned for obvious reasons! Zthis was a well known club maybe i should have told them ,, just was thinking it was strange ,,, but had the stuff from gum to show woman." lol - and he couldn't have edited it? That kind of behaviour smacks of desperation or duplicity to me! Z | |||
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"All the clubs we go to mobile phones and cameras etc are banned for obvious reasons! Zthis was a well known club maybe i should have told them ,, just was thinking it was strange ,,, but had the stuff from gum to show woman." i thought all clubs banned phones and cameras or maybe they haven't learnt there lesson from the various newspaper stings.... would love to know the club..... | |||
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"Any image thats records video etc is normaly banned but phones are so small everyone just takes them in. they rely on people keeping them in there pockets & not useing them. I think it is a rule that can never really be inforced, as people will always say what if the baby sitters needs to contact me etc etc there will always be exscuses. Start to worry if some one is pointing 1 at you !!!" would it not be possible to set phone to call divert to club house phone, that way ensuring contact was still possible | |||
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"Can understand why people take phones babysitters etc.... But surely it's not beyond the wit of man or woman to leave them in the locker and keep checking them................................................................................Is it?????????????" But it could be an emergency and their child could be on their way to hospital! Fuck knows what sort of baby sitter they hired 
So they have to have it with them, just in case.
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"would it not be possible to set phone to call divert to club house phone, that way ensuring contact was still possible" The divert is of course possible. Locating the wanted person may be a bit trickier....has anyone seen Bob & Jan? Bob's wearing a towel and Jan's got a basque on.... Plus now the babysitter knows the name of the "restaurant" you've gone to... | |||
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"would it not be possible to set phone to call divert to club house phone, that way ensuring contact was still possible The divert is of course possible. Locating the wanted person may be a bit trickier....has anyone seen Bob & Jan? Bob's wearing a towel and Jan's got a basque on.... Plus now the babysitter knows the name of the "restaurant" you've gone to... " i hadnt suggested a web cam, so whats the relevance of what they are wearing? | |||
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"It's relevant because having had their mobile diverted to the club phone, it's going to be answered by a member of staff. Who is then going to need to identify one specific couple from all of the other couples milling around (many of whom may actually be part of another couple), when they're all dressed broadly alike. Does that explain it?" surely names would be easier to use | |||
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"It's relevant because having had their mobile diverted to the club phone, it's going to be answered by a member of staff. Who is then going to need to identify one specific couple from all of the other couples milling around (many of whom may actually be part of another couple), when they're all dressed broadly alike. Does that explain it? surely names would be easier to use" Indeed they would.... especially if they are having to go around knocking on all the locked private rooms or trying to spot the appropriate couple in the middle of a naked pile of bodies. But then if you absolutely NEED to be in immediate contact with someone else.... surely it's just better NOT to go somewhere the rules say you shouldn't carry your phone around with you. | |||
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"hahaaa...REALLY don't want my babysitter knowing I'm off to that kind of club. Can you imagine?! Bar Staff....."Has anyone seen Kate?" hand loosely over the speaker..... Other member..."yeah she's in the dungeon...do you need her? She's tied up tell them to call back in 10!" I think not "staff could bring mobile to her, and speak between lashes. gives a whole new meaning to at the third stroke it will be ....... | |||
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" But then if you absolutely NEED to be in immediate contact with someone else.... surely it's just better NOT to go somewhere the rules say you shouldn't carry your phone around with you." That will never happen though because that would be common sense and in some people sense is not too common. | |||
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"It's relevant because having had their mobile diverted to the club phone, it's going to be answered by a member of staff. Who is then going to need to identify one specific couple from all of the other couples milling around (many of whom may actually be part of another couple), when they're all dressed broadly alike. Does that explain it? surely names would be easier to use" Do you wear a name badge in a club? | |||
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"hahaaa...REALLY don't want my babysitter knowing I'm off to that kind of club. Can you imagine?! Bar Staff....."Has anyone seen Kate?" hand loosely over the speaker..... Other member..."yeah she's in the dungeon...do you need her? She's tied up tell them to call back in 10!" I think not
staff could bring mobile to her, and speak between lashes.
gives a whole new meaning to at the third stroke it will be ....... "It isn't a mobile...this is your scenario - where 20 couples and 30 single men all divert their mobiles to the club's landline. | |||
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"It's relevant because having had their mobile diverted to the club phone, it's going to be answered by a member of staff. Who is then going to need to identify one specific couple from all of the other couples milling around (many of whom may actually be part of another couple), when they're all dressed broadly alike. Does that explain it? surely names would be easier to use Do you wear a name badge in a club?" im not sure what your problem is but perhaps it would be better to ignore any posts i make, it seems to me, you just looking to continue whatever grudge you have. im not playing your silly game | |||
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"It's relevant because having had their mobile diverted to the club phone, it's going to be answered by a member of staff. Who is then going to need to identify one specific couple from all of the other couples milling around (many of whom may actually be part of another couple), when they're all dressed broadly alike. Does that explain it? surely names would be easier to use Do you wear a name badge in a club? im not sure what your problem is but perhaps it would be better to ignore any posts i make, it seems to me, you just looking to continue whatever grudge you have. im not playing your silly game "quick, get the phones in yer handbags | |||
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"We have new contenders for the next jelly wrestling match at the Beach Party.
(oops mentioned the Beach Party..lol)"i hope i can come to next party ,, lol love to be in the jelly and no pics please ,, lol phones out of the way | |||
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"It's relevant because having had their mobile diverted to the club phone, it's going to be answered by a member of staff. Who is then going to need to identify one specific couple from all of the other couples milling around (many of whom may actually be part of another couple), when they're all dressed broadly alike. Does that explain it? surely names would be easier to use" no name badges would be useless if people were in the jacuzzi or the gang bang room | |||
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"i see the play grounds filling up again "You started it! | |||
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"i see the play grounds filling up again
You started it! "are you an adult or a child. grow up | |||
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"If you are in such a situation that you may need to be reached with such urgency, you probably shouldn't be going out." My sentiments exactly! | |||
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"i see the play grounds filling up again
You started it!
are you an adult or a child.
grow up"For crying out loud!!!! Do the rest of us have to be subjected to this pettiness every day?!!!  | |||
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"If you are in such a situation that you may need to be reached with such urgency, you probably shouldn't be going out." i have two small children, my babysitter is very trustworthy and reliable but accidents do happen, does this mean i shouldn't be out of the house without them until they are adults?? | |||
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"If you are in such a situation that you may need to be reached with such urgency, you probably shouldn't be going out. i have two small children, my babysitter is very trustworthy and reliable but accidents do happen, does this mean i shouldn't be out of the house without them until they are adults??" No it doesn't, and it's not just applicable to parents. Some people can't go ANYWHERE without their mobile phones: it's like an extension of their hand. I have children too, and a job that means I maybe on call...my phone is not glued to my hand though! | |||
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"If you are in such a situation that you may need to be reached with such urgency, you probably shouldn't be going out. i have two small children, my babysitter is very trustworthy and reliable but accidents do happen, does this mean i shouldn't be out of the house without them until they are adults??" Well what did you / would you have done before mobiles? People have given birth for a long time. We've had phones for 15 odd years. | |||
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"If you are in such a situation that you may need to be reached with such urgency, you probably shouldn't be going out. i have two small children, my babysitter is very trustworthy and reliable but accidents do happen, does this mean i shouldn't be out of the house without them until they are adults?? Well what did you / would you have done before mobiles? People have given birth for a long time. We've had phones for 15 odd years." i would've used a payphone to call home to check everything was ok, like my parents did, but as i have a mobile phone there is no need for that. it is easier to go to my locker to check i have no missed calls than it is to go to my locker for change then go to the phone to call home. | |||
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"i would have thought the over riding factor here is the security of privacy issue. would you rather allow phones to be carried and take the risk of some illicit photographs being taken and maybe published or check your phone every whatever time period you choose." Exactly. I'm amazed clubs even let them in. | |||
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"Well what did you / would you have done before mobiles? People have given birth for a long time. We've had phones for 15 odd years." I don't agree that it's that simple. Just because communication used to be more difficult, doesn't mean we should we able to return to those times at the flick of a switch - the accessibility of communication is at the core of our society these days, so it's understandable that people default to using it in all situations. | |||
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"If you are in such a situation that you may need to be reached with such urgency, you probably shouldn't be going out. i have two small children, my babysitter is very trustworthy and reliable but accidents do happen, does this mean i shouldn't be out of the house without them until they are adults?? Well what did you / would you have done before mobiles? People have given birth for a long time. We've had phones for 15 odd years. i would've used a payphone to call home to check everything was ok, like my parents did, but as i have a mobile phone there is no need for that. it is easier to go to my locker to check i have no missed calls than it is to go to my locker for change then go to the phone to call home. " I don't think anyone has a problem with that. It's the ones who 'think' they have a reason to walk around with their phone on them............... they don't! | |||
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"I just realised the title is abput clubs and 'parties' Now then.... I took a camera to Wishy's 40th B-day party and took loads of snaps. Anyone wishing to know what year that was.... I'll be accepting sealed bids on the run up to Christmas. " Oi! Shut yer face bout that!! I've never seen your photos, email 'em over. | |||
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"I just realised the title is abput clubs and 'parties' Now then.... I took a camera to Wishy's 40th B-day party and took loads of snaps. Anyone wishing to know what year that was.... I'll be accepting sealed bids on the run up to Christmas. Oi! Shut yer face bout that!! I've never seen your photos, email 'em over. "E-mail? e-mail em over? Good grief they're acetates aren't they? | |||
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"I just realised the title is abput clubs and 'parties' Now then.... I took a camera to Wishy's 40th B-day party and took loads of snaps. Anyone wishing to know what year that was.... I'll be accepting sealed bids on the run up to Christmas. Oi! Shut yer face bout that!! I've never seen your photos, email 'em over.
