"hi all really dont understand why i rarely get a reply ,am i bad looking or just not wot ppl are looking for .Ladies please be blunt.Pics on profile."
Sings Simply Red to himself ;
"If you don't know ( me ) by now, you will never never never know o o o oh "
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"I stopped at the second line, daytime meets usually means your married most ladies work or have children during the day. "
you should have read the rest as he goes on o say he has a partner who knows but doesnt want to be involved!!! |
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Nothing wrong with your profile or pics - personally we like straight talking people and if we were looking for a "single" guy and you happened to be available at a mutually convenient time and place ie within a 40 mile radius or so.. we would consider. I agree that sporting a smile might help though?
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I can spot your problem straight away: your partner.
There are literally 100s of single men that can accommodate so why pick you. Your profile is more suited to a dating site this isn't and your not in a position to.
Seeking couple while you don't share...well!
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"I stopped at the second line, daytime meets usually means your married most ladies work or have children during the day.
you should have read the rest as he goes on o say he has a partner who knows but doesnt want to be involved!!!"
I didn't want to waste any more time, I'd end up being banned from the forums!! |
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Mate there is nothing wrong with you check the forums you will find many guys saying no one replies just be patient keep trying be respectfull there will be fun to be had also try a more original approach |
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from my purely personal view i avoid any guys whos attached and playing on his own . your partner may well know everything and be fine with u playing on your own but lot of times its not the case hence why women shy away from it.its great you have been upfrount and there will be women who arent phased by your sitution.but as they will be the exception rather than the rule it will straight away be limiting those wanting to meet you .as with anything worth while it takes times ,just stick with it and good luck |
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I think the real problem is that your married, albeit that your wife knows what you do many people will wonder if she approves of it or just has to accept it, even if she is happy for you to do it,most couples and single fems like a man without any commitments.
Nothing worse than them arranging a meet then at the last minute your missus needs you, we all know that you would put the wife first and cancel the meet.
Much simpler to arrange meets with one of the many single guys available and less chance of an angry wife changing her mind about the situation. |
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"I think the real problem is that your married, albeit that your wife knows what you do many people will wonder if she approves of it or just has to accept it, even if she is happy for you to do it,most couples and single fems like a man without any commitments.
Nothing worse than them arranging a meet then at the last minute your missus needs you, we all know that you would put the wife first and cancel the meet.
Much simpler to arrange meets with one of the many single guys available and less chance of an angry wife changing her mind about the situation."
I can totally appreciate this. Don't half feel sorry for my Husband though who genuinely does have a Wife 'in the know', is honest about it and really really struggles to get to meet anyone alone. |
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"I think the real problem is that your married, albeit that your wife knows what you do many people will wonder if she approves of it or just has to accept it, even if she is happy for you to do it,most couples and single fems like a man without any commitments.
Nothing worse than them arranging a meet then at the last minute your missus needs you, we all know that you would put the wife first and cancel the meet.
Much simpler to arrange meets with one of the many single guys available and less chance of an angry wife changing her mind about the situation.
I can totally appreciate this. Don't half feel sorry for my Husband though who genuinely does have a Wife 'in the know', is honest about it and really really struggles to get to meet anyone alone."
I think that guys in this position have to accept that their chances of meeting lots of ladies for nsa sex is going to be severely limited. As stated above, the wife will come first and meets could be cancelled at a moment's notice or with no notice at all.
Understand that and concentrate on women who get to know you and desire uncomplicated sex with married men and you'll pick up the odd meet or two, but it will never be prolific for you. You should come to terms with that or you're going to be very disappointed. |
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"from my purely personal view i avoid any guys whos attached and playing on his own . your partner may well know everything and be fine with u playing on your own but lot of times its not the case hence why women shy away from it.its great you have been upfrount and there will be women who arent phased by your sitution.but as they will be the exception rather than the rule it will straight away be limiting those wanting to meet you .as with anything worth while it takes times ,just stick with it and good luck "
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I can totally appreciate this. Don't half feel sorry for my Husband though who genuinely does have a Wife 'in the know', is honest about it and really really struggles to get to meet anyone alone."
My housemates are the same. They play separately with consent, but he finds it really difficult to find a woman that will play with him. She doesn't find it so hard. Men don't appear to have the same principals!!! |
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"ok thanks but im not married only got partner."
tut, same thing. cor blimey now it sounds like you might be looking for something more than a liason. ooops.
by the way most people on here (I believe) are looking for a bit more than a cuddle? |
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feck..i was going to say if you were closer etc...
I would say that as its women you want to meet..you really need to think and word with a great deal more care...your relationship and intentions..
women dont like to hear a man saying 'its only my partner' lol
Just my opinion
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