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What qualities do girls really want in a guy?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*prepares for the backlash*
A lot of women (present company excluded) don't know what they want in the first place, so how are they suppossed to know what they want in a guy?
There is an old saying:
"A woman's mind is cleaner than a man's; that is because she changes it more often!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*prepares for backlash part deux*
The other reason a womans mind may be cleaner is there is always some part of her brain thinking about shoes!
This also covers why they don't get man-flu as bad as us...
*pulls a cheeky grin in the hope of some reprieve* |
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Here's something funny for you all,
I have received mail about my earlier posting on here
"The ability to move their lips without lying"
I was told, not all men are that bad.
Guess what..the mail was from a married and cheater.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What do women look for in a man?
How can we be something that even they don't know they are looking for because they all seem to find a man.... and then change him into someone they don't like! hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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qualities in a guy i like is!!
smells an dresses nice!
has 2 be smooth as i dont
do pubic hair!
just like my men well groomed
or nice but casual..no alot 2 ask lol xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah Wishy (or Siren)
How wise are you? What you say is so true. Answer me this:
Why don't women just find a man who they like, instead of finding one with 'potential' and changing him? Then, (ducking under the covers), despising him for being changed! Or worse, despising him for not changing!
It's a hard life sometimes. I almost wish women weren't so gorgeously appealing!
Well, actually I don't
Enigmatist xx |
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By *r_wotzitMan
over a year ago
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I would imagine the qualities that a women look for, stripping away all the materialistic things, are honesty, a good friend who is always there and someone to make them smile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quote enigmaticcouple:
"Why don't women just find a man who they like, instead of finding one with 'potential' and changing him? Then, (ducking under the covers), despising him for being changed! Or worse, despising him for not changing!"
The answer is that women see a man who is drop-dead gorgeous - in their eyes - and they believe that no matter what he may be like at the moment, she can make him hers, even if that involves changing him.
But herein lies the paradox.
If she changes him then he won't be the man she fell for in the first place and then she'll resent him, eventually.
If she cannot change him she'll despise him for two reasons:
a) for him refusing to change
b) because he will have exposed her own shortcomings in being able to keep a man.
The simpler option would be, as you say, look for a suitable candidate from the word go that she already likes THE WAY THAT THEY ARE - and reject those that don't measure up.
But that presents yet another dilemma:
The longer she leaves it the less chance there is of 'bagging' the one that she wants. Which is a bit of a fallacy tbh, as there is always someone for everyone in this world, if you look hard enough or wait long enough.
So what's the true answer?
p.s. Siren just popped her two-penneth worth in and contributed this:
BIG COCK
Which kinda fucks me up but hey ho! she'll just have to settle for enjoying the lottery win I'll have one day to make up for it eh?
Aaaaanyway, I digress. The answer?
PMA - Positive Mental Attitude
I WILL change him, and if he won't change, I WILL change him hehehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Own Teeth (not in a glass)
Own Hair (real-not wig)
Taller then 5"6 (and not when in my heels)
Clean Hands/nails in fact clean everything I could go on, but i think you get the picture
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i personally just like men who can hold a conversation that runs past? "spit or swallow" or "do you take it up the arse?" i like to be treat by men like they'd treat any other woman they was having a drink with, you wouldnt call a woman in every day life a slut so please don't call me one, im a swinger secondly firstly im a human being so treat me like one 
besides that i like men who don't think oral stops after a bj lol sex is a two way street mate its polite to repay the favour
I like guys who dont just expect me to open my doors to them because im the woman, this is my home not a shag pad of every guys to off load in.
I like guys who don't think your a time waster just because you not agree to meet them after two lines of conversation in the chat room.
I like guys who make me feel like they want to meet me because they like me not because im the first woman who will talk to them, any hole may be a goal to you but its not to me |
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You know wishy, for a man you really talk sense (you must of been a woman in a previous life)
After 41 years have to say my whole attitude to relationships (rather that fuck buddies) changed. I didnt realize i had changed until i met jay. Most know hes a lot older than me (something ive never gone for before) i am so chilled in this relationship, he is who he is, ive never tried to change him, complained about anything to do with his person. I dont try and change his dress sense. Is he perfect? Of cause hes not but i have realized there are far more qualities that are good than bad (very few bad). The main thing thats made me realize ive changed is 10 years ago i would of gone crackers for leaving the toilet seat up. Now i never mention it, cant see the point in moaning about something that takes two seconds to do.
His greatest quality is, he has never tried or wants to change me at all.
I believe that as you get older you want completely different things from relationships than you did when you where much younger.xxkarenxx |
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What is all that shite about leaving toilet seats up actually? It is oft quoted as a gripe against the blokes.
I mean; why shouldn't men get just as upset about women that always leave it down? Very inconsiderate eh?
Still, a quick cure for that: if it's down, pee in the sink, ha ha. |
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