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"We had our phones with us in Chams as it was the first time we'd been out overnight away from littleun and Siren flatly refused to be unreachable. If that's a problem for the club or anyone else attending then bollocks to them. " That's not a very good attitude is it? If you feel the need to keep your phone on you, well, that's up to you, but stating openly on here that you think that rules don't need to be obeyed isn't very clever. There maybe people out there reading this, with sensitive personal circumstances obliging them to be discreet (Oi! William! Bi night is Monday mate! And bring Ffion) thinking of going to Chams, but who are now not so sure, seeing as people apparently flout the rules about phones. What other rules are broken with impunity? It's a slippery slope, especially as there may be people who are less honorable than you and your partner, with less respect for other rules, where does it end? Rules is rules mate, for good reason, if YOU don't like them, stay away,simple. There used to be (dunno, might still be) a notice up saying that anyone caught with a phone in there would be barred, phones were only to be switched on and used in reception. Seems good enough for me, leave it in your locker and check it every hour or whatever. If I saw you with your phone, you'd be fishing it out of the jacuzzi. (And yes, I have done it before. The knuckle-dragging twat who owned it declined to go outside and discuss it further - confirming a guilty conscience IMHO.) | |||
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"Are they allowed without a camera?" In some clubs they are - as it is the camera photo/video function which is the issue. But another solution is to buy a cheap pager. | |||
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"OMG you can't even get away from the things when you are in a sex club, imagine just getting down to it and his phone rings !" The ones who make me laugh... and this is usually women... are the ones who sit texting all night in the locker room and smoking deck....... ffs why did you bother coming out if you are just gonna send text messages all fecking night! Surely they can wrap themselves in a towel at home and do that. | |||
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"OMG you can't even get away from the things when you are in a sex club, imagine just getting down to it and his phone rings !" Thats gotta be a bigger crime than leaving socks on | |||
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"OMG you can't even get away from the things when you are in a sex club, imagine just getting down to it and his phone rings ! Thats gotta be a bigger crime than leaving socks on "If he doesn't leave his socks on.... where will he put his phone? | |||
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"Can just picture it now, all the geeks running around with bluetooth earpieces "Yeah! if not bluetooth earpiece,,,,hes got a blackeye! lol | |||
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"would it not be possible to set phone to call divert to club house phone, that way ensuring contact was still possible The divert is of course possible. Locating the wanted person may be a bit trickier....has anyone seen Bob & Jan? Bob's wearing a towel and Jan's got a basque on.... Plus now the babysitter knows the name of the "restaurant" you've gone to... i hadnt suggested a web cam, so whats the relevance of what they are wearing? "i hadnt noticed anyone mention a webcam but for the record, Chameleons is classed as a sauna club therefore men wear towels and the ladies can either do the same or wear sexy underwear unless its a special party, like the annual Pussy Posse Beach Party in which case, men could wear shorts and ladies bikinis | |||
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" Personally I think mobiles are a bloody curse, you can't do anything anymore without someone calling you, and why I switch mine off a lot If we went to clubs though and saw someone with a phone with a camera we would be really peed off." Same here as i think no-one would really want pictures of them sent round work would they | |||
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"We had our phones with us in Chams as it was the first time we'd been out overnight away from littleun and Siren flatly refused to be unreachable. If that's a problem for the club or anyone else attending then bollocks to them. That's not a very good attitude is it? If you feel the need to keep your phone on you, well, that's up to you, but stating openly on here that you think that rules don't need to be obeyed isn't very clever. There maybe people out there reading this, with sensitive personal circumstances obliging them to be discreet (Oi! William! Bi night is Monday mate! And bring Ffion) thinking of going to Chams, but who are now not so sure, seeing as people apparently flout the rules about phones. What other rules are broken with impunity? It's a slippery slope, especially as there may be people who are less honorable than you and your partner, with less respect for other rules, where does it end? Rules is rules mate, for good reason, if YOU don't like them, stay away,simple. There used to be (dunno, might still be) a notice up saying that anyone caught with a phone in there would be barred, phones were only to be switched on and used in reception. Seems good enough for me, leave it in your locker and check it every hour or whatever. If I saw you with your phone, you'd be fishing it out of the jacuzzi. (And yes, I have done it before. The knuckle-dragging twat who owned it declined to go outside and discuss it further - confirming a guilty conscience IMHO.) " If you notice though, he did say it was the first time they had been away from the little ones, so personally having kids myself, im with them on that one, nothing worse than worrying all night about the kids, one cannot relax and enjoy oneself, i know ive been there myself, and ive also babysat for a couple with a new baby, they kept popping back to the room on and off all night. On the other hand, as ive said earlier though, no-one wants to find pictures of themselves being sent round the office. Thank goodness my kids are grown up now as i didnt worry at all sunday night | |||
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"I don't know why people need phones in clubs of any sort. 20 years back I went out to clubs, pubs, whatever and noone had one. Didn't change anything. This whole thing of "always being reachable" is some kind of social fallacy. If you are in such a situation that you may need to be reached with such urgency, you probably shouldn't be going out." Thats true and i used to walk home from nightclubs to the house on the council estate where i lived, and safely too but i could easily use a payphone if i needed too | |||
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"We had our phones with us in Chams as it was the first time we'd been out overnight away from littleun and Siren flatly refused to be unreachable. If that's a problem for the club or anyone else attending then bollocks to them. That's not a very good attitude is it? If you feel the need to keep your phone on you, well, that's up to you, but stating openly on here that you think that rules don't need to be obeyed isn't very clever. There maybe people out there reading this, with sensitive personal circumstances obliging them to be discreet (Oi! William! Bi night is Monday mate! And bring Ffion) thinking of going to Chams, but who are now not so sure, seeing as people apparently flout the rules about phones. What other rules are broken with impunity? It's a slippery slope, especially as there may be people who are less honorable than you and your partner, with less respect for other rules, where does it end? Rules is rules mate, for good reason, if YOU don't like them, stay away,simple. There used to be (dunno, might still be) a notice up saying that anyone caught with a phone in there would be barred, phones were only to be switched on and used in reception. Seems good enough for me, leave it in your locker and check it every hour or whatever. If I saw you with your phone, you'd be fishing it out of the jacuzzi. (And yes, I have done it before. The knuckle-dragging twat who owned it declined to go outside and discuss it further - confirming a guilty conscience IMHO.) " Ah right, so our 'crime' is not taking the phones with us, but openly stating that we did? (we saw plenty of people using mobiles on Sunday in Chams so obviously a lot of people think it is a silly rule and are prepared to defy it). If we decide to take our phones with us wherever we go it is of no business of yours. And trust me, if you threw it in the jacuzzi you wouldn't have had to wait to go outside to settle the matter as you'd have been going in after it a split second later. If you've got kids of your own you would know how a first time mother feels about going out for the night leaving her child with other people for the first time. Life doesn't cease when you have kids. For the record, my phone does not have a camera built into it as it is a work phone and a camera phone is not neccessary for my job, so they provide a basic phone only. It was set to discrete so only I heard it when it beeped. How is that intrusive to anyone? | |||
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"We had our phones with us in Chams as it was the first time we'd been out overnight away from littleun and Siren flatly refused to be unreachable. If that's a problem for the club or anyone else attending then bollocks to them. That's not a very good attitude is it? If you feel the need to keep your phone on you, well, that's up to you, but stating openly on here that you think that rules don't need to be obeyed isn't very clever. There maybe people out there reading this, with sensitive personal circumstances obliging them to be discreet (Oi! William! Bi night is Monday mate! And bring Ffion) thinking of going to Chams, but who are now not so sure, seeing as people apparently flout the rules about phones. What other rules are broken with impunity? It's a slippery slope, especially as there may be people who are less honorable than you and your partner, with less respect for other rules, where does it end? Rules is rules mate, for good reason, if YOU don't like them, stay away,simple. There used to be (dunno, might still be) a notice up saying that anyone caught with a phone in there would be barred, phones were only to be switched on and used in reception. Seems good enough for me, leave it in your locker and check it every hour or whatever. If I saw you with your phone, you'd be fishing it out of the jacuzzi. (And yes, I have done it before. The knuckle-dragging twat who owned it declined to go outside and discuss it further - confirming a guilty conscience IMHO.) Ah right, so our 'crime' is not taking the phones with us, but openly stating that we did? (we saw plenty of people using mobiles on Sunday in Chams so obviously a lot of people think it is a silly rule and are prepared to defy it). If we decide to take our phones with us wherever we go it is of no business of yours. And trust me, if you threw it in the jacuzzi you wouldn't have had to wait to go outside to settle the matter as you'd have been going in after it a split second later. If you've got kids of your own you would know how a first time mother feels about going out for the night leaving her child with other people for the first time. Life doesn't cease when you have kids. For the record, my phone does not have a camera built into it as it is a work phone and a camera phone is not neccessary for my job, so they provide a basic phone only. It was set to discrete so only I heard it when it beeped. How is that intrusive to anyone?" So, basically, rules are rules unless you want to break them and if others break them as well? | |||
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"So, basically, rules are rules unless you want to break them and if others break them as well?" Stupid rules deserve to be broken. If the sign said 'No camera phones' I'd support such a rule. I couldn't take a photo with it, nor record anyone shagging with it (although I don't think anyone would want sound only). It was on silent and disturbed nobody, but gave Siren peace of mind to enjoy herself. Is that such a crime? | |||
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"Do you think phones should be allowed in cinemas? Or do you hate it when that idiot at the front takes his call? Rules are only stupid when you *don't like them*. Which doesn't actually make them stupid, just means you have an opinion." You're talking semantics here. If the issue of barring phones in swinging clubs is to prevent unwanted photos being taken then a cameras without such a facility should be permissable. A discrete beep affects nobody in a noisy club full of people in all sorts of throws of passion, but in a cinema where silence is expected so that all can enjoy the movie is a different matter entirely. | |||
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"Do you think phones should be allowed in cinemas? Or do you hate it when that idiot at the front takes his call? Rules are only stupid when you *don't like them*. Which doesn't actually make them stupid, just means you have an opinion. You're talking semantics here. If the issue of barring phones in swinging clubs is to prevent unwanted photos being taken then a cameras without such a facility should be permissable. A discrete beep affects nobody in a noisy club full of people in all sorts of throws of passion, but in a cinema where silence is expected so that all can enjoy the movie is a different matter entirely. " Yes I am talking semantics but then, so are you. You believe a rule needs to be changed to accommodate you and others in your position, but you don't respect what people not in your position want. I'm sorry but being a parent doesn't give you automatic rights to behave a certain way. As I said long ago in this post people have given birth since we were monkeys and we've only had mobiles for 15 years. | |||
