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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK... u have a meet arranged for this saturday night , but the person/ppl u are meeting ignore u on msn, and or text, apart from the odd "lol"
what do u do ????
i've told him to forget it, im not inviting someone into my home to spend the night here if he cant be assed to chat to me 2 nights b4 the meet!
Now i'm in the wrong lol x |
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"Perhaps he was letting you down politely?
You now think you have dumped him where as he has subtly dumped you without you realising."
Possible..? but a bit complex I think, more a feminine way of approaching it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cant just arrange a meet then not carry on contacting you as you still need to build on what you are planning to get from your meet so i think your right to do what you have done.
But having only a couple of meets im no expert on this lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK... u have a meet arranged for this saturday night , but the person/ppl u are meeting ignore u on msn, and or text, apart from the odd "lol"
what do u do ????
i've told him to forget it, im not inviting someone into my home to spend the night here if he cant be assed to chat to me 2 nights b4 the meet!
Now i'm in the wrong lol x"
Sorry babes, I have been busy, will ring you tomorrow, promise x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i asked that lol , but he actually answered that question, by saying " yr kidding to right im deffo still coming ". then he started asking me why i was ignoring him, lol odd ball i think . NEXT lol |
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By *achaCouple
over a year ago
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"OK... u have a meet arranged for this saturday night , but the person/ppl u are meeting ignore u on msn, and or text, apart from the odd "lol"
what do u do ????
i've told him to forget it, im not inviting someone into my home to spend the night here if he cant be assed to chat to me 2 nights b4 the meet!
Now i'm in the wrong lol x"
you have answered your own question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're a women so you naturally get the sympathy vote, go check each of the very predictable blokes reactions in this thread.....
If a guy had started it the usual suspects, predominantly women and their forum pleasing male followers would have been lining up to get the first punch in.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe he really fancies you and has come over a bit shy or he thought you were going to cancel on him and thought if he left it to the last minute you would go ahead with the meet as planned.
You have two choices here:
1) give him the benefit of the doubt one more time and text him to say, 'answer me or leave me alone'
2) listen to your intincts and if it feels wrong, cancel.
You must have fancied him enough to have arranged a meet in the first place. He may have something going on in his private life that he needed to deal with. What have you got to lose.
Good luck,
Wishy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate msn so don't expect to be chatting on there too much after the initial contact and after a date has been sorted to meet
I would keep in contact by text or phone though
But as with everything if there are little things that don't seem right to you then don't meet up
He has told you hes still up for it so maybe he is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you really really really sure you are not gay (your pictures suggest otherwise). Have not seen a man posing on a big red engine that isnt hiding something. Does one protest too much we think!!
p.s. give our regards to the wife and kids, ooops sorry flatmates |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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blimey, what is it with some of u.... it was merely a post to see wot u would do, i know what i have done, and as for the sympathy vote, lol as if i need that , i have got a new meet for saturday night thanx . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm missing something...
So he has the meet arranged.... and you still think he's gonna spend time chatting lol.. I mean come on girls, theres so much pussy and so little time lol..
Drop the muppett lol... he's playin ya! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder what the reaction would have been if maybe a guy had opened this thread...... "
I would have put exactly the same except prefixed with she or they.
We don't all have one different rules for different people.
But then apparently I'm just one of those guys who is looking to please people in the forums. Still, better that than to be one of those people who's only intention seems to be hostility. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK... u have a meet arranged for this saturday night , but the person/ppl u are meeting ignore u on msn, and or text, apart from the odd "lol"
what do u do ????
i've told him to forget it, im not inviting someone into my home to spend the night here if he cant be assed to chat to me 2 nights b4 the meet!
Now i'm in the wrong lol x"
No you are not wrong if you are willing to have someone into your home the very least they can do is say they are busy on msn etc. Otherwise I'd be suspicious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From the male perspective this used to happen to me ALL the time.
People added me to msn and then they ignore me when I come on and say hello.
Now as a bloke I've worked to get the msn in the first place so having got it I want to work it.
It got so bad I changed my msn and now rely on the telephoen and emails. |
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By *im53Man
over a year ago
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I had one this week, last weekend I was contacted by a cpl who wanted to meet me, we had met before.
on msn we discused what they wanted to do and any limits ,and set the day ,since then nothing.
I sent then messages on the site and e-mailed them, its tomorrow so i`m asuming its off
and made other arangmnts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had one this week, last weekend I was contacted by a cpl who wanted to meet me, we had met before.
on msn we discused what they wanted to do and any limits ,and set the day ,since then nothing.
I sent then messages on the site and e-mailed them, its tomorrow so i`m asuming its off
and made other arangmnts "
hey be fair old git we told you it was tonight instead lol
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By *im53Man
over a year ago
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"I had one this week, last weekend I was contacted by a cpl who wanted to meet me, we had met before.
on msn we discused what they wanted to do and any limits ,and set the day ,since then nothing.
I sent then messages on the site and e-mailed them, its tomorrow so i`m asuming its off
and made other arangmnts
hey be fair old git we told you it was tonight instead lol
xx"
good job i`m free tonight then |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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Yep - any doubts at all that cant be abided by talking- ditch.
Our choice at the end of the day who we meet and dont - and that foes for the fella's aswell as the gals.
Its all for our own fun and pleasure- so anything amiss, dont take the piss, and call it a day.
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