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"Do you think phones should be allowed in cinemas? Or do you hate it when that idiot at the front takes his call? Rules are only stupid when you *don't like them*. Which doesn't actually make them stupid, just means you have an opinion. You're talking semantics here. If the issue of barring phones in swinging clubs is to prevent unwanted photos being taken then a cameras without such a facility should be permissable. A discrete beep affects nobody in a noisy club full of people in all sorts of throws of passion, but in a cinema where silence is expected so that all can enjoy the movie is a different matter entirely. Yes I am talking semantics but then, so are you. You believe a rule needs to be changed to accommodate you and others in your position, but you don't respect what people not in your position want. I'm sorry but being a parent doesn't give you automatic rights to behave a certain way. As I said long ago in this post people have given birth since we were monkeys and we've only had mobiles for 15 years." So what. We've had TVs for 50 years now but I don't see people standing round the fire singing songs of an evening anymore. Move with the times man, and understand that a communication device that allows one to keep tabs on what's happening at home whilst out and about is reassuring, comforting and just plain easy to do now. An establishment that doesn't move with the times will soon find itself bereft of clientelle. | |||
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" An establishment that doesn't move with the times will soon find itself bereft of clientelle." Not if you are the minority, it won't. | |||
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" An establishment that doesn't move with the times will soon find itself bereft of clientelle. Not if you are the minority, it won't." I saw plenty of phones on Sunday. Let's take Chams as an example. £10 per head entry. Average 150 people x £10 = £1,500 from the door alone. Factor in an average spend of £10 per head inside the club on soft drinks etc Another £1,500 Total : £3,000 per night Average that out over a week, taking account of lower attendances for weekdays and you're looking at a weekly income of something in the region of £15,000. Now remove all those that have been barred for using a phone. (Assume they've had a crack down and religiously banned everyone caught with one) The management would soon find their income down by a considerable % and would be forced to look at the rule regarding non-camera mobile phones. | |||
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".......... An establishment that doesn't move with the times will soon find itself bereft of clientelle." An establishment where there's even the possibility that some clients are in a position to be able take photographs of other clients in compromising situations - even if there's no evidence of them actually doing it - is far more likely to cause a haemorrage of punters. | |||
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" An establishment that doesn't move with the times will soon find itself bereft of clientelle. Not if you are the minority, it won't. I saw plenty of phones on Sunday. Let's take Chams as an example. £10 per head entry. Average 150 people x £10 = £1,500 from the door alone. Factor in an average spend of £10 per head inside the club on soft drinks etc Another £1,500 Total : £3,000 per night Average that out over a week, taking account of lower attendances for weekdays and you're looking at a weekly income of something in the region of £15,000. Now remove all those that have been barred for using a phone. (Assume they've had a crack down and religiously banned everyone caught with one) The management would soon find their income down by a considerable % and would be forced to look at the rule regarding non-camera mobile phones." Chameleons website tells us "Mobile Phones are only allowed in the locker rooms, anyone found using Camera phones or Camera's anywhere with the club will have their membership revoked." Perhaps someone involved with running the club will tell us whether that rule still applies or not. | |||
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".......... An establishment that doesn't move with the times will soon find itself bereft of clientelle. An establishment where there's even the possibility that some clients are in a position to be able take photographs of other clients in compromising situations - even if there's no evidence of them actually doing it - is far more likely to cause a haemorrage of punters." Exactly, the chance that someone, somewhere will take a photo of someone and do something bad with it far FAR outweighs the concerns of people who want to be able to use phones. And no, it'll never be a partial bad on camera phones because then the owners would have to check every single phone. | |||
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"Camera phones are prohibited outside of a locker room or reception areas in most adult clubs for good reason, I think the vast majority of people who use swingers and fetish clubs understand the reason for this ruling and comply. Maybe those that don't regularly frequent these kind of clubs see it a different way, but that won't defer from the perfectly understandable reasons that most clubs operate this rule." yes i think your right but some do i have seen them ,,,,showing of there phones and pics at clubs ... not saying all just some do. | |||
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"If someone wants to take photos in a club they will and probably not with a camera phone as there are so many covert devices you could use. But the fact is rules say no phones and that's for many different reasons. You join, you agree to membership rules and that should be the end of it. " So if a club rule stated that men must wear a Little Bo Peep outfit on their first, third and fifth visits it's a rule that should be followed rigorously, yes? Now, if it's a rule. One they've decided to have for whatever reason, regardless of it's silliness, should it be complied with? | |||
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"Fortunatley the vast majority of regular club attendees fully understand the reason for banning phones outside of locker areas so it isn't an issue really. Clubs are not going to change these rules to suit the minority so it isn't really ever likely to change." That's the strangest part though. A locker room is the one place where you're more likely to find people in various states of undress, or even totally naked than anywhere else. It's the last place where a phone should be allowed if it has a camera on it. | |||
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"I think when clubs weigh things like this up the need to protect the privacy of club members far outweighs the need to keep in touch with baby sitters. That won't change " I don't suppose it will but a relaxation of the rules if someone uses their phone in a quiet corner of the club to send a quick text or reply to one should be considered favourably. How long does it take to ascertain if a phone has a camera or not, you only have to look at it to see the lens. Rugby: Sorry, I don't get what you said there. The issue is phones taking photos isn't it? The locker room is where you'll be pretty much guaranteed to see naked or semi-naked people. | |||
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I had my dog in the car at Chams due to lack of dog sitter etc., and I did not want to leave him all alone in the hotel.
I made the effort to check up on him every 2h or so to make sure he is ok, much to the staff's amusement! | |||
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" I had my dog in the car at Chams due to lack of dog sitter etc., and I did not want to leave him all alone in the hotel. I made the effort to check up on him every 2h or so to make sure he is ok, much to the staff's amusement! "Awwwwwwww
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"Nowhere is too far for the determined, or willing to make the efforts if something is really that important to them IMHO!
I had my dog in the car at Chams due to lack of dog sitter etc., and I did not want to leave him all alone in the hotel.
I made the effort to check up on him every 2h or so to make sure he is ok, much to the staff's amusement! "They have a perfectly good garage where you could have left Fido with a blanket and a bowl of water. Our car was parked in it and there was plenty of room for him to roam about in. | |||
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"Rugby: Sorry, I don't get what you said there. The issue is phones taking photos isn't it? The locker room is where you'll be pretty much guaranteed to see naked or semi-naked people. " I think it was the Bo Peep scenario... | |||
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"Rugby: Sorry, I don't get what you said there. The issue is phones taking photos isn't it? The locker room is where you'll be pretty much guaranteed to see naked or semi-naked people. I think it was the Bo Peep scenario..." Ah, ok, thanks for the clarification. I was just trying to emphasise when a rule is silly it should be amended, and not blindly followed. | |||
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"I think when clubs weigh things like this up the need to protect the privacy of club members far outweighs the need to keep in touch with baby sitters. That won't change I don't suppose it will but a relaxation of the rules if someone uses their phone in a quiet corner of the club to send a quick text or reply to one should be considered favourably. How long does it take to ascertain if a phone has a camera or not, you only have to look at it to see the lens. Rugby: Sorry, I don't get what you said there. The issue is phones taking photos isn't it? The locker room is where you'll be pretty much guaranteed to see naked or semi-naked people. " Don't get me wrong, I know were Siren is coming from, and I can understand why you would want to make sure the littlen was ok, but if the rule was phones allowed in lockers, then maybe just keep going back to check your phone every now and then? I am guessing IF they are allowed in the lockers then Chams have thought about the fact people will be in there too, but maybe they are just trying to contain things and keep them in the same place? I am also guessing that if you were in your locker you would be more aware if someone was trying to take a photo than you would be if you were being pounded by someone in a playroom | |||
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"Rugby: Sorry, I don't get what you said there. The issue is phones taking photos isn't it? The locker room is where you'll be pretty much guaranteed to see naked or semi-naked people. I think it was the Bo Peep scenario..." lol yes it was........sorry wishy it was that that made me smile lol | |||
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"Rugby: Sorry, I don't get what you said there. The issue is phones taking photos isn't it? The locker room is where you'll be pretty much guaranteed to see naked or semi-naked people. I think it was the Bo Peep scenario... lol yes it was........sorry wishy it was that that made me smile lol" There are some who would complain that they couldn't wear such an outfit on every visit! | |||
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"I think when clubs weigh things like this up the need to protect the privacy of club members far outweighs the need to keep in touch with baby sitters. That won't change I don't suppose it will but a relaxation of the rules if someone uses their phone in a quiet corner of the club to send a quick text or reply to one should be considered favourably. How long does it take to ascertain if a phone has a camera or not, you only have to look at it to see the lens. Rugby: Sorry, I don't get what you said there. The issue is phones taking photos isn't it? The locker room is where you'll be pretty much guaranteed to see naked or semi-naked people. Don't get me wrong, I know were Siren is coming from, and I can understand why you would want to make sure the littlen was ok, but if the rule was phones allowed in lockers, then maybe just keep going back to check your phone every now and then? I am guessing IF they are allowed in the lockers then Chams have thought about the fact people will be in there too, but maybe they are just trying to contain things and keep them in the same place? I am also guessing that if you were in your locker you would be more aware if someone was trying to take a photo than you would be if you were being pounded by someone in a playroom "Um... this is gonna stir things up a bit, but.... we didn't have a locker. They gave us one but when they realised we were staying in one of the hotel rooms they took the locker key back as they reckoned we could go to our room to change etc. What they didn't realise was that Siren was not going to go outside wearing a bikini and a sarong, in the middle of Birmingham. (the door leading directly from the club upstairs to the the hotel rooms was locked whilst the club was open) | |||
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"You should have been a gent and gone instead in your mankini !!
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"I made sure I made the neccessary arrangements for him, even when it meant inconvenence to me, as I would hate to impose him on the club and other people.
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"I guess some peeps find it objectionable when a person knowingly breaks a rule and try and make it justifiable. "I'm not trying to justify keeping my phone with me at all. If the club staff had spotted me with it and asked me to leave, or turn it off, we would have left. We would have shown them it was not capable of taking photos but if they still insisted we leave then so be it. If all that bothered some people is a very low beep every couple of hours then, to be absolutely honest, I couldn't give a stuff about them. | |||
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"I guess some peeps find it objectionable when a person knowingly breaks a rule and try and make it justifiable. i was on the dance floor when he got it out ,,, phone under the towel ,,, Its easy for them to hide them. "I have to ask...... There are no pockets in a towel.... Err so where did he have his phone secreted? | |||
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I have to ask...... There are no pockets in a towel.... Err so where did he have his phone secreted? "he had his phone in his hand really small phone...... and tuned it on to show me videos and pics under his towel just pulled it open,,,, maybe thinking it would turn me on not sure ,,, | |||
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"I guess some peeps find it objectionable when a person knowingly breaks a rule and try and make it justifiable. i was on the dance floor when he got it out ,,, phone under the towel ,,, Its easy for them to hide them.
I have to ask...... There are no pockets in a towel.... Err so where did he have his phone secreted? he had his phone in his hand really small phone...... and tuned it on to show me videos and pics under his towel just pulled it open,,,, maybe thinking it would turn me on not sure ,,,"Well if all he had under his towel to impress you was a small phone i have to say i feel sorry for him | |||
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"I guess some peeps find it objectionable when a person knowingly breaks a rule and try and make it justifiable. i was on the dance floor when he got it out ,,, phone under the towel ,,, Its easy for them to hide them.
I have to ask...... There are no pockets in a towel.... Err so where did he have his phone secreted? he had his phone in his hand really small phone...... and tuned it on to show me videos and pics under his towel just pulled it open,,,, maybe thinking it would turn me on not sure ,,,
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We have pockets in our towels (need to keep the condoms somewhere!) and K is such a clever girl lol"Yeah!! call her "Special K" lol pmsl | |||
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"Big bad This man I see him shagging everyone who open there legs bear back and no way am i going there I told him that and he never liked it so he got the phone to show me he was clean had teasts done thay sent results to his phone then he moved on to show some of the lovely woman he had had maybe not all at the club but was asking me for my nuber to call....." LIKE I SAY----dont phone its just for fun! lol | |||
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"I'm not trying to justify keeping my phone with me at all. If the club staff had spotted me with it and asked me to leave, or turn it off, we would have left. We would have shown them it was not capable of taking photos but if they still insisted we leave then so be it. If all that bothered some people is a very low beep every couple of hours then, to be absolutely honest, I couldn't give a stuff about them." Is there a facepalm smiley on here? You ARE trying to justify keeping your phone, apparently because your babysitter might possibly ring you. That's fine,I'm not going to get into personal issues, I might feel the same if there was a possibility my stockbroker might call me when I was many miles away from home, shagging and partying. If I really felt that guilty, I'd stay at my desk. Anyway, to answer your question to me a few posts above, my point to you was that had you kept your phone in your pocket, said nothing to anyone, in particular in this thread appearing to say "Bollocks to club rules, break them if you don't like them", then no-one would be any the wiser. Whilst I am 100% behind the rules, for all the reasons argued by everyone above, if you needed that safety line, got away with it, well, don't brag about it and it doesn't become an issue. It's not a "very low beep every couple of hours" that bothers people, it's the phone/camera/privacy issue, along with club rules being visibly adhered to, however inane YOU find them. In your first post on here, you didn't make clear that your phone was a non-camera one, and FWIW, I'd actually say there SHOULD be no problem with you carrying or using it. However, because a phone with a camera seems to be the norm, phones are banned, so that's that, no phones. | |||
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"If you go and re-read my first post on here I stated clearly that I didn't give a toss about the rule. So I am not justifying why I should keep MY phone with ME if I choose to. Later I stated that IF the club had asked me to put it in my room or leave, we would have left. If you want to blindly follow arcane rules then that's your decision, but I have a brain in my head and I can determine for myself which rules are sensible and which are ridiculous (and I'm only talking about swinging clubs here so please don't try and cross that approach over into other areas of life). A camera phone has obvious uses apart from being a phone, but a phone without a camera has but one use only... unless one favours phone sex, literally." hmmmmm I have kept quiet in this thread (except for one excursion away from the op's question) but your last comment wishy is rather naieve to think that swinging clubs should be any different from other places. I can think of two that are very similar types of rules, The cinema and the theatre - maybe you don't go to either or you flaunt the rules there too. | |||
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"If you go and re-read my first post on here I stated clearly that I didn't give a toss about the rule. So I am not justifying why I should keep MY phone with ME if I choose to. Later I stated that IF the club had asked me to put it in my room or leave, we would have left. If you want to blindly follow arcane rules then that's your decision, but I have a brain in my head and I can determine for myself which rules are sensible and which are ridiculous (and I'm only talking about swinging clubs here so please don't try and cross that approach over into other areas of life). A camera phone has obvious uses apart from being a phone, but a phone without a camera has but one use only... unless one favours phone sex, literally." Fortunately for the majority of club users these rules are not seen as arcane and they are more than happy to agree with them and accept them. I am very happy that clubs like Chams choose to protect the majority of their members even if it means a minority don't like the rules. | |||
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"Oy you lot Ive been trying to call ya....ansa ya fecking phones "you can have my number anytime - but I don't meet one of your rules ......... I'm to old pmsl (said very much tongue in cheek!) | |||
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"Oy you lot Ive been trying to call ya....ansa ya fecking phones
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you can have my number anytime - but I don't meet one of your rules ......... I'm to old pmsl (said very much tongue in cheek!)
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"I suppose the real point is nobody forces anyone to go to the club, the rules are published and if you don't like them the choice is not to go. Many clubs have rules not just swinging clubs, games have rules, sports have rules, infact our lives are governed by rules. If we decide to go somewhere that has rules we don't like and we don't abide by them we have nobody to blame but ourselves if there are subsequent consequences. We love Chams and on occassions I am on call when we go there, but as has been stated many times I just go back to the locker and check at regular intervals. What does that pesky meerecat say? oh I know SIMPLES!" Thats ok if you have a locker though | |||
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i think we would be singing a different song here if pictures of the event were splashed over the pages of the national press the following day"Indeed. In fact, maybe we need to ask whats worse: Not being able to contact your babysitter without going to a payphone OR having your kids see the photos of you splashed over the internet ... | |||
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"I suppose the real point is nobody forces anyone to go to the club, the rules are published and if you don't like them the choice is not to go. Many clubs have rules not just swinging clubs, games have rules, sports have rules, infact our lives are governed by rules. If we decide to go somewhere that has rules we don't like and we don't abide by them we have nobody to blame but ourselves if there are subsequent consequences. We love Chams and on occassions I am on call when we go there, but as has been stated many times I just go back to the locker and check at regular intervals. What does that pesky meerecat say? oh I know SIMPLES! Thats ok if you have a locker though "Yeah suppose so,,,provided u dont loose ure key! lol | |||
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"I suppose the real point is nobody forces anyone to go to the club, the rules are published and if you don't like them the choice is not to go. Many clubs have rules not just swinging clubs, games have rules, sports have rules, infact our lives are governed by rules. If we decide to go somewhere that has rules we don't like and we don't abide by them we have nobody to blame but ourselves if there are subsequent consequences. We love Chams and on occassions I am on call when we go there, but as has been stated many times I just go back to the locker and check at regular intervals. What does that pesky meerecat say? oh I know SIMPLES! Thats ok if you have a locker though "Clubs that I have been to that don't provide lockers do operate a 'phone sitting' service at reception or at the bar. There is never any excuse for taking a phone into an adult club as there are always alternatives on offer. | |||
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i think we would be singing a different song here if pictures of the event were splashed over the pages of the national press the following day
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"I suppose the real point is nobody forces anyone to go to the club, the rules are published and if you don't like them the choice is not to go. Many clubs have rules not just swinging clubs, games have rules, sports have rules, infact our lives are governed by rules. If we decide to go somewhere that has rules we don't like and we don't abide by them we have nobody to blame but ourselves if there are subsequent consequences. We love Chams and on occassions I am on call when we go there, but as has been stated many times I just go back to the locker and check at regular intervals. What does that pesky meerecat say? oh I know SIMPLES! Thats ok if you have a locker though "Having been a regular attendee at Chams for over 5 years last Sunday was the only time we have ever known there not to be enough lockers to go round and they didn't run out until late in the evening. The beauty of chams is that you go in, get a locker, put everything away (including money) have a great evening, put yer clothes back on at the end of the evening and pay yer bill on the way out. Other clubs may differ I don't know but we are specifically (although not what the OP was expecting) talking about last weekend at Chams. I actually remember a similar thread last year when some people didn't agree with the dress code and wanted to flaunt that. I repeat what I said a few minutes ago, the club has published rules - you choose if you want to go or not, but if you choose to go, by implication you accept the rules. | |||
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"If you go and re-read my first post on here I stated clearly that I didn't give a toss about the rule. So I am not justifying why I should keep MY phone with ME if I choose to. Later I stated that IF the club had asked me to put it in my room or leave, we would have left. If you want to blindly follow arcane rules then that's your decision, but I have a brain in my head and I can determine for myself which rules are sensible and which are ridiculous (and I'm only talking about swinging clubs here so please don't try and cross that approach over into other areas of life)." Erm, OK, so just to clarify then - all you have said about your phone being a non-camera phone, your babysitter etc is irrelevant? What you mean, the crux of your argument, is that you saw a rule, didn't like it, so broke it,and you think everyone else should do the same? Why didn't you simply say "I don't obey rules I don't like" and leave it at that then, why mention the child at home? That sounded like your justification for carrying your phone to me, but obviously I must be wrong, you carried your phone because you don't give a toss about the club rules. I apologise unreservedly for my lack of comprehension. Next time I'm at Chams, I'll hit the jacuzzi, dripping with scented body lotion* and sit there sipping a Red Bull. If they have to close and drain it because I've broke the rules and contaminated it (like drink and body oils/lotions are the worst things lurking in those waters FFS), I'll just tell everyone that I thought the rules were shit, so disobeyed them. I'm sure If I make it uncomfortable, or spoil the enjoyment of everyone else who uses the place, fuck it, the wake of trouble I'll leave after being kicked out will not be my problem, right? I'm sure everyone will understand anyway. Yeah, great way to behave. *Yep, like I'm going to be putting perfumed lotions on! | |||
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"Be better if every swinger club in the uk or all over the world just set a rule up where they say "NO PHONES ALLOWED" wot so ever,,,if any1 is caught by our security team or member bein here,,,u will be chucked out asap n found a price of £10,000. simples eh? *gets back in coffin* "since when did u have a coffin? lol | |||
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"Be better if every swinger club in the uk or all over the world just set a rule up where they say "NO PHONES ALLOWED" wot so ever,,,if any1 is caught by our security team or member bein here,,,u will be chucked out asap n found a price of £10,000. simples eh? *gets back in coffin* since when did u have a coffin? lol"When i was found coughing ---its not the cough that carries u off its the coffin they carry u off in! lol but back to the main point-----I just say ---No mobiles in clubs at all!! or u will be reported to the highest!! thats my point.  | |||
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"Be better if every swinger club in the uk or all over the world just set a rule up where they say "NO PHONES ALLOWED" wot so ever,,,if any1 is caught by our security team or member bein here,,,u will be chucked out asap n found a price of £10,000. simples eh? *gets back in coffin* since when did u have a coffin? lol
When i was found coughing ---its not the cough that carries u off its the coffin they carry u off in! lol
but back to the main point-----I just say ---No mobiles in clubs at all!!
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"Haven't read the whole thread but agree with the consensus of leaving a mobile in the locker if you have to take one for emergencies... But you'd be using a condom anyway in a club so why does it matter...? Sorry if somebody else has already mentioned this simple fact! LOL!" Well i just say why cant the bouncers or security staff just say NO MOBILES WOTSOEVER!!! then u cant shout n rave when peeps invade ure privacy if u know wot i mean... ie posting u2 on u-tube or summat.. | |||
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"Almost all clubs ban phones/cameras etc. Xstasia takes them from you at the door I believe and that is not a problem if you dont like that dont go there. Chameleons do not allow phones in the club, obviously they dont search people so many people take them in, often they sneak them into the toilets to check with babysitters etc and this is understandable. If you see someone with a phone in a club just report them to the staff who will deal with the matter as they see fit, in chameleons this will be a friendly warning to start with but removal from the club for a 2nd violation of the rules Most clubs rely heavily on the members to report anything you see as wrong, a bit like here on Fab, if in doubt report it and let the staff deal with it but if you dont report it they cannot help, no site or club can have eyes everywhere all the time." VERY GOOD COMMENT!! VERY GOOD!! thats really outstanding. | |||
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"We had our phones with us in Chams as it was the first time we'd been out overnight away from littleun and Siren flatly refused to be unreachable. If that's a problem for the club or anyone else attending then bollocks to them. " Here you say "we had our phones" which suggests you had two phones, or have I and others misunderstood that comment ? Were they both call only telephones? Why didn't you simply call the club days ahead of your visit to explain your phone issue, explaining your thoughts on the subject as you have here, after the event? Was it simply that you knew what the outcome would be so decided to do things your way ? I'll stick with my original thoughts on your statement towards phones. No matter what justifications you tell the majority, this was a selfish act with no regard for others as you have stated now on more than one occasion ie, it's a stupid rule and I'll do what I please. | |||
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"Yup. Correct. Purely self serving. Siren would never have gone if she couldn't keep in touch with my parents who were looking after littleun as it the first time we'd left him overnight with someone. If you don't like that or agree with it then tough, go tell it to someone who cares cos I don't." All this complaining well i think this thread should be sent to the swingers clubs of the uk n see wot they reckon! thats wot i say ,,, | |||
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"Erm .... As most guys i have seen in chams are wearing just towels... Im now wondering where they hiding their phones "Up their arse? | |||
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"Erm .... As most guys i have seen in chams are wearing just towels... Im now wondering where they hiding their phones
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"Yup. Correct. Purely self serving. Siren would never have gone if she couldn't keep in touch with my parents who were looking after littleun as it the first time we'd left him overnight with someone. If you don't like that or agree with it then tough, go tell it to someone who cares cos I don't." after the hassle i have had over 'ill thought out' comments i made about the beach party from yourselves and others i find this far more disturbing and insulting than any i made with reference to it | |||
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"Yup. Correct. Purely self serving. Siren would never have gone if she couldn't keep in touch with my parents who were looking after littleun as it the first time we'd left him overnight with someone. If you don't like that or agree with it then tough, go tell it to someone who cares cos I don't. after the hassle i have had over 'ill thought out' comments i made about the beach party from yourselves and others i find this far more disturbing and insulting than any i made with reference to it "well yeah! thats rite. | |||
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"It is Thursday alright! "Dont phone! its just for fun! hahahaha | |||
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"Yup. Correct. Purely self serving. Siren would never have gone if she couldn't keep in touch with my parents who were looking after littleun as it the first time we'd left him overnight with someone. If you don't like that or agree with it then tough, go tell it to someone who cares cos I don't. after the hassle i have had over 'ill thought out' comments i made about the beach party from yourselves and others i find this far more disturbing and insulting than any i made with reference to it "Ah, defence by deflection. I see. | |||
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"Yup. Correct. Purely self serving. Siren would never have gone if she couldn't keep in touch with my parents who were looking after littleun as it the first time we'd left him overnight with someone. If you don't like that or agree with it then tough, go tell it to someone who cares cos I don't. after the hassle i have had over 'ill thought out' comments i made about the beach party from yourselves and others i find this far more disturbing and insulting than any i made with reference to it
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"Yup. Correct. Purely self serving. Siren would never have gone if she couldn't keep in touch with my parents who were looking after littleun as it the first time we'd left him overnight with someone. If you don't like that or agree with it then tough, go tell it to someone who cares cos I don't. after the hassle i have had over 'ill thought out' comments i made about the beach party from yourselves and others i find this far more disturbing and insulting than any i made with reference to it
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"Yup. Correct. Purely self serving. Siren would never have gone if she couldn't keep in touch with my parents who were looking after littleun as it the first time we'd left him overnight with someone. If you don't like that or agree with it then tough, go tell it to someone who cares cos I don't. after the hassle i have had over 'ill thought out' comments i made about the beach party from yourselves and others i find this far more disturbing and insulting than any i made with reference to it
Ah, defence by deflection. I see.
not at all im just amazed at the hypocracy and double standards on display.
you have just stated you dont give a sh*t about the privacy or security of anyone at the party and not one of the guests has said a thing to you about it."What has having a non camera phone got to do with not giving a shit about other peoples privacy and security
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"Yup. Correct. Purely self serving. Siren would never have gone if she couldn't keep in touch with my parents who were looking after littleun as it the first time we'd left him overnight with someone. If you don't like that or agree with it then tough, go tell it to someone who cares cos I don't. after the hassle i have had over 'ill thought out' comments i made about the beach party from yourselves and others i find this far more disturbing and insulting than any i made with reference to it
Ah, defence by deflection. I see.
not at all im just amazed at the hypocracy and double standards on display.
you have just stated you dont give a sh*t about the privacy or security of anyone at the party and not one of the guests has said a thing to you about it.
What has having a non camera phone got to do with not giving a shit about other peoples privacy and security
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"Yup. Correct. Purely self serving. Siren would never have gone if she couldn't keep in touch with my parents who were looking after littleun as it the first time we'd left him overnight with someone. If you don't like that or agree with it then tough, go tell it to someone who cares cos I don't. after the hassle i have had over 'ill thought out' comments i made about the beach party from yourselves and others i find this far more disturbing and insulting than any i made with reference to it
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not at all im just amazed at the hypocracy and double standards on display.
you have just stated you dont give a sh*t about the privacy or security of anyone at the party and not one of the guests has said a thing to you about it."Probably because none of the guests saw me pointing at them yelling "Smile". I've stated my reasons above for having it with me so no need to go into all again for your benefit. Read up. | |||
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"Wishy, next time you go can you take the netbook and give us a live feed in chat thanks
I can't. It won't fit in me shorts side pocket and my dongle will be otherwise occupied.
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"Wishy, next time you go can you take the netbook and give us a live feed in chat thanks
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"Yup. Correct. Purely self serving. Siren would never have gone if she couldn't keep in touch with my parents who were looking after littleun as it the first time we'd left him overnight with someone. If you don't like that or agree with it then tough, go tell it to someone who cares cos I don't." Wishy...Throughout this thread you have shown a disregard for rules and others opinions. Perhaps for you first night away your should have thought about where to go a bit more. Instead of travelling to Stoke from Tyneside about 150 to 200 miles, it may have been better to "trial" it closer to home and somewhere that phones are not against the rules! I am also intrigued that there is a lack of posts by those at Chams on the night or those that go there regularly! Perhaps this is more widespread than is being admitted! Why has there been no post by the club itself? Perhaps they turn a blind eye to it? When you join any club, you accept the rules that are in place at the time, if you don't, then don't join! That is the reason we don't go to Chams, even thought it has a great rep! I do not want to walk about in a towel, so we don't go! ALL phones should be banned from inside clubs, even voice only phones. The club does not have time to check every single phone and the easiest way is to ban all of them. And if you are that worried about leaving your little one and travelling that distance, then don't do it! | |||
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"I would have thought it was a no brainer really. No phones! As parents to a young child we've left him overnight to attend a hotel 150 miles away. Only becuase we were sure we could do so with minimal chance of getting a call from the in laws saying something was wrong. I'm sure it's been said many times but if you can't be uncontactable for a few hours then maybe you shouldn't be going." I had no problem with leaving our lad, I knew he'd be ok, but he is Siren's first and only a woman can fathom another woman's mind in matters like this, they seem to go mental for a while lol... One of the reasons we attended Chams on Sunday was because of the accusations that we've had in the past about Siren not even existing. We went there to lay a few ghosts to rest, permanently. Will we go again? Probably but it's not crucial. Will I take my phone? Probably, but it won't be crucial either as littleun will be older. Some people just like to control others don't they, well, bollocks to that. I paid my money to Chams and they were happy to take it - for the hotel room as well as the entrance fee. I've been in the swinging scene long enough to know about cameras in clubs and that's all that matters to me. If someone else is stupid enough to use a camera in a club then it's for the club to deal with - not you, not I, not anyone else. It's their rule so it's their responsibility. | |||
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"Of course. "Hey. Mum, here's Chameleons number, if there's a problem call them and ask for us but you might have to shout as they'll be a lot of people having sex in the background, plus it may take them a while to find us as we'll more than likely be shagging in the orgy room. Ok?" | |||
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" I had no problem with leaving our lad, I knew he'd be ok, but he is Siren's first and only a woman can fathom another woman's mind in matters like this, they seem to go mental for a while lol... One of the reasons we attended Chams on Sunday was because of the accusations that we've had in the past about Siren not even existing. We went there to lay a few ghosts to rest, permanently. Will we go again? Probably but it's not crucial. Will I take my phone? Probably, but it won't be crucial either as littleun will be older. Some people just like to control others don't they, well, bollocks to that. I paid my money to Chams and they were happy to take it - for the hotel room as well as the entrance fee. I've been in the swinging scene long enough to know about cameras in clubs and that's all that matters to me. If someone else is stupid enough to use a camera in a club then it's for the club to deal with - not you, not I, not anyone else. It's their rule so it's their responsibility. " It sounds like there are other issues going on here and that's your business. As a mum I know it can be a bit daunting leaving your child but if you're not comfortable doing it then just don't! Now I might just be a heartless moo but I've never really found it that hard. For the sake of getting a bit of me time and letting my hair down I've always quite happily waved my son off for the night! | |||
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"Erm, regarding what would appear to be the essential nature of not being out of touch if your child is left with a babysitter, what did people do before mobile phones?
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The past defines EVERYTHING about how we live today.
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"OK just for curiosity...........how many of the people who go to clubs actually take their phones with them? Do you leave them in a locker, if there isn't any locker were would you put them? wishy might have said he is sticking his two fingers up at the rules, but is it really a case of he is the only one who admits to it, and that others have done the same thing?" We've only been once so far to club/hotel and we had a room to leave our stuff in and went down for the evening with just cash and cigs on us. I did pop up to the room to get changed and checked my phone then. If we were going to club and it didn't have lockers I'd be worred about a lot more than just my phone. I'd be checking out the locker situation before going and leaving my phone there. | |||
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"If Chameleons (or any other club) haven't worked out how to answer a phone with an element of discretion that's a very poor show." I recall chatting to one of the staff there and them telling me that they are very discreet when answering the phone, because they get no end of partners who find membership cards in pockets on washday, wonder why exactly their other half is a member of a club on the other side of the country, and pick up the phone to find out what kind of establishment it is. Strangely enough, they don't answer the phone with "Hello, Chameleons Shag Palace and Hump-a-rama, libertinous pecadillos for the discerning sexual adventurer, which department do you require? Press 1 for masturbation, 2 for straight sex, 3 for a crowd, 4 for swapping, 5 for gangbangs, and 69 for oral." Well, at least they didn't. I think they just tell people it's a Health Club or a Social Club and leave it at that. If you leave your phone at reception and explain you are on call for work, for example, they will keep an ear out for it ringing, though I guess it's up to you not to stray too far away from the bar if you are expecting a call. Mind you, if you are 200 miles away and there's an emergency, what are you going to do, jump in the helicopter and nip home? | |||
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"OK just for curiosity...........how many of the people who go to clubs actually take their phones with them? Do you leave them in a locker, if there isn't any locker were would you put them? wishy might have said he is sticking his two fingers up at the rules, but is it really a case of he is the only one who admits to it, and that others have done the same thing?" I have,and I leave it in the locker as I did on sunday,went to get changed,checked it,then and carried on with enjoying myself,if there had been something that I really needed to deal with then I would have taken it out of the club and dealt with it I doubt very much if it was just Wishy and myself that had phones in that club on sunday,and as someone else said they have seen people sitting on the sundeck at chams texting people | |||
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"OK just for curiosity...........how many of the people who go to clubs actually take their phones with them? Do you leave them in a locker, if there isn't any locker were would you put them? wishy might have said he is sticking his two fingers up at the rules, but is it really a case of he is the only one who admits to it, and that others have done the same thing?" We saw three people in our group with phones on Sunday, one of them for the same reason as us. And they checked them regularly, same as us. No names of course. | |||
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"If Chameleons (or any other club) haven't worked out how to answer a phone with an element of discretion that's a very poor show. I recall chatting to one of the staff there and them telling me that they are very discreet when answering the phone, because they get no end of partners who find membership cards in pockets on washday, wonder why exactly their other half is a member of a club on the other side of the country, and pick up the phone to find out what kind of establishment it is. Strangely enough, they don't answer the phone with "Hello, Chameleons Shag Palace and Hump-a-rama, libertinous pecadillos for the discerning sexual adventurer, which department do you require? Press 1 for masturbation, 2 for straight sex, 3 for a crowd, 4 for swapping, 5 for gangbangs, and 69 for oral." Well, at least they didn't. I think they just tell people it's a Health Club or a Social Club and leave it at that. If you leave your phone at reception and explain you are on call for work, for example, they will keep an ear out for it ringing, though I guess it's up to you not to stray too far away from the bar if you are expecting a call. Mind you, if you are 200 miles away and there's an emergency, what are you going to do, jump in the helicopter and nip home? " So how does discretion by Chams staff saying they are Helath Club help us when we've told our sitters we're going to a pal's house overnight for a party? And bearing in mind Chams staff have a broad Brummie accent and our pal's are Londoners? Non-swinging folk aren't stupid, they can work things out you know. | |||
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"If Chameleons (or any other club) haven't worked out how to answer a phone with an element of discretion that's a very poor show. I recall chatting to one of the staff there and them telling me that they are very discreet when answering the phone, because they get no end of partners who find membership cards in pockets on washday, wonder why exactly their other half is a member of a club on the other side of the country, and pick up the phone to find out what kind of establishment it is. Strangely enough, they don't answer the phone with "Hello, Chameleons Shag Palace and Hump-a-rama, libertinous pecadillos for the discerning sexual adventurer, which department do you require? Press 1 for masturbation, 2 for straight sex, 3 for a crowd, 4 for swapping, 5 for gangbangs, and 69 for oral." Well, at least they didn't. I think they just tell people it's a Health Club or a Social Club and leave it at that. If you leave your phone at reception and explain you are on call for work, for example, they will keep an ear out for it ringing, though I guess it's up to you not to stray too far away from the bar if you are expecting a call. Mind you, if you are 200 miles away and there's an emergency, what are you going to do, jump in the helicopter and nip home? So how does discretion by Chams staff saying they are Helath Club help us when we've told our sitters we're going to a pal's house overnight for a party? And bearing in mind Chams staff have a broad Brummie accent and our pal's are Londoners? Non-swinging folk aren't stupid, they can work things out you know." Is there anything you DON'T have an answer for? | |||
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"Erm, regarding what would appear to be the essential nature of not being out of touch if your child is left with a babysitter, what did people do before mobile phones?
You left the number where you were going to be so the sitter could call you.
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"Hey. Mum, here's Chameleons number, if there's a problem call them and ask for us but you might have to shout as they'll be a lot of people having sex in the background, plus it may take them a while to find us as we'll more than likely be shagging in the orgy room. Ok?""a little bit of an own goal here
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"If Chameleons (or any other club) haven't worked out how to answer a phone with an element of discretion that's a very poor show. I recall chatting to one of the staff there and them telling me that they are very discreet when answering the phone, because they get no end of partners who find membership cards in pockets on washday, wonder why exactly their other half is a member of a club on the other side of the country, and pick up the phone to find out what kind of establishment it is. Strangely enough, they don't answer the phone with "Hello, Chameleons Shag Palace and Hump-a-rama, libertinous pecadillos for the discerning sexual adventurer, which department do you require? Press 1 for masturbation, 2 for straight sex, 3 for a crowd, 4 for swapping, 5 for gangbangs, and 69 for oral." Well, at least they didn't. I think they just tell people it's a Health Club or a Social Club and leave it at that. If you leave your phone at reception and explain you are on call for work, for example, they will keep an ear out for it ringing, though I guess it's up to you not to stray too far away from the bar if you are expecting a call. Mind you, if you are 200 miles away and there's an emergency, what are you going to do, jump in the helicopter and nip home? So how does discretion by Chams staff saying they are Helath Club help us when we've told our sitters we're going to a pal's house overnight for a party? And bearing in mind Chams staff have a broad Brummie accent and our pal's are Londoners? Non-swinging folk aren't stupid, they can work things out you know. Is there anything you DON'T have an answer for?" Clutching at straws. | |||
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"WEll to protect everyones privacy why doesnt Rugby MFM take everyones phones off them and say "u cant have ya phone back til the end of the nite" lol *just a tiny thought* "Because she wasn't there. | |||
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"WEll to protect everyones privacy why doesnt Rugby MFM take everyones phones off them and say "u cant have ya phone back til the end of the nite" lol *just a tiny thought*
Because she wasn't there. "Oh! ok....lol
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And then you come up with "just ban phones. Simples"
Possibly the funniest fucking thing i have seen this year.
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" So how does discretion by Chams staff saying they are Helath Club help us when we've told our sitters we're going to a pal's house overnight for a party? And bearing in mind Chams staff have a broad Brummie accent and our pal's are Londoners? Non-swinging folk aren't stupid, they can work things out you know." So think ahead and tailor your lies, the closer something is to the truth, the less chance you have of being caught out. If there was a problem that required you to be summoned, I'm sure the last thing on the babysitter's mind would be "Hmm, Health Club eh? I bet they are in a jacuzzi with 26 other people and the jizz is flying like hot shrapnel". What happens if they try to call you and there's no signal, (as I believe is the case in Chams, which is why, apparently, people take their phones out onto the smoking deck), and then they call your Londoner mates? Hopefully you've primed him, so he doesn't say "Wishy? Naaaah, he's not here, not supposed to be either" Either way, he's going to panic then because there's a problem .....etc.... etc, not to mention the shit-fit the babysitter will have......this is how events snowball isn't it? Not that it is strictly relevant, of course, but you brought it up! | |||
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And then you come up with "just ban phones. Simples"
Possibly the funniest fucking thing i have seen this year.
I am ACTUALLY pissing myself laughing.
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""and the jizz is flying like hot shrapnel". Having never been to such a gathering myself, i was wondering if, under the above circumstances it would be appropriate to shout; "INCOMING.......!"?" Yeah it should be! just like that TEXT message thing on the moblies: REMEMBER that? INCOMING! sssssssssssswhooooooooosh! lol | |||
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""and the jizz is flying like hot shrapnel". Having never been to such a gathering myself, i was wondering if, under the above circumstances it would be appropriate to shout; "INCOMING.......!"?" or.."fire in the hole" | |||
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""and the jizz is flying like hot shrapnel". Having never been to such a gathering myself, i was wondering if, under the above circumstances it would be appropriate to shout; "INCOMING.......!"? or.."fire in the hole"" Or "water in the shaft" | |||
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""and the jizz is flying like hot shrapnel". " I've wasted 40 minutes I'll sadly never get back reading through this thread. But thank you Sir, the above line tickled my funny bone and almost made up for my lost time! | |||
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""and the jizz is flying like hot shrapnel". Having never been to such a gathering myself, i was wondering if, under the above circumstances it would be appropriate to shout; "INCOMING.......!"?" It's more OUTCOMING!!!! | |||
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""But how simple is it to head off all these potential pitfalls with a simple text message that reads, "Everything ok?" Really simple. and then you'd get a txt back saying "Yes.". And then you can switch your phone off and put it in the locker. Like everyone else." Thats one way of doing it i suppose thats a good way actually! | |||
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""But how simple is it to head off all these potential pitfalls with a simple text message that reads, "Everything ok?" Really simple. and then you'd get a txt back saying "Yes.". And then you can switch your phone off and put it in the locker. Like everyone else." Or back in my pocket, on silent. Like some others. I think this thread has been exhausted now as it's just going round in circles. | |||
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""But how simple is it to head off all these potential pitfalls with a simple text message that reads, "Everything ok?" Really simple. and then you'd get a txt back saying "Yes.". And then you can switch your phone off and put it in the locker. Like everyone else. Or back in my pocket, on silent. Like some others. I think this thread has been exhausted now as it's just going round in circles." Pretty sure you don't get to decide that either. | |||
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" So how does discretion by Chams staff saying they are Helath Club help us when we've told our sitters we're going to a pal's house overnight for a party? And bearing in mind Chams staff have a broad Brummie accent and our pal's are Londoners? Non-swinging folk aren't stupid, they can work things out you know. So think ahead and tailor your lies, the closer something is to the truth, the less chance you have of being caught out. If there was a problem that required you to be summoned, I'm sure the last thing on the babysitter's mind would be "Hmm, Health Club eh? I bet they are in a jacuzzi with 26 other people and the jizz is flying like hot shrapnel". What happens if they try to call you and there's no signal, (as I believe is the case in Chams, which is why, apparently, people take their phones out onto the smoking deck), and then they call your Londoner mates? Hopefully you've primed him, so he doesn't say "Wishy? Naaaah, he's not here, not supposed to be either" Either way, he's going to panic then because there's a problem .....etc.... etc, not to mention the shit-fit the babysitter will have......this is how events snowball isn't it? Not that it is strictly relevant, of course, but you brought it up! We are by no means the only couple on here who do not wish their families to find out that we are swingers. So yes, a few porkies need to be told if we want a night out swinging thesedays. And no, the 'friend' is not known to my family and as we have mobile phones thesedays there is no need to pass on our friends phone number to our family, is there? But how simple is it to head off all these potential pitfalls with a simple text message that reads, "Everything ok?" That's the system that works best for us, and that's what we'll continue to do, and if anyone doesn't like that, tough. I don't even know what your face looks like so do you think I'm going to give a damn about your opinion? Ooooooooooo who rattled ure CAGE? LOL "Thanks for catching that contribution before it was deleted. | |||
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" So how does discretion by Chams staff saying they are Helath Club help us when we've told our sitters we're going to a pal's house overnight for a party? And bearing in mind Chams staff have a broad Brummie accent and our pal's are Londoners? Non-swinging folk aren't stupid, they can work things out you know. So think ahead and tailor your lies, the closer something is to the truth, the less chance you have of being caught out. If there was a problem that required you to be summoned, I'm sure the last thing on the babysitter's mind would be "Hmm, Health Club eh? I bet they are in a jacuzzi with 26 other people and the jizz is flying like hot shrapnel". What happens if they try to call you and there's no signal, (as I believe is the case in Chams, which is why, apparently, people take their phones out onto the smoking deck), and then they call your Londoner mates? Hopefully you've primed him, so he doesn't say "Wishy? Naaaah, he's not here, not supposed to be either" Either way, he's going to panic then because there's a problem .....etc.... etc, not to mention the shit-fit the babysitter will have......this is how events snowball isn't it? Not that it is strictly relevant, of course, but you brought it up! We are by no means the only couple on here who do not wish their families to find out that we are swingers. So yes, a few porkies need to be told if we want a night out swinging thesedays. And no, the 'friend' is not known to my family and as we have mobile phones thesedays there is no need to pass on our friends phone number to our family, is there? But how simple is it to head off all these potential pitfalls with a simple text message that reads, "Everything ok?" That's the system that works best for us, and that's what we'll continue to do, and if anyone doesn't like that, tough. I don't even know what your face looks like so do you think I'm going to give a damn about your opinion? Ooooooooooo who rattled ure CAGE? LOL
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"WEll to protect everyones privacy why doesnt Rugby MFM take everyones phones off them and say "u cant have ya phone back til the end of the nite" lol *just a tiny thought*
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"WEll to protect everyones privacy why doesnt Rugby MFM take everyones phones off them and say "u cant have ya phone back til the end of the nite" lol *just a tiny thought*
We don't work there and we didn't go the social Notts.
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"WEll to protect everyones privacy why doesnt Rugby MFM take everyones phones off them and say "u cant have ya phone back til the end of the nite" lol *just a tiny thought*
We don't work there and we didn't go the social Notts.
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"WEll to protect everyones privacy why doesnt Rugby MFM take everyones phones off them and say "u cant have ya phone back til the end of the nite" lol *just a tiny thought*
We don't work there and we didn't go the social Notts.
I for one would do ANYTHING Rugby told me to.
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"My phones on silent. In the locker. It's only polite." Mines on silent ..when visit a library or the job centre. It's only polite | |||
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""I don't even know what your face looks like so do you think I'm going to give a damn about your opinion?" You should. and indeed will have to, whether you like it or not. Because it's not a case of your opinion against another persons opinion. There are a GROUP of people who don't want you to have your phone. They are the majority. You are the minority. It will be incumbent on you to to do what the GROUP wants. Or you can't be part of the group. Simples, innit. " So if the 'group' decided they wanted to shag my missus, did they have that right to do so? Were we expected to allow them to do what they wanted in order to remain a part of that 'group'. You're talking bollocks again. 300 people in Chams clearly disagree with you as nobody seemed to have a problem with me using my phone. Could that be that I never actually got on anyone's nerves with it. Except for you, and you weren't ever there. | |||
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""I don't even know what your face looks like so do you think I'm going to give a damn about your opinion?" You should. and indeed will have to, whether you like it or not. Because it's not a case of your opinion against another persons opinion. There are a GROUP of people who don't want you to have your phone. They are the majority. You are the minority. It will be incumbent on you to to do what the GROUP wants. Or you can't be part of the group. Simples, innit. So if the 'group' decided they wanted to shag my missus, did they have that right to do so? Were we expected to allow them to do what they wanted in order to remain a part of that 'group'. You're talking bollocks again. 300 people in Chams clearly disagree with you as nobody seemed to have a problem with me using my phone. Could that be that I never actually got on anyone's nerves with it. Except for you, and you weren't ever there. "Well everyones,,,entilted to a opinion where-ever they are! lol | |||
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" Well everyones,,,entilted to a opinion where-ever they are! lol "It would seem everyone's entitled to an opinion provided that opinion is that it's OK to have a phone in Chameleons - otherwise you're just "talking bollox". | |||
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" Well everyones,,,entilted to a opinion where-ever they are! lol
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""I don't even know what your face looks like so do you think I'm going to give a damn about your opinion?" You should. and indeed will have to, whether you like it or not. Because it's not a case of your opinion against another persons opinion. There are a GROUP of people who don't want you to have your phone. They are the majority. You are the minority. It will be incumbent on you to to do what the GROUP wants. Or you can't be part of the group. Simples, innit. So if the 'group' decided they wanted to shag my missus, did they have that right to do so? Were we expected to allow them to do what they wanted in order to remain a part of that 'group'. You're talking bollocks again. 300 people in Chams clearly disagree with you as nobody seemed to have a problem with me using my phone. Could that be that I never actually got on anyone's nerves with it. Except for you, and you weren't ever there. "Did you have ya phone with ya Wishy...never noticed lol | |||
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"My phone is in the locker as its in my handbag and stays there on silent and I check it periodically. I stayed over at chams the other week and actually left it in the room that time. I went back the following mid week and as I didnt stay for the night it stayed in my locker. Have been going to clubs now for a number of years and habe always had my phone with me and it has always stayed in my locker and will continue." Like i say--- DONT PHONE ITS JUST 4 FUN! | |||
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"And do you have to say it so often and at irrelevant times?" er no! lol just saying it 4 a laugh/giggle that ws it.
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" LIKE I SAY----dont phone its just for fun! lol
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"It isn't a laugh and a giggle thread....you have had your say now, stop trying to hyjack please." ok fine np.. if peeps complain about phones in niteclubs/parties/swing clubs etc then they shouldnt have them with them in the 1st place. or the club/parties should set up some kind of rule..etc | |||
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"You don't me so don't even think to comment on my life or how I live it. I have been to Chams plenty of times in the past but Siren hadn't, plus it was her first night away from littlun. Now, cast your mind back to when you spent the first night away from your first child, did it bother you? Were you checking in periodically to see if all was ok? To say what you said about not going is the same as telling anyone who has children never to go out and leave them. You know nothing of our lives so mind your own goddam business, as, as you say, nobody that was there on the night has said anything about me having a phone there, so either I was discrete enough to ensure it didn't bother anyone, or they simply don't give a flying fuck about it. Sheesh! "Last post from me! But you didn't answer the question I wanted answered... If you were so worried out leaving you new baby alone, why travel that distance where it would have taken you three hours to get home! AND where the rules you agreed to when you joined (tacit agreement because you could have decided not to join!) say NO PHONES! I do understand that leaving a baby for the first time is traumnatic, but when we did it, we made sure we were near enough to get home in good time. We certainly wouldn't have been three hours away! In no way was I saying that any parent can never leave a child and to say that is bordering on peurile! BUT.. New baby and you are worried? So you went to a swingers club? Where phones are not allowed and you still went? When you post on an open forum, you are asking for replies! So no, I won't "mind your (my) own goddam business". There could be a number of reasons others haven't replied. Perhaps they like you but don't like what you have said so they aren't posting! Perhaps they are just waiting for you to produce enough rope and do the condemming all by yourself. Perhaps they all carry phones and are keeping quiet! Who knows, but it has done one thing... It has ensured that apart from the having to wear a towel thing, we will never attend. Privacy and security are important to us and yes I suppose that people do take phones into other clubs, but it is your "Fuck You" attitude and your complete disregard for the very rules you signed up to that would put us off.. It would do well for the club to make it clear it won't be tollerated, or perhaps more will follow... Gone! | |||
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"That's the system that works best for us, and that's what we'll continue to do, and if anyone doesn't like that, tough. I don't even know what your face looks like so do you think I'm going to give a damn about your opinion?" OK, but I know what YOUR face looks like, I clocked you, along with a few others as I quietly put faces-to-names at Chameleons on Sunday night (when I could bloody move through the throng!), not that I can see the relevance of your point. Although, actually, thinking about it, it's the people you don't know who are more likely to take umbrage at you apparently flouting the rules with impunity, they don't know that you are innocently checking for bad news from home, all they know is "some geezer's using his phone in there". It's amazing how those words can unsettle people, the element of trust is in doubt, something a club like Chameleons relies on. Mr Nosuchperson, Member of Parliament,and his wife, anxious that their privacy isn't compromised, may not want to confront you, they possibly don't want to be anywhere near you and your phone, that doesn't mean that they "don't have a problem" with it or that you haven't "got on anyone's nerves with it". It might mean thy feel the safest place to be is at the other end of the building to you. In the past, I've seen the club staff go out hunting for people reported as wandering around with a phone, it's not tolerated or accepted, you were just lucky not to be spotted on such a busy night. If you'd have been turfed out, along with your phone, I'm sure the others you apparently saw using their phones wouldn't have been so blase either. Still, so long as YOU were OK, and your privacy wasn't open to scrutiny by your babysitter....... | |||
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"we've seen a few profiles on here with profile pix taken in clubs. should these pix now be deleted? even if the pix only show the members of that profile they would have been taken surreptitiously if the club has a phone ban." We took a whole bunch of photographs of Sasha and some of me at Chameleons, in our profile I pointed out that the pictures were taken on Christmas Day when the club was closed to the public, it makes a great background setting for pictures and i am lucky enough to have access over the Christmas closure each year so will be taking more next Xmas day. We also take pics outdoors, we try to be discreet and not offend anyone when we do it. I do not condone taking pictures in clubs when members are at the club and would not do it myself. | |||
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"Do you know what, that "pack" mentality comes in all sizes on this forum.....and anyone looking in will say a lot of people do it. It is a shame nothing is said any other time when it is happening to others. For me personally I think Wishy has had an understandable reaction from people concerned that their privacy might be compromised ( not by Wishy in particular but anyone who manages to sneak a phone in).........BUT I am sure there are lots of people who have their phones in clubs in parts that are not allowed and just didn't admit to it. So thumbs up for Wishy for being honest enough to admit it......but people have a right to object, and I am sure wishy knows that. I did try and turn the thread around by asking does anyone else have their phone but it hasn't worked so I think it is a bit unfair for Wishy to be cornered again and again..so as this thread is going around in circles, I am going to shut it." thank you Rugby. I think that is a very sensible thing to do. | |||
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"Lets see if I can finish this once and for all, seeing as I am the one that organised the dam night at Chameleons. There are many different senario's where phones and clubs are concerned. Wishy used his quietly, without fuss and without anyone else seeing him apart from me and Siren. I would have thought common sense would prevail, but as usual, a pack mentality has prevailed on here and just because someone admits to breaking a rule. I, personally, don't see that a lynching is needed, it was a one off situation and understandable and believe me, if Wishy had been caught doing anything inappropriate with his phone, I would have been in a hell of alot more trouble than him. Do you know what...... the fucking backbiting and whinging that goes on after the Beach Party is driving me crazy. I'm not gonna fucking bother anymore. Someone else can take the shit and try and please everyone. Wishy, I support you taking your phone and NOT being a twat with it..... unlike some on here that I know take their phones to chams and check the fucking things every 2 mins in clear sight of everyone else." Ah, I didn't realise that this thread was all about the Beach Party, that the club was running under your rules on Sunday, it certainly wasn't made clear to me at the door, I thought it was something you had arranged to liven up a Bank Holiday Sunday. I will make a point of complaining about it, to ensure that in future, I and others know, in advance, that you have hired the place for a private function, and that you have openly stated here that you support people who break club rules. We all know where we stand then, don't we? You are absolutely correct about common sense prevailing, someone should have had the common sense to be aware of, and at least pay lip service to the rules, rather than posting on an open thread what amounts to "I broke the rules, and fuck you if you don't like it, they don't apply to me". That person could sagely nod and agree that the rules about phones are proper and correct, yet quietly share a smile with you, knowing that you had both been party to what to some is an important privacy issue in the club, but had got away with it because no harm was done. | |||